
February brings thoughts of love, so this post gives some adoration to an often misunderstood creature. Come meet my recent “visitor”!

Recently, we had a breach in “Foul Knox”, our chicken run. It was a not-too-cold evening, and we were taking our dogs out before heading to bed. Odin, our large brindle hound, started “pointing” at the hen house. Something was inside the run! We put the dogs inside and grabbed a flashlight, fearing a raccoon or fox had infiltrated the coop. However, inside the run was the cutest, fluffiest, round fuzzy opossum!
I wasn’t too concerned for my chickens; I’d locked up the henhouse earlier. The visitor was small and young. It wasn’t fearful of us, but more interested, or curious.

It peeked out from behind the waterer, then scaled the back fence, a very agile climber. It looked a bit confused, like it wasn’t sure how to get back out or why we were there.

I keep a small radio playing inside the run, the idea that the sound of voices keep predators away. I’ve often wondered how the channel changes overnight when I return in the morning to open the henhouse. Mystery solved – the opossum decided to lounge across the radio awhile, changing the channel from the “lite” station when it climbed on top. Maybe I should switch to heavy metal!

Apparently, my visitor is a Debbie Gibson fan.
We left the big gate open, checking often to see if the opossum had left. When we returned, it walked over, climbing the inside of the front fence. It never showed its teeth or hissed. (We were always on the other side of the fence, at a safe distance).

OH! That face…so cute.
It was so fuzzy, with thick soft-looking grey fur, an adorable face with a pink button nose, and cute little ears and paws with opposable thumbs. I was smitten.

“It’s so FLUFFY!!!”
The next morning, our furry friend had departed. I was shocked by how many people don’t like opossums, suggesting it should be trapped or killed, that it’d kill my chickens, carried rabies, or was an overgrown rodent. I decided to find out the true facts.

Photo courtesy Stephanie Safarik
Stephanie Safarik, a well-known wildlife rehabilitator, is an angel for opossums. She had always worked with animals, and wanted to be a vet, but her life changed course. Seven years ago, she says her health “failed miserably, with a perfect storm of disaster”. With a cancer diagnosis and facing several surgeries, life was going to be at a slower pace for awhile. She’d always wanted to be a wildlife rehabber, so she decided to see what was needed to follow that dream, thinking, “Maybe while I’m in recovery, a couple animals can be rehabilitated, too”. Through the Connecticut DEEP, she took the course, received veterinarian backing, mentored with an experienced rehabilitator, completed the needed state application to work with wildlife, and created a haven for sheltering animals to recover. She didn’t expect to become the “opossum person”, but is thrilled to give a voice to these docile, often misunderstood creatures. Stephanie says nowadays her health’s not completely ideal, but is much better, crediting the opossums she saved with her improvement. They pushed her- when she wanted to stop she couldn’t because she had little lives depending on her. First working with three baby opossums whose mom was hit by a car, Stephanie has now saved a few hundred opossums.

Photo courtesy of Stephanie Safarik
While there are 100 opossum species worldwide, in the USA, we have the Virginia Opossum. Opossums are not rodents, but the only marsupials found in North America, carrying their babies in a fur-lined pouch. Calling these critters “possum” is also a misnomer; a “possum” is an animal of a different species found in Australia.
Stephanie says opossums will try to avoid people at all costs. Opossums are often mistakenly blamed for the havoc that clever raccoons wreak. Our visitor probably came before, as opossums tend to keep to a “routine”.

“Why, what a big mouth you have…”
Photo courtesy Stephanie Safarik
While they have large mouths with fifty sharp teeth, they rarely kill prey like chickens, unless they’re starving. They prefer “easy” meals, such as eggs and dropped, rotting fruit from trees. They don’t kill for sport. When wildlife comes into our yards, we shouldn’t be upset; it’s our responsibility to protect our domestic animals. I’m actually grateful having learned that my chicken run had a weak spot.
Opossums are the “waste management” of nature, keeping “rot” down by eating dropped fruit or carnage. They’re also the only truly “natural” defense against ticks. My whole family, including one of our dogs, has been affected by tick-borne illness. Opossums are cat-like in that they groom themselves often (why our visitor was so fluffy)! Because they’re low, with their little tummies touching the ground when they walk, they’re “tick magnets”. They then ingest hundreds of ticks (part of their nutrition) when grooming, thus keeping Lyme disease down. They also eat mice, rats and insects such as beetles.

An opossum prefers to flee than to fight. They’ll defend themselves if cornered, hissing, showing the fifty teeth in their big mouths, and releasing an odor (like a dog’s anal gland odor). Finally, they’ll “play dead”, actually an involuntary action. The frightened opossum will fall over in a comatose state, like in shock; its heart rate goes down, and it mimics the scent of a dead animal. This can last for an hour.
Opossums rarely get rabies. In Connecticut, they’re not even considered a rabies vector, as a healthy opossum’s normal body temperature is actually too low for rabies to breed. For an opossum to contract rabies, it has to be a “perfect storm”: they must be sick with a fever to raise their body temp, be attacked by a rabid animal, and then survive said attack.
Opossums, however, unfortunately do not have long lives; males live an average natural lifespan of two years, and females two to four. A full-grown opossum reaches 7 – 8 pounds.
Though it’s speculated they’ve been around since dinosaurs roamed the earth, these little “underdogs” were not meant for cold conditions, even though they can be found as far North as Canada.

These feet are not meant for winter!
Photo courtesy Stephanie Safarik
Often developing frostbite on their hairless tails, paws, and paper-thin ears, many opossums die in winter, especially if under five pounds. Others are hit by cars or attacked by larger animals.

A poor frost bitten nose…
Photo courtesy Stephanie Safarik

Ouch! Frostbitten paw.
Photo courtesy Stephanie Safarik
How do you know if you need to call a professional wildlife rehabber like Stephanie? If an opossum is orphaned, sick, injured, or has flies buzzing around it, call a wildlife rehabilitator. If an opossum is circling, it may have head trauma from being clipped by a car.

Photo courtesy Stephanie Safarik
An opossum has 13 nipples inside her pouch, and can give birth up to 20 babies at a time, though not all usually survive.

“New” babies, or “pinkies”
Photo courtesy of Stephanie Safarik

Warm and safe in Mama’s Pouch.
Photo courtesy Stephanie Safarik
Found babies, or babies whose mama has passed (they can live up to a day and a half in the pouch after the death of the mom) always need a rehabber. While they’re good mamas, they won’t come back for a baby the way a mama squirrel will. With so many babies riding on her back, Mama Opossum may not even realize she’s dropped one!

”Motherhood can be exhausting!”
Photo courtesy Stephanie Safarik
A spotted opossum, like most wildlife, really just wants to be left alone and do you no harm. If you do see one, let it be. “Cat shelters” can provide a warm place for them to avoid frostbite, and leaving scrap fruit or veggies out, especially in winter, is okay. They need lots of calcium, so hard boiled eggs with the shell on, cut in half are a great snack, too.
*** Follow Stephanie and her sweet rescues on Facebook at Persevering for Wildlife.

Photo courtesy Stephanie Safarik
As for our little visitor, we see an opossum every once in awhile in the driveway, though not since our last encounter. I hope we see “Radio” again soon.
Wishing everyone a very Happy Valentine’s Day! Drop by again for the next Suburban Farmgirl Blog, “live” March 17th.

