I’ve lived in the New England suburbs for thirty years. While my property is partly wooded, I never really worried much about running into a bear…until recently! 

When I first moved to New England in the early 90’s, I was awestruck by the natural beauty of the suburbs. However, I learned that bears inhabited the Northeast, and at first that worried me. 

My bear fears were quickly dispelled, shortly after I moved to Connecticut when I attended a free bear lecture at our local library. The lecture taught us all about the type of bear found in the Northeast, the American black bear, Ursus americanus. The size of the claws were shocking!  We learned that while black bears did call Connecticut home, they weren’t usually found in our area, but in the counties further North. Easing my mind, I never really gave bears a second thought. 

Until recently. 

The first time I thought I saw a bear was at the end of the pandemic. My daughter and I were in the car, not far from our house, when one ran across the road. The large creature ran across so fast, I wasn’t sure that we even saw one, and really only saw the “tail end”. We started hearing of more and more sightings. Our town’s local Facebook group would mention them, and occasionally we’d hear of one in our neighborhood. We never saw one on our property, and figured the noise from our dogs would scare one away anyway. Once the property behind us was sold and a barbed-wire fence put up for cows, we figured our chance of seeing a bear was probably even slimmer. I later saw one from a distance while in my woods; it was on the other side of the fence and moving quickly away.

We started frequently hearing of more bear sightings in the last two years, with reports and videos on social media, the news, and YouTube, to name a few. Our neighborhood frequently sees bears; we guess that there are at least three, perhaps a mother and her two adult offspring. 

Part of me thought seeing a bear would be exciting, as long as it was from a safe distance and from inside. I’ve joked that a bear would not have a chance to maul me – I’d die of a heart attack first. In all seriousness, though, bear attacks on humans are extremely rare. Bears don’t really want to tangle with humans, they just want to get away. Bears do what comes naturally, it’s we humans that put these majestic wild animals in situations that become dangerous. 

This summer, it appears bear sightings are as frequent as seeing deer (which is a lot). One evening in early June, my husband was running late from work, and my daughter and I had just finished dinner. I noticed something out the window – lightning bugs! I stepped outside to watch them. It was a beautiful, still and quiet summer evening, full of fireflies. As I stood on the deck, I noticed a strange sound. 

Shuu…shuuuu…shuuu…

That’s when I noticed the creature sauntering out of the woods into the yard. It was large and black, almost a shadowy figure, but darkness had not completely taken over the evening. The sound I heard was from large paws shuffling through the grass. My brain did not register at first what I was seeing. “DOG? No. DEER? No. OHHHHHH!”  Like a scene from a classic Casper the Ghost cartoon, I realized what had emerged below, right in front of me, mere yards away… A BBB-BEAR!!!!

He was HUGE. He knew I was there. For a second, he paused and sniffed one of our yard chairs, before looking up at me and sniffing the air. He had a mark across his leg, like he had a scratch that had healed and left a scar.

I slowly backed away and into the house. My daughter wanted to see him, and we looked through every window, but to no avail. He disappeared quickly.

After that initial sighting, we didn’t see him again, but did find evidence of a bear passing through, in the form of bear droppings. 

My dear friend and neighbor, Susan, also has had visits  from this majestic, beautiful bear. We know it is the same one because of the mark in his fur. 

Our next sighting at my house  was one beautiful morning, a few weeks ago. My husband went out the door to open up our chickens for the morning. As I saw him go one direction, on our outdoor camera, I saw a bear quickly going the other way!

This was a smaller bear than the first, a “junior” bear. We later determined he had been eating some of the berries that were in season on the hill in front of the house.

Carolee Mason, Municipal Animal Control Officer for Newtown,Connecticut, has been a resident here since 1977. She has worked at Animal Control for close to two decades, and has seen the uptick in bear sightings in recent years.

Carolee says that it is in part due to the shrinking of the bears’ natural habitat due to increased building, and also because of increased footage, with technology like cameras on phones, social media coverage, and cameras on homes (like Amazon blink). In the late 1800’s there were no bears in Connecticut. Nowadays, the bear populations are increasing; a healthy bear can have an average of three cubs a season. Still, bears like the ones we saw have most likely been around longer than we suspect; we just didn’t realize it until now, with proof on camera.

Carolee laughs remembering the first time that the department heard of a bear sighted in town. It happened in the 90’s, before everyone carried a smart phone with a camera. It was believed that a bear had broken into an outdoor fridge in a resident’s pool house, to get to the soda cans inside. A bear sighting was such an unheard-of occurrence that when a resident finally did get a photo of a black bear in town “in the wild” and brought a print in to show everyone at animal control, they were so excited that the photo was proudly pinned on the wall, as proof! 

Carolee says bears are hungry scavengers, and will go for the easiest food they can find. Mamas also just want to feed their cubs. “What would you do if your child was starving and there was no food? You’d do what you could to feed your young.” She reminds everyone that bears will eat birdseed and garbage left outside, and that bears can be seen out and active all day. Keeping chickens secure, taking bird feeders down, and not leaving garbage out are the best steps to avoid repeat visitors. Most of the time they will walk on by. “Bears don’t realize your house is a house”; to them it is just a part of the territory they travel through. If you do see a bear, Carolee says “make lots of noise, so it knows you are there before it gets startled. Bears DO NOT like to be startled.” A startled bear can become a dangerous one, like the one recently caught on camera this summer in Tennessee, invading a food booth at a carnival. When a worker walks in the door, the bear is startled and leaps at her while trying to get out and away, scratching the worker’s arm. The bear was later euthanized.

Black bears can be seen all year round, though they do a form of “hibernation”, with a lower body temperature and metabolic rate, referred to as “denning”. Carolee says you might see a bear out anytime, partly due to them “getting mixed up with our weather”, and the warmer-than-usual winters that we’ve seen the past few years. 

Black bears are the smallest bear found in North America, weighing up to 500 pounds. Mama black bears are good parents, and will usually send her babies up a tree if she thinks danger is near. Bears are very skilled climbers!

Black bears are being seen in “new” territories, all over North America. While rare, there are even sightings of black bears down in Texas, in the hill country! Texas Parks and Wildlife confirmed 154 bear sightings in 2022, up from 80 in 2021, and up from 25 in 2020. 

At our house, we have our chickens secured, and only feed them enough food that they can consume that day. We keep a small transistor radio on low in the run. It helps keep predators away, though it might not keep a bear from passing through. Carolee says that “if a bear really wants to pass through your yard, he’s going to.”

We try to make noise when we go outside. We don’t leave food outside or in the camper, and bird feeders are put away through the summer. We are doing our best to be bear aware.

Other good advice is to use electric fencing with beehives, and don’t put your garbage out the night before. Adding ammonia can help deter a bear from dumpster diving, as well.

It’s still exciting to see a bear in the wild, and it took me close to 30 years to see one! Please note that ALL photos in this post were taken from inside, or are clips from security cameras. No humans were ever “up close”.

While we humans grow up  thinking “teddy bears” are cute and cuddly, black bears are WILD animals, and can be considered Apex predators. Keeping them naturally wary of humans, and not “used” to us as a food source, will allow humans AND bears to stay safe. 

Have you seen a bear in the wild? If so, where? Tell me about it in comments, or just say “hello” so I know you stopped by!

Spring is in full force in New England. Everything is fresh and green, flowers are blooming, and migratory birds have returned. The winter, with its calm and quiet of snow and rest is gone, replaced by the happy sounds of movement and new life. 

One of my favorite towns in Connecticut is Southbury. With many restaurants, stores and various businesses, an antique district, and a population of around 20,000, Southbury is bustling. Nestled within the town is a special place, bursting with true natural beauty. 

While all four seasons are amazing, there’s many things to do in New England after winter’s thaw. Each Spring, I look forward to going to my hometown’s Earth Day celebration with my longtime dear friend and neighbor, Susan. This year, we stopped by the Audubon Society’s booth. There, we picked up some wonderful brochures, information on birds, and a colorful poster. One brochure we received was the trail map of the beautiful Audubon Center Bent of the River. Since it was a pretty, cool spring day, we decided to take a walk, and headed to the next town over – Southbury, to enjoy the scenery. 

Often referred to as a “hidden gem”, Bent of the River is breathtaking. When we arrived, we wondered how it was that we had both lived nearby with our families for so long (over 25 years) without knowing about this spectacular site! Part of the National Audubon Society, Bent of the River’s mission is to “conserve and restore natural ecosystems, focusing on birds, other wildlife, and their habitats”. At 700 acres, the sanctuary’s acreage has increased over time. Different areas of the land boast various points of interest, including areas thriving with native and wild plants, a glacial rockslide, a seasonal waterfall, and several meadows – habitats that unfortunately are becoming more rare in Connecticut. Next to the parking lot is an area known as the Medici Wildflower Meadow.

Parts of the trail, such as this wooden bridge, looked like something out of a storybook.

Bent of the River feels like you are in another world, and time has stopped. It’s peaceful and quiet, while at the same time gifting visitors with the melodic sounds of singing birds. With 34 sanctuaries across the United States, the Audubon Society is only the fourth to inhabit the land in Connecticut at Bent of the River. 

Eleazer Mitchell purchased land that now includes the Audubon sanctuary land, from the last chief of the Pootatuck Native Americans in the 1750’s; Mitchell Family Farm is still an active part of Southbury today.

In 1934, Althea and Howard Clark purchased five hundred acres. Althea was very conservationist-minded, and upon her death in 1992 bequeathed the land, along with its house and barn, to the Audubon. In 1993, visitation at the time was private, by appointment only.

In 2001, the “red barn“ became what is now “The Center”. The Sanctuary, now always open to the public, 363 days a year until sunset – is closed to visitors on only two days in the late fall and winter. The house is now home to the live-on caretaker of the property, the Land and Facilities Manager. 

On our recent visit, the first birds we noticed were a beautiful pair of ducks swimming along the Pomperaug River, the sound of the flowing water adding to the peacefulness. 

Along our walk, we stopped many times to take in all of the various natural beauty around us, sustainably maintained. Senior Center Manager, Robin Ladouceur, says there are “550 acres of mixed forest, with over 153 species of birds”.  Through special habitat management, The Center tries to “diversify the species of trees and manage shrubby meadows to aid early successional birds such as the blue winged warbler, the prairie warbler, indigo bunting, and field sparrow, to support bird nesting.” They also strive to rejuvenate the natural understory, due to grazing deer that also call the area home. 

Creatures besides birds call the Bent of the River sanctuary home. Visitors may also see muskrat, beaver, and mink along the river. 

There are many educational, scouting and volunteer opportunities to be found at The Center, as well. On the day we visited, Boy Scouts were camping, working on a badge. There are also various adult classes, and summer day camps for kids. Information is available at the Center or on the website.

We passed several other groups of hikers and families. One woman we met was sitting on a picnic bench at the barn, taking photos of one of the nearby birdfeeders. She marveled at how she had “never seen so many beautiful cardinals at one place”. 

It was a lovely time spent with my friend. After a few hours, we headed back to the car, refreshed and rejuvenated from our visit. There is nothing as good for the soul as time spent in nature. I can’t wait to go back and bring my family to see what other birds, wildlife and flora are thriving, especially at various times of the year. The Audubon Center Bent of the River is truly a beautiful place!

I hope you enjoyed this visit! Wishing you all a beautiful Spring season! Remember to let me know that you were here by leaving me a comment below!

Hello, Suburban Farmgirl Friends! It’s officially “spring” now, and as the seasons change, I am reflecting on what a year it’s been…what a month it’s been…and what a WEEK it’s been! 

Since my last post just a month ago, so much has happened. In my neck of the woods, we have experienced two seasons’ weather, celebrated my birthday and Easter, and in just one week, we had sleet, snow, sun and 75 degrees, two Earthquakes and the Eclipse! How fast time flies, and things can change!

First off, congratulations to the winner of my drawing from last month’s blog post, Debbie. I hope you enjoy all the goodies heading your way!

As I write this, today marks one year to the day since our sweet chihuahua passed away at 15 years old (maybe older, we were never quite sure, as he was a rescue).

At only five pounds, he made up for his small stature with tons of personality. We have had pets “cross the rainbow bridge” before, but losing Pip was especially hard. Maybe it was because he was so small and delicate, or maybe because he was part of my daughter’s childhood. He was so deeply loved! His paws definitely left prints on our hearts, and we still feel his absence. I read recently that many companies are now adopting “pet bereavement”  policies for their employees, with a recent study finding that most of us who own pets consider them family. I think that’s wonderful! Our pets definitely are family!

On a happier note, the pup we adopted from our favorite rescue in fall of 2022 settled in well and stepped up to being the “baby” of the family! My daughter bought him an Easter basket this year from a local vet. Rescues really appreciate love and being spoiled! He was so happy, he “sang”!

It is said that if you don’t like the weather in New England, just wait a moment and it will change. That certainly has rung true recently. It seems like we have had a year of continuous rain. We’ve had so many cold, wet, rainy and overcast days in Connecticut the last year, that I was feeling a bit salty – wondering why everyone was getting so excited over an Eclipse, when it seems like it’s already always so dark!

Then, we started feeling warm days and sunnier weather with blooms starting to show. One morning last week, we woke up to beautiful, perfect spring weather. 

Then, we had sleet and snow. 

A day or so later, it was up to 75 degrees! It felt like summer! My little pup and I were so happy to hit our favorite walking trails. He looked like the King of the World as we took a break from our exercise. 

By Friday, it was back to more seasonal weather, still pretty nice but not quite so warm. That morning, my daughter was home and in the back room enjoying a late morning cup of coffee. I was just finishing putting up the Easter decor. I keep my vintage glass bunnies in a curio cabinet, since they’re so delicate. Just as I was placing them in the cabinet, I heard what sounded like a very large dump truck go by the house, but then the sound did not pass, feeling like it was coming closer, like a rolling wave. 

Suddenly, the shelves of the curio rattled, the light fixture swung side to side, and the entire house shook with the sound of rattling glass! It took a minute for the shaking to subside, and it scared us all as we tried to register what had just happened. Thankfully, nothing was broken. 

We learned later that we experienced a 4.8 earthquake, something of that magnitude we don’t normally feel here in New England, felt from New Jersey and up. It was interesting that my chickens refused to come out of the coop that morning; I assumed they had heard a hawk or other predator. As soon as the quake subsided, they marched out of the coop, business as usual. A second quake of magnitude 4.0 (with a different epicenter, so it was not considered an aftershock) occurred at 6 PM, but none of us felt that one. Still, it was some excitement, though my West Coast friends were amused at how shaken we were, (wink wink).

That Monday, the big, historical Eclipse was to occur.

Our family was all home together, so we made an event out of the day! My daughter bought us all Eclipse glasses, I made us a playlist of eclipse-themed music, and my husband fired up the backyard firepit, the first time this year. 

Our dogs seemed normal except for our little one who was more clingy than usual. Still, we left them inside for the day, just to be safe.

Outside, we roasted Smørrebrød, a tradition from Denmark – hot dogs wrapped in bread dough, roasted over a fire, and for dessert, old fashioned s’mores! We had not done that in years!

As the eclipse began, the birds stopped chirping, and the sunlight dimmed.

All was quiet except for one lone wild turkey strolling through the woods. We only went inside to check on our dogs, and to watch the live coverage of the eclipse in Texas and Maine. 

A neighbor up the street gave my daughter a special filter for taking pics of the eclipse using a phone, as he had extras. We had so much fun outside, watching the eclipse change, and took some really amazing photos. 

We were in the path of 91 percent totality (even though in our photos it looks dark), so the afternoon light only got “dusky”, as opposed to areas of total darkness. I can’t remember when we last enjoyed such a relaxing day outside by the fire, and it was a memorable day at our house.

In all, the eclipse was wonderful to witness. There is so much currently dividing so many, and it was nice to see us all excited, together. It was also nice to see everyone “look up”  from their phones for a change! 

Life’s definitely been exciting, as of late. I’m also looking forward to warmer temperatures.

I’m also looking forward to all the good things that come with the warmer season’s arrival in New England – things such as gardening, farm stands, farmers markets and fairs. Inside, my seeds are started, ready for another season of fresh vegetables, straight from the garden. Outside, everyday something more pops alive with blooms, and we see more and more green – promises of another spring and summer! What a year it’s been!

Thanks for popping by the blog today! Hope you are enjoying your spring. Leave me a comment and let me know how things are going in your neck of the woods!

Spring has sprung for many of you, dear readers. However, in my part of the country, winter hasn’t quite let go just yet. Even if Mother Nature graces us with some early spring-like days, we usually get a cold snap around St. Patty’s Day, and nothing really starts blooming until April. I’m finding myself with a case of floral fever! 

I love flowers and floral patterns! Every room of my house has some nod to flowers and plants – be it a picture, a textile, or a plant. I think living in a cold climate makes me an even bigger fan of florals. I have lived most of my life in Connecticut, yet in my memories I can still clearly see the wildflowers in the Texas hill country from when I was small. A field of Texas wildflowers is a sight I will always miss. 

Living in New England, I appreciate blooming trees and plants now even more, and especially love flowers. I look forward to my favorite flowers blooming each spring, signaling the end of winter’s rest. 

While I love all flowers, my favorite flowers are peonies. I just love their big, fluffy blooms that remind me of an old-fashioned petticoat.

Blooming in cooler climates, peonies have a short bloom time, and can be delicate, losing their petals in a heavy rain. Even so, the scent of a peony is Heavenly! 

One event that we look forward to each year is the Connecticut Flower and Garden show. It’s usually at the end of February, and is a sign that the end of winter is near. There are vendors of all sorts, plants, and beautiful displays. Held at the Connecticut Convention Center, it is so exciting to go up the large stairway and into the doors where it is a gardener’s proverbial candy store! This year did not disappoint.

We had a wonderful time at the show this year, but my most favorite booth this year was that of a local artist from Westport, Connecticut, Kerstin Rao. Her booth was so bright and happy! My daughter bought me a beautiful tote bag, featuring a stunning bouquet of peonies, as an early birthday present.

Sketching all the time as a child, Kerstin Rao was known in school for her drawings. Originally from Minnesota, Kerstin moved to Kentucky when she was in the third grade, when her college-professor parents moved to the state for positions. An art major in college, when Kerstin moved to New York in the 1980’s, she realized at the time the New York City art trend was grunge and dark – the complete opposite of Kerstin, whose art was more delicate and cheerful. (Kerstin herself is a sunny breath of fresh air). Knowing she had to make a living, a sculptor friend suggested that Kerstin try teaching. She loved it from day one, and teaching became her calling. 

Using art as a way to engage and explain to her students, Kerstin was an educator for 34 years, teaching in inner-city schools, and eventually ending up in Westport, Connecticut in 1999. 

It was during the lockdown of March 2020 that Kerstin found her second calling, creating the art that now graces her beautiful totes, tea towels and note cards.

When the Westport Farmers’ Market carefully reopened, the first thing Kerstin bought was  a beautiful fresh flower bouquet from Kristin Burrello’s Muddy Feet Flower Farm. (Her bouquets and fresh flowers are amazing)!

Looking at that first purchased bouquet in the breezeway of her home, Kerstin pulled out her sketchpad. Kerstin began sketching bouquets she purchased each week from Kristin, loving the shapes and colors. She would lose herself in drawing, leaving behind the tension and worry of the Pandemic. Kerstin says she feels she “vanished into a world of natural beauty.”

After posting her sketches on Facebook, Kerstin received lots of encouragement and requests for items like greeting cards, and the rest is history! Kristin’s flowers inspired her, and she helped Kerstin as a sounding board, as Kerstin left teaching in her late 50’s to become a woman business owner of Vivid Cottage. Kerstin says “bouquets are a tiny world”, and “every bouquet is a fresh opportunity for adventure as an artist.”

To me, flowers are also medicine for the soul. I’m looking forward to spring, summer and fall blooms. 

Until then, I will enjoy my bag, my flowery dresses, and other florals. And to help YOU with floral fever, I put together a little floral-themed giveaway: flowery note cards, a cute little hanging sign, flower seed packets, floral emery boards, and beautiful floral seals. One reader this month will be randomly chosen from the comments, so don’t forget to let me know that you stopped by!