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Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things that you didn’t do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover.
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~ Mark TwainDebbie Bosworth
is a certified farmgirl at heart. She’s happily married to her beach bum Yankee husband of 20 years. She went from career gal to being a creative homeschooling mom for two of her biggest blessings and hasn’t looked back since. Debbie left her lifelong home in the high desert of Northern Nevada 10 years ago and washed up on the shore of America’s hometown, Plymouth, MA, where she and her family are now firmly planted. They spend part of each summer in a tiny, off–grid beach cottage named “The Sea Horse.”
“I found a piece of my farmgirl heart when I discovered MaryJanesFarm. Suddenly, everything I loved just made more sense! I enjoy unwinding at the beach, writing, gardening, and turning yard-sale furniture into ‘Painted Ladies’ I’m passionate about living a creative life and encouraging others to ‘make each day their masterpiece.’”
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Being a farmgirl is not
about where you live,
but how you live.Rebekah Teal
is a “MaryJane Farmgirl” who lives in a large metropolitan area. She is a lawyer who has worked in both criminal defense and prosecution. She has been a judge, a business woman and a stay-at-home mom. In addition to her law degree, she has a Masters of Theological Studies.
“Mustering up the courage to do the things you dream about,” she says, “is the essence of being a MaryJane Farmgirl.” Learning to live more organically and closer to nature is Rebekah’s current pursuit. She finds strength and encouragement through MaryJane’s writings, life, and products. And MaryJane’s Farmgirl Connection provides her a wealth of knowledge from true-blue farmgirls.
Column contents © Rebekah Teal. All rights reserved.
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Keep close to Nature’s heart … and break clear away once in awhile to climb a mountain or spend a week in the woods, to wash your spirit clean.
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~ John MuirCathi Belcher
an old-fashioned farmgirl with a pioneer spirit, lives in the White Mountains of New Hampshire. As a “lifelong learner” in the “Live-Free-or-Die” state, she fiercely values self-reliance, independence, freedom, and fresh mountain air. Married to her childhood sweetheart of 40+ years (a few of them “uphill climbs”), she’s had plenty of time to reinvent herself. From museum curator, restaurant owner, homeschool mom/conference speaker, to post-and-beam house builder and entrepreneur, she’s also a multi-media artist, with an obsession for off-grid living and alternative housing. Cathi owns and operates a 32-room mountain lodge. Her specialty has evolved to include “hermit hospitality” at her rustic cabin in the mountains, where she offers weekend workshops of special interest to women.
“Mountains speak to my soul, and farming is an important part of my heritage. I want to pass on my love of these things to others through my writing. Living in the mountains has its own particular challenges, but I delight in turning them into opportunities from which we can all learn and grow.”
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Wherever you go, no matter the weather, always bring your own sunshine.
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~ Anthony J. D’AngeloDori Troutman
Dori Troutman is the daughter of second generation cattle ranchers in New Mexico. She grew up working and playing on the ranch that her grandparents homesteaded in 1928. That ranch, with the old adobe home, is still in the family today. Dori and her husband always yearned for a ranch of their own. That dream came true when they retired to the beautiful green rolling hills of Tennessee. Truly a cattleman’s paradise!
Dori loves all things farmgirl and actually has known no other life but that. She loves to cook, craft, garden, and help with any and all things on their cattle farm.
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Shery Jespersen
Previous Ranch Farmgirl,
Oct 2009 – Nov 2013Wyoming cattle rancher and outpost writer (rider), shares the “view from her saddle.” Shery is a leather and lace cowgirl-farmgirl who’s been horse-crazy all of her life. Her other interests include “junktiques,” arts and crafts, glamping, collecting antique china, and cultivating mirth.
Mary Murray
describes herself as a goat charmer, chicken whisperer, bee maven, and farmers’ market baker renovating an 1864 farmhouse on an Ohio farm. With a degree in Design, Mary says small-town auctions and country road barn sales "always make my heart skip a beat thinking about what I could create or design out of what I’ve seen.”
Rooted in the countryside, she likes simple things and old ways … gardening, preserving the harvest, cooking, baking, and all things home. While you might find her selling baked goods from the farm’s milkhouse, teaching herself to play the fiddle, or sprucing up a vintage camper named Maizy, you will always find her in an apron!
Mary says, “I’m happiest with the simple country pleasures … an old farmhouse, too many animals, a crackling fire, books to read, and the sound of laughter … these make life just perfect.”
Column contents © Mary Murray. All rights reserved.
Farmgirl
is a condition
of the heart.Alexandra Wilson
is a budding rural farmgirl living in Palmer, the agricultural seat of Alaska. Alex is a graduate student at Alaska Pacific University pursuing an M.S. in Outdoor and Environmental Education. She lives and works on the university’s 700 acre environmental education center, Spring Creek Farm. When Alex has time outside of school, she loves to rock climb, repurpose found objects, cross-country ski on the hay fields, travel, practice yoga, and cook with new-fangled ingredients.
Alex grew up near the Twin Cities and went to college in Madison, Wisconsin—both places where perfectly painted barns and rolling green farmland are just a short drive away. After college, she taught at a rural middle school in South Korea where she biked past verdant rice paddies and old women selling home-grown produce from sidewalk stoops. She was introduced to MaryJanesFarm after returning, and found in it what she’d been searching for—a group of incredible women living their lives in ways that benefit their families, their communities, and the greater environment. What an amazing group of farmgirls to be a part of!
Column contents © Alexandra Wilson. All rights reserved.
Libbie Zenger
Previous Rural Farmgirl,
June 2010 – Jan 2012Libbie’s a small town farmgirl who lives in the high-desert Sevier Valley of Central Utah on a 140-year-old farm with her husband and two darling little farmboys—as well as 30 ewes; 60 new little lambs; a handful of rams; a lovely milk cow, Evelynn; an old horse, Doc; two dogs; a bunch o’ chickens; and two kitties.
René Groom
Previous Rural Farmgirl,
April 2009 – May 2010René lives in Washington state’s wine country. She grew up in the dry-land wheat fields of E. Washington, where learning to drive the family truck and tractors, and “snipe hunting,” were rites of passage. She has dirt under her nails and in her veins. In true farmgirl fashion, there is no place on Earth she would rather be than on the farm.
Farmgirl spirit can take root anywhere—dirt or no dirt.
Nicole Christensen
Suburban Farmgirl Nicole Christensen calls herself a “vintage enthusiast”. Born and raised in Texas, she has lived most of her life in the picturesque New England suburbs of Connecticut, just a stone’s throw from New York State. An Advanced Master Gardener, she has gardened since childhood, in several states and across numerous planting zones. In addition, she teaches knitting classes, loves to preserve, and raises backyard chickens.
Married over thirty years to her Danish-born sweetheart, Nicole has worked in various fields, been a world-traveler, an entrepreneur and a homemaker, but considers being mom to her now-adult daughter her greatest accomplishment. Loving all things creative, Nicole considers her life’s motto to be “Bloom where you are planted”.
Column contents © Nicole Christensen. All rights reserved.