Please remember to leave a comment below so we know you dropped by! Photo courtesy Stephanie Safarik
Until Next Time…Farmgirl Hugs,
Nicole
Happy and safe holidays to you and yours.
Hi Marlene, same to you, farmgirl! Thank you for always reading and commenting! Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
It was so much fun reading your Christmas post. Merry Christmas!
Hi Nicki! Thank you so much! I hope you have a wonderful, cozy holiday season! Merry Christmas and Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
Hi Nicole! Your favorite Holiday things are my favorites too. But remember, Jesus is the reason we celebrate! No one can cancel His birthday!! ❤️❤️
Hi Meredith, Amen to that! Merry Christmas! Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
Oh Nicole, here’s a virtual hug and a very Merry Christmas wish to make you remember that there is someone in Ohio that thinks you are terrific! Is that good?
I am 81 and Himself is 82 and we are in satisfactory health. That is a very good thing.
I could make you long lists of reasons why you should not shun your pleasure of Christmas at Nicole’s house.
For instance, You have the most beautiful smile! I think you should share it, so why not get online or take some pictures and send them to all your buddies that need one of your smiles to encourage them!
I can you starting to grin right now….THERE IT IS! Thanks for the smile!
Hi Mary, aawww…thank you so very much for all your kind, sweet words. You have made my day, my week…my holiday! My heart feels all warm!!! I wish you and your dear one continued health and much happiness. Thank you for reading and commenting, and much love your way!! Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
Thank you so much for all the love and cheer! 5:32 am on December 23rd looks a lot brighter for me!
Good morning, Bonnie! Thank you…I am drinking coffee right now along with you! I hope you have a wonderful, cozy Christmas! Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
Merry Christmas to All and may you enjoy what is to come in 2021, putting 2020 in the past. May we continue to love each other and be there for total strangers who are falling on hard times. And for everyone may they know the true meaning of Christmas is Love & the birth of a baby in the manger. Diane
Dearest Diane, what a beautiful comment. Yes, may we all continue to do just that. Keep the faith, pray, and be grateful for our blessings. May 2021 bring you much happiness. Thank you for visiting the blog; it is always so good to hear from you! I never made it to the Knit-In; maybe 2021 will have some normalcy, and I can attend the next one! Merry Christmas! Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
Nicole, thank you for such a fun and uplifting post. Even tho I’m not hosting my family this year we’re making the best of it and praying for better days ahead. Decorating the house helped and music and cookies make everything better. Every year I decorate with vintage family Christmas cards and postcards. My favorite is one my mom sent to one of her brothers in WWII with a little envelope taped to it that contains a lock of my hair. He mentioned in later correspondence that the guys all gathered around to look at it and touch it. I guess they were all homesick for their own families. My cards bring such comfort to my heart because they remind me of my warm and loving heritage. Hopefully some day we will look back at this season and be thankful for our many blessings in spite of the circumstances. I am wishing a very Merry Christmas to you and yours!
Hi Deanna, Merry Christmas! Wow – what a treasure you have in that card and lock of hair. I can just visualize all of the brave men gathered ‘round looking at your card, missing their families. Thank you for sharing such a precious story. May we all stay brave like those men, and keep the faith for a better 2021! Have a warm, cozy Christmas! Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
Love the post. Thanks for sharing! Especially loved all the pictures. Some brought back warm, wonderful memories. They all brought smiles. You did indeed brighten my day!
Merry Christmas and Happy New Year Blessings!
Hi Karen, Thank you ever so much! I hope you have a wonderful week and into the new year! Today I am baking a few more cookies, getting the house “holiday clean”, and enjoying some family time. Merry Christmas and Happy New Year to you and yours! Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
Thank you so much for this blog Nicole! You are a modern day Gladys Taber who wrote about her experiences on the Still Meadow Farm in Southbury, CT back in the 40’s. The most wonderful thing about you is that everything you have written in your blogs over the years brings the generous spirit of Christmas to everyone all year round. You are authentic and beautiful in all ways as expressed by your crafts, gardening, vintage collections, and love of traditional community values. Your blogs are reading materials of tremendous value for young and old alike… By the way, thank you for the “Farm Girl Hug” on the high meadow last summer! You know I needed that encouragement!
Dearest Mr. Ramsey, you have brought tears to my eyes. Our family holds you with such high esteem, you are so dear to us, and for you to say such nice things about my writing means so much. Our family misses you, especially at Christmas…you light a room up brighter than any Christmas light. You are the true spirit of Christmas the whole year through. Much love your way my dear friend. Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
Beautiful blog, Nicole. Your Tree looks so good with the train at the bottom. Proud of you too!
Love you,
Mother
Hi Mama, thank you! I will talk to you soon! Fingers crossed the weather holds up for us here and we don’t lose power on Christmas – they are predicting wicked storms! Love you, Nicole
Nicole, one of our favotite Christmas movies is Babettes Feast. Its a Danish film with English subtitles. Have you sern it? We watch it every year.
Hi Marge, how do I not know that film? Danish AND a Christmas movie? I will have to look it up and see if we can stream it! And ask my husband if he remembers it! Thank you for telling me about it. Have a wonderful Christmas! I will let you know if I can watch the film! Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
Hope you can find Babettes Feast. It tells the story of Jesus symbolically. Happy Christmas. Marge
Marge! I am so excited! I found it! My husband had not heard of it, either, by the way, and loves when we find Danish movies to watch. We ordered HBO Max on Christmas Day as a present to the family, so we could watch the new Wonder Woman movie (WW1984). We have Babettes Feast on our watch list now, and will watch it on my husband’s day off. I will let you know what we think. Can’t wait! Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
Marge, we finally got to watch it! Thank you so much for telling us about it. We loved it. We recognized some of the areas it was filmed in, loved the story, and really enjoyed it overall. I also found out it was originally written by Isak Dinesen, the pen name of Karen Blixen. Her real life story was the inspiration behind the movie Out of Africa with Meryl Streep and Robert Redford.I have visited the museum in Denmark where she lived and wrote. Babette’s Feast also takes place in the Jutland area of Denmark – my in-laws lived there many years! Jutland is a beautiful, breath-taking area. Thank you again for telling us about the movie; we would never have known about it otherwise. Much love! Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
Merry Christmas and happy healthy new year to your family and friends!
Hi Rosie, thank you so much, and the same to you! Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
Hi, Merry Christmas! I really enjoyed reading your blog.
Best to you and your family in the New Year.
Pam
Hi Pam, thank you so very much! Christmas isn’t the same but we are trying to make the best of it! Merry Christmas to you and Happy New Year! Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
Thank you for this uplifting post. We are just about finished with our wrapping. We have that Bing Crosby album. our favorite Christmas movies are A Christmas Carol starring Alastair Sims, Christmas In Connecticut starring Barbara Stanwyck, The Bishop’s Wife starring Loretta Young,It’s A Wonderful Life, Mickey’s[Mickey Mouse] Once Upon a Christmas, and also Twice Upon A Christmas, Miracle On 34th Street and of course A Charlie Brown Christmas. Wishing you and yours a Blessed and Merry Christmas and a Happy and Healthy 2021.
Joan,Marion and Marilyn
Hi Marilyn! Thank you! I am glad you enjoyed the post. I love all the movies you mention, as well. We watch It’s A Wonderful Life several times a season. This year, we also saw a colorized version on Prime, but we prefer the original black and white! Mickey’s Once Upon A Christmas – I love that one, too. Maybe I will watch that later today…Have a wonderful holiday, and a very healthy Happy New Year! Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
Oh Nicole,, Luv your Tinsel tree and all your goodies…
Wishing you and your family a Safe, Healthy and Merry Christmas.
katmom
Hi Grace, thank you! Wishing you and yours a Merry Christmas as well, my dear farmgirl friend! Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
Thank you. I am reading this Christmas Day in California. No family, and illness in the house. It was nice to read this uplifting blog. Merry Christmas!
Oh Sharon, I am so sorry. I hope everyone feels better soon, and you were able to have some little bit of festive. I am glad my blog cheered you a bit. Much love your way. Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
It’s Christ-mas once again! Happy Birthday Jesus!
Thank you for wonderful memories that a lot of us share.
No matter our age, you always seem to hit on SOMETHING
old and wonderful that we all remember! Amazing!
Thank you for this cheerful post!
Have a merry-merry, Happy New Year too!
Stay safe and healthy!
Hugs&Squeezles
Hi Judy, thank you! I have always been told, since I was a child, that I am an “Old Soul”. Maybe that’s why I love old things so! Hope you had a Merry Christmas and will have a wonderful New Year! I am making a yummy meal and watching some great movies. AND WILL KICK 2020 OUT THE DOOR, LOL! Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
Your blog DID bring some cheer to my heart! Thank you for your wonderful articles! Let’s hope the new year brings us much better times and we can gather together with friends and family!
Hi Nancy,thank you so much! It means alot to me. I hope you had a good Christmas, and will have a nice New Years. Here’s to a better new year! Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
Hi Nicole
Thank you for this lovely blog, it has given me such joy to read it. I absolutely love all your decorations, and I agree, residing in New England also, has so many charms but really shines in the Christmas season. Your camper looks great, and I agree with the Christmas music I love it too and will listen to it as much as I can. Yes although this year has been a rough one like no other holiday season, our spirit and hope and kindness makes it so much better. So let the lights shine, the cookies continue to bake, the music to fill our homes, the snowmen to be built and all the bottle brush trees to display, I adore them as well. Thank you for spreading cheer for us all. I am ever so glad to have discovered Mary Janes Farm it is my favourite magazine and I have been reading it for many years now. As we come to a new year soon, peace and love and new beginnings are wished for all
Thank you for all that you do.
Linda, thank you…what a lovely, wonderfully heartfelt comment! I am enjoying the decorations and lights so much. I don’t want to take mine down! I will take them down after New Years, but will take my time this year. Whenever I get a new MaryJanesFarm magazine in the mail, it is happiness in the box! I am glad you “visited” with me here at the blog. Where in New England are you? Are you also in Connecticut? Thank you for reading and commenting, hope to hear from you again! Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
Hi Nicole
Happy New Year to you and your family. I was so glad to put 2020 behind me. I too will take my time taking down my decorations, I have been watching all the Hallmark Christmas movies although the theme is the same just looking at the homes and scenes is so lovely to see.
It was nice to receive your reply.
I am in the New Hampshire seacoast area. I just love being close to the sea. Looking forward to hearing from you soon.
Enjoy the rest of your weekend.
Stay well
Linda
Hi Linda, Lovely to hear back from you! We started taking our decorations down yesterday. The tree was beginning to look like a fire hazard, lol! We also watched a few more Christmas movies, so we feel like the holidays got stretched out nicely. I will finish the Christmas take-down today. New Hampshire – I love the area you are talking about. It is so beautiful there! I have been a few times. New England is such a beautiful aream all around, and I love all four seasons here. Happy New Year! Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
I am just now reading your post and I just loved it! I love all the ways you decorate with the vintage items, I have quite a few myself and just adore them. I have a Christmas card tin too but it is red. Mine came with blank cards inside, did yours? And the tin doll house with the lights, LOVE! And your camper, just too cute. Hope you and your family have had a merry Christmas and will have a happy new year!
Hi Denise! Thank you so much! Happy Holidays! I hope you had a nice Christmas! Isn’t that little tin the cutest? Mine did not come with cards, but looked to be in good shape. I rip the corner of the envelopes of Christmas cards where the return address is and put them in the box. (I keep the cards). I have never seen a red one – same graphics? I just love anything made from tin, don’t you? So much charm. I am debating about closing up the camper this year. We are really enjoying sitting in it, and drinking hot tea and cocoa. With the heat on, it warms up in no time!
My Best Wishes to you and your family for the New Year! My tree this year is a small table top bottle brush one ( new, though, not vintage, but nice). Do you know Pink Martini will be on the NPR New Years Eve show tonight? They will also have a show online – there is an “admission fee” for that one. Thank you for sharing all your lovely photos!
Hi Carolann, Darn! I did not know that and missed them. I do really like them! Many of their songs remind me of the parties Audrey Hepburn threw in Breakfast at Tiffany’s. I hope you had a nice New Year’s Eve and will have a wonderful 2021! Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
MERRY CHRISTMAS AND HAPPY NEW YEAR AND MAY THE NEW YEAR BE FULL OF GRACE AND PEACE AND KINDNESS AMONG US ALL.
Nicole, thanks for the lovely blog and pictures. I saw a snow man in one I think and it reminded me of the one I made with foam balls, , cotton, and a cottage cheese lid, googly eyes, a home made paper hat, and a few other things I had in my craft box. I made it about 4 or 5 years ago and I still like it. I also made one by a pattern with a washcloth, yarn, glue and some other things also in the craft box, but it hangs on my tree. I still have my tree and lights up and won’t be taking them down until next week or the week after. I just love the colorful glow from all the lights and I was so hoping for some snow to brighten everything up even more. We will be painting our house in the Spring and I can’t wait to see how it will turn out. Our front porch is one of the best things we did for ourselves this last year. We love sitting on it and visiting with our neighbors. Again I wish the best for everyone and a peaceful and happy new year to all.
Hi Sandi, your snowmen sound adorable!! I finally took all of my decorations down last week, and this week went ahead and put out my few Valentines Day decorations. I left up one strand of white lights in a ficus tree, and there is always lights in the little stove. I love porch sitting, and it sounds like you have a lovely spring ahead of you. Thank you so much for reading and commenting! Happy, happy New Year! Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole