Y’all know I love a county fair! Last year, my friend Andrea and I took our kids and headed up to the Big E, New England’s biggest fair, and the fifth largest agricultural fair in the nation. (If you haven’t heard of it before, check out last year’s blog post from my first-ever fun visit at http://www.farmgirlbloggers.com/3708#more-3708). This year, Andrea and I decided to go together again, making plans similar to last year. However, things doesn’t always go as planned…
Y’all know I love a county fair! Last year, my friend Andrea and I took our kids and headed up to the Big E, New England’s biggest fair, and the fifth largest agricultural fair in the nation. (If you haven’t heard of it before, check out last year’s blog post from my first-ever fun visit at http://www.farmgirlbloggers.com/3708#more-3708). This year, Andrea and I decided to go together again, making plans similar to last year. However, things doesn’t always go as planned…
Barbara says: Looks like you had a lovely time once you finally made it. I lived close to Springfield,MA for a few years and went to the Eastern States Expo every year. That’s where I had my first kraut dog…lol. Great story.
Nicole Christensen says: Hi Barbara! We did have fun, and just had to make the best of the situation, especially since it was out of our control. It is such a fun event, looking back it was worth the hassle. Thanks for “stopping by”! Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
Beverly Battaglia says: Nicole, I love all the pictures! Especially the midway too, at night. Makes me want to go someday. Too bad for the traffic but maybe not good to go on a school holiday!
Love
Mother
Nicole Christensen says: Hi Mom! We figured it would be better on a weekday than a Saturday. We also learned not to go on “Connecticut Day”. Perfect weather, holiday, and a special day at the fair made for a “perfect storm”, though it did not feel too crowded once inside. Miss you! Love, Nicole
Vivian Monroe says: Looks like fun, I loved going to the fair, as a child. We would get out of school the first friday of the fair, and we would always get a new outfit to wear to the fair. We always loved going to the exhibits, and the agricultural bldgs. My daddy used to drop us off on his way to work in the mornings and then join us there in the evening when he got off, walk around a couple times with us then we would head home very tired. I think it was free that day to get in, and daddy would give each one of us $7, (there were 4 of us) to spend, and it would last us all day until he got there in the evening. I wonder why the $7, why not just $5 or $10..haha Be BLessed. Neta
Nicole Christensen says: Hi Neta, Oh I love this story! Thank you for sharing it with us. For me, we went to a fair or two up near the ranch in the hill country, but it was the Greek Festival that I have the most cherished memories. My parents would pick me up early from school on the first Friday it would open, and we would go and eat, watch the dancers, light a candle in the church, and see all our friends that my dad grew up with. Then I’d get a t-shirt that I would wear the next day to school, very proudly. It was the one event where we really splurged. My grandmother had been one of the founders. I heard now it is so big there (Houston) that it is almost impossible to get in and get tickets. Happy memories. Thanks for stopping by, Neta. Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
Joan says: I can’t go to fair grounds so I thank you for sharing your experiences, those pumpkins are beautiful. And the view from where I could never go – way up high – wow!!!! Thanks again. God bless
Nicole Christensen says: Hi Joan! I am so glad you liked the post. Big Farmgirl Hugs to you, Nicole
Susana says: I think my. Fair days are. Over…as for traffic delays we deal with that every day as I live in a tourist town. Glad you had a nice time. Great photos. THANKS FOR SHARING!
Nicole Christensen says: Hi Susana, Yikes! I can’t imagine dealing with that everyday! {Shudder}…Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
Carol says: We got caught in the same traffic, but arrive around one. We usually attend the first day and arrive well before noon. Back in the 1990s we went with the children and always went on the school holidays. Never those crowds. I bought a set of those knives back then and still use them.
I was interviewed by Jen of CT Fox News and made it on the local news. My comment about the crowds was editted out but not my comment about the blueberry pie. My mom was so excited to see her daughter on the 10 pm news.
Nicole Christensen says: Hi Carol, I bet I saw you, too! How cool! We went on a school holiday before too, and it wasn’t as crowded, nor was there that bungle of traffic. I’m still glad we got to go and have a good time, despite the delay. Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
When I was a child, my parents and teachers first sparked my lifelong interest in history, especially American history. I’ve always hoped my daughter would share that passion. My family and I have visited some amazing historical places all over the world, but the road trip we took recently to visit the home of Franklin D. Roosevelt and to our nation’s first US presidential library in Hyde Park, New York, is one of the most interesting and memorable places we’ve ever been.
Denise says: Gosh what an Amazing place. I love history too. If I ever make it to the states one day it’s on my bucket list to see. Looking forward to seeing more of your history when you post 🙂
Hugs from Australia
Nicole Christensen says: Hi Denise! I am so glad you enjoyed our “visit”. I’ve now got a new place on my list to bring visiting friends and family. And if you ever visit the East Coast of the United States, you be sure and let me know! Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
Denise Ross says: Thank you Nicole, I certainly will.
I’ll offer the same to you and your family, if you ever come my way, please let me know I’d love to show some of my country too 🙂
Nicole Christensen says: Hi Denise…You never know…Australia is on my daughter’s list of places she’d like to visit, and I have always wanted to go there too. Maybe someday we will meet! Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
Beverly Battaglia says: Nicole, I really enjoyed reading your blog about FDR! I remember my father talking a lot about him and admiring him. I was too small so my first memory is of Harry Truman. But Roosevelt was President when I and my twin sister were born. We were five months old when Pearl Harbor was bombed and FDR declared us in World War II. I did like Eleanor Roosevelt and feel she did a lot of good things for our country. Beautiful rose gardens as you showed. Love, Mother
Nicole Christensen says: Hi Mom! Next time you visit, we will take you there. I know you will really enjoy it. Oh, and I did think of Grandma Shug and her roses there – many of them were her favorite colors. Love you, Nicole
Susana says: AND I THOUGHT JEFFERSONS PLANTATION Was large.. nice. Blog…..now I know where to. Go for a. Nice. Sightseeing trip. In My state to see in my state I wasn’t aware of. Thanks. Susana
Nicole Christensen says: Hi Susana, And I should put Jefferson’s plantation on my list of “must see’s”, too. Thanks for the comment! Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
Diane says: If you loved the Roosevelt estimate, you are going to love Valkill which was Eleanor’s house. My daughter and I went to both and we really loved Valkill. I live about 30 minutes away and we had a great time there too. Also, you may want to know and try out one time, on the Roosevelt estate they have a “Knit In” which Eleanor always tried to make items for the soldiers. This usually happens in May and it is a great group of ladies that get together one afternoon and knit or crochet 7×9 rectangles. Then other women stitch them together to make blankets for local charities. Some of us already bring finished rectangles so that we are ahead of the game. If you would like more information – let me know. Have a great day! Diane
Nicole Christensen says: Diane, Yes, we definitely need to see Val-Kill. We just ran out of time, but gives us something to look forward to. Please tell me more about the knit in! I’d love that! I will email you directly. Thanks for sharing! Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
Wow, that looks like a fascinating place to go visit. Thanks for sharing all the details.
Nicole Christensen says: Hi Lynn, It truly was! I can’t wait to go back and see what I missed. I’ve also been told we should dine at the Culinary Institute nearby, though I have not researched it myself yet. Glad you enjoyed the post…thanks for dropping by. Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
Joan says: Thank you for a tour of sites I have always wanted to visit. So interesting. Glad you got to do this tour and hope Hyde Park and the others will be your next ones. Thanks again. God bless.
Nicole Christensen says: Hi Joan, I am so glad you like the post! Thank you! Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
Diane says: I look forward to telling you more about Valkill and the Knit In. If you and your daughter do come, my daughter and I would love to meet you there. We loved it so much that we would love to do it again. Do you love Cross Stitch – I also have a friend who owns a store close by. I think it would be a lot of fun to meet you! Have a great weekend! Diane
Nicole Christensen says: Hi Diane, I would love to hear more. Maybe we farmgirls CAN meet up! Wouldn’t that be so much fun? Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
What a neat day trip! I had the pleasure of taking my kids and hubby to Springfield, Illinois, to tour the Lincoln Presidential Museum a few years back. We lived in St. Louis at the time. It was well worth what we paid and we learned so much!
If your daughter would like to learn more about the Roosevelts, see if you can get a DVD from the library of PBS’s Roosevelt mini series that ran last fall. I watched it with my mom (she’s 75, I’m 54) and I learned so much! It covers all the Roosevelts, so Teddy as well as FDR. Fascinating stuff!
Nicole Christensen says: Hi Susabelle, Thank you for the suggestion! My whole family likes to watch series like that together, so I will definitely look for it. Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
Sheila says: Having grown up in the Hudson Valley, I have visited both the Roosevelt and Vanderbilt mansions many times. They are so full of interesting things that each time one visits, more and more is discovered. It is akin to re-reading a favorite book or watching a favorite movie again. As one gets older, the points of interest change and each trip gives opportunities for further knowledge. The Newport Mansions have the same effect. One year the interest is in the gardens, the next perhaps is dedicated to the architecture. I am glad you enjoyed your trip and am also very glad you mentioned going to the Vanderbilt Mansion. It is spectacular also, but on a different scale. I now feel the urge to go on a road trip…and after all, the Hudson Valley is beautiful in the fall.
Nicole Christensen says: Hi Sheila, Isn’t that true? I love to visit sites more than once, if I can. I always see something I’ve missed, or something different. Great comment…thank you! Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
School’s started, summer’s winding down, and New England’s prettiest season, fall, will be here soon. However, there’s still work to be done outside no matter where you live! With so many gadgets out there, sometimes it’s hard to know what works and what doesn’t! We gardeners can easily end up with a shed full of tools we don’t use. I’ve compiled a list of my most favorite garden gear I found this season.
Jennifer says: Thanks so much for sharing the picture of the plantain. I have these ALL. OVER. my backyard and it’s like pulling teeth to get rid of them.