Paula Spencer
Previous Suburban Farmgirl,
October 2009 – October 2010Paula is a mom of four and a journalist who’s partial to writing about common sense and women’s interests. She’s lived in five great farm states (Michigan, Iowa, New York, Tennessee, and now North Carolina), though never on a farm. She’s nevertheless inordinately fond of heirloom tomatoes, fine stitching, early mornings, and making pies. And sock monkeys.
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But, I Don't Want to Be Maxine …

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Grandma will be teary too when she reads this. It is wonderful that you have warm and fuzzy family and friend memories.
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This made me laugh out loud! Thanks.
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Rene, I, too, had a grandmother that lived a really rough life, but never complained. She started out in a soddy and came up from there. She died when I was a teenager and I miss her still. Grandpa was the same for me. He was a gentleman in every sense of the word. I never knew my father’s side of the family since he died when I was an infant. I often wonder what it would have been like to have him around.
Bless you for your lady-like endeavors. We need more of that these days.
Betty in Pasco
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Rene –
Your insight is so fun – and so true…I too am surprised at the woman whose words come out of my own mouth – it is my voice, but it can’t be my words! I had to laugh at the fact that I know who Odie is.
Fun piece – a grand tribute to your grandma…well done!
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Renee darlin’ you aren’t the only one…and while I have some friends wh seem born Maxine’s and think it hilarious (when it’s really not) I can relate with you on the fear of becoming her. Age is supposed to soften us, right? Well, for some of us who feel we have seen, done, and lived thru too much, it’s just eaier to live with an expectation of disappointment. I am the sort that doesn’t let them get too close so that they have less opportunity of doing so…but I have found that I disappoint myself! *U* So, I have decided to pray for the love of Christ in my heart to love people for me. I simply can’t do it. I don’t think there’s much to be done about the "girls hanging down" at this point besides a dreadful surgery I’m not willing to go thru. Besides, I could buy so many chickens, goats, sheep, etc. with that kind of $$$!
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As always, you made me laugh out loud especially when I think back of how often lately my "outside voice" is talking instead of my calm "inside voice". Maxine is definately alive and well in many of us with the pace of our harried lives. It all goes back to your thoughts on "Refueling" and I believe simplifying to be able to find what we truly need to find that sense of balance.
Thanks again for making us laugh while we are still shaking our heads in agreement because it touches us in our every day lives! Keep smiling!
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Beautifully written from the Heart Rene’…
This Bloggie will ring a familiar "Bell" in anyone, and would likely make Grandma Doris *Smile*…
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As usual, God answered your prayer before you even spoke it. You are not Maxine – not yet, anyway. You are way too funny and way too pretty. I do love your blog and will keep coming back, and let me tell you, that’s saying A LOT because I typically don’t read blogs – not any. Keep writing Rene’. I feel like I’ve made a new friend.
Marilyn,
Thank you for you kindness. I love to write and I am especially glad when it speaks to others. Thanks for letting me know that I am not Maxine yet, I keep beating her off with a stick :)… friends indeed!
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What a blessing to have those women in our lives to be examples of goodness and optimism–and to have others treat us way more graciously than our Maxine-like tendencies deserve!
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It is an extra tough Monday morning for me. Thank you for sharing a peice of your life. I am the one on the other end of the adoption. My daughter is 10, we home school so
working is just a part of her life. We moved onto this little 5 acre farm 2 1/2 years ago. We adopted her when she was 6, but she had been with us since 9 mo. Your writing causes me to wish I could have one day of your time.
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My Granny was 5 foot tall and weighed 98 pounds with a soaking weight towel on her. Her silver hair reached to the ground. She wore it in a beauitful braid warpped around her head. Her life was hard. We lived in Oklahoma at the time and she had gone thru war times, dust bowls, and she never complained. I too am adopted. One of her sons, was my dad. They were so happy when I came along. She lived by the farmers almanac. I have seen her eat buttermilk and cornbread for supper for that was all she had. Her garden grew better than any ones. Her vegtables were all organiac. Before it was popular. Vinegar is the best cleanner. She loved ice cream. You are right I dont want to be Maxine. I want to by my granny.
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The Cost of Re-fueling

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Rene….
How true this is. I just recently returned from a refueling trip to Boston where I met one of my greatest friends! She had flown in from Colorado and I had driven in from Syracuse and we were there to refuel and celebrate her 40th. For that short weekend, we just laughed and toured and acted like tourists with no cares in the world. On the drive home, I realized that I have too often left myself last on the list of To Do’s. This trip reminded me how important it is to move me up on the list. Thanks for the great writing and the simple way that you seem to capture the spirit of all of us out there! I love reading your blog and look forward to every new entry!Thanks Charlotte~
Glad you took the time to re-fuel!
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My heart lurched when I saw Spokane River and camping. I grew up in the Spokane Valley and the river was a big part of my life. Skipping school (oops) and spending the day on the rocks, riding bikes with my best friend and sunning ourselves on an old dock on the river, feeling the roar of the falls and the spray on my face, rafting down the river, fishing,and on and on. Thanks for the pictures, I felt myself unwind with you. I live in MN now, land of 10,000 lakes and don’t get back very often. Thank you for jogging my memories.
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What a lovely wisdom-filled post! Thanks for sharing it. Warmly, Cathy ^..^
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Oh Rene’,
So glad you were able to join us for "re-fueling".
It really was wonderful to have you join us.
I have sat many an afternoon…"decompressing" at one of the picnic benches near the waters edge,,,,much needed as a California transplant.
Isn’t it amazing how we can cram 30 hours of "stuff" in a
24-hour day!?! That’s why taking time (re-fueling) for ourselves is very thereputic.
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This is such an important post, and I so related! Just a month ago, I had my refueling escape when I went to my 25th high school reunion. The gift of being away from the daily responsibilities of home and kids, and especially being with dear, dear girlfriends: nothing like it. I came home so renewed that my husband was telling friends that I should go away more often (this was the longest I’d ever left my two kids, 4 and nearly 8.) Now I just have to see if I can hold him to it! A next get-together with some of those HS friends is already on the books for next month–I cannot wait. This time, I’m hoping some of them will come to me, to see the natural beauty of the rural place I’m lucky enough to call home. Though I won’t leave my chores behind on this visit, I’ll get to share them with my sister-friends, and I suspect that doing so will cast them in a new light–I’ll let you know!
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My life is like holding on to the wagging tail of dog. Once in awhile I just have to let go…. the dog always comes back…..
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Wow! Can I ever relate to the idea of decompressing for a few days, and recharging my batteries. These days, I tend to head over to Old Sturbridge Village in Sturbridge, Mass. I’m a member, so I go several time a year. Being a history buff, it’s great to take that giant step back to a much simpler time, and just bask in the peace and quite. My long-range plan for when I am Finally retired, is to volunteer as a costumed interpreter. For me, the two hour drive would be as nothing to the fun and satistaction of interacting with visators, especially the kids, telling them about the village and it’s time in history. That would be like a perpetual vacation. Ahh! I always feel better when I come back from one of my weekend jaunts to the village.
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Thank you Renee! I needed the re-fuel reminder! I have been contemplating how much I want to get away for a few days but..how oh how with all the things to do! You’ve inspired me to just do it!
Cassandra,
I hope you do. I have found that life seems easier with a "full-tank".
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This completely reflects my previous email to you. I too, am finding it okay, to just "be". Although, I have to be reminded as well! Your writing is lovely. Thank you for the mini mind vacation!
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Just two weeks ago came back from a rejuvenating hike in the mountain of Cathedral Gorge south of Ely, Nevada. The magic of the entire park is imprinted in my soul forever. The pics can be seen here:
http://www.flickr.com/photos/crudeco/3596500767/
The wonder of our natural surroundings still un captured by so many people, so many of us have know idea of what our America has to offer, and usuallly for free.
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I just enjoyed two weeks of visiting out west (and MaryJane’s store). Coming from the Southeast where everyone is crowded and homes, much of the time, are side-by-side I realized how small things are in the "vast-ness" of the beautiful views of Wyoming, Montana, and Idaho as we drove through. It made me think much about what SEEMS important and what IS important. Like you said, the trip home was harder than I thought it would be. I’m missing it already.
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Beautifully said/written Rene’…
Your words ring True, and have been echoed throughout the Ages. Reserving (not "taking") time for our Spiritual regeneration, and sharing that time with Family and Friends, is an act that centers all the other parts of our Lives.
Yes, I can purchase a box and flip a switch and the troubles of the World will flood into my Home, but that doesn’t mean they belong there, and as for the weather report, well it’s right on the other side of my front door ‘eh.
This time we reserve is the essence of Sabbath, and there is a ancient Jewish saying about Tradition: "When you swap Tradition for "progress", you often wind up with neither."
GodSpeed to Y’all…!
Gary
in TampaI love that Gary, Thank You! I think I will stitch it onto a pillow 🙂 thanks for sharing it!
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As a writer who also works from my home farm, the wife of a husband whose recently had two major heart attacks, and the chief-operator of this 15 acre homestead, I can totally relate to your analogy about the cart going downhill out of control….I’ve read and reread your experience on the river and I thank you for "taking me there" with you for just a little while via your wonderful writing…Tonight I especially needed to "refuel" and you have helped!!!
Suzy,
I am glad that my writtings could help a little. We all need refueling from time to time.
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Rene!
Thank you for sharing and the the photos are great! I could almost hear the rushing of the water! Refueling is exactly what I need! This drove that point home. Blessings from the south, as we both continue to reach our goal of filling our life "tank" with all the right stuff!Lauren
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Rene, you are so right. I had the most wonderful time with my girlfriends that weekend! We just had a ball and laughed until we cried, both of which are very healing! The Farmchicks show has become an annual get-away for us and the bonus this year was being able to meet you and Maryjane and the sister’s on the fly group. I left a message at home that night that it was "the best day of my life"!!!!!! getting away and distancing yourself from everyday life makes one appreciate that life even more, for me anyway! Getting away is great, but coming back home, to that cozy little nest, is even better.
Thank you for your hospitality and for letting us drop in on your camp! It was a joyous visit and a wonderful memory that will always be close to the surface of my heart! thanks for being a part of that!!Holly
Holly,
It was a joy to meet you and the girls as well. I hope we will see you at MaryJanesFarm Fair July 3-5th!
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Friends ~ From Rags to Riches

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Great post Renee, and I must say, you gals in Prosser have the greatest community ever! Not hard to make friends there at all! Love it! Hey! Where’s my blog? It’s not on your sidebar. I’m pouting.
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Once again, nicely written! You indeed are a special person and you deserve to have special friends. You know the saying you reap what you sew, for you that includes your friendships.
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Very well said/written Rene’…
Our Friends, though few in number, are a vital resource in Life. We nuture, encourage, kid and prod, and help each other to be our Best. While they may not always say what we want to hear, they can be Trusted to tell us the Truth (as they see it), and vice versa.
Over the decades, many "friends" have morphed into acquaintainces in my Life, as have I in theirs, however five have emerged as Lifetime Friends, and for them I am Eternally Grateful.
GodSpeed to Y’all…!
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Rene’, I was very moved by your story. I lost my very best friend in the late seventies. I have often thought what it would have been like if she were alive.For many years I was afraid to get really close to my girlfriends. I finally realized My friend who passed would not want me to live that way, she was such a giving and thoughtful person. I now have several really good friends and one I consider my best. We encourage each other and we both know it’s never too late to call if we need one another. Good friends are truly one life’s greatest treasures. And on a not so sappy note and gotta go pick peas ! Love to all, Suzy (Texas)
Hey Suzy,
Not sappy at all… Sorry about the loss.. I know how they can leave those life scars…You’re right though she would want you to have friends as they make life so much richer…..
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Kids will be Kids

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Hi Rene’. I just received my first issue of MaryJane’s magazine….just love it! Your note made me think of my last visit with my l yr old granddaughter. I read a picture book of farm animals to her, making all the sounds of the animals. some she tried to repeat after me. Then we went to her mom’s chicken coop and she showed us the baby chicks. I then repeated the "peep-peep" of the chick, and the look on her face, when she realized I was making the sound of the chicks in the book! She gave us a big smile and laughed. It was cute to see her connect the story with the real thing. She then took one little finger, to pat the baby chick. I just love being a grandma! (I grew up in an old farmhouse in CT…and like you my early years were not without some real pain. But having grandchildren (5 in all) helps make up for it…and I feel like a kid again with them!
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This is a little bitter sweet. I hope that we will be able to always laugh and play like children, even at 72! 🙂
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Wonderful Bloggie Rene’…!
Your photos capture the sense of High Adventure, which enriches the lives of Country Boys and Girls.
I remember vividly going to the barn long before dawn and milking… rolling the cans down to the road on a cart to be picked up by the Dairy truck, and picking up yesterday’s empties with milk money envelope inside, while Ganny gathered eggs. Breakfast from Ganny’s cast iron wood stove, with a pitcher of still warm milk and bowl of ice cracked from the block in the ice chest on the table.
Thank You for the walk down Memory Lane…! and…
GodSpeed to Y’all…!
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Oh Rene,
So true!
I taught Pre-school for 10 years and I truly believe that children need to be children…they grow up soon enough and have to deal w/the issues of life,,,but for now let them play!
There are days when I am out in my ‘garden of weedin’ all grimmy & stinky and I think,,,Ah! it feels good to be a kid again!.
We as a society are losing sight of "teaching Children how to play", not just computer games but actually get outside with a brown paper bag, fill it w/nature stuff, dump the goodies on a table to assess their finds and then glue all those wonderful goodies on an old ceral box that has been cut into squares perfect for holding mini pinecones, twiggs, leaves, snail shells…well you get the picture…In fact I think parents miss out on one of the most wonderful joys & blessings,,,,playing outside in the sunshine with their children….on that note I think I will go out side & be a kid again,,,,I know, I know, don’t slam the screen door!
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I’m admire you for not letting your formative years determine who you are. So many suffer all their lives over a tragic childhood instead of working to put it behand them and creating a new "me". Kudos.
Hedy,
Thank You for that! I feel blessed that I learned, somewhere along the way, that I get to wake up every day and choose who I am and what my life and the life I live will be like and look like. Often, I think we forget that "we" are in the drivers seat. We have a section in the MaryJane Magazines called "Every Woman has a story". And nothing is more true. We all have one and either we are writing it… or we are allowing someone else too. I just decided to pick up my own pen… Blessings to you!
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I love the story…. and I love the last photo….. that is so him…. thanks for sharing….
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Wonderful post! Can’t wait to talk with you face to face Saturday *U*
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Wonderful story!! 5 of my 7 children are adopted…all from backgrounds that were very awful…none as infants, and I am amazed and inspired by them each day.It is wonderful to hear from an adopted kid’s side how things are and to see what a great person you turned out to be!
Summertime is a wonderful time to see them really cut loose and be kids..and what kids!!!
I LOVE that my oldest daughter’s NAME is Summer (wish I had picked that myself!!!)What a fun season to be named for, right? It really fits her too! I work at an elementary school and love that I am off work when the kids are out of school..we work together in the garden and play together…fishing, and exploring. I guess Moms will be kids too, right?Jenny,
I think I do the mom thing "best" when I am willing to look at life through the eyes of my children.
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Great blog, Rene. I was blessed with one child (now 28 years old). She has taught me much about life. She has been a very patient teacher by the way. I could only have one, so I love life everyday knowing that she is in it, regardless of what may happen. To look at how she has responded to the environment and others around her showed me lessons in freedom and being spontaneous and what love is really about.
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Love it Rene’,
But its not only the kids that look forward to summer vacation.
I remember when my girls were young and I couldn’t wait for school to be out. No more schedules, no more tears while one of them struggled with home work.
And the freedom for them to do, and be, whatever they chose everyday.
My girls and the neighborhood kids would put on elaborate stage plays ( think "Annie") where casting and rehearsals would take weeks of their time and we parents were rewarded with big Kodak moments when they finally had opening night in August.
The best part about summer for me was once again being the most influential person in their lives, at least for a few months, I didn’t have to compete with teachers and scout leaders, etc.
Oh, for those carefree days
MicheleMichele~ SO true. I am one of those moms too.. Love the more relaxes scheduels that come with the summers.
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I just got my first magazine and I love it – it is so much like me. I love growing my own food, raising chickens, letting my kids run around all summer barefoot, hanging sheets on the line and living a slower paced lifestyle. This magazine suits me just fine!! My dream is to one day have my own working farm and orchards and have all my kids and their kids help me around the farm! Great job on MaryJanes’s Farm!
Thanks Missy!
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I just got my first magazine and I love it – it is so much like me. I love growing my own food, raising chickens, letting my kids run around all summer barefoot, hanging sheets on the line and living a slower paced lifestyle. This magazine suits me just fine!! My dream is to one day have my own working farm and orchards and have all my kids and their kids help me around the farm! Great job on MaryJanes’s Farm!
Thanks Missy!
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First Loves

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What a great entry…..my daughter is 8 and just started riding. I thought I was going to the farm for her and I found myself falling in love with the horses almost more than she has! There is definately something special there….a kind of peace to the rhythm of life.
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At five years old, I convinced my parents to let me ride a horse, while at an uncle’s farm. I was ever changed and knew that a farm,the country, a garden, horses, chickens, goats, cats and dogs were in my future! Our horses are gone now, of old age, but they remain a highlight to my life!
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My first love, or my first horse – My first love was named Billy and he was the tall boy (at least I thought so at age 6) and in 8th grade – I was in 1st. He was the oldest at our little country school on my father’s ranch and I was one of the youngest – along with his sister, Rosa Bell. They rode horses to school and I admired him greatly as he was always rescueing us from some misadventure during recess. I am sure he never knew of my crush, but it filled my daydreams brimming full during weekends and vacations.
My first horse was tall (he really was a Thoroughbred) and a red sorrel with one white hind foot and a star in his forehead. Fox had been my father’s horse, and then my mother’s and then mine. He guided me through my first rodeo performance, many roundups, a few budding romances, hot days of searching for favorite fishing or swimming holes and many times down at the shop for a shoeing job. I can still smell the warm horsey fragrance of his neck and feel the softness of his nose as we nuzzled each other. He was patient while I grew until I could get a foot in the stirrup without a stump or corral rail to stand on. I will always remember how he pranced after a good tail pulling session and can still feel his stride as we rode the dusty trails of our Wyoming home.
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Excellent Bloggie Rene"…!
My Mom and Pop got me a Shetland pony, "Buckshot", when I was 5 years old, and built him a tiny barn in our field. They always made sure I had Critters in my Life, and for that effort, I am eternally Grateful.
Our relationships with Critters hold a Special place in our Heart… a place where even Family can seldom go… it is the Domain of God himself… Unconditional Love.
GodSpeed to Y’all…!
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Oh my gosh Rene’!! It’s like you were reiterating my love story to the letter. My first horsey love was Chief. From the moment I saw him, I knew I had to have him. We had an amazing connection with each other. I miss him dearly! Thanks for your post!
~Heather
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I got a pony when I was 4 years old. His name was "Beanie". My dad bought him for me and to bring him home my dad walked in front of him leading all the way home 4 miles with me riding him………. I was in little girls heaven. I loved my dad for moments like that. Thanks, for bringing back the memories.
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I too have a love affair with horses. First my mare, and then when she gave birth to a beautiful filly, I was totally smitten. She’s 4 years old now, and there’s nothing better than a kiss & a hug from my Lillianna! They soothe the weary soul & renew the spirit!
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I remember so clearly when my Dad put side stakes on the borrowed pick-up truck and drove thru the night, to purchase my horse, when this 10 year old girl awoke the next morning, there was "Silver", saddle, bridle, blanket all for $75. Silver was white, big Roman nose, brown ears, 20+years, but oh how I loved him. I could lay in the manger and he would eat hay around me!
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hi rene, my first horse was named princess,it was a blond palimino,how i loved her…have a great day,ive been working a lot havent got to read you blog for weeks, going trough withdrawal ha, carol branum
Thanks Carol.. Love those Palimino’s…. Love them!
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As a young girl my dream was to own a horse. When my family moved to my Mother’s home area of rural MN my sister and I started saving for our first horse. Our stepfather worked construction and saved his change for us each week. I remember the coin holders similar to the coin folders that collectors use. It was in the shape of an owl for wise savers. We filled those folders with dimes each week and dreamed of our horse. One day we found a horse for sale for $100. She was a paint/quarter horse named Gypsy. The problem was we only had $90 so my stepfather gave us the other $10 (in reality he supplied all the money with all his change each week.) We did not own a saddle so we learned to ride bare back. The problem was we were small and she was large. We would stand on a 55 gallon barrel to mount her. One day Gypsy had a baby filly that we named Tonka. My little sister became the owner of Tonka and became a prize winning rider. She broke Tonka on her own while Tonka broke her foot twice due to the fact we never wore shoes in the summer. These are wonderful memories where all the kids in the neighborhood (five mile radius) would get together, pack a lunch and ride horse all day. Our parents never knew where we were all day but no one ever worried about kids being harmed. My sister is gone now but the memories of all the fun we had because of a $100 horse are still there.
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I too am in love with horses. Have not had one to call my own yet but I will not give up hope for a big four-legged best friend.~ ~Ahrisha~ ~
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Rene’—-you are a fantastic writer! When I first started reading your story I thought of my yearling, Jo-Jo Thunder, then my "it’s complicated" boyfriend….I figure I’ve got my priorities straight!
I work to feed my three babies (angels in fur coats) & myself but would never consider that a burden. There’s no equal to wrapping your arms around their sinewy, sleek neck, tangling your fingers in a silky mane, feeling the warmth of their flesh and that soft, wet nuzzle on the back of your neck that sends tingles racing up and down…and then the nickering….just heard them now….must be that sacred connection & carrot time…gotta go. They hold my heart and, yes Gary in Tampa, I resonate with your thoughts that God gave them to me/us to teach His unconditional love. XO -
I remember bringing home my first love from Kooskia, Idaho,it seemed like the longest drive back home to Moscow to get her home! My neck still hurts from turning around to make sure she was still in the back of the truck on that dark rainy night. Sheba turned into my best friend and raised me up all the way out of high school before she finally passed on tho that big cloverfield in the sky. to this day even 15 years after shes been gone I miss her tons.
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Nice article.
Barb Scott
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Lessons from the Garden

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How fortunate you are to have a neighbor who could gently guide you to the wise ways with grapes and how lucky for this reader to be reminded just how this applies to life. So true, so true. Here’s to quality and true joy in each day’s opportunities.
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I just can’t tell you how much I needed this post today. Truly, truly needed it. From one gardener to another, thanks for helping me keep some things in perspective. I think I love you. 😉
Isnt that an old partiridge song? I think I love you but what am so afraid of.. I afraid that Im not sure of a love there is no cure for…. Now you have Rebekah and I singing that stupid song….. thanks! :)..
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What a profound thought. I love your view of life. Thanks for sharing!
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Brilliant Bloggie Rene’…!
Your "Grapevine-Parable" is very thought provoking and well spoken/written. Life is much like a grapevine, and yours appears to be very productive young Lady.
Your grapevine photos are beautiful, and since they live hundreds of years, one day your Grandchildren may tend that same vine, speaking of you, as they harvest fruit you planted today.
Beautiful… just Beautiful…
GodSpeed to Y’all…!
Gary
in TampaThanks Gary, I keep my clippers sharp LOL 🙂
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That was wonderful, I didn’t expect it, yet it was just what I needed. And, like Gary said, please write your book! Linda
Thanks Linda.. all the encouragement has been such a gift!
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Thanks Rene. I needed to be reminded of these same lessons for myself while listening, crying, and talking with a sister that is currently going through divorce after 38 years of marriage. It is so hard to know what to say. I am learning much about listening, as you listened to someone wise about your vines.
Reba,
I am so sorry to hear about your sister. Such pain. I went thru ti with my little sister a couple years ago, as much as we would like to wish that there would be some magic pill for the pain they are in, there simply isnt. But healing does come. Often times just listening IS the medicine they need.
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Wow Rene- I just love your blogs.
When I turned 29, I was kind of bummed that it was my last 20th birthday and that being 30 soon, I would officially be an "adult".(other people would view me as an "adult") I just didn’t feel that I had made the most of my 20’s and was disappointed in myself for not taking advantage of those years. So I made the decision to "prune" my life; Not be afraid to make big changes, Do what makes ME happy, makes me grow into the person I want to be, not necesarily the person others think I am or should be. It has been so liberating and I am happier now than I ever have been. Setting aside the fear of disappointing others has really made me get to know myself and truly enjoy my life. I am still a good employee and daughter and friend, I am just a better friend to myself than I ever have been in the past.
So like your grapes, I was doing pretty well as I was, but a good prune was in order to ensure the very best fruit had room to grow.Awesome! I am so impressed that you were able to learn that while young.. I am a "late bloomer" I suppose. It took me into my 40’s, but like you I am a happier and healthier person for it…
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Kudos!!! Love, love, love it! Now we all just need to live it. 🙂
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Dear Rene, Reading your blogs this afternoon made me aware again how things can clutter our lives and rob us of our peace. My husband and I are moving for awhile to Montana to care for our new grand-baby. While packing up needed things, for the next few months, I discovered so many unneeded things in every place I looked. So much stuff! Stuff filling every drawer, closet, and cubby there is to find. Pruning away the "stuff" has been a hard thing to do. (Thinking that I need all that Stuff) Finally I started bagging up all that unneeded stuff and put the bags out on the back porch to be given away. I’m a quilter and we quilters love fabric. Any 100 % cotton is like chocolate to a quilter. We love buying it, looking at it and sometimes even making a quilt with it. Purging fabric is like pruning your grape vines. It’s painful, but finally getting the bags out of the house to be given to a local church to make quilts for others, I looked around my house and felt renewed energy. Less clutter, more room to breathe. Thanks for the reminder that pruning or de-cluttering is fruitful, refreshing and liberating. Now, if I can resist going to the quilt shop. Thanks my new friend.
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I know too many people who live their lives the way they think other people expect them to.I always encourage them to be themselves and not let society dictate there path.It’s not an easy path to chose,be yourself is the best advice you can give someone but the hardest to follow.
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Oh Renee, what a great analogy….
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I, too, so hope you write your book!! I love the Chapter titles and could write my own stories right along with you! We are getting ready for a garage sale, and I find myself sincerely wanting to open up our entire house for people to walk through and take what they want! If only it could be so simple – I’m not sure my three young-ones would be appreciative that mom just wants to simplify!!! But, you are so, so correct that pruning away the negative and weighty items will just lead to more beautiful fruit in the end! Thank you for your ongoing direct, as well as sometimes subtle messages that reach our hearts!
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This has been a meaningful Blog. How hard it is to make the cuts later. And talking about clearing clutter. I had a house fire once and it all was gone instantly. What a spiritual experience. Things are replaceable, and to get rid of so much that isn’t needed, how cleansing. Even in relationships it is hard to make the cuts now, when able the fruit is so much better later.
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I think I am having a "god moment"! I just blogged about this the other day. How life is like gardening. I am allowing my inner farm girl to come out. Three years ago we bought a 120yr old farm house with a few acres. I have enjoyed planting and preserving and getting to know my farm girl neighbors. I have learned that when you work hard for something it is more appreciated and valued. And a simple life is a more refreshing one. Thank you for sharing your insights.
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What's New on the Horizon

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I have always like to watch wind turbines from the first time I saw them. It amazes me how people come up with such wonderful ideas and are able to make them come alive. I think they are beautiful when they are all turning in unison in the wind. They remind me of the little pin wheels I would hold while riding my bike down through the field headed to school so many years ago. My husband and I have often thought it would be an awesome idea to have one of our own to supplement our own electricity.
Nicely written!
Noeletta -
Good Bloggie Rene’…
I saw some in California, and when I was in College, we went to Boone, N.C. where they were testing one with a span equal to a 747 plane… it made a BIG "WOOOSH" when it swung ’round…
You’re right, there are pros and cons, but I’d whole heck of a lot see them on the horizion than a clear-cut strip mined Mountain, or God forbid… yet another nuclear abomination.
Yep… I’ll go with Wind.
GodSpeed to Y’all…!
Gary
in Tampa -
I was in Holland a few years ago and saw my first "wind farm". It was by the sea. I thought it was beautiful like some exotic field of flowers or an art installation. I was told that the people of the area were unhappy with it because it was ugly. I guess it is all in the eye of the beholder. However, in today,s world, ugly or not we should be thrilled to find new and better ways to harvest energy.
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Here in Maine wind turbines are a hotly debated topic also. I cringe to think of them on our pretty hills and in our treelines but I feel as you do…on the fence. Turbines mean jobs , clean energy, cleaner world. It seems as though everytime the prospect of planting a few comes up there is a group of people up in arms against them doing it. Many of these people are retired folks who moved in from other places and paid for their view dearly. Even though I cannot blame them for complaining and fighting progress in their area I also have to wonder if they would be so against them if they were being planted in their old home state.
We were in Aroostook county (The County it is so big)recently and there a few farms there that have put up one or two for personal use.In a way they were restful to watch and the skyline in The County is a lot like the skylines in parts of the West. Long and clean and goes on forever.
We desperately need to become independent of foreign oil/energy so I guess I am going to bite the bullet on this one. Like everything else that has changed in Maine I will get used to seeing them I am sure. Hopefully they will add to our lovely state and not detract from its beauty.I am far more upset with the logging practices here than I am a wind turbine farm.
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Hello, can you please post some more information on this topic? I would like to read more.
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You have all spoken so eloquently–about a topic so very important. Here in VT the governor is largely opposed as they disrupt the views. Yet he totally supports extending VT Yankee and not requiring the owner to put any more money into the decommissioning fund in spite of there being not nearly enough money in it. As it stands Entergy will be shutting down and leaving the state with a horrible mess to deal with. I would far and away rather see wind turbines than know I am polluting the environment into eternity, never mind into the next generation! Nuclear is NOT green and I am sick of the hype saying it is!
I have loved gazing at wind turbines. There is something awesome about knowing they are entirely independent of foreign oil and are not leaving anything lethal in their wake.
Thanks to all of the above people for some thoughtful reading.
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My hubby & I have just come back from a great vacation to South Dakota and Minnesota. We stayed off the interstates and took back roads all the way from Colorado. Coming up over the hill to see windmills as far as the horizon almost took my breath away. they are so huge it’s kind of creepy, but awsome at the same time. Much better than all those gravel pits we drove by.
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Unfortunately, people aren’t being told the whole truth about these monstrosities. In my home state of NY, they have a few but a lot of communities have banned them, mainly because there is such a downside to them. How much energy do they REALLY produce? It costs a fortune to get their energy on the grid, so until they establish a new one, I think the cost benefits are negligible. Also, they touted a lot of local, green jobs but in reality, the companies looking to set up in the state were all european, and had their own contractors,etc. the amount of jobs created, again, was negligible. Have you all thought of the destruction erecting these behemoths does to the land? It can never be re-claimed, not for generations, if these things become obsolete. who’s going to dismantle them and haul the away? Or will they someday fall into disuse and disrepair, rusting and broken on our mountain rides and hillsides? the trouble is, people have bought into the clean energy/green thing so much so that they don’t think things through, along with future consequences. all we are doing is making somebody else rich, namely these green energy companies,and their CEO’s. For instance, I will no longer buy those twisty, green lightbulbs and am now stocking up on the old-fashioned incandescent kind. Why? Because the new kinds are much more hazardous to people, animals, and the environment. They’re toxic! Did you know you cannot dispose of these things in the regular manner? you pratically have to call the hazmat team to get rid of them! I had a couple I wanted to dispose of, and I even brought them to our city’s "green" energy exploration center, and they wouldn’t take them, and told me I had to call a special truck to pick them up! Because they contain mercury, they said in case they broke, the area has to be cleared the fire dept. has to be called – ridiculous! Like ethanol, maybe we will soon find out there are unintented consequences to everything, even these Green energy "solutions".
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Transplants

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This is a wonderful piece. I love the photos to go with it to. I think you should think about altering it slightly to make a childrens book about moving and change. Such a good message! Thanks for sharing.
NoelettaNoeletta,
Thank You, what a great Idea!
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Rene – thanks for sharing your comparison!! Such a wonderful way to think of it. You rock! 🙂
"Pickles" 🙂
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I agree…a lovely piece and very wise as well. May your berries be as sweet as you writing. Thank you so much.
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I love your story, we too planted some new raspberry starts last fall, they came through our snowy winter and we have lots of blossoms on them.
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I totally relate to to you and your husband’s reactions to moving. My fiance and I recently had a very similar experience when we bought our first place. As excited as I was about all the projects and possibilites, he was just as nervous. But like your raspberries, we have both become comfortable in our new spot and have begun to grow in so many ways…we’ve planted our first garden using the knowledge his mother and father passed on to him as a child and look forward to everything we will learn and experience together. I will have to pass on the "roots and wings" idea. That is exactly how we compliment each other. Thanks for that wonderful blog!
Blair~ There is no better feeling than when we realize that the roots have taken hold. Pass on the Roots and wings…. I am glad that can "claim it" as well.
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Thanks for sharing your thoughts with us. I understand the moving and adjusting to new places. I was a military "brat" and then a military wife. Finally we have been in the same area for 12 years since my husband is now retired from the military. We did buy an acreage in this area last August and I have been putting in my first garden this spring, so I also understood about how transplants sometimes do and sometimes don’t take root. :-)It’s cool to see my little plants that I grew from seed take hold in the ground when I transplanted them. 🙂 It’s also cool to see how our family has learned about how to put down their roots when they were "transplanted". Thanks for sharing! It was nice to read this and understand!! 🙂
WOW.. a military Kid and wife, that is amazing. My two oldest are in the Military., so I get a little of what that is all about. Thank you for sharing with me.
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This is a thought-provoking piece, especially since my husband and I both are transplants. We are grateful that we did because we have bloomed here. My mother-in-law told me that I would "never get Kenneth to leave here" meaning the life-time of living in her small town (except for the Military years). Needless to say, almost 17 years later, we are growing and thriving well, and we are so thankful for the many experiences and new friends. Now, we are thinking of moving into the mountains and a more rural setting. There again is the time of adjustment for my husband. I could be "ready" in a week or so. But we’ll change a bit slower since we’re older "transplants" to give him time to adjust. I surely don’t want to lose this "plant"(my husband)!
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Before we settled down we moved from N.H.to Louisiana up to Maine then down to Florida. I felt like a yoyo.My husbands Co. transfered him wherever he was needed.We then had the chance to come back to N.H.I adjusted to all new places,my husband was slow to come around and make new friends but, we are back where we belong with many stories to tell.Being near the land is what is most important.Recently transplanted rhubarb and blueberries(2 different varieties)and know that the watching and waiting is a work in progress.Do enjoy your blog however can’t always get to it with all the chores that need to be addressed at planting time.Keep up the good work!
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Being a "transplant" from Texas to the state of Washington I can so relate to the raspberries. Thanks for the great article.
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Rene- I agree, what a wonderful book you have there. I can see a whole series of lessons learned at Rene’s Homestead;)
And on a selfish note, we will get to try some of the berries right!
RebekkaI will put you down for some of the "harvest" LOL
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I too was one of those who moved often when we were still at home with the folks. Now after 35 years in the same house in town, my husband and I will move to a country house 30 miles away this summer. How different it will be as the closest neighbor is a mile away. We can hardly wait to be transplanted to the country. And we plan on taking some of our rasberry bushes with us! So, your thoughts certainly hit home with me. Thank you for this lovely article.
Sue
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We also were transplanting raspberries this year. We already had plenty but my husbands grandfather passed away last year and he had the best raspberries when we would visit. So my husband and other cousins are taking some of his grandfathers plants hoping to have the same results. We will see. We have different soil and not as far north in Michigan as they came from so the end result may not be the same. But my husband says no matter, it is like having some of grandpa right here with us. If you do write a childrens book as the previous blogger suggested, I have a daughter that is an illustrator. That is her dream to illustrate childrens books.
Hey, I love the idea of a farmgirl illustrator….I will totally save your email address 🙂
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Rene’,
I have always embraced the "bloom where you are planted" philosophy. It isn’t always easy; like when you live in a condo and want to be on a farm; but you are so on target
Michele -
Wow Rene’,
This was an amazing piece! Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts.
May your day be blessed,
Diana
Thank You so very much for your kindness. I am truly blessed!
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Great Bloggie Rene’…!
I can really relate to being "used" to relocating, as my Life sometimes seems like one long relocation. Now, I am preparing to move back to my native Smokey Mountains, having finished a long journey of career. This will be a very Happy move.
I love that boxed garden Y’all made… that is a very cool idea, and I’m gonna try that.
Thank You for the idea, and…
GodSpeed to Y’all…!
Gary
in Tampa -
This is the first time I have read your blog. I too am a transplant. My parents moved from Ohio to Fla when I was six and since he worked for a department store we transferred almost every two years. I went to 9 schools in 12 years. Then I moved to Tennessee when I was 30 and have been in the same town for 29 years. We are planning on moving south about an hour and half away to Chattanooga to be near the grandkids who moved there 3 years ago. I look at all of my plants starting to bloom now, the bradford pear trees have grown so big and I have a lovely view of the mountains I will miss but 3 years away from the grandkids is too long. Luckily I work from home and also take care of my husband who had a stroke 3 years ago so this will be a good transplant for us. Thanks for sharing. I loved your story.
Wendie in Maryville, TN -
Rene’, it is clear that God led you on a special path, and you were keen to all of life’s lessons. You are a gifted writer, and you share from your heart. This path has allowed you to touch others’ hearts.
I have moved several times, but I too have been in this one home for 9 years. As I get older, my desire is to deepen my roots, and enjoy the bloom [my 6 precious grandkids!].
I look forward to each of your stories. I agree with the other comments…I see a book in your future, or at least I hope for one!Thank You Pam. How honoring! Your words are so up-lifting and make me that much more grateful for the oppertunity to write. Blessings!
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Sometimes God sends us very positive messages. My husband has been hinting that we would prob. have to move from central Tx to Dallas area. Last night he confirmed no more hinting. I have been in my house 25 years and all my family including grandkids live within 30min drive. After having leaking eyes for a while I went and looked at my flower garden and then started gathering the larkspur seeds, hibicus, and amarylis seeds. We have started looking at houses in the Dallas area on the computer. To be close to my husbands job I get a very small yard and from what I have seen no landscape done. So long story short your message came right in time. Thank you.
Suzie~
Good-Byes are always so hard, even for us adventurous types. And when your roots are dug in, all the harder I suppose. I hope that it wont take long for you to "bloom" in your new location. It isnt true, you know, you can always go home again! Otherwise it wasn’t really "home". Best of all to you! I look forward to hear about your adventure.
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Rene,
You are amazing but I knew that when I first met you. You have such a way with words. Even though I have been back to my roots for 6 years. The 35 that I was gone was 35 years to long. Your Rasberry story says it all. Keep up that great writing I love your articles and can hardly wait to pick up your pieces of writing
Love ya girl
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Rene, I loved your account of being transplanted. I was transplanted 36 years ago from a small town in MD to a very very small town in WV. When I husband died 6 years ago, all thought I would go back to MD. Not!!! I transplanted and grew well. The comment about making your account in a childs book is great. I work in a public library and a book like that would be great. We have a federal prison here and many familys with young children move here for a short time. I am sure they could relate to you and your story. I am a farmgirl wannabe. I don’t have the energy that it would take to do all the things required for a farm to be sucessfull. Keep up the good work.
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I love your blog! I look forward to each and every one. I just transplanted my herbs. Sometimes, transplanting is for their or even your own good. Right away they looked happier in their new home. It doesn’t always happen that way but sometimes being transplanted is just what the heart needs. Thank you for sharing your insights with us. Blessings to you and all your transplants.
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I grew up in Spokane, my husband and I and our children transplanted to western Washington for many years. Upon retiring, it was good to come back home to eastern Washington. We have a few acres with a great big veggie and flower garden with lots of raspberries that a friend was kind enough to share with us. Some chickens and our cat Daisy… clothes hanging on the line and grandkids to pull carrots in the summer and go sledding in the winter,life is good. Thank you for reminding me how blessed I am…
Welcome back to Eastern WA. Sounds like you are back to "blooming where you are planted….Great JOB!
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I have just started to read bits of this homepage and to be honest this peice is the first one I stumbled into. Funny, I almost chose the ID name "transplant" for myself! I am an Eastern Washington farmers daughter, transplanted to a country with the highest rate of foreign imported food in the world. Yet I live in an area with the potential to be 100% self sufficient and variety that may even surpass Italy. Got you curious? Hokkaido, Japan..right across from
Russia. I enjoyed your article immensly! I could go on and on about the transplanting process but I have friends coming with new raspberry plants for my garden on Sunday and I have to go dig some holes.Alaina Rae
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Chores!

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Rene’, One of my least favorite chores is sorting socks! I hate it. I fill a basket full and run out of matched socks before I have to do it. It is not a hard task, you could say it is even mindless work. However, I don’t like to do it.
Keep up the good work.
NoelettaHa-ha.. I got rid of that chore a while back, by only buying one style for the boys all white.. they all match.
My mom use to make us saftey pin ours together before they hit the laundry basket…. Brilliant!
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Good Bloggie Rene’…
We all have our least favorite chore ‘eh…mine is "dusting"… grrr arrgh… yet I do it regularly, because I cannot stand it if I "know" my Home isn’t clean… never mind no-one else can see it. Oh dear, we do grow up to be our Parents don’t we.
As for the Post, you are right, and I found a little contract Post Office at the nearby College, so I rented a box there. It’s very handy, because contract P.O’s can accept UPS and FedEx, and nooo junk mail, so I walk there once a week and collect all the mail. It’s a nice 3 mile walk, and my life just isn’t complicated enough to need my mail daily.
I really like your Bloggies, because they’re about Life, and we all share it, or sometimes just bear it.
GodSpeed to Y’all…!
Gary
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hi rene,i have a few, cleaning the barn, cleaning the kitty litter box are a couple of my worst,i also love getting hand wirtten letters,and recieving them, i always try to include a couple of different tea bags,to make it even more special.,oh my friend kelly are on out way out to daddys coz kelly wants some manure for her garden,she is making garden tea in a hudge barrel,should be intresting coz kellys a city girl.blessed be carol branum,the mo farmers daughter lamar mo
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I will drive around for *months* with boxes or envelopes on my carseat– I haaate the post office. Every time I walk out of there, relieved, I think "what was so bad about that?? why do I build it up in my mind to be so terrible?"
I don’t mind cleaning toilet bowls–there’s a special brush, there’s a toxic cleaner–but cleaning the outside of the bowl is awful especially if you have 3 little boys and a husband. I am silently cursing them in my mind which is not a good feeling. I am such a germaphobe that I can’t bear the thought of my boys cleaning it up–at least I know I get everything clean. Oh, I also hate cleaning the fridge which is on The List for today. I don’t let it get nasty but I still hate it, I feel like gagging.
Thanks for letting me vent! 🙂Hahah! The word "chore" seems to lend itself to venting 🙂 Happy cleaning!
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I’m no fan of the post office, I can assure you, but our local ones have a self-serve kiosk for weighing and mailing, so I use that. Saves me the "pain"!!
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Ah, even though I am a wee bit afraid of bees (when one buzzes by my head I usually let out a little AYEEE!) our family made it a point to have a SUPER bee friendly garden. We even talked our neighbors into doing the same, and when we’re out in our front yards…we often talk about how many bees we’ve seen out and about. Happy to report, at least in our little neck of the woods…the bees are happy and plentiful!
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Totally agree!
Living rurally as I do, surrounded by orchards, I know well how important bees are! I always hope someday to get a hive too! Sometimes a whole hive will leave with their queen and take up residence in a pasture close by. Sometime I will have a home ready for the bees when this happens and maybe I’ll have my own yummy honey!
I use raw honey almost exclusively and I adore bees. The occassional sting is worth it.
Great story and comments! enjoyed it very much
That is all we can do. Work at changing our little corner of the world. Enjoyed your blog today. Check and see if they have classes in your area about being a bee keeper. I think you would enjoy the knowledge even if you decided not to keep bees. Thank you for your thoughtful insight.
I love having the bees around my yard and do my best to keep them happy and safe. I’ve taken the time to educate my children on why its important not to harm them, but PLEASE don’t tell me I have to like the wasps! I have no desire to keep them happy.
Thanks for writing. I enjoy your blog. -Amy in North Idaho
Excellent and timely Bloggie Rene’…!
The February issue of "Mary Jane’s Farm Magazine" was all about Bees and honey, and it’s a real keeper. I opened a dialogue with one of the subjects Sherry Cockerham, a BeeKeeper in my Home State Tennessee, and have learned a lot about this since. Independent BeeKeepers struggle to make ends meet and take care of their Bees, and they both deserve and appreciate any donations to help with costs, and of course patronizing their products.
Monsanto and it’s GMO products kill millions of Bees each year, because the plants contaminated with GMO kill any Bee trying to polinate them. I had sent you an e-mail with a video about GMO a few weeks back, with a link to a good video explaining the problem.
You are absolutely right, as we each need to mind our little corner of the world and do what we can to make things better.
meanwhile…
GosSpeed to Y’all…!
Gary
in Tampa
Wonderful topic. A friend and i were just wondering the other day if CCD was a "thing of the past". Around here in the South Sound area, the bees seem plentiful in our yards.
I read some advice a few years before CCD hit the presses about getting the most out of the bees in your yard, in terms of pollenization by planting many bee attractors at the perimeters of your yard/garden. We have a 17K sq ft yard with all the usable property in the front yard. The grass we had did nothing for the bees, so we converted some into a flower/kitchen garden and we converted more into a 400 sq ft veggie garden. Row of raspberries and an English Laurel hedge scrapped for a hedge of mugo pines, lavender, and blueberry bushes and we’re pretty well finished for now. With lavender near the blueberries in the front hedge, i started looking down across the yard wondering where the next lavender or lupines should be. Now i have them strategically placed in all corners of my yard and kitty corner from one another. The increase of bees in our yard is amazing: mason bees, honey bees, hornets, and bumblebees. The difference is amazing. And all because we gave a little priority to planting just 8 of those little bee magnets.
We’ve also encouraged the clover in our yard, because here that is usually one of the first flowers up in the Spring and the honeybees *love* it!
Good luck to all of you in your quest planting your bee garden!
Living here in western North Carolina mountains surrounded by acres and acres of pasture and National forest you would think I would see more honey bees. Not so… I see less every year. With the wipe out the wild flowers and native trees program run by both the state and counties, massive amounts along all state maintained roads are mowed down way beyond any necessary clearances. Farm lands are disappearing at an alarming rate and being replaced with now abandoned new construction sites. Although where I live is really one of the most beautiful places in the world and is classified as a rain forest and named the seed bed of the world it is very poorly maintained. If this is happening in your neck of the woods, call your local and state road maintenance departments and let them know how you feel about this issue. On a lighter note, I was recently stung by a very large bumblebee while strolling barefoot in the clover on a very painful bunion! The pain was horrible for 3 hours and nothing helped. Well, that was 3 weeks ago and my bunion has not hurt since!!! My husband told me of how when he was a child he and his cousins would collect honey bees in a jar for his grandmother. She then would turn it upside down and open it placing it over her arthritic fingers and let them sting her. This brought amazing relief from her suffering! Now, I am not suggesting you do the same but… it sure worked for the Carolina farm girl’s bunion! Perhaps there is some science to this someone is aware of?
I really enjoy finding people working for the same goal! I love bees too. I am working on getting a hive for next spring.It takes a little more effort than setting out a box. Living where we do, the bee association people told us we have to have an electric fence to surround the hive. My girlfriend asked how that would keep the bees in the hive. I almost choked on my tea! Bears are pretty common around here, and you know how bears love honey. The electric fence keeps critters out.
I hope you enjoy your pollinators!
The bees were so many this year at our home in Pa when the locust trees were in blossom. They were so busy they never noticed me on their daily rounds when I was hanginglaundry on the line. I was even able to "touch’ them ever so gently on the trees. Beautiful !! Such a simple creature with so much to offer us and we barely notice them. Lately I have been taking more time to just sit and watch my garden. It’s a busy little place to vist and reminds me that it’s not .."all about us" in this world.
Great blog. My family and I have been "keeping" bees for about 4 years now and have really enjoyed learning about them! "Beekeeping" is probably really a misnomer, perhaps "Beehosting" would be a better name. You try to provide a welcoming environment but sometimes they stay and sometimes they choose to move on. They are amazing little creatures that you could study for years and still only know a fraction. There is a really great book called Fruitless Fall that anyone interested in bees & CCD should read.
Really enjoy your blog.
Is there anything quite as joyous to observe as a bumble bee deliriously snuggling into an open flower and humming exuberantly as she does it?
I missed the February issue about Bees. Darn. Maybe I can get a back issue.
We just had a swarm of honey bees move into one of the squirrel houses my husband built. We are so very happy that they are here! My husband is so excited for the benefit they’ll provide for our fruit trees next year.
I sure hope they enjoy their new home.
I love bees, wish i had a have at my place. I have only been stung once and it was my fault i stepped on the poor worker barefoot in the back yard when i was young. They say they sense fear and sinse i have no fear of them that maybe why they can be right next to me and never bother me. I hope more of us organic farmgirl can provide a safe place for bees to live organically.