My mom recently celebrated a birthday. In her seventies, she is still always stylish, with impeccable hair and makeup, and known for her big, bright, beautiful smile. It’s not easy living so far from family, and I so often wish I could just drive down the road to see my mother, or bring her a bouquet of flowers from my garden. When her birthday rolled around, I couldn’t wait, because I recently found the perfect gift for her…something I have been searching for her for decades.
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Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things that you didn’t do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover.
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~ Mark TwainDebbie Bosworth
is a certified farmgirl at heart. She’s happily married to her beach bum Yankee husband of 20 years. She went from career gal to being a creative homeschooling mom for two of her biggest blessings and hasn’t looked back since. Debbie left her lifelong home in the high desert of Northern Nevada 10 years ago and washed up on the shore of America’s hometown, Plymouth, MA, where she and her family are now firmly planted. They spend part of each summer in a tiny, off–grid beach cottage named “The Sea Horse.”
“I found a piece of my farmgirl heart when I discovered MaryJanesFarm. Suddenly, everything I loved just made more sense! I enjoy unwinding at the beach, writing, gardening, and turning yard-sale furniture into ‘Painted Ladies’ I’m passionate about living a creative life and encouraging others to ‘make each day their masterpiece.’”
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Being a farmgirl is not
about where you live,
but how you live.Rebekah Teal
is a “MaryJane Farmgirl” who lives in a large metropolitan area. She is a lawyer who has worked in both criminal defense and prosecution. She has been a judge, a business woman and a stay-at-home mom. In addition to her law degree, she has a Masters of Theological Studies.
“Mustering up the courage to do the things you dream about,” she says, “is the essence of being a MaryJane Farmgirl.” Learning to live more organically and closer to nature is Rebekah’s current pursuit. She finds strength and encouragement through MaryJane’s writings, life, and products. And MaryJane’s Farmgirl Connection provides her a wealth of knowledge from true-blue farmgirls.
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Keep close to Nature’s heart … and break clear away once in awhile to climb a mountain or spend a week in the woods, to wash your spirit clean.
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~ John MuirCathi Belcher
an old-fashioned farmgirl with a pioneer spirit, lives in the White Mountains of New Hampshire. As a “lifelong learner” in the “Live-Free-or-Die” state, she fiercely values self-reliance, independence, freedom, and fresh mountain air. Married to her childhood sweetheart of 40+ years (a few of them “uphill climbs”), she’s had plenty of time to reinvent herself. From museum curator, restaurant owner, homeschool mom/conference speaker, to post-and-beam house builder and entrepreneur, she’s also a multi-media artist, with an obsession for off-grid living and alternative housing. Cathi owns and operates a 32-room mountain lodge. Her specialty has evolved to include “hermit hospitality” at her rustic cabin in the mountains, where she offers weekend workshops of special interest to women.
“Mountains speak to my soul, and farming is an important part of my heritage. I want to pass on my love of these things to others through my writing. Living in the mountains has its own particular challenges, but I delight in turning them into opportunities from which we can all learn and grow.”
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Wherever you go, no matter the weather, always bring your own sunshine.
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~ Anthony J. D’AngeloDori Troutman
Dori Troutman is the daughter of second generation cattle ranchers in New Mexico. She grew up working and playing on the ranch that her grandparents homesteaded in 1928. That ranch, with the old adobe home, is still in the family today. Dori and her husband always yearned for a ranch of their own. That dream came true when they retired to the beautiful green rolling hills of Tennessee. Truly a cattleman’s paradise!
Dori loves all things farmgirl and actually has known no other life but that. She loves to cook, craft, garden, and help with any and all things on their cattle farm.
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Shery Jespersen
Previous Ranch Farmgirl,
Oct 2009 – Nov 2013Wyoming cattle rancher and outpost writer (rider), shares the “view from her saddle.” Shery is a leather and lace cowgirl-farmgirl who’s been horse-crazy all of her life. Her other interests include “junktiques,” arts and crafts, glamping, collecting antique china, and cultivating mirth.
Mary Murray
describes herself as a goat charmer, chicken whisperer, bee maven, and farmers’ market baker renovating an 1864 farmhouse on an Ohio farm. With a degree in Design, Mary says small-town auctions and country road barn sales "always make my heart skip a beat thinking about what I could create or design out of what I’ve seen.”
Rooted in the countryside, she likes simple things and old ways … gardening, preserving the harvest, cooking, baking, and all things home. While you might find her selling baked goods from the farm’s milkhouse, teaching herself to play the fiddle, or sprucing up a vintage camper named Maizy, you will always find her in an apron!
Mary says, “I’m happiest with the simple country pleasures … an old farmhouse, too many animals, a crackling fire, books to read, and the sound of laughter … these make life just perfect.”
Column contents © Mary Murray. All rights reserved.
Farmgirl
is a condition
of the heart.Alexandra Wilson
is a budding rural farmgirl living in Palmer, the agricultural seat of Alaska. Alex is a graduate student at Alaska Pacific University pursuing an M.S. in Outdoor and Environmental Education. She lives and works on the university’s 700 acre environmental education center, Spring Creek Farm. When Alex has time outside of school, she loves to rock climb, repurpose found objects, cross-country ski on the hay fields, travel, practice yoga, and cook with new-fangled ingredients.
Alex grew up near the Twin Cities and went to college in Madison, Wisconsin—both places where perfectly painted barns and rolling green farmland are just a short drive away. After college, she taught at a rural middle school in South Korea where she biked past verdant rice paddies and old women selling home-grown produce from sidewalk stoops. She was introduced to MaryJanesFarm after returning, and found in it what she’d been searching for—a group of incredible women living their lives in ways that benefit their families, their communities, and the greater environment. What an amazing group of farmgirls to be a part of!
Column contents © Alexandra Wilson. All rights reserved.
Libbie Zenger
Previous Rural Farmgirl,
June 2010 – Jan 2012Libbie’s a small town farmgirl who lives in the high-desert Sevier Valley of Central Utah on a 140-year-old farm with her husband and two darling little farmboys—as well as 30 ewes; 60 new little lambs; a handful of rams; a lovely milk cow, Evelynn; an old horse, Doc; two dogs; a bunch o’ chickens; and two kitties.
René Groom
Previous Rural Farmgirl,
April 2009 – May 2010René lives in Washington state’s wine country. She grew up in the dry-land wheat fields of E. Washington, where learning to drive the family truck and tractors, and “snipe hunting,” were rites of passage. She has dirt under her nails and in her veins. In true farmgirl fashion, there is no place on Earth she would rather be than on the farm.
Farmgirl spirit can take root anywhere—dirt or no dirt.
Nicole Christensen
Suburban Farmgirl Nicole Christensen calls herself a “vintage enthusiast”. Born and raised in Texas, she has lived most of her life in the picturesque New England suburbs of Connecticut, just a stone’s throw from New York State. An Advanced Master Gardener, she has gardened since childhood, in several states and across numerous planting zones. In addition, she teaches knitting classes, loves to preserve, and raises backyard chickens.
Married over thirty years to her Danish-born sweetheart, Nicole has worked in various fields, been a world-traveler, an entrepreneur and a homemaker, but considers being mom to her now-adult daughter her greatest accomplishment. Loving all things creative, Nicole considers her life’s motto to be “Bloom where you are planted”.
Column contents © Nicole Christensen. All rights reserved.
Paula Spencer
Previous Suburban Farmgirl,
October 2009 – October 2010Paula is a mom of four and a journalist who’s partial to writing about common sense and women’s interests. She’s lived in five great farm states (Michigan, Iowa, New York, Tennessee, and now North Carolina), though never on a farm. She’s nevertheless inordinately fond of heirloom tomatoes, fine stitching, early mornings, and making pies. And sock monkeys.
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Nicole,
I had 2 minutes to read this post before heading out the door… and instead I’ve taken 15 minutes to carefully read every word. And cry. And I decided I am not getting up from my desk chair until I’ve written to tell you how precious this is. I’m sure your mother loved this gift beyond measure, but this blog post will be a treasure to her as well.
She was such a darling little girl wasn’t she? (And a beautiful woman today.) Do you have any more twins in your family? I know you didn’t have twins, but did your brother? I know someone who is a triplet and she had a mother that was a twin as well as grandparents too… so it made me wonder how many more are in your family?
I just adore this blog post so much, I can’t even explain it! It makes me want to be a better gift giver.
Thanks Nicole!
– Dori, the Ranch Farmgirl – 🙂
Hi Dori!
Thank you for such a sweet, heartfelt comment! I just spoke with my mom, and yes, she loves this post and printed out a hard copy. I was never so excited for a box to come in the mail. I even messaged the seller to thank them and give them a bit of background on why I bought it.
Twins does run in our family, but neither my brother nor I had twins (I think of twins as ‘winning the baby lottery’). I wonder if someday my daughter will have twins? When my mom was born, the newspaper ran the story because they were twins born to twin parents. 🙂
Thanks again for making my day with this comment.
Farmgirl Hugs,
Nicole
What a perfect gift – and she is beautiful!
Hi Deb, Thank you! Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
Thank you, Nicole, for writing this. I just love the little Coca Cola music box from you and Russell. It has made me so happy and brought back so many memories. I miss you everyday, my beautiful daughter. I love you.
Mother
Glad you like it, Mama. Missing you too. I love you! ~Nicole
Yes, my husband thought I had accidenly tossed his bible in the recycling bin several months Go.because he had a habit of putting it in a walmart garbage bag with his newspaper he bought every sunday after church. I was sure I had tossed in the paper bin. In THE meatime. He died not knowing he had brought it in the house. Two days ago, looking for my quilts, uncovered a Wal-Mart bzg….and gurss what was in the bag? His bible! It was like I found…..a treasure! I was so overjoyed. Be cause…I found his tgouhts in the margins and he u derlibed what he read. I never knew he even read souch of the bible. But it helped me find some peace. ..knowing he did read it.I just wish we had found it sooner. Because he suffered so. Much the last two months of his life. Praying my prayers and word’s were so comforting.
Dear Susana,
I am so glad you found your husband’s Bible. How special with all of his notes and underlining in it. Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
Yes.its a joy as each page I read….I see a glimpse of his thoughts and thst he eve. WS artisti. And I didnt know that about him.I. hope to incorporate some of his art in quilt.
Susana, how beautiful. Hugs to you. Nicole
What a sweet story and a sweet gift for your mom! Love it!
My mom has been gone for 21 years and I miss her so much!
Enjoy the moments!
CJ
Hi CJ, thank you. I love seeing the pictures you post of you and your daughter. So sweet. You and Robin seem very close. Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
Gosh what an amazing story. I love that you love your mom so much you never gave up looking. I’d say that this new box will be so much more to her than her first with the love that it holds as a gift from her dearly loved children.
I’m on the look out for a record plYer and cuckoo clock from my childhood memories.
Hi Denise! Thank you. I told my mom that the little box might just be THE very same one she had. One could never know, but it’s a fun thought. I keep hoping someday I will find my dollhouse. It was accidentally left (with most of my toys) in the garage of my childhood home when we moved in the late 80’s. My dad had built it for me for Christmas, from scratch. It breaks my heart. I keep hoping it was rescued and someone will eventually put it on eBay! Happy Hunting! Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
I hope you find your dollhouse. I used to have a lot of treasures my dad gave me… I wish I had a few….he gave me this old horn that once held gunpowder and an Indian princess doll in real leather Indian dress which was beaded. And. A war flag with Japanese writing… those things get stolen that have any value. But you…your treAsures on earth will be left behind after you die and another will take them. Your heart will be where your treasures are!
Hi Susana, Sounds like your dad was a neat guy! And of course, the best treasures on Earth are family, friends and the ones we love! 😉 Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
Very cool. I bet she was so surprised and the music box made her day!! Nicely done!!
Hi Rowena, Thank you! I was losing hope that I would ever find one! Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
for me it was a cookie jar, my sister accidentally broke the bottom of it when we were still at home and I have always wanted one for my own memories. My Mom kept the lid which was an animals face. Then I found it on ebay and have been thrilled with it ever since! that is so cool that you found that one for your Mom!!
Hi Denise! Oh how exciting! I bet you were just thrilled to find that! I love eBay for that. When my daughter was little, I would find old Golden Books that were out of print but were ones I like had as a child. Found them all on eBay. Awesome that you found your cookie jar. Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
Great column! What a sweet birthday present from you and your brother to your mom! I love the pictures of your mom as a young girl and lady, especially the current photograph! She looks great!
~~~Rose
Thanks, Rose! I love those pictures…to me they are precious. I hope I look half as good as my mom does when I am her age! Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
Nicole! Such a beautiful story and very well written with such heartfelt emotional love! You are very blessed to know the history of your family ! I come from a very loving family too! Although I was adopted and very lucky to have been raised with so much love! It’s strange not knowing where you come from . Well anyway ,I’m sure your beautiful Mom was thrilled! I love what you said that your Mom said” we didn’t have much but we cherished what we had” such a simple life in the past! Happy thoughts,Cindy
Hi Cindy, Thanks for writing in. I am so glad that you enjoyed my post. I was never more excited to give my mom that little box. It’s only about three inches, but it’s filled with soooo much love. Big farmgirl hugs to you, Nicole
Nicole,
When I turned 5, my great uncle who worked as Walt Disney’s first casting director, sent me an adorable Pollyanna doll from California. She and I were about the same size and I treasured her. I don’t remember when or why my mother got rid of her. I did see one in an antique store, but she was very expensive and not in very good shape. Hopefully, one day I will find another Pollyanna doll…maybe in time for my first granddaughter!
~Laura
Hi Laura, what a neat story! I hope you do find your doll. A lot of my toys were left behind when we moved from my childhood home. I had two dolls made for me as a child that I wished I still had. One was made by my aunt, who made me a life-size likeness of ME! I played with her until I no longer played with dolls. She was so detailed, a big, rag doll that wore real human clothes. I named her Rebecca. Another one was a soft Cabbage Patch doll made by my neighbor. My dollhouse my daddy made is the one thing I really miss. Hope you do find a Pollyanna doll someday! Thanks for sharing your memories. Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
What beautiful pictures to go with a beautiful story. I have an identical twin sister. Marion and I are the best of friends. Having a twin is a guarantee of a best friend for life!
Marilyn
Hi Marilyn,
Thank you, I am so glad you enjoyed the post! Love that you have a twin and call her your best friend. I am sad for my mom that she and her sister live so far away from each other now. I know my mom misses her. Thanks for commenting!
Farmgirl Hugs,
Nicole