Nicole Christensen says: Hi Jennifer, I hear ya! They do like to pop up all over, don’t they? You’ll be surprised how many you can pull up quickly with that nice gadget. Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
Mary McDanie says: Nicole I love you not because you are from Texas (me too but a transplant in Tn and dearly love both states) I love reading your comments and look forward to getting them. My tip is that I always put my gloves and garden shoes in a zip bag. It saves having a surprise the next time I put them on ….like a spider or little animal.
Nicole Christensen says: Mary, Thank you, I am so glad you like visiting me here…your comment means a lot to me. I LOVE your garden tip! I keep my garden and “chicken” shoes down in the basement. Unfortunately, Connecticut seems to have a whole lot of spiders. I don’t mind them in my garden, I enjoy them there, but NOT in my shoes! Your tip is really simple but so clever! Thank you for sharing. Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
Denise Ross says: I love this idea, thank you so much for sharing. I’m going to pop my gloves in a plastic zip lock now. I’m not one for spiders or any other critter on me either. 🙂
I’m new to gardening so I’m Lomb all the tips I’m reading.
Have a wonderful week 🙂
Joan says: Great info!!! I am a bit handicapped so being on my knees in the garden is impossible – I have found Fiskars has several tools that help me – you are right the right tool makes it a whole lot nicer to garden. I have been preserving too, corn, tomatoes, onions, peaches, plums, pears so far. Thanks again for posting. God bless.
Nicole Christensen says: Hi Joan! Aren’t the Fiskars tools nice? Sounds like you have some great preserving going on right now! I am going to be making some pickles this evening, and someone gave me fresh plums from their garden which I think I will preserve too. Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
Colette says: Nicole- how do you disinfect and dry your pruners between plants? I understand the reason but need an easy and portable way to do it. Otherwise, it will never get done.
Nicole Christensen says: Hi Colette! I carry around a tool box of my garden hand tools. In the tool box, I have placed a small jelly jar with a plastic lid, and placed a few antibacterial wipes in it (I like the ones by Seventh Generation that are botanically based). When I ran out of those one day, I re-purposed a small, travel-sized blue glass spritzer bottle with a mister that had originally had an organic natural body spray, washed the glass bottle clean, filled it with rubbing alcohol that I use to mist and wipe the blades down with. Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
Beverly Battaglia says: Very informative blog, Nicole. I will have to check to see if we need some of these tools since Richard is “the gardener” and his knees are really bad. I love to hear of all the foods you are canning.
Love,
Mother
Nicole Christensen says: Hi Mom, There’s some jam heading your way soon! Love you! ~ Nicole
Denise Ross says: Hi Nicole, I’ve screen shot some of your pics and thoughts today so I don’t forget them. I’m new to gardening and am beginning slowly with container gardening as we are renting our home. I’d like to take it all with me when we move on. Thank you so much for sharing what you are and have learned on this topic. It all helps me and inspires me.
Greeting from Australia.
Nicole Christensen says: Hi Denise, I am so glad you liked this post – you’re comment made my day! Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
Susana says: Love that stand up weed puller a and no bending over…whete yo find it. Susana
Nicole Christensen says: Hi Susana, I ordered mine online at fiskars.com. You can also try your local garden/hardware stores. Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
Summer 2015 has been perfect here in New England. Mother Nature granted us some great weather – perfect for a vacation! Recently, my dear friend Susan (you might recognize her as my “Chicken Guru”), invited us for a Farmgirl road trip, just us girls and the kiddos (our hubbies stayed home to work and pet/chicken sit). Since I’ve never been North past Boston, Massachusetts, I was especially excited to see another part of New England! Continue reading
Hi Nicole,
What a fun trip you had with the girls and kiddos…We’ve been as far north as Eastern Canada and we did take a long weekend in Bar Harbor once also. I’m glad you got out for some time on the water and those pink cowgirl boots are YOU!
Hugs,
Deb
Nicole Christensen says: Hi Deb! Thanks so much! I bet Canada is pretty, too! Isn’t being near the water amazing? So relaxing and beautiful. If I were you, I’d never want to leave that beach house of yours! Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
Dori Troutman says: Hi Nicole,
I loved reading about your vacation. How special it must’ve been. I have always wanted to go to Maine. And, I do love seafood so I would be in heaven! 🙂 Your pictures are gorgeous and I agree – my favorite was you and Audrey tubing! The food boat looked kinda cool – what food did they offer? Great memories.. the kids will always remember it!
– Dori –
Nicole Christensen says: Hi Dori! Isn’t that food boat the COOLEST? I was surprised by what they offered…it was a full kitchen. Along with ice cold drinks, they had big, huge yummy hamburgers, cheese sandwiches, nachos, and cool specials, too. We used the tube to float the food back to the boat.
I loved the tubing, but boy, were my arms sore for days afterward! Tubing at nineteen is a lot different than at forty-three, ha ha! Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
Adrienne says: It sounds like everyone–even the teenagers–had a great time. I hope you have a chance to visit again soon.
Nicole Christensen says: Hi Adrienne! It was lovely! Everyone should honestly totally unplug every once in a while! Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
Bonnie Ellis says: Maine is a beautiful state. A lot like Minnesota. I loved it there. And you are right, the blueberries are awesome. Great pictures. I am glad you had a good time.
Nicole Christensen says: Thanks, Bonnie! (Minnesota is one of the states I have on my “must visit” list. I know so many great people there)! Farmgirl Hugs, Niocle
Beverly Battaglia says: Nicole, these are beautiful pictures! Makes me want to go there too! Love your boots and I am sending a skirt that will look perfect with them. I am so glad you and Audrey had some time to spend together on a trip like this. She is an age to really enjoy doing mother and daughter things. Do those tiny toads get any bigger?
Love,
Mother
Nicole Christensen says: Hi Momma! Thanks! Can’t wait to get the goody box. As for the tiny toads, ya know, I don’t really know if they get bigger. We assumed they were babies; I will see what I can find out. I remember finding similar ones at the farm as a kid, but I thought they were babies too. Love you! Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
Sounds like you had a great time! Thanks for a great blog with photographs of your vacation. I too like vacations where there is no TV available or constant radio/music playing. Unfortunately, I need wifi to keep in touch with work obligations. Glad you were able to get away to enjoy the nice summer and take a tour of Maine. By the way, I love Lobster Tail and Lobster Bisque. It is my mother’s favorite meal for her birthday and special occasions.
Love the photograph of those tiny frogs!!!
Nicole Christensen says: Hi Rose! If we HAD to have wi-fi, we could go to the Mainland, or on the island there was also a recreation center with wi-fi, but I had tied up anything I needed for the week, so I didn’t need to really worry too much. Being a vet, you must of course stay connected, but you also should unplug every once and awhile, even if it’s for a little bit. Can you believe how tiny those frogs were? They were all over the place, just so cute! Miss you, my friend. Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
Vivian Monroe says: Nicole, how much fun did yall have? I love Maine, my husband and I RV all over the US and Maine is one of my favorites. Love the blueberries, and LOVE the lobster rolls. 🙂 Glad you had a good time, we all need to take a week and play. Be BLessed Neta.
Nicole Christensen says: Hi Neta! Oh it was so much fun! I LOVE road trips! My hubby and I are still dreamin’ of that RV someday! Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole PS Drop me a line if you are ever this way!
Jennifer says: Great pictures! Thanks for sharing!
Nicole Christensen says: Thanks so much, Jennifer! Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
Meredith Williams says: Hi Nicole! I loved reading about your trip to Maine. What a gorgeous place. I visited as a teenager with my parents but didn’t appreciate it then like I should have- so I think I need to go back someday! Thank you for sharing it with everyone!
Nicole Christensen says: Hi Meredith – Thank you! I understand about not appreciating the beauty especially nature when one is a teenager…I remember feeling bored at my dad’s weekend place in the country as a teen – but I wouldn’t want to ever leave now! You should come back to visit Maine someday. It is so beautiful! Thanks for commenting! Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
Joan says: Thank you for sharing your trip to Maine. I used to travel a lot but never got to Maine and now I feel that I’ve enjoyed a beautiful part of it. Love the boots too!!! God bless
Nicole Christensen says: Thanks, Joan! I am so glad you enjoyed this post! Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
Mary Ammerman says: Nicole, what a great vacation……..loved the scenery and everything seemed so peaceful and a great way to get away from the city……you really have a great friend in Susan. ………… by the way, loved the pink boots. I still have my cowboy boots but haven’t worn them in a long time.
Mary Ammerman
Nicole Christensen says: Hi Mary! Oh it was so wonderful! We really enjoyed seeing a state we had not been to before, and having such fun with great friends. Thanks for the compliment on my boots – aren’t they a hoot? They are so comfortable, too. Thanks for commenting! Take care, and Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
My husband and I dream of owning a camper, someday driving across the USA. Recently, I met a special glamper and “Sisters on the Fly” member who did just that with her husband. Now, she’s traveling alone, on a special mission, carrying on her husband’s legacy of love.
Kathleen DeBernardi says: Great keep up the good work
Nicole Christensen says: Thank you! Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
Barb P says: Wonderful, wonderful post! I certainly felt ‘nothin’ but love’ reading this. Thank you, Nicole (and Alison) for sharing this.
Nicole Christensen says: Thank you! I am so glad you enjoyed the post. This was a special one to write, for sure. Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
Susana says: I know exactly how you feel…ALL you hAve is the memories. Rest in Peace sweetheart….
BOBBIE SEGAL says: i love it..what a beautiful article, alison…you inspire me, as you always have.
love always bobbie
Cindy says: What a heartwarming story! They will be reunited in heaven! God bless her! Best wishes,Cindy
Joyce Champion says: This is beyond beautiful…..Thank you for sharing! Bless you!
Nicole Christensen says: Hi Joyce, I am so glad you enjoyed this post. I cried buckets writing it! I am blessed that Alison shared her story with me. Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
Sharon Gass says: Blessings sweet lady on your journey of Love.
I just wanted you to know I really enjoyed reading your love story and how you have decided to continue traveling as you honor Chuck’s memory. I, too, and a recent widow – my husband will have been gone now for a year next month in September. I am older than you, 72, and now riddled with inoperable cancer so made the hard decision to sell our trailer and be content to travel other ways. Just got back from a dream vacation in Mexico, which I did from a wheelchair! Best trip I ever had. I am an artist and this trip served to show me I still have some artwork in me! I send heartfelt wishes for your happiness and the joy you spread wherever you go. I pray the Lord is in your life as well because He opens up so many more doors and possibilities. Hugs from Sister #820 Paige Bridges
Nicole Christensen says: Hi Paige, I am certain this comment will touch Alison’s heart deeply. My heart and prayers go out to you. I am so glad you enjoyed your dream vacation. You sound like a spunky, inspiring lady, as well. Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
I’ve been following Allison for a long time, loving every minute of it but thanks to you Nicole, I feel like I know her better now. Wonderful post.
Nicole Christensen says: Hi MaryJane, Thank you! I am so glad you liked this post. Thanks to your wonderful “Glamping” facebook page, I saw my first glimpse of Alison. I hope you two can meet in person someday; you both are amazing, inspiring, beautiful-inside-and-out, strong women! Much love to you! Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
Teresa williams says: Love her story, keep on doing what makes you happy!
Helen Boyd says: Enjoy. Your brave young and beautiful
I’ll be watching you on Facebook from my couch
I’m 80 or I would be on a journey with you
You’ve got my prayers and love
Helen
Adrienne says: Alison is a remarkable woman and I hope you can fulfill your dream. For five years, I traveled in an 18′ motorhome named Wendy (because Wendy went everywhere with Peter Pan and I was Peter Pan) and for two years in a 27′ motorhome named Lucy (because even though she was a pain at times, everyone loves Lucy). There is nothing like traveling where you want to do what you like and then coming “home” to enjoy your life. I also hope Alison has many happy years on the road.
Nicole Christensen says: Hi Adrienne! Love the names you called your motor homes! When I met my husband (and we were both very young), one thing we share in common is that we hope to travel in a camper – now we are hoping that will be sooner than later! I love the descriptions of your travels. Right now, I haven’t got a glamper yet, but I do tote around town in my car, named Ruby. She’s the same color as Dorothy’s slippers. 😉 Thanks for sharing. Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
Joan says: Thanks for the feelings of LOVE in a tough situation. This is a true story of LOVE and we for sure need all the LOVE we can find. I so hope that Alison does find her way to my neck of the woods because it is beautiful here and because it would be so wonderful to meet her. Best wishes Alison!! and thank you Nicole for your LOVE. God bless.
Nicole Christensen says: Hi Joan, It was such a funny coincidence that I ran into Alison, like it was meant to be. She is such a beautiful lady, inside and out. I hope you do get to meet her, Joan, as she is such a blessing to be in the presence of. Thanks for commenting, sweet farmsister! Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
Beverly Battaglia says: This story made me cry. Allison is so pretty and I love her pictures and her “glamper” with the car in pink! Very sweet story of true love. I have my own with Richard.
Audrey looked so mature in her picture that I did not recognize her at first. I thought “what a pretty girl” and it was my granddaughter!
Love,
Mother
Nicole Christensen says: Hi Mom, Yes, Alison’s story made both Audrey and I cry. She’s an amazing woman, and an inspiration. I feel blessed to have spent time with her.
Also, I think our Audrey has grown a whole foot this summer. 😉 Love you, Nicole
Bobbie Shaw says: Thank you for your truly heartfelt, inspiring story. She faces her pain and loss with faith and courage. A lesson for us all to learn. Lessings her way, and safe travels always!
Sincerely, Bobbie Shaw
P.S. I travel lightly with my 1967 Shasta Astroflyte 🙂
Nicole Christensen says: Hi Bobbie, Thanks for reading and commenting. You know what else I think about Alison? It’s lovely for young people and newly married couples to see that, yes, true love, “death to us part” is real and does exist. What a beautiful life they had together. Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
Bobbie,
One of the things that is so fascinating to me when I see my story written by someone other than I, is the perceptions by those who read it.
It’s ironic, really…I don’t see any of what I do as being courageous, though, yes, I’m busting out of every comfort zone I ever thought about having. I guess I see all of this as “well, what else was I going to do?”
I do know that Chuck knew that I was/am a strong woman, and he knew I’d do something with this experience. And it helps me to hear other’s perceptions at a time when I don’t really trust my own, so thank you for your words.
Happy trails yourself, with your traveling lightly Shasta Astroflyte~
alison
Oh my goodness, how special is that?!?! thank you for sharing that and thank her for doing that amazing journey she is on! what a story!
Nicole Christensen says: Hi Denise, Thank you…I am so glad you enjoyed this post. It was really special to write. I am so inspired by Alison. Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
Denise,
I apprectiate that you took the time to read the story of my Odyssey. Nicole did a great job with interviewing me (and I loved that her daughter was with her), and a great job writing about it.
If this is all I can do to honor my husband’s legacy, and the love he left behind for me, then I will do it for the rest of my days. He was worth this, and more. And he set me out on this Odyssey with intention, which I’ve come to realize more and more as time goes by~
alison
Hi Nicole,
This was such a special post to read. I bet it was even more special to write.
You know what my favorite part was? The journal they kept together. That is absolutely amazing. Every married couple should do that.
I’m so glad you had the opportunity to meet Alison… and to introduce her to us!
Hugs,
– Dori, the Ranch Farmgirl –
Nicole Christensen says: Hi Dori! Our time with Alison was so special. I am so glad to have met her. My husband got to meet her, too, as we had her over for dinner after I interviewed her for the blog. She is now a dear friend, and Audrey really connected to her, too.
I LOVED the journal, too. Isn’t that a great idea? What a fabulous wedding gift to give…a nice blank journal! I love the look on Alison’s face as she was reading it.
Farmgirl Hugs,
Nicole
sharon says: dammit, you made me cry at work….very moving I will be looking for that pink teardrop on my travels.
Nicole Christensen says: Oops… sorry. When I was interviewing Alison, I glanced over at my daughter who I thought was on her electronic device. Nope, she was bawling, too. Alison and her story is just so moving. I feel blessed to know her. She inspired me to recently take a road trip with my daughter. (I usually won’t drive far without my hubby). It was great fun! Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
Sharon,
How do you travel? In a trailer? I’d never even thought about trailers until I got my own, and now I’m fascinated with all the kifferent kinds that I see out on the road and at SOTF campouts.
I hope we get a chance to meet out on the road~
alison
Rowena Philbeck says: What an awesome story!! Love her car and trailer. You go girl!!! Hope our paths cross sometime. Take Care and a beautiful love story!!
Nicole Christensen says: Hi Rowena! Keep a look out – she’s so easy to spot! Happy Travels! Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
Rowena,
Thank you for your words. It was such a treat to meet Nicole and be interviewed by her; it gives me an opportunity to touch base with so many more people along the way.
I was blessed every step of the way, sharing my life with my husband, and I’m blessed now, with my huge support community~
alison
Susan says: What a beautiful, loving story. Loved every word and was sorry when it was to the end. I think there is some ‘nomad’ in me also….currently keeping my eye out for an small, older trailer that I can ‘doll’ up. How can I follow Allison to read about her adventures? Thank you for the great post.
Nicole Christensen says: Thank you, Susan. Follow Alison on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/HappilyHomeless2 or on her webpage here: http://www.loveismycolor.com/
My husband and I are always keeping an eye out for a vintage trailer I can doll up, too. Seems they are not found that much up here. When we were in Florida, I saw a whole bunch. Someday!!! Good luck on your search. (Oh, and my ultimate dream to go with a trailer? A vintage pick up! I’ve wanted one since I was 15)! Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
Linda says: Nicole, what a beautifully written story. It proves, without a doubt, that even though a loved one is gone, love never ends.
Alison, on your way to Moscow, Id to visit Mary Jane, please stop by Fairfield, WA. It’s beautiful here and I have lots of farm girlfriends that would love to share stories with you!
Nicole Christensen says: Thank you, Linda! This was so special a story to write…I so wanted Alison to be happy with how I told her story. Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
Christine Mustion says: Love your story,happy trails sister and if ever in the Ozarks your welcome to my little nest on the river.
Dena says: All I can muster is “WOW”. What a touching story. Thanks for sharing it with us. Makes me feel hopeful and thankful all at the same time 🙂 .
Blessings to you and Audrey today sweet farm sisters,
Dena
Nicole Christensen says: Hi Dena, Thank you…I am so glad you enjoyed the post as much as I enjoyed writing it. Alison is really a special soul. Big hugs to you, Nicole
Vivian Monroe says: Wow, Nicole, thanks for sharing this post. My husband and I also travel together in the same fashion. I feel a kindred spirit here with Allison. My heart is heavy with mixed emotions, saddened for her loss, but excited to see she is so brave to carry on. I pray that if anything should happen to myself or my sweetie that the other would carry on as well in the same fashion as Allison. She really does give courage to those who have lost their bestfriends in their spouse to keep on keeping on, and know that they are watching them, and traveling with them in spirit. Thanks Allison for giving those hope, and thanks Nicole for sharing Allison’s beautiful story. Be BLessed. Neta
Nicole Christensen says: Thank you, Vivian. I was so honored to be able to share Alison’s story. She is such an amazing person with such light beaming from her. Audrey and I were fortunate to spend some more time with her this weekend before she embarks on another journey. We also were thrilled to meet her wonderful son and beautiful daughter in law. They are a remarkable family. I feel so blessed to have gotten to know my new friend Alison. Be safe in your travels, as well, Vivian! Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
Denise Ross says: Wow, Nicole, this is so beautiful to read. Alison is certainly courageous. I love her living legacy. Very inspiring. And how wonderful for you and Audrey to meet her.
Greetings from Australia 🙂
Nicole Christensen says: Hi Denise, Thank you! I think Alison is definitely one of the most inspirational people I have ever met. Funny thing, we were messaging through Facebook, trying to see if we could meet when she wrote “Do you know where Newtown is?” I was across the street from where her son lives at the time! I could just about walk to where she is staying from my house…no more than 3 minutes by car. Funny how things work sometimes.Big Farmgirl Hugs, Farmsister! (BTW, Audrey dreams of visiting Australia someday)! ~Nicole
Carol Noble says: Hello Nicole I am an old friend of Alison from NJ having met initially when she joined our church. I have been reading her blog for the past 2 plus years and have seen her twice in the same timeframe. I knew Chuck and he was indeed that wonderful charming man she describes. But the reason I write is to tell you that you drew the perfect picture and description of her story and the incredible person she is. I attended the incredible memorial service Alison planned and executed for Chuch in at outdoor woodsy park. I am positive none will ever impact me the way that one did. It was unique and so full of wonderful love stories and testimonials. I applaud you for your story as it was so right-on and beautifully written
Nicole Christensen says: Wow, Carol, thank you so very much. This was a very special blog to write – I felt so fortunate that Alison would share her story with me. Thank you so much for this comment. I think anyone who gets the chance to meet Alison is so very lucky, she’s such an amazing person with such light radiating from her. I wish I would have gotten the chance to meet Chuck, but I’ve also been blessed to meet Alison’s wonderful son and beautiful daughter-in-law. What an outstanding family. Thanks again for writing me. Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
Alice says: Oh what an amazing story! Thank you for sharing Alison’s story (love her decorating too). Also, best wishes to Paige Bridges (Aug 5 comment).
Nicole Christensen says: Hi Ali! Alison is a sweetie…you would have loved her. Maybe our Farmgirl Chapter can all get to meet her next time she is in town. We stay in touch. Hoping to see all my Farmgirl sisters soon! Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
My husband and I dream of owning a camper, someday driving across the USA. Recently, I met a special glamper and “Sisters on the Fly” member who did just that with her husband. Now, she’s traveling alone, on a special mission, carrying on her husband’s legacy of love.
Kathleen DeBernardi says: Great keep up the good work
Nicole Christensen says: Thank you! Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
Barb P says: Wonderful, wonderful post! I certainly felt ‘nothin’ but love’ reading this. Thank you, Nicole (and Alison) for sharing this.
Nicole Christensen says: Thank you! I am so glad you enjoyed the post. This was a special one to write, for sure. Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
Susana says: I know exactly how you feel…ALL you hAve is the memories. Rest in Peace sweetheart….
BOBBIE SEGAL says: i love it..what a beautiful article, alison…you inspire me, as you always have.
love always bobbie
Cindy says: What a heartwarming story! They will be reunited in heaven! God bless her! Best wishes,Cindy
Joyce Champion says: This is beyond beautiful…..Thank you for sharing! Bless you!
Nicole Christensen says: Hi Joyce, I am so glad you enjoyed this post. I cried buckets writing it! I am blessed that Alison shared her story with me. Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
Sharon Gass says: Blessings sweet lady on your journey of Love.
I just wanted you to know I really enjoyed reading your love story and how you have decided to continue traveling as you honor Chuck’s memory. I, too, and a recent widow – my husband will have been gone now for a year next month in September. I am older than you, 72, and now riddled with inoperable cancer so made the hard decision to sell our trailer and be content to travel other ways. Just got back from a dream vacation in Mexico, which I did from a wheelchair! Best trip I ever had. I am an artist and this trip served to show me I still have some artwork in me! I send heartfelt wishes for your happiness and the joy you spread wherever you go. I pray the Lord is in your life as well because He opens up so many more doors and possibilities. Hugs from Sister #820 Paige Bridges
Nicole Christensen says: Hi Paige, I am certain this comment will touch Alison’s heart deeply. My heart and prayers go out to you. I am so glad you enjoyed your dream vacation. You sound like a spunky, inspiring lady, as well. Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
I’ve been following Allison for a long time, loving every minute of it but thanks to you Nicole, I feel like I know her better now. Wonderful post.
Nicole Christensen says: Hi MaryJane, Thank you! I am so glad you liked this post. Thanks to your wonderful “Glamping” facebook page, I saw my first glimpse of Alison. I hope you two can meet in person someday; you both are amazing, inspiring, beautiful-inside-and-out, strong women! Much love to you! Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
Teresa williams says: Love her story, keep on doing what makes you happy!
Helen Boyd says: Enjoy. Your brave young and beautiful
I’ll be watching you on Facebook from my couch
I’m 80 or I would be on a journey with you
You’ve got my prayers and love
Helen
Adrienne says: Alison is a remarkable woman and I hope you can fulfill your dream. For five years, I traveled in an 18′ motorhome named Wendy (because Wendy went everywhere with Peter Pan and I was Peter Pan) and for two years in a 27′ motorhome named Lucy (because even though she was a pain at times, everyone loves Lucy). There is nothing like traveling where you want to do what you like and then coming “home” to enjoy your life. I also hope Alison has many happy years on the road.
Nicole Christensen says: Hi Adrienne! Love the names you called your motor homes! When I met my husband (and we were both very young), one thing we share in common is that we hope to travel in a camper – now we are hoping that will be sooner than later! I love the descriptions of your travels. Right now, I haven’t got a glamper yet, but I do tote around town in my car, named Ruby. She’s the same color as Dorothy’s slippers. 😉 Thanks for sharing. Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
Joan says: Thanks for the feelings of LOVE in a tough situation. This is a true story of LOVE and we for sure need all the LOVE we can find. I so hope that Alison does find her way to my neck of the woods because it is beautiful here and because it would be so wonderful to meet her. Best wishes Alison!! and thank you Nicole for your LOVE. God bless.
Nicole Christensen says: Hi Joan, It was such a funny coincidence that I ran into Alison, like it was meant to be. She is such a beautiful lady, inside and out. I hope you do get to meet her, Joan, as she is such a blessing to be in the presence of. Thanks for commenting, sweet farmsister! Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
Beverly Battaglia says: This story made me cry. Allison is so pretty and I love her pictures and her “glamper” with the car in pink! Very sweet story of true love. I have my own with Richard.
Audrey looked so mature in her picture that I did not recognize her at first. I thought “what a pretty girl” and it was my granddaughter!
Love,
Mother
Nicole Christensen says: Hi Mom, Yes, Alison’s story made both Audrey and I cry. She’s an amazing woman, and an inspiration. I feel blessed to have spent time with her.
Also, I think our Audrey has grown a whole foot this summer. 😉 Love you, Nicole
Bobbie Shaw says: Thank you for your truly heartfelt, inspiring story. She faces her pain and loss with faith and courage. A lesson for us all to learn. Lessings her way, and safe travels always!
Sincerely, Bobbie Shaw
P.S. I travel lightly with my 1967 Shasta Astroflyte 🙂
Nicole Christensen says: Hi Bobbie, Thanks for reading and commenting. You know what else I think about Alison? It’s lovely for young people and newly married couples to see that, yes, true love, “death to us part” is real and does exist. What a beautiful life they had together. Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
Bobbie,
One of the things that is so fascinating to me when I see my story written by someone other than I, is the perceptions by those who read it.
It’s ironic, really…I don’t see any of what I do as being courageous, though, yes, I’m busting out of every comfort zone I ever thought about having. I guess I see all of this as “well, what else was I going to do?”
I do know that Chuck knew that I was/am a strong woman, and he knew I’d do something with this experience. And it helps me to hear other’s perceptions at a time when I don’t really trust my own, so thank you for your words.
Happy trails yourself, with your traveling lightly Shasta Astroflyte~
alison
Oh my goodness, how special is that?!?! thank you for sharing that and thank her for doing that amazing journey she is on! what a story!
Nicole Christensen says: Hi Denise, Thank you…I am so glad you enjoyed this post. It was really special to write. I am so inspired by Alison. Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
Denise,
I apprectiate that you took the time to read the story of my Odyssey. Nicole did a great job with interviewing me (and I loved that her daughter was with her), and a great job writing about it.
If this is all I can do to honor my husband’s legacy, and the love he left behind for me, then I will do it for the rest of my days. He was worth this, and more. And he set me out on this Odyssey with intention, which I’ve come to realize more and more as time goes by~
alison
Hi Nicole,
This was such a special post to read. I bet it was even more special to write.
You know what my favorite part was? The journal they kept together. That is absolutely amazing. Every married couple should do that.
I’m so glad you had the opportunity to meet Alison… and to introduce her to us!
Hugs,
– Dori, the Ranch Farmgirl –
Nicole Christensen says: Hi Dori! Our time with Alison was so special. I am so glad to have met her. My husband got to meet her, too, as we had her over for dinner after I interviewed her for the blog. She is now a dear friend, and Audrey really connected to her, too.
I LOVED the journal, too. Isn’t that a great idea? What a fabulous wedding gift to give…a nice blank journal! I love the look on Alison’s face as she was reading it.
Farmgirl Hugs,
Nicole
sharon says: dammit, you made me cry at work….very moving I will be looking for that pink teardrop on my travels.
Nicole Christensen says: Oops… sorry. When I was interviewing Alison, I glanced over at my daughter who I thought was on her electronic device. Nope, she was bawling, too. Alison and her story is just so moving. I feel blessed to know her. She inspired me to recently take a road trip with my daughter. (I usually won’t drive far without my hubby). It was great fun! Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
Sharon,
How do you travel? In a trailer? I’d never even thought about trailers until I got my own, and now I’m fascinated with all the kifferent kinds that I see out on the road and at SOTF campouts.
I hope we get a chance to meet out on the road~
alison
Rowena Philbeck says: What an awesome story!! Love her car and trailer. You go girl!!! Hope our paths cross sometime. Take Care and a beautiful love story!!
Nicole Christensen says: Hi Rowena! Keep a look out – she’s so easy to spot! Happy Travels! Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
Rowena,
Thank you for your words. It was such a treat to meet Nicole and be interviewed by her; it gives me an opportunity to touch base with so many more people along the way.
I was blessed every step of the way, sharing my life with my husband, and I’m blessed now, with my huge support community~
alison
Susan says: What a beautiful, loving story. Loved every word and was sorry when it was to the end. I think there is some ‘nomad’ in me also….currently keeping my eye out for an small, older trailer that I can ‘doll’ up. How can I follow Allison to read about her adventures? Thank you for the great post.
Nicole Christensen says: Thank you, Susan. Follow Alison on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/HappilyHomeless2 or on her webpage here: http://www.loveismycolor.com/
My husband and I are always keeping an eye out for a vintage trailer I can doll up, too. Seems they are not found that much up here. When we were in Florida, I saw a whole bunch. Someday!!! Good luck on your search. (Oh, and my ultimate dream to go with a trailer? A vintage pick up! I’ve wanted one since I was 15)! Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
Linda says: Nicole, what a beautifully written story. It proves, without a doubt, that even though a loved one is gone, love never ends.
Alison, on your way to Moscow, Id to visit Mary Jane, please stop by Fairfield, WA. It’s beautiful here and I have lots of farm girlfriends that would love to share stories with you!
Nicole Christensen says: Thank you, Linda! This was so special a story to write…I so wanted Alison to be happy with how I told her story. Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
Christine Mustion says: Love your story,happy trails sister and if ever in the Ozarks your welcome to my little nest on the river.
Dena says: All I can muster is “WOW”. What a touching story. Thanks for sharing it with us. Makes me feel hopeful and thankful all at the same time 🙂 .
Blessings to you and Audrey today sweet farm sisters,
Dena
Nicole Christensen says: Hi Dena, Thank you…I am so glad you enjoyed the post as much as I enjoyed writing it. Alison is really a special soul. Big hugs to you, Nicole
Vivian Monroe says: Wow, Nicole, thanks for sharing this post. My husband and I also travel together in the same fashion. I feel a kindred spirit here with Allison. My heart is heavy with mixed emotions, saddened for her loss, but excited to see she is so brave to carry on. I pray that if anything should happen to myself or my sweetie that the other would carry on as well in the same fashion as Allison. She really does give courage to those who have lost their bestfriends in their spouse to keep on keeping on, and know that they are watching them, and traveling with them in spirit. Thanks Allison for giving those hope, and thanks Nicole for sharing Allison’s beautiful story. Be BLessed. Neta
Nicole Christensen says: Thank you, Vivian. I was so honored to be able to share Alison’s story. She is such an amazing person with such light beaming from her. Audrey and I were fortunate to spend some more time with her this weekend before she embarks on another journey. We also were thrilled to meet her wonderful son and beautiful daughter in law. They are a remarkable family. I feel so blessed to have gotten to know my new friend Alison. Be safe in your travels, as well, Vivian! Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
Denise Ross says: Wow, Nicole, this is so beautiful to read. Alison is certainly courageous. I love her living legacy. Very inspiring. And how wonderful for you and Audrey to meet her.
Greetings from Australia 🙂
Nicole Christensen says: Hi Denise, Thank you! I think Alison is definitely one of the most inspirational people I have ever met. Funny thing, we were messaging through Facebook, trying to see if we could meet when she wrote “Do you know where Newtown is?” I was across the street from where her son lives at the time! I could just about walk to where she is staying from my house…no more than 3 minutes by car. Funny how things work sometimes.Big Farmgirl Hugs, Farmsister! (BTW, Audrey dreams of visiting Australia someday)! ~Nicole
Carol Noble says: Hello Nicole I am an old friend of Alison from NJ having met initially when she joined our church. I have been reading her blog for the past 2 plus years and have seen her twice in the same timeframe. I knew Chuck and he was indeed that wonderful charming man she describes. But the reason I write is to tell you that you drew the perfect picture and description of her story and the incredible person she is. I attended the incredible memorial service Alison planned and executed for Chuch in at outdoor woodsy park. I am positive none will ever impact me the way that one did. It was unique and so full of wonderful love stories and testimonials. I applaud you for your story as it was so right-on and beautifully written
Nicole Christensen says: Wow, Carol, thank you so very much. This was a very special blog to write – I felt so fortunate that Alison would share her story with me. Thank you so much for this comment. I think anyone who gets the chance to meet Alison is so very lucky, she’s such an amazing person with such light radiating from her. I wish I would have gotten the chance to meet Chuck, but I’ve also been blessed to meet Alison’s wonderful son and beautiful daughter-in-law. What an outstanding family. Thanks again for writing me. Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
Alice says: Oh what an amazing story! Thank you for sharing Alison’s story (love her decorating too). Also, best wishes to Paige Bridges (Aug 5 comment).
Nicole Christensen says: Hi Ali! Alison is a sweetie…you would have loved her. Maybe our Farmgirl Chapter can all get to meet her next time she is in town. We stay in touch. Hoping to see all my Farmgirl sisters soon! Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
Since January, I’ve been training to become a Certified Master Gardener. Currently a “Master Gardener Intern”, I’m amazed how much more I’ve learned, gardening since age seven. Learning about the diagnostic aspect has been my favorite – like “plant CSI”, identifying diseases, bugs and other issues.
Gardening’s long been in my blood – a need to be outside and in earth. As any gardener can attest, sometimes things aren’t always perfect. We’ve had a late season, a wet spring, and a ‘buggy’ summer. I’ve noticed more, ahem, “imperfections” in my garden, appreciated more breathtaking beauty outside than inside any art museum, and also considered that invaders from outer space had landed on some of my plants.
Cindy says: Thank you Nicole for this very informative article, as well as, pictures! I’m a visual person and the close up photos were fantastic showing “the good, bad, and ugly” in the garden settings! Thanks for the tips on staying organic with the pests that need to be treated! Enjoy your beautiful plants and continued good weather!
Nicole Christensen says: Hi Cindy!
I am so glad you enjoyed it! I love taking photos of what I see outside. It’s fun to look back each season and see how the garden looked each year or what bugs we battled or beautiful butterflies we notice. Today in my flower bed my daughter and I saw two Monarchs! We haven’t seen any in our yard in years! Thanks for stopping by! Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
Dori Troutman says: Nicole,
Great post. My daughter and I had a major infestation of aphids in our flower garden, which is a big deal as it was completely wiping out our zinnias…. rows upon rows of gorgeous zinnias. We tried Neem Oil and had some success. It was so important for us to go the organic and safe route. We were finally able to get it under control, but in the mean time I really worried about the good bugs that were being effected even by the Neem Oil. And we also picked off beetles and put in soapy water… by the thousands! 🙂 I’ve heard the same thing about the beetle bags – you’re just asking for trouble by inviting the whole neighborhood of beetles for supper! 🙂
What an awesome class the Master Gardener class must be. I’ve always dreamed of taking it. Someday! 🙂 And yes, there is a whole lot to gardening that most us of have no clue about. Thanks so much for sharing!
I think being in the garden with the butterflies, bumble bees, and other bugs is just about the happiest place to be!
– Dori –
Nicole Christensen says: Hi Dori, I agree! I am most happiest outside and in the garden, especially if my daughter is with me. I have plants there from friends that have traded and shared from their gardens, a quince bush my dad and I planted together the first time he ever visited (he doesn’t remember, but I do), and nothing’s better than dinner from whatever I’ve plucked that is ready to eat. As for the Master Gardening class, it’s been hard work, but I’ve met some amazing people, learned so much, and am really enjoying it doing something that was on my “bucket list”. 😉
Here in Connecticut, two of my friends and I all noticed our zinnias were not what they have been in recent years. I think mine got planted late due to the bad weather. A dinner guest just brought me some pink ones yesterday as a hostess gift! I love them. Hope yours are okay after those aphids!
Farmgirl Hugs,
Nicole
crlagroue says: I thoroughly enjoyed your blog.. Great pictures too! Perhaps now the tables have turned..Now I can call you for advice, lol.
Nicole Christensen says: Thanks, Russell! I have to say your yard and flower beds look great every time I visit! And your cacti collection is awesome. ~ Nicole
Jan Sturgill says: What a coincidence! I have scores of squash beetles this year, though I usually have them in various quantities. Any ideas for a natural deterrent? I also thought that I had dodged the millions of tiny flies that hatch on my grape vines the last several years. I purchased Neem oil to spray on in the spring, but didn’t follow through. Drat…
I know that yellow jackets have their place in the garden, and I usually can coexist with them. Last weekend they became very aggressive and I got stung on the back of the hand. I finally had to remove several nests under my potting shed patio so that they would quit bombing me! I made a natural spray with peppermint oil, with little or no success. Is there something natural to use that will keep the yellow jackets from rebuilding at the same site of the old nest? We have hundreds of nesting sites on our outbuildings!
Nicole Christensen says: Hi Jan! For the squash beetles, use the organic kaolin clay that I mentioned. The trademark name is Surround. It’s a white powder that you mix with water (the amounts are on the package). Spraying under the leaves of things like potatoes, squash, kale, and cabbage keeps down those and other critters, keeping them from laying eggs underneath. It’s on the expensive side because it comes in such a big bag, but if you do what we did and chip in as a group with a few friends, it isn’t bad and it’s worth it. You’ll spray the underside of the leaves with it when you plant, and here and there during the season when it gets washed off by the rain. As for yellow jackets, I myself do not know of anything natural or homemade to deter them. We had a terrible time last year at my house with them. It was the worst I ever saw them, and we only had limited success with a more “natural” commercially sold spray, so I am not sure what to tell you there except be careful! Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
Beverly Battaglia says: I am so impressed, Nicole! The pictures are beautiful too. I never heard of “galls” before. We have azalea’s and I will have to tell my husband, Richard, since he is the gardener in our family. I think the red rose is gorgeous, and we had a rose that color on our property in Rockport, Texas. All our roses here have died. You sound like a real “Master Gardner” and I learned a lot I never knew. We learn all our life. I am very proud of you. Love,
Mother
Nicole Christensen says: Thanks, Mom! I never noticed galls on my azaleas before this year. Now I notice things like that everywhere…I find it so interesting. Love you, Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
Denise Ross says: Thanks for all your photos and information. I’m at the very beginnings of learning about gardening, in pots only for now, but I’m excited to always learn more. Thanks for sharing Nicole. I look forward to seeing and reading more about gardening 🙂
Nicole Christensen says: Thanks, Denise! I will be posting more in the future. So glad you enjoy reading my posts. Good luck with your gardening…it’s a lifelong passion that is an amazing, rewarding thing to do. Enjoy! Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
Vivian Monroe says: Great article Nicole, loved learning more. I too, took a Master Gardener course back home in La., and learned so much, we received a huge notebook and I am always referring back to it for info. Be Blessed. Neta
Nicole Christensen says: Hi Vivian, Awesome! I love the notebook we got, too…such great info. They also recommended wonderful books, which I have been trying to purchase and build up a “gardening library”. So glad you liked the post…thanks so much! Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
Susana says: You are so I intelligent about plants and bugs….wish you could yell me about this……I have this plant that has been showing up in my garden. It has a yellow flower that looks like a Hibiscus but grows like a tree….three flowers on the top…then two, then one big flower.the leaves look like OkrA.I wish I could show you. But can’t send a photo. I know it’s a weed but is so pretty I let it grow.
Nicole Christensen says: Hi Susana, Hmmm…sounds pretty. Without seeing a photo or knowing what state/zone you are in, I can’t say for sure. Is there an Extension office near you? Master Gardeners are there to answer those kind of questions. I’d love to see what it is. Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
My mom (left) on her 7th birthday.
My mom recently celebrated a birthday. In her seventies, she is still always stylish, with impeccable hair and makeup, and known for her big, bright, beautiful smile. It’s not easy living so far from family, and I so often wish I could just drive down the road to see my mother, or bring her a bouquet of flowers from my garden. When her birthday rolled around, I couldn’t wait, because I recently found the perfect gift for her…something I have been searching for her for decades.
Dori Troutman says: Nicole,
I had 2 minutes to read this post before heading out the door… and instead I’ve taken 15 minutes to carefully read every word. And cry. And I decided I am not getting up from my desk chair until I’ve written to tell you how precious this is. I’m sure your mother loved this gift beyond measure, but this blog post will be a treasure to her as well.
She was such a darling little girl wasn’t she? (And a beautiful woman today.) Do you have any more twins in your family? I know you didn’t have twins, but did your brother? I know someone who is a triplet and she had a mother that was a twin as well as grandparents too… so it made me wonder how many more are in your family?
I just adore this blog post so much, I can’t even explain it! It makes me want to be a better gift giver.
Thanks Nicole!
– Dori, the Ranch Farmgirl – 🙂
Nicole Christensen says: Hi Dori!
Thank you for such a sweet, heartfelt comment! I just spoke with my mom, and yes, she loves this post and printed out a hard copy. I was never so excited for a box to come in the mail. I even messaged the seller to thank them and give them a bit of background on why I bought it.
Twins does run in our family, but neither my brother nor I had twins (I think of twins as ‘winning the baby lottery’). I wonder if someday my daughter will have twins? When my mom was born, the newspaper ran the story because they were twins born to twin parents. 🙂
Thanks again for making my day with this comment.
Farmgirl Hugs,
Nicole
deb says: What a perfect gift – and she is beautiful!
Nicole Christensen says: Hi Deb, Thank you! Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
Beverly Battaglia says: Thank you, Nicole, for writing this. I just love the little Coca Cola music box from you and Russell. It has made me so happy and brought back so many memories. I miss you everyday, my beautiful daughter. I love you.
Mother
Nicole Christensen says: Glad you like it, Mama. Missing you too. I love you! ~Nicole
susana says: Yes, my husband thought I had accidenly tossed his bible in the recycling bin several months Go.because he had a habit of putting it in a walmart garbage bag with his newspaper he bought every sunday after church. I was sure I had tossed in the paper bin. In THE meatime. He died not knowing he had brought it in the house. Two days ago, looking for my quilts, uncovered a Wal-Mart bzg….and gurss what was in the bag? His bible! It was like I found…..a treasure! I was so overjoyed. Be cause…I found his tgouhts in the margins and he u derlibed what he read. I never knew he even read souch of the bible. But it helped me find some peace. ..knowing he did read it.I just wish we had found it sooner. Because he suffered so. Much the last two months of his life. Praying my prayers and word’s were so comforting.
Nicole Christensen says: Dear Susana,
I am so glad you found your husband’s Bible. How special with all of his notes and underlining in it. Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
susana says: Yes.its a joy as each page I read….I see a glimpse of his thoughts and thst he eve. WS artisti. And I didnt know that about him.I. hope to incorporate some of his art in quilt.
Nicole Christensen says: Susana, how beautiful. Hugs to you. Nicole
What a sweet story and a sweet gift for your mom! Love it!
My mom has been gone for 21 years and I miss her so much!
Enjoy the moments!
CJ
Nicole Christensen says: Hi CJ, thank you. I love seeing the pictures you post of you and your daughter. So sweet. You and Robin seem very close. Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
Denise says: Gosh what an amazing story. I love that you love your mom so much you never gave up looking. I’d say that this new box will be so much more to her than her first with the love that it holds as a gift from her dearly loved children.
I’m on the look out for a record plYer and cuckoo clock from my childhood memories.
Nicole Christensen says: Hi Denise! Thank you. I told my mom that the little box might just be THE very same one she had. One could never know, but it’s a fun thought. I keep hoping someday I will find my dollhouse. It was accidentally left (with most of my toys) in the garage of my childhood home when we moved in the late 80’s. My dad had built it for me for Christmas, from scratch. It breaks my heart. I keep hoping it was rescued and someone will eventually put it on eBay! Happy Hunting! Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
susana says: I hope you find your dollhouse. I used to have a lot of treasures my dad gave me… I wish I had a few….he gave me this old horn that once held gunpowder and an Indian princess doll in real leather Indian dress which was beaded. And. A war flag with Japanese writing… those things get stolen that have any value. But you…your treAsures on earth will be left behind after you die and another will take them. Your heart will be where your treasures are!
Nicole Christensen says: Hi Susana, Sounds like your dad was a neat guy! And of course, the best treasures on Earth are family, friends and the ones we love! 😉 Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
Rowena Philbeck says: Very cool. I bet she was so surprised and the music box made her day!! Nicely done!!
Nicole Christensen says: Hi Rowena, Thank you! I was losing hope that I would ever find one! Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
for me it was a cookie jar, my sister accidentally broke the bottom of it when we were still at home and I have always wanted one for my own memories. My Mom kept the lid which was an animals face. Then I found it on ebay and have been thrilled with it ever since! that is so cool that you found that one for your Mom!!
Nicole Christensen says: Hi Denise! Oh how exciting! I bet you were just thrilled to find that! I love eBay for that. When my daughter was little, I would find old Golden Books that were out of print but were ones I like had as a child. Found them all on eBay. Awesome that you found your cookie jar. Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
Great column! What a sweet birthday present from you and your brother to your mom! I love the pictures of your mom as a young girl and lady, especially the current photograph! She looks great!
~~~Rose
Nicole Christensen says: Thanks, Rose! I love those pictures…to me they are precious. I hope I look half as good as my mom does when I am her age! Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
Cindy says: Nicole! Such a beautiful story and very well written with such heartfelt emotional love! You are very blessed to know the history of your family ! I come from a very loving family too! Although I was adopted and very lucky to have been raised with so much love! It’s strange not knowing where you come from . Well anyway ,I’m sure your beautiful Mom was thrilled! I love what you said that your Mom said” we didn’t have much but we cherished what we had” such a simple life in the past! Happy thoughts,Cindy
Nicole Christensen says: Hi Cindy, Thanks for writing in. I am so glad that you enjoyed my post. I was never more excited to give my mom that little box. It’s only about three inches, but it’s filled with soooo much love. Big farmgirl hugs to you, Nicole
Laura says: Nicole,
When I turned 5, my great uncle who worked as Walt Disney’s first casting director, sent me an adorable Pollyanna doll from California. She and I were about the same size and I treasured her. I don’t remember when or why my mother got rid of her. I did see one in an antique store, but she was very expensive and not in very good shape. Hopefully, one day I will find another Pollyanna doll…maybe in time for my first granddaughter!
~Laura
Nicole Christensen says: Hi Laura, what a neat story! I hope you do find your doll. A lot of my toys were left behind when we moved from my childhood home. I had two dolls made for me as a child that I wished I still had. One was made by my aunt, who made me a life-size likeness of ME! I played with her until I no longer played with dolls. She was so detailed, a big, rag doll that wore real human clothes. I named her Rebecca. Another one was a soft Cabbage Patch doll made by my neighbor. My dollhouse my daddy made is the one thing I really miss. Hope you do find a Pollyanna doll someday! Thanks for sharing your memories. Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
Marilyn Collins says: What beautiful pictures to go with a beautiful story. I have an identical twin sister. Marion and I are the best of friends. Having a twin is a guarantee of a best friend for life!
Marilyn
Nicole Christensen says: Hi Marilyn,
Thank you, I am so glad you enjoyed the post! Love that you have a twin and call her your best friend. I am sad for my mom that she and her sister live so far away from each other now. I know my mom misses her. Thanks for commenting!
Farmgirl Hugs,
Nicole
Gradually, I started feeling very “off”. Symptoms multiplied as weeks wore on. I’d have the will to be active, but physically couldn’t keep up. We were worried. Would I ever feel like myself? Was there something doctors hadn’t found?
Dori Troutman says: Nicole,
WOW!!! Living in “tick country” myself, I’m really glad for this blog post as a reminder to be very aware. My husband and I do a little “tick check” on each other every couple days during these months when we are working outside continually. It is hard to see those little things yourself sometimes.
I’m so thankful you kept at it and didn’t just lay down and give up. I’ve found that we are our very best advocate and if we don’t take responsibility for our own health, very few will. (I also have a husband like yours that is there in the background pushing for answers.) I’m so happy you got answers, got help, and got your life back.
And the weight you think you need to lose? Keep it. You look fantastic! 🙂
Thanks for this post. I’ve been trying to patiently wait for Part Two! Glad for the happy ending! Big hugs,
– Dori –
Nicole Christensen says: Hi Dori! Thank you, thank you…you are so sweet!
One more word on ticks…the worst ones are the ones we don’t always see! The little deer ticks are soooooo tiny! Keep vigilant in doing tick checks. It’s so important.
Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
Nicole Christensen says: Thank you, Susabelle! Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
Adrienne says: Congratulations! You have a disease and you know how to handle it. I am so happy for you. Now you have a new normal to deal with but you’re much more energetic and can carry on. I’m rooting for you.
Nicole Christensen says: Hi Adrienne, Thank you. I still read as much as I can on Lyme, ticks, and thyroid issues. Right now, thirteen months after going off the medication, my thyroid at my last two blood tests was in normal range. I just KNEW something else was going on. I also should add that I never, ever remember getting any ‘bull’s eye rashes’, even though I know I had ticks on me. I am just so thankful I found someone who would listen. Thanks for reading…Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
diana henretty says: Such an inspiring story with the best ending.
So glad you stood up for yourself and kept searching for the right answers
and diagnosis and you won!!
Ive been praying for you from Noel, Mo…..Sending hugs from the Ozarks, Diana
Nicole Christensen says: Hi Diana! You are so sweet. Thank you for your prayers. I have many blessings to be thankful for, that is for sure. Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
Cindy says: Huraaaaaah Nicole! Finally! Thanks be to God! I had been misdiagnosed for over three years by 7doctors for a b12. Deficiency It’s called pernicious anemia! It is an auto ammunition also! I have to take injections of b2 ! My body will not absorb it! I was having ALL kinds of issues! By the time a neurologist found it! It was a simple b12 blood teats! It left me with permanent nerve damage! I still have tremors and severe neuropathy in my feet and legs! Left untreated ,I would have had permanent brain damage soon! Thank God! I was treated by an internist in the Bay Area! She knew exactly what it was! So many doctors missed it! If you are interested you can look up! I had every classic symptom! So hard to understand all of these doctors missing it! Well! You are on the mend! Congrats and God bless to you! YES ! You need to be your own advocate! I fully agree! Take care,Cindy
Nicole Christensen says: Hi Cindy, Oh your poor dear! I am sorry to hear you went through that. I am so glad that you were diagnosed correctly after being misdiagnosed. I think that doctors nowadays have so much on their plates with insurance, etc. and not enough time sometimes. It also seems like there are more issues we humans have than generations before. Blessings to you and your continued health! Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
Cindy says: Not b-2 sorry misspelled! B- 12 ! It runs our entire nervous system !
Nicole Christensen says: Got it, Cindy! Thanks! Big hugs!
Janice Slatee says: I have heard so many stories like yours, and it amazes me that the doctors are so slow to figure this out. Glad you are better and thankful you put it out there for others to read!
Nicole Christensen says: Hi Janice, I agree. I have been amazed at the number of people who sound just. like. me. I hope writing this blog may help someone else like me. Thanks for commenting! Farmgirl hugs, Nicole
Joan says: So happy to hear of your ‘return’!! God bless and I hope the ridding of the pesky plant helps.
Nicole Christensen says: Hi Joan! Thank you, sweetie! It grows everywhere in my area, but it is a start! Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
Elisa says: That’s great. I’ve had a lot of health issues and the worst part is not knowing what is wrong and IF it will ever get better or worse, not knowing what’s around the corner. So I’m glad to hear you found an answer and a solution! If you don’t already have any, you might want to consider getting chickens (or guinea hens). They are great at getting rid of ticks in your yard. My dog got Lyme disease twice before we got chickens, and never again since then. Just a thought. And it sure doesn’t look like you need to loose any weight, you look great!
Nicole Christensen says: Hi Elisa, OH! Thank you! I am short, so even a little weight makes a BIG difference. The extra weight (about twenty pounds) went on fast and is coming off s-l-o-w-e-r, but I feel great and energetic. I do have chickens, which you are right…they are great at eating ticks! I got them about a year and a half ago, and I love them. They also are great at eating grubs and beetles, on a side note.
I am sorry to hear that you’ve had a lot of issues with your help. Not knowing and also worrying makes a person not feeling well feel even worse. I hope this finds you better or on the right road! Great big farmgirl hugs to you! ~Nicole
Pamela Larson says: Also fighting Lyme and doing better. Glad you found a Lyme literate doctor!
Nicole Christensen says: Hi Pamela, A great book from a great doctor (my doctor recommended it) is ‘Why Can’t I Get Better, Solving the Mystery of Lyme and Chronic Disease’, by Richard I. Horowitz, MD. It was helpful. I hope you feel better soon. You are not alone! Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
Denise Ross says: So glad to read, you’re well again. 🙂
Nicole Christensen says: Thank you Denise! Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
Vivian Monroe says: Nicole, I am so thrilled you are better and that you found a doctor who took his time with diagnosing the problem. May the Lord continue to bless you with great health. Neta
Nicole Christensen says: Hi Neta! Oh thank you! It was a year ago this month that I am back to “normal”. I will never, ever take health and being able to be active for granted, that is for sure. I also am thankful for all the wonderful farmgirls who kept me in their prayers. A few farmsisters and close friends figured out I was not myself, and they kept my spirits high. 🙂 Farmgirl hugs, Nicole
Diane Van Horn says: So happy that you finally found your answer! My DD has Chronic Lyme Disease. She was misdiagnosed and treated for a different illness for over 3 years. It lies dormant and rears it’s ugly head in the most peculiar ways. A few years ago she was again very ill with a mysterious ailment. I fought and searched and helped her get her insurance company to let her see a Lyme Specialist. Her Lyme Antibodies were off the charts! They put her on an IV drip of antibiotics for 28 days. She was again back to her normal self. The medical community has started to wake up to this epidemic of Lyme Disease. Back when she was misdiagnosed, if the test was negative then you didn’t have it. Problem is the test back then was not very accurate. Testing today is much better. I am glad you are feeling better and I hope your story will help others become their own advocates and get the help they need. There is an older blog post on MJF which tells my DD story in detail. http://maryjanesfarm.org/snitz/topic.asp?TOPIC_ID=46176
Nicole Christensen says: Hi Diane, I am so sorry to hear that your family has been touched by an awful tick illness, too. I knew a lady over twenty years ago that was misdiagnosed for the longest time. Her illnesses went so far that she ended up having a stroke…I think she was around thirty at the time. Later on, they found out it was Lyme all along. That was before anyone really ever heard of Lyme. The scary thing about these tick-borne illnesses is how it affects not just one area of the body, and how it can so easily mimic other diseases, including in my case an autoimmune disorder. I am doing great, but I do know from my doctor that I have to watch myself very carefully. I am so much more vigilant with tick protection. (I still use organic, natural oils for tick repellent, and they work very well). I don’t know if you’ve heard of the new tick borne illness that is popping up in the news, but it is a cause for alarm, too. Still, I love the outdoors, and love being outside, I just know that we must be more careful. My best to your sweet DD. She’s not alone! Farmgirl hugs, Nicole
Diane Van Horn says: Hey Nicole, thanks for your good thoughts sent to my DD. I just ran across this and thought you would be interested. I hope you have a great tick free summer!http://www.thyroidpharmacist.com/blog/lyme-disease-is-a-hidden-trigger-for-hashimotos
Nicole Christensen says: Thanks, Diane. Interesting article, and mentions Dr. Horowitz, the author of the book my doctor referred to. Farmgirl hugs, Nicole
Jan Sturgill says: Wow, Nicole! You finally got your answers! I also believe that it is important to be your own advocate. So happy that your health is continuing to improve….
Nicole Christensen says: Hi Jan! Thank you. It truly was a long road, and when we went to the last doctor, I had disagreed with my husband at first. I thought he wasn’t the “right” kind of doctor. I am so blessed that my husband was persistent! Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
C. Hampton says: As my dad used to say “If you don’t have your (good) health, you don’t have anything!” I’m so glad you were persistent in finally finding out what was wrong! It’s a lesson that will stick with me for a long time to come. And please keep us updated. Your story was truly interesting (and concerning for anyone in tick territory!!)
Nicole Christensen says: Hi there, Your dad’s saying is so true, so wise. Thank you so much! Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
Deb Bosworth says: Hi Nicole,
I am so relieved to hear you got to the bottom of why you weren’t feeling yourself! Lyme disease is nothing to fool around with and can often be hard to diagnose as you have learned. Wishing you many happy, healthy days ahead with your beautiful family!
Hugs,
Deb, Beach Farmgirl
Nicole Christensen says: Hi Deb! Thank you, farmsis! Lyme disease and other tick-borne illnesses can really make life difficult, that’s for sure. There was such a relief when I FINALLY knew what was going on!
Have a great summer at your beautiful beach!
Farmgirl Hugs,
Nicole
Deb Bosworth says: Ditto to what Dori said. You ( and your daughter ) look beautiful! Radiant even. 🙂 What ever you’re doing, it’s working!
Nicole Christensen says: Oh gosh, Deb, thank you! You girls, too…it’s the organic food and farmgirl happiness! Hope we can all meet up in person one day soon. 😉 ~Nicole
I know exactly how you feel.. better to learn to listen to your body. Many times its just the aging process. Sometimes sickness or tiredness. The pituitary gland affects everything. If you get a little bump to to forehead it can create all kinds of things including a stroke. My husband just slightly bumped his head and had a stroke two weeks later. Died three months later. Unreal..one day he seemed like he was fine. The next night he was gone. May he rest In the arms of Jesus! He died June 8,2015. Hope you take care of your self.
Nicole Christensen says: Susana, Oh my goodness! I am so sorry to hear of your loss! Bless your heart. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Big farmgirl hugs, Nicole
Don Ramsey says: Hi Nicole,
I’ve been thinking about you with all of this and I am sure glad you found the right doctor! I have had three major tick born illnesses and know of the dangers thereof! This is a real scourge that needs much more attention from the medical community! You are such a vivacious individual with “Moxie” and the world needs you at your best!!
I hope you, Audrey, and your husband have the best summer yet!!
Nicole Christensen says: Hi Mr. Ramsey! Thank you! Wow! THREE tick borne illnesses…I hope you are well now and continue doing all the amazing, great things that you do. Thanks for being the best teacher ever! Audrey is looking forward to being in your class in eighth grade as well. Have a wonderful summer! ~Nicole
Meredith Williams says: Oh Nicole, I am so relieved you are ok! I have a horse who had had Lyme twice and his symptoms mimicked yours! What a horrible time for you. Blessings to you and your family with your returned good health❤️ Love from Virginia from your transplanted Ridgefield Ct. farmgirl friend!
Nicole Christensen says: Hi Meredith! Oh thanks so much! I didn’t realize even horses get Lyme! I hope he recovers fully…keep us posted! Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
bonnie ellis says: Nicole. I am so happy for you to find the source of your problem. It took me a long time to find out I had fibromyalgia because I also have arthritis and I felt lousy for a long time. But thanks to the right doctor I feel better again. The picture of you and your daughter is so lovely. Take care.
Nicole Christensen says: Thanks so much, Bonnie. I have many friends with your same condition, too. I hope that you have lots and lots of “good”, pain free days. Big hugs to you, my farmsister! ~Nicole
is a certified farmgirl at heart. She’s happily married to her beach bum Yankee husband of 20 years. She went from career gal to being a creative homeschooling mom for two of her biggest blessings and hasn’t looked back since. Debbie left her lifelong home in the high desert of Northern Nevada 10 years ago and washed up on the shore of America’s hometown, Plymouth, MA, where she and her family are now firmly planted. They spend part of each summer in a tiny, off–grid beach cottage named “The Sea Horse.”
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is a “MaryJane Farmgirl” who lives in a large metropolitan area. She is a lawyer who has worked in both criminal defense and prosecution. She has been a judge, a business woman and a stay-at-home mom. In addition to her law degree, she has a Masters of Theological Studies.
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an old-fashioned farmgirl with a pioneer spirit, lives in the White Mountains of New Hampshire. As a “lifelong learner” in the “Live-Free-or-Die” state, she fiercely values self-reliance, independence, freedom, and fresh mountain air. Married to her childhood sweetheart of 40+ years (a few of them “uphill climbs”), she’s had plenty of time to reinvent herself. From museum curator, restaurant owner, homeschool mom/conference speaker, to post-and-beam house builder and entrepreneur, she’s also a multi-media artist, with an obsession for off-grid living and alternative housing. Cathi owns and operates a 32-room mountain lodge. Her specialty has evolved to include “hermit hospitality” at her rustic cabin in the mountains, where she offers weekend workshops of special interest to women.
“Mountains speak to my soul, and farming is an important part of my heritage. I want to pass on my love of these things to others through my writing. Living in the mountains has its own particular challenges, but I delight in turning them into opportunities from which we can all learn and grow.”
Dori Troutman is the daughter of second generation cattle ranchers in New Mexico. She grew up working and playing on the ranch that her grandparents homesteaded in 1928. That ranch, with the old adobe home, is still in the family today. Dori and her husband always yearned for a ranch of their own. That dream came true when they retired to the beautiful green rolling hills of Tennessee. Truly a cattleman’s paradise!
Dori loves all things farmgirl and actually has known no other life but that. She loves to cook, craft, garden, and help with any and all things on their cattle farm.
describes herself as a goat charmer, chicken whisperer, bee maven, and farmers’ market baker renovating an 1864 farmhouse on an Ohio farm. With a degree in Design, Mary says small-town auctions and country road barn sales "always make my heart skip a beat thinking about what I could create or design out of what I’ve seen.”
Rooted in the countryside, she likes simple things and old ways … gardening, preserving the harvest, cooking, baking, and all things home. While you might find her selling baked goods from the farm’s milkhouse, teaching herself to play the fiddle, or sprucing up a vintage camper named Maizy, you will always find her in an apron!
Mary says, “I’m happiest with the simple country pleasures … an old farmhouse, too many animals, a crackling fire, books to read, and the sound of laughter … these make life just perfect.”
is a budding rural farmgirl living in Palmer, the agricultural seat of Alaska. Alex is a graduate student at Alaska Pacific University pursuing an M.S. in Outdoor and Environmental Education. She lives and works on the university’s 700 acre environmental education center, Spring Creek Farm. When Alex has time outside of school, she loves to rock climb, repurpose found objects, cross-country ski on the hay fields, travel, practice yoga, and cook with new-fangled ingredients.
Alex grew up near the Twin Cities and went to college in Madison, Wisconsin—both places where perfectly painted barns and rolling green farmland are just a short drive away. After college, she taught at a rural middle school in South Korea where she biked past verdant rice paddies and old women selling home-grown produce from sidewalk stoops. She was introduced to MaryJanesFarm after returning, and found in it what she’d been searching for—a group of incredible women living their lives in ways that benefit their families, their communities, and the greater environment. What an amazing group of farmgirls to be a part of!
Suburban Farmgirl Nicole Christensen calls herself a “vintage enthusiast”. Born and raised in Texas, she has lived most of her life in the picturesque New England suburbs of Connecticut, just a stone’s throw from New York State. An Advanced Master Gardener, she has gardened since childhood, in several states and across numerous planting zones. In addition, she teaches knitting classes, loves to preserve, and raises backyard chickens.
Married over thirty years to her Danish-born sweetheart, Nicole has worked in various fields, been a world-traveler, an entrepreneur and a homemaker, but considers being mom to her now-adult daughter her greatest accomplishment. Loving all things creative, Nicole considers her life’s motto to be “Bloom where you are planted”.
Looks like you had a lovely time once you finally made it. I lived close to Springfield,MA for a few years and went to the Eastern States Expo every year. That’s where I had my first kraut dog…lol. Great story.
Hi Barbara! We did have fun, and just had to make the best of the situation, especially since it was out of our control. It is such a fun event, looking back it was worth the hassle. Thanks for “stopping by”! Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
Nicole, I love all the pictures! Especially the midway too, at night. Makes me want to go someday. Too bad for the traffic but maybe not good to go on a school holiday!
Love
Mother
Hi Mom! We figured it would be better on a weekday than a Saturday. We also learned not to go on “Connecticut Day”. Perfect weather, holiday, and a special day at the fair made for a “perfect storm”, though it did not feel too crowded once inside. Miss you! Love, Nicole
Looks like fun, I loved going to the fair, as a child. We would get out of school the first friday of the fair, and we would always get a new outfit to wear to the fair. We always loved going to the exhibits, and the agricultural bldgs. My daddy used to drop us off on his way to work in the mornings and then join us there in the evening when he got off, walk around a couple times with us then we would head home very tired. I think it was free that day to get in, and daddy would give each one of us $7, (there were 4 of us) to spend, and it would last us all day until he got there in the evening. I wonder why the $7, why not just $5 or $10..haha Be BLessed. Neta
Hi Neta, Oh I love this story! Thank you for sharing it with us. For me, we went to a fair or two up near the ranch in the hill country, but it was the Greek Festival that I have the most cherished memories. My parents would pick me up early from school on the first Friday it would open, and we would go and eat, watch the dancers, light a candle in the church, and see all our friends that my dad grew up with. Then I’d get a t-shirt that I would wear the next day to school, very proudly. It was the one event where we really splurged. My grandmother had been one of the founders. I heard now it is so big there (Houston) that it is almost impossible to get in and get tickets. Happy memories. Thanks for stopping by, Neta. Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
I can’t go to fair grounds so I thank you for sharing your experiences, those pumpkins are beautiful. And the view from where I could never go – way up high – wow!!!! Thanks again. God bless
Hi Joan! I am so glad you liked the post. Big Farmgirl Hugs to you, Nicole
I think my. Fair days are. Over…as for traffic delays we deal with that every day as I live in a tourist town. Glad you had a nice time. Great photos. THANKS FOR SHARING!
Hi Susana, Yikes! I can’t imagine dealing with that everyday! {Shudder}…Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
We got caught in the same traffic, but arrive around one. We usually attend the first day and arrive well before noon. Back in the 1990s we went with the children and always went on the school holidays. Never those crowds. I bought a set of those knives back then and still use them.
I was interviewed by Jen of CT Fox News and made it on the local news. My comment about the crowds was editted out but not my comment about the blueberry pie. My mom was so excited to see her daughter on the 10 pm news.
Hi Carol, I bet I saw you, too! How cool! We went on a school holiday before too, and it wasn’t as crowded, nor was there that bungle of traffic. I’m still glad we got to go and have a good time, despite the delay. Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole