
Hello, Farmgirl Friends! Happy February!
My brother just called a few minutes ago to catch up. He was sitting on his patio, enjoying the beautiful Texas weather – currently about 69 degrees with full sun. I was just stirring a pot of toasty homemade soup on the stove, after taking my dogs out with ice cleats on my shoes, since there is no ground here that is not covered in a thick layer of frozen, icy snow. “I don’t know how you do it!” I hear that phrase from many of my “warmer weather” family and friends. Still, each season has its own charm, and there are some things that are wonderful in winter, no matter where you live!
New England has four distinct seasons. I love the summer, with its fresh veggies and warm, sunny days. By the time I have had enough of the heat, that wonderful cold snap of autumn rolls in, followed by the cozy charm of the winter holidays, that carries us straight through to mid-January. I’m sighing, as it is still “nesting” season here. I’ve kept busy through January, but now I am “chompin at the bit” for a “thaw”!

I do love the snow. One of my favorite things about it is the “scent” of snow that wafts into the air before a storm. My father always laughed about the first time I saw snow, phoning him at 4 AM to shout, “It’s snowing! It’s snowing!” We lost him last fall, and I am missing just talking about the weather with him. This past month, I enjoyed all my relatives and friends texting ME pictures of the several inches of snow that recently fell in the south, something that had not happened in quite some time. A small snowfall happened in the Houston area in 2021, but measurable snow had not fallen since 1895!

I must have sounded really “homesick”, because one of my dear, sweet farmgirl friends, who also lives in Texas, sent me this adorable tea towel this week. So sweet! Over thirty years later, I still miss the sight of Texas bluebonnets. The nice thing about warmer climates is when you get a cold snap, it only lasts a bit. The tea towel lifted my spirits and warmed my heart, and looks adorable in the kitchen. Farmgirls are the best!
Here in Connecticut, however, when things do close up for weather (rare, but we will have the occasional ‘snow day’, usually in January through March), it is typically only for a day or even a few hours.

Still, we get tired of the frigid cold and ice on the ground. I love animals, but I would like to have a few words with that groundhog! At least six more weeks of winter…ugh.

I don’t know how the local wildlife feels about winter, but I know it must be hard on them. Our ‘resident’ fox was recently in our yard again. He walked one way, then ran the other, with something in his mouth.

He looked so happy to have found something to eat. (Rest assured, it was not one of my chickens. “Fowl Knox” has proved too hard for him to get into – I have seen his prints all around the coop).


The little opossum tracks I found near the house in the snow are the cutest! Finding tracks is one of my favorite things about winter.

We also spy deer, walking through the woods, looking for spots to bed down or for food. I feel sorry for them this time of the year.

On a brighter note, February brings Valentine’s Day! I’ve got my Valentine’s decor out. The red, white, and pink look so festive and bright against the winter light.



After being married over thirty years, my sweetheart and I still celebrate Valentine’s. Sometimes, we have a special meal at home, or pick up a heart-shaped pizza from a local pizzaria. This year, we were both so excited to give each other gifts, we celebrated early. He got me a cross body bag that I had been eyeing for awhile. I just can’t stand carrying large purses or bags anymore, and when it arrived from Amazon, he knew I could really use it, and couldn’t wait until the 14th to surprise me.

Our wee pup is our “baby”, so my gift to my husband was this cute little oil painting that looks like our dog, found for under $20 in a local antique/consignment shop.

Chocolate is always a good choice, of course. Our family loves chocolate! My favorite is Justin’s, an organic brand. I’ve noticed after going organic years ago, that I can really tell the difference how I feel when eating things that are not, especially with artifical colors.


I really love Justin’s dark chocolate, candy-covered peanuts. The colors of the shell are muted, because they aren’t made with nasty, unhealthy dyes but rather with vegetables. They are scrumptious! (My friend Judy and I also shared a Justin’s organic peanut butter cup on a recent outing. So delicious, too). It used to be that if you wanted organic chocolate, it cost an arm and a leg and only available in specialty shops. I am finding this competitively-priced brand in mainstream grocery stores.
I love a good book on a snowy, February day. My daughter and I are now “Book Buddies” – a “book club of two”. We love all kinds of genres – classics, biographies, history, fantasy, mystery, romance. Sometimes I want to read something “heavy”, other times I need a “lighter” book.

Favorite books become treasures! My daughter is the same way. Now that she’s an adult, we will read the same book, then discuss it over dinner or coffee out (it’s a bonus if there is a movie to go with the book)! An avid reader who can read a book in a day, Audrey has been “collecting” books since she was in high school.
Books can be expensive, especially when they are “current”. Our favorite source? Thrift Books! Thrift Books is an online source, selling new and used books in both hardcover and softcover. Their prices are the best and shipping is fast! With their points program, the more you buy, the more points you get to use for book purchases. Many of the books my daughter has bought us have been free or under a dollar, and we’ve found books that we can’t find anywhere else. Cut down on your clutter and get rid of books you no longer want or won’t read again (or dvd’s) with their “sell” feature, as well. You can do all of this through the website; they also have an app.
Speaking of books, have you seen the latest trend – painted edges! There are editions of books with “painted”, metallic, or patterned edges on the pages. It makes the books even prettier, especially on a shelf, and this trend is across all genres of books. Most times, painted edges are the same price as traditional editions.


Another favorite winter activity of mine is knitting. In addition to blogging here, I have been teaching knitting professionally for over 15 years. I’m always amazed at the knitters who do not know about Ravelry! Ravelry is an online source of all things fiber related. The site started in 2006 and is now international. It’s the BEST source for patterns and inspiration, and is an amazing community of yarn lovers worldwide!
With all the ice and snow that is on the ground right now, it’s hard to believe that we will ever thaw out and be able to be outdoors for more than a few minutes again. But it will happen. Having houseplants is a favorite thing to do, year round. Right now, I also have a pot of red daisies that I have overwintered indoors for at least four years now. The pot sits on my deck during the summer and early fall. I forgot to water it recently and it looked dead, the leaves shriveled and brown (the room it is in gets very dry with the forced heat). Hoping it might come back, I watered it, but made a mental note to empty the pot when things warmed up a bit. When I went to water the other plants in the room the following week, I looked down to see my forgotten plant.

It now has new leaves and has graced me with the biggest, reddest, BRIGHTEST bloom ever! It’s a good reminder that things will thaw out eventually!
For now, we will hunker down a few more weeks, knowing soon the seasons will change again.

Stay warm and cozy, Farmgirl Friends! Happy Valentine’s Day to all! Leave me a comment below to let me know you stopped by!

Nicole,
I just Valentine’s and February is my husband’s and my birthday month so it’s celebrating most all month long. Your decorations are so cute! I love winter, but fall is my favorite.
Your little man is so cute in that tie! I learn something new everyday. I didn’t know you are from Texas. We have lots of Texas farmgirl friends
I too love thriftbooks and with the rewards it is nice to get a free one sometimes!
Have a beautiful day!
Denise
Hi Denise! It is always so good to hear from you here! Happy Birthday to you and your DH! I hope you have a wonderful celebration, and a very Happy Valentine’s Day, as well! Yes, originally from Texas, but have been “up” on the East Coast now longer than I was down south. Still, my heart will always be part Texan! Isn’t my pup a hoot? He always “poses” for me. He just adores attention and loves to be loved! He certainly keeps me warm and happy on dreary winter days! My other dog dislikes having her photo taken, and the biggest dog is so dark that it is often hard to get a good photo of him in winter lighting – he ends up just looking like a bear, lol! Isn’t Thriftbooks fun? Between my daughter and I, we rack up some great points and it is so much fun to find books that we have had on our wishlist, at great prices! Have a wonderful, fun month! Thanks for “stopping by”! Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
Love this read! I’m in Florida and I would love some cold weather right now! Happy Valentine’s Day 🩷
Hi Debbie, How about a trade – send me some warmth and sunshine and I will send you a bit of winter, lol! I don’t mind winter, but I am just ready to not have the ice everywhere. When it is in the 40s and snow is on the ground, it’s lovely, but below freezing with ice and black ice on the sidewalks and concrete can be treacherous, and no one likes it when it is icy. (Though a friend of mine recently invited me to try snowshoeing – that sounds like fun! I have to find some snowshoes, but it’s a way to enjoy the outdoors while the snow is so deep). Thankfully, February is a short month and the days are already getting longer, so that’s good! It is lovely when things are so cozy inside and it’s snowing outside. Thank you for reading and commenting, and Happy Valentine’s Day! Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
Books, animals, snow, knitting! What a great read for me this morning. Last year I found a great book titled “All Creation Waits.” by Gayle Boss. It’s technically an Advent book but is about how animals prepare and survive the winter. Everything from lightening bugs to a fox hunting. Thouh I read it in advent, I kept it on my shelf for reference.
We get very little snow here where I live in Virginia, but this year we did and the most interesting tracks I found in the snow were from a duck that flew up from the waterway behind my house into the snow then walked the whole length of the yard to the bird feeder. I thought “why?” And then decided it was so I could see the webbed tracks in the snow!
Thank you for a beautiful start to my day.
Good morning, Nancy! Thank you for the book recommendation – that sounds like a really interesting read, and I especially love anything about animals. I will look for that. I bet the duck tracks were absolutely adorable! I love ducks! Every once in a while, there are two ducks that land here, “resting” in the yard near the woods. It’s not often, and I get so excited when I see them. I bet those little tracks were so fun to see. I’m glad you enjoyed the post! Stay warm and cozy, and Happy Valentine’s Day! Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
Good morning~~~I’m a little late reading this, but I’m here now. That fox surely doesn’t appear to be starving, so he must be fruitful in his Winter hunting escapades. I do have a hunt for you……….I borrowed the Oct/Nov 2024 issue of Mary Jane’s Farm magazine from our local Library. Do you know where I can get the recipe for the pizza pictured on page 67???? I’ve tried leaving messages and emailing MJF but to no success. No one responds. Thanks so much.
It IS Winter here, that’s for sure. It took its time coming, but now it’s here in spades. More coming this weekend [we’re being told] in some kind of DUMP TRUCK to be measured in feet……..hummmmmm!!!!!!!!! This is a time when a woodstove would come in handy. lol lol lol. The Winter Robins are prolific too. Nice little round puggy creatures with gorgeous colors.
Stay warm
Hi Alice, isn’t that fox a fluffy, well-fed beauty? I love seeing him. We had a season a few years back where all the foxes were coming down with mange. It was so sad to see them! Thankfully, the fox population is back and looking healthy!
I keep all of my MJF magazines, and have them all the way back to my very first ever issue, which is now so dog eared and well-loved! I will pull my Oct/Nov issue out for you and email you. I have your email address here from the comments.
You are so right about winter being here in spades – four storms this week (only one where we had a “snow day”) and more on the way through the week. We have a wood stove in our back room. It keeps us toasty, and the pups love to lay next to it, but the amount of wood we have used this year is crazy!
I can’t wait to see the robins here – they are our harbingers of spring! Stay warm! Thanks for reading and commenting! Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
Hi Nicole~
Oh how I enjoy your post every month. Especially when you have photos of sweet Trooper, he is a love.
I have so many Farmgirl friends who love winter and the snow. I do not like cold and after 23 years of snow living in Colorado I am happy to be living on the coast of Oregon where snow is rare. Oh but we do get cold.
Love reading books as well, with Kristin Hannah being my favorite author and I love historical fiction.
Trying to finish a UFO Christmas Stocking for my knitting badge in MaryJane Farms. But I believe I made a mistake and that is why it never got finished it, but I am determined to finish it.
Stay warm and enjoy the rest of winter.
Warm Hugs,
Debbie
Hi Debbie, so good to hear from you, my dear farmgirl friend! I am so glad Trooper makes you smile. He is my constant companion, and keeps me smiling everyday. I wish we lived closer – I’d help you with your knitting project! Stay warm! Big farmgirl hugs, Nicole
Love your Valentines and sharing. Snowing today here in lake Oswego, Oregon and February appears to be our snow month of late. I made a big vegetable/chicken soup and my Valentine of 62 years and we will enjoy our day. He wrote a song for me many years ago, that I’m his nymph, and he’s my Cupid…love it still.
My dear mother was a Texas girl and reminisced of the winter months by making ice cream in the snow. We had homemade ice cream often, growing up in California. She would make ice trays full of fresh peach ice cream, or strawberries. Those were special treats.
Happy Valentines Day
Hi Gayle, first off – 62 years! How romantic! And his song to you…so sweet. Happy Valentine’s Day to you both! Your soup sounds delicous! I made us a “turkey shephards pie”, as my daughter is allergic to beef and no one really cares for lamb. It was so good. I am making a big pot of soup today for dinner. We have a big storm coming later – this one bringing more ice. I love snow but hate the ice! I don’t mind winter, but I am wishing it would get a wee bit warmer. I can handle the low 40s but today we are in the teens and it is just too cold for me. We have another month at least of winter – we ALWAYS get snow around St. Patricks, even on a warm winter season. I love your memories of your mother – how sweet. Thank you so much for sharing. Stay warm! Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
Nicole,
Enjoyed your blog today ! New England is such a pretty place, in every season . My boys went to college there, one at Mass Maritime Academy and one at the USCGA. They grew up in Missouri, so it was a big change for all of us! ( one lives in Texas now, as do I , the other in Wash DC)
We loved everything about New England, the seafood, the little old villages, the history, the people !
Stay warm and keep that blog coming!!
Janetsue
Hi Janetsue! Thank you – I am so glad you enjoyed the blog! You are right – New England has so much charm with the villages and history, one of the reasons I love living here. I do miss Texas – the people, the food, the weather when it is not too humid and hot, and bluebonnets! We can’t grow them here – I tried outside and in pots. They won’t grow in our zone, but then again, we get peonies in spring! (My favorite flower)! Thanks so much for reading and commenting! Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
Thank you. I couldn’t find the recipe in the magazine, but there’s a picture, so someone had to have made it…….
Anyway………I’ll look for your email, maybe you have a way of ferreting it out.
Yes…….that fox is gorgeous. What part of New England do you live??? We had a fair amount of precep today……..mostly liquid and not white and fluffy. We still haven’t had the plow person come by yet and it’s almost 8:30 p.m. YIKES. You really need to like plowing to be out all hours like this. Not much accumulation, but the liquid stuff bogged down the snow that we got on Sunday……….so it needs to be plowed. You can’t just shovel that stuff. No wonder you’ve burnt a lot of wood this year……..the cold weather started really early in the season. At least we’re on the right side of Winter at this point. We’ve had more Bluebirds than we have in the past, so hopefully they’ll stick around for the rest of the year. Blessings to you
Hi Alice, we are in Connecticut. Where are you? I gather from your comment somewhere that winter is still going, but aren’t you so right – “we are on the right side of Winter at this point”. What a great way to look at it. Winter was very early this year – it got really cold here right around Christmas, which is not typical. It is usually just January and February where we get the super-cold days with ice and frozen snow, but this year seems like it has been long and non-stop – which will make Spring even sweeter! Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
Just found you enjoyed every word. Texas is cold right now but they say wait 30 minutes!
Hi JoAnn, thank you and welcome to the Suburban Farmgirl Blog! I remember that “quick change” Texas weather! Unfortunately for us in Connecticut, we have another storm system heading our way – ice, snow and rain. ICK! At least today the sun is out, and soon it will be time to plant seeds indoors for the summer. Have a great Valentine’s Day! Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
Nicole, I have recently retired and I have enjoyed reading your blog. As a matter of fact, when I finish writing this note. i plan to look through previous ones. I completely understand you enjoying the seasons. I live in Wyoming. I know snow and frigid temps, I know heat, and enjoy low humidity, I know WIND..lots of wind. There is something special about each season. I thoroughly enjoyed the photo of your pup with the tie Happy Valentines Day!
Hi Vicki, thank you so much! I am so glad you enjoyed the blog, and hope you enjoy some of my past ones. It is hard to believe I have been writing here for over 14 years now! It always means so much to hear from readers, and I love that I hear from farmgirls like you, who live in other states. I have never been to Wyoming. I would like to see that part of the US someday. I’m glad my pup made you smile. He cracks me up. He loves to have his photo taken – he is such a little ham! Thanks for reading and commenting! Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
Hi Nicole!
I’m sitting here in the hospital with my son feeling a bit sorry for him and myself and just happened on your blog. Thanks so so much for it! It’s exactly what I needed to make me smile!! I’ve got spring fever like crazy and your blog has made me want to get out there and plant plant plant! Thanks for your thoughts, it was just the upper I needed!
Liz from Utah
Hi Liz, thank you! I am so glad I could brighten your day! That means a lot to me. I am so sorry your son is in the hospital. Big hugs to you both, and I hope he feels better soon! Thanks so much for reading and commenting! Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole