#yurtlifebestlife

Hashtags.  I don’t really understand them….Well, I understand them on the basic level. People add them to the end of social media things so that they can later be searched for according to the hashtag used.  It’s simple, really.  I guess it could also be useful for some things–like major breaking news in countries with strict media laws or whatever.  However, their pervasive overuse on social media has long ago surpassed ridiculous and is now comical.  I read a funny thing the other day that went something along the lines of this: “I just saw an old phone from the nineties and it had a hashtag on it!  Why would an old phone need one of those?  Hashtags didn’t exist back then!”  Haha.  Silly teenagers who don’t know what a pound sign is.

Anyhow, I digress as per the usual.

On New Year’s Eve, my friend stayed with us and applied the hashtag #yurtlyfe to the pictures she took that evening.  We thought it was clever and amusing; we had a good laugh. Well, I searched the internet with this hashtag and it turns out she is not the first one to use it (sorry, Emma).  #yurtlifebestlife didn’t bring up any Google hits, so what does that say?  Perhaps I’m a social media word genius…or maybe, just maybe, yurt life isn’t really the best life…

You know you're in a yurt when every picture has a lattice in the background!

You know you’re in a yurt when every picture has a lattice in the background!

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  1. I have a few questions and a comment. The comment first is that you have wooden floors – how pretty! Question 1: do you get a lot of bugs or other unwanted visitors in your yurt? Question 2: do you have any security issues? and 3: What type of stove do you have? Thanks!

    • Alexandra Wilson says:

      Hey Diane, I’m happy to answer! Thanks on the wooden floors, they are what really tied the place together in the end. 1: I have just started to notice a few spiders around as well as mosquitoes. However, I’ve always had spiders in my homes, and I think the mosquitoes just come in the front door and on the dog because there aren’t very many. We haven’t had any problems with little rodents…only gross dead ones the dog has brought in. The yurt is raised off the ground a few feet on a platform, so I imagine we’d have more bugs if we were on the ground. 2: Security is worrisome sometimes. If someone really wanted to get in and they were small enough they could just cut through the walls and slip through the latticework. Similarly, people in bear country have to take many precautions to prevent bears from tearing their yurts to shreds to get the delicious food inside! This often involves raising the yurt on a huge platform with metal spikes to prevent climbing or surrounding the structure with an electric fence. 3: We have a used Princess Blaze stove. It is pretty big and goes through wood very quickly, but it keeps us warm even in -20 degree weather! It has a nice flat top for cooking food and heating up water if we need it. The only downfall is that gets the place too hot once the temperature rises above 30. We often find ourselves stripped down to t-shirts and undies in the fall and spring!

  2. Joan says:

    WOW a great learning curve, so reminds me of the one room apartment we once lived in and how ‘deprived’ I felt but we had all the amenities. Then into a one bedroom place and then THINGS came into the space – more – more – more and well you get the picture – now we have downsized and so wish we had the big house but glad we have just what we have. The reason for me saying this is your story is so familiar and I am so happy you are able to do your best to make a lovely home for Evan and Emma, she will learn a lot about living by #livingyurtlifebestlife. Thanks for the message. God Bless

    • Alexandra Wilson says:

      Isn’t it funny how we accomodate things? We are kind of like goldfish in that way, we try to fill up any space we have with the right amount of things…I’m okay with cutting down on the stuff for now! Definitely makes life a bit simpler.

  3. Shari Doty says:

    Have you ever considered a solar shower? They only cost about twelve bucks, and heat up either in the sun, or you can just pour hot water in, hang it up and have a nice hot, luxurious shower. 1 full solar shower can easily clean two of you, if you don’t dilly dally. I use mine when camping- I have a volkswagen bus, and I open the back hatch, hang a blanket around the outside, a tarp across the opening inside, and put the shower on top, with the hose coming down between the hinges. So great!

    • Alexandra Wilson says:

      Hey Shari, we do have a propane shower…but have yet to remove it from the box. This is one of our projects for this summer! Solar showers are great, too. If the propane one doesn’t work out that’s our next move. Thanks for the suggestion!

  4. Karin Weaver says:

    Very interesting. I grew up in a home without electricity or running water so you are a way step up. I remember bringing my daughter to the farm and taking her to the outhouse when she was 2. She informed me the you could freeze your buttons off. I agree. Looking back it was great. We live in the same town in a cabin and travel when we work. We have 200 acres and a great person that takes care of our place when we are gone but no cell phone service. Such a great tragedy.. NOT! We have a facility for youth and I am amazed how they think this is the end of the world. I should send them to visit you. Love your stories and AVA is a real luckly little girl to have her mommy home with her….

    • Alexandra Wilson says:

      Thanks, Karin! Kind of funny how a lack of cell service can be so challenging! 200 acres sounds heavenly. Thanks for sharing!

  5. donna says:

    AH! Nothing like a confined space to help us see how much “stuff” we really have :). We lived in a tiny 1 bedroom apartment with 2 kids. Needless to say that is what started our journey of “less mess is best” :).
    Now, 25+ years later, we still keep our “stuff” under control….though it is getting to be more of a challenge now that i know we won;t be moving again (please, Lord! NOT again!!!). I want to pretty things up and that takes…stuff!
    I think I would like living in a yurt though. Man, we would have to get rid of more than I care to think. But simple is better—not easier mind you.
    One thing I think would really be a HUGE adjustment is the “honeypot”! The hubby calls me McGruff the crime dog when it comes to smells.
    I wonder if this would work using a honeypot???
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZKLnhuzh9uY
    I can’t see why not…in either case this commercial is worth watching if for nothing else…a good laugh!
    Happy yurting :)…there’s a new hashtag for ya #happyyurting
    Enjoy the day…

    • Alexandra Wilson says:

      Hey Donna! I can’t wait for the day when we are done moving. I counted recently and I have moved eleven times in as many years. That is sheer craziness, but I guess not out of the question for twenty somethings. That commercial is hilarious! I wonder how it really works? hmm…Thanks for sharing!

  6. Joan D. Mcguigan says:

    I LOVE the photos of AVA! Thanks for sharing her with us. Also appreciate your frankness about life in a yurt…interesting and educational and resourceful. Best wishes to you and your family. BTW we wore out 3 baby carriers raising our children. Wish I had discovered them sooner. Keep your posts coming; I look forward to them. Peace and All Joy from Pennsylvania

    • Alexandra Wilson says:

      Thanks, Joan! Sometimes we need a bit of frankness, yeah? We love our baby carriers so much. We don’t even have a stroller because we use them for everything from house cleaning to grocery shopping to long walks. Baby wearing is the best!

  7. Emma says:

    I just looked through more photos than I would like to admit marked with #yurtlyfe on Instagram. I’m a little disappointed that I’m not the one who came up with it first, but I took solace in seeing that yours was the coolest yurt of all (and that it contains the cutest baby).

    • Alexandra Wilson says:

      Yeah, maybe there are just other hashtag geniuses out there like you. I wouldn’t take it too hard. You rock!

  8. Jenna says:

    Alex, this is lovely! I loved the part about how some of the bad would still be there just in a different way if you weren’t living in a yurt (because it shows that you are realistic..not grass is greener sort of person). If you have a bigger space, you’ll somehow end up filling it and then at some point be annoyed with all the stuff you have and that you then have to clean that bigger space! Not that it’s not nice to be able to spread out, and possibly ignore a mess in another room. If you and Evan can do this together, you can do anything together! 🙂 Love you so much woman!

    • Alexandra Wilson says:

      Thanks, Yen! Love you, too. I try to be a pragmatic idealist if at all possible. I’m already way too good at ignoring messes in the rooms I am in (as you know from living with me!! ha)…This whole having a baby thing has made me a bit cleaner and more organized, though. So, we’ll have to wait and see what house living has in store for us when it happens. Miss you and your fam (even the two I haven’t met!)

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My Muse is a Pollywog

Did you know that every month is dedicated to a smattering of things?  According to Wikipedia’s “List of commemorative months” April is: Child Abuse Prevention Month, Financial Literacy Month (because of tax day?), National Multiple Birth Awareness Month, Autism Awareness Month, School Library Month, Month of the Military Child, Earth Awareness Month (happy belated Earth Day!), and Math Awareness Month (ugh) among several others.  The only one I was aware of, however, is National Poetry Month!

April is a great time to write and read poetry.  It is a time of hopeful waiting.  Winter is over, right?  Wrong says that one blizzard that waited until all of the snow had almost melted.  Gardeners and farmers are eager to work the soil, but it is too saturated and needs time to wake up.  April is the time of the year when I really, really, really (really) want to sit on the ground, outside without anything between myself and the ground (well, maybe some jeans); alas, we must wait for everything to dry out.  So, we might as well write something, yeah?

I do not consider myself a true poet.  However, a few times per year my poetic juices are stirred. Recently, my muse came as a cute little lady dressed like a pollywog!

Ava in her Warm Frog Suit.  Our little tadpole!

Ava in her Warm Frog Suit. Our little tadpole!

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  1. Joan says:

    Some greening is happening … blossoms are showing … and this weekend it will be snowing. Yes we are to have several days of snow so no planting for me yet, need some hoop gardens or a greenhouse to plant this early in my area. Love your beautiful pic’s, especially Ava, what a joy!!!

    • Alexandra Wilson says:

      Yay for Green! I’ve seen a lot of low tunnels and hoops going up over the last week around here. Those season extenders are definitely a necessity in these northern climes. Maybe it’s time to wake up your inner poet? Good luck with the snow!

  2. Wendy Curling says:

    This is my favorite poem about seasons. I wrote it once in the dead of winter. It makes me smile.
    A favorite season?
    Well, let me see…
    This is what they mean to me.
    I love Winter when it’s snowy and cold
    I love Spring when the flowers unfold.
    I love the Summer sun that warms my skin,
    And I love Fall when the holidays begin.
    So to pick a favorite I am perplexed,
    My answer must be,
    The one that comes next!

  3. Pamela deMarrais says:

    Alexandra, I love your poems! I am also a fan of Robert Frost, and I am not a fan of mud season. [I lived in NH for 12 years.] I can totally relate to wearing mud boots for March and April to get up and down my logging road driveway. It is a sign of Spring, however, and so it is positive in that respect.
    Your baby is soooo precious! As always, I enjoy your blog.

    • Alexandra Wilson says:

      Thanks for your kind words and words of wisdom, Pam! As always, I love your replies–they make me reflect and be happy!

  4. Diann says:

    Dare I say this?! It was in the high eighties here in Central California….sigh. But has cooled to the 70’s again. I cleaned the planters, plowed the garden, plowed another spot for organic corn and surveyed the trees that need pruning…..that was around my full time job…oh my! So with that here is my amature contribution to poetry month:
    Spring, spring I love thy green,
    The bountiful blue sky, the bright sun in my eye,
    Your fickleness of warmth and chill,
    Oh spring, spring thou art a thrill!

    • Alexandra Wilson says:

      Yes! This is great. Thank you so much for sharing. Spring is fickle, isn’t it? That’s part of the allure, I guess. You have now proven yourself as a working woman, dedicated gardener/farmer and now a poet. You are a woman of many hats, wear them proudly!

  5. Judy Mac says:

    Your description of Alaskan springs, sound much like my spring here in Maine. Mud and waiting… But at least the snow is gone, the sun is warm and the skies are very blue. My home sits on a river bank, and I have not heard the peepers yet, but I have been able to crack the window at night and listen to the river rushing by. Trees will soon be green again, the river fairies promise.
    Thank you for all the sharing you do through your blog, I look forward to reading it very much. Ava is one lucky little girl, having you for a Mom.

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What’s in a Name?

I’ve been thinking about farm names.  One day I’ll have a farm, and I want it to have the perfect name, of course.  Maybe it’s kind of like a group of musicians trying to pick out a band name, or maybe like an entrepreneur crafting the perfect name for a new business endeavor. Maybe it’s like picking a name for a new baby–sometimes the name has been chosen for years before the child is born, sometimes it takes a few days to know the baby before the perfect name arises.  I bet choosing a farm name comes in many different forms as well–how do farmers come up with them? What is the significance behind a name?

I’ve worked on a few farms: La Finca de Lapas (Parrot farm) in Costa Rica, Little Sugar River Farm in Wisconsin, Spring Creek Farm in Alaska and Sun Circle Farm in Alaska.  But what about other farms? I’ve volunteered on a few: Pioneer Produce in Alaska, Calypso Farm in Alaska, Brown Dog Farm in Alaska ,and Blue Moon Community Farm in Wisconsin.

Welcoming sign for visitors at Spring Creek Farm in alaska

Welcoming sign for visitors at Spring Creek Farm in alaska

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  1. Margo Giunta says:

    We named ours Second Chance Homestead @ Prinzy’s Roc Farm. 2nd Chance comes from the fact that I discovered homesteading and Paleo at age 62 after a diagnosis of Diabetes, So truly a 2nd chance at a healthy life… Prinzy was my mother in laws name, and our ancestral homestead used to have an attached grocery store by that name; Roc is short for where we live..Rochester, NY

    Great Post by the way!!!

  2. MM Eagan says:

    My husband and youngest son had been to Africa hunting 3 times when a farm that my son has always loved came up for sale. We put pretty much everything we had into buying our farm. Since there would be no more pricey hunting trips to Africa after the farm purchase, they named it “Last Safari Ranch”

    PS we have a very large rock out front with the name engraved on it.

  3. Deb Bosworth says:

    I love the name Second Chance Homestead too! My husbands family named their farm Bosworth Farms. What a fun thing to dream about! You’ll get there one day Alex!
    love, Deb ( the beach farmgirl )!

    • Alexandra Wilson says:

      It is fun to dream about these things! I’m in no big hurry to start my own farm, but I know it’s in the not-too-distant future. Thanks for your kind words, Deb!

  4. Gail Willie says:

    Our farm name is For The View Farm…as you can guess the name is about our daily view of the horses and woods that surround our farm!

  5. kimberly says:

    It took us awhile to decide on a name for our farm. We tossed around all sorts of ideas for over a year. We are now Orchard House Farm. We have a small orchard in an area that once was all orchards. I’m also a HUGE Louisa May Alcott fan whose home is Orchard House, so it all works well.

  6. Joan D. Mcguigan says:

    We hadn’t moved onto our small farm for a few weeks when my husband named it Windy Knoll. I was tickled because I was mentally trying names without knowing he was, too. His was perfect! You guessed it. The wind blows (mostly) all the time here…that and it sits on a small rise above the road. We’re mostly retired, grow a big garden, can and freeze our harvest, welcome our 8 children and 14 grandchildren’ visits…as well as assorted wildlife. Blessings to you and your new baby. Peace and All Joy living the country life!

  7. Carol A Hagemeier says:

    We have been working on naming our place for a long time. You would have thought it would have come to me by now, since we have been here for ten years. Now it’s time to get serious I will be raising honey bees very soon. But it has to be just right. My husband came up with a name because of our brand, but I never liked Rocking Hooters and refuse to use it. Your post has helped give me suggestions to finally come up with something that represents us and our place, but represents the Hill Country of Texas. It has to be just right. Love names like El Rancho costa a plenty. So now I will work on the name and get back to you. Maybe even include a picture. Thanks so much for the suggestions.

    • Alexandra Wilson says:

      Wonderful! I’m tickled that this post was helpful for you. Please let us know what you decide to name your place. I fully support your refusal to use “Rocking Hooters”! I imagine you might end up with some unwanted visitors while scaring away some folks, too. I bet the perfect name will come to you at an unexpected time. Can’t wait to find out what you choose. Best of Luck!

  8. Elizabeth says:

    Well, we’re still looking for the perfect little farm but now we will be looking up near you (transferring to Anchorage – whoohoo!). Since my husband is quite the punster (a pun-ishing job for me at least), we already have a name: D’yoks Onu – same as our fancy but cheap chicken coop!

    • Alexandra Wilson says:

      Hahahahaaaa! I love it. Where are you moving from? Growing produce up here is pretty awesome/crazy with these long days of summer. I hope you enjoy it! Welcome to AK

      • Elizabeth says:

        We will be coming from Texas – I’ll be out at VA/JBER but will be checking into gardening classes etc for husband – can’t wait to get out of this heat! Love looking at all the gardening pictures from up there!

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What's in a Name?

I’ve been thinking about farm names.  One day I’ll have a farm, and I want it to have the perfect name, of course.  Maybe it’s kind of like a group of musicians trying to pick out a band name, or maybe like an entrepreneur crafting the perfect name for a new business endeavor. Maybe it’s like picking a name for a new baby–sometimes the name has been chosen for years before the child is born, sometimes it takes a few days to know the baby before the perfect name arises.  I bet choosing a farm name comes in many different forms as well–how do farmers come up with them? What is the significance behind a name?

I’ve worked on a few farms: La Finca de Lapas (Parrot farm) in Costa Rica, Little Sugar River Farm in Wisconsin, Spring Creek Farm in Alaska and Sun Circle Farm in Alaska.  But what about other farms? I’ve volunteered on a few: Pioneer Produce in Alaska, Calypso Farm in Alaska, Brown Dog Farm in Alaska ,and Blue Moon Community Farm in Wisconsin.

Welcoming sign for visitors at Spring Creek Farm in alaska

Welcoming sign for visitors at Spring Creek Farm in alaska

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  1. Margo Giunta says:

    We named ours Second Chance Homestead @ Prinzy’s Roc Farm. 2nd Chance comes from the fact that I discovered homesteading and Paleo at age 62 after a diagnosis of Diabetes, So truly a 2nd chance at a healthy life… Prinzy was my mother in laws name, and our ancestral homestead used to have an attached grocery store by that name; Roc is short for where we live..Rochester, NY

    Great Post by the way!!!

  2. MM Eagan says:

    My husband and youngest son had been to Africa hunting 3 times when a farm that my son has always loved came up for sale. We put pretty much everything we had into buying our farm. Since there would be no more pricey hunting trips to Africa after the farm purchase, they named it “Last Safari Ranch”

    PS we have a very large rock out front with the name engraved on it.

  3. Deb Bosworth says:

    I love the name Second Chance Homestead too! My husbands family named their farm Bosworth Farms. What a fun thing to dream about! You’ll get there one day Alex!
    love, Deb ( the beach farmgirl )!

    • Alexandra Wilson says:

      It is fun to dream about these things! I’m in no big hurry to start my own farm, but I know it’s in the not-too-distant future. Thanks for your kind words, Deb!

  4. Gail Willie says:

    Our farm name is For The View Farm…as you can guess the name is about our daily view of the horses and woods that surround our farm!

  5. kimberly says:

    It took us awhile to decide on a name for our farm. We tossed around all sorts of ideas for over a year. We are now Orchard House Farm. We have a small orchard in an area that once was all orchards. I’m also a HUGE Louisa May Alcott fan whose home is Orchard House, so it all works well.

  6. Joan D. Mcguigan says:

    We hadn’t moved onto our small farm for a few weeks when my husband named it Windy Knoll. I was tickled because I was mentally trying names without knowing he was, too. His was perfect! You guessed it. The wind blows (mostly) all the time here…that and it sits on a small rise above the road. We’re mostly retired, grow a big garden, can and freeze our harvest, welcome our 8 children and 14 grandchildren’ visits…as well as assorted wildlife. Blessings to you and your new baby. Peace and All Joy living the country life!

  7. Carol A Hagemeier says:

    We have been working on naming our place for a long time. You would have thought it would have come to me by now, since we have been here for ten years. Now it’s time to get serious I will be raising honey bees very soon. But it has to be just right. My husband came up with a name because of our brand, but I never liked Rocking Hooters and refuse to use it. Your post has helped give me suggestions to finally come up with something that represents us and our place, but represents the Hill Country of Texas. It has to be just right. Love names like El Rancho costa a plenty. So now I will work on the name and get back to you. Maybe even include a picture. Thanks so much for the suggestions.

    • Alexandra Wilson says:

      Wonderful! I’m tickled that this post was helpful for you. Please let us know what you decide to name your place. I fully support your refusal to use “Rocking Hooters”! I imagine you might end up with some unwanted visitors while scaring away some folks, too. I bet the perfect name will come to you at an unexpected time. Can’t wait to find out what you choose. Best of Luck!

  8. Elizabeth says:

    Well, we’re still looking for the perfect little farm but now we will be looking up near you (transferring to Anchorage – whoohoo!). Since my husband is quite the punster (a pun-ishing job for me at least), we already have a name: D’yoks Onu – same as our fancy but cheap chicken coop!

    • Alexandra Wilson says:

      Hahahahaaaa! I love it. Where are you moving from? Growing produce up here is pretty awesome/crazy with these long days of summer. I hope you enjoy it! Welcome to AK

      • Elizabeth says:

        We will be coming from Texas – I’ll be out at VA/JBER but will be checking into gardening classes etc for husband – can’t wait to get out of this heat! Love looking at all the gardening pictures from up there!

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Legend Has It

I saw a funny meme (okay…I don’t really know what a meme is…whatever) today about living in Alaska.  It has a man asking a little boy, “When does spring start?”  The little boy replies: “I live in Alaska…” with a sad look on his face, the man then tenderly hugs the boy, comforting his obvious dismay.  Well, I think spring has sprung!  The skies have been crystal clear and the temperature is rising.  Some days it’s even above freezing.  Plus, we have little to complain about compared to the brutal winter that the majority of the US faced this winter (although I’m still a bit jealous…).

BLUE skies and melting snow!  Hello Spring

BLUE skies and melting snow! Hello Spring

My father and stepmother visited two weekends ago to visit their cutey-patootie granddaughter Ava, and they were blessed with these same crystal clear, azure skies.  The mountain ranges were out in full force–they even got to lay their eyes on the behemoth Denali.  We also had beautiful views of Mount Susitna (also called The Sleeping Lady) during our drives to and from Anchorage.  There is a legend associated with this mountain that has become one of my favorite stories to share with others.

grandpa mark

A grandfather and his new granddaughter!

Please allow me a moment to put on my story-teller cap here…

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  1. Maureen says:

    Even though I visited Alaska, I had never heard the story of Susitna. Thanks! Oh, and cutie-patootie indeed!

  2. Thanks for sharing such a beautiful story and such a beautiful way. Ava is ADORABLE beyond words. So pleased to hear that she got to meet her grandparents. This post was the perfect way to start my day–a story of hope and a child of hope.

  3. Kim says:

    I loved the story of Susitna! Alaska is a beautiful place! So glad your dad and stepmother got to see their lovely granddaughter! Hope all is well and warming up!

  4. Joan says:

    Yes thanks for sharing that story. I am going to do some research to see if there is something similar in my area – how fun. AND Ava is really adorable, love the smiles, tells ya something – happy, loved baby!!!

  5. katie perryman says:

    Alex, enjoyed the story & Ava is adorable!!!!

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Milkin' It or…Mylkin' It?

My partner and I have a few silly arguments that we visit now and again–perhaps when we’re out to eat and the conversation is dry.  One is over the meaning of the word “milk.” He grew up on a dairy farm and insists that milk must come from a female mammal.  Any “milk” that is not animal based is not milk, it should be called juice…or something.  Soy juice?  Rice juice? No thanks….Coconut juice?  Sure! But I would expect something different from what I’d get.  My argument is that juicing something is also different than the processes used to make dairy free alternative milks.  We generally come to an impasse and move on.  Recently, he said that he would accept an alternative spelling–M-Y-L-K for the alternatives.  It works for me.

Home Made Almond Mylk: Easy and Delicious!

Home Made Almond Mylk: Easy and Delicious!

However, I digress…

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  1. Joan says:

    I don’t have a story, no need to make big changes here. But now if I had that beautiful Ava that needed changes – well I applaud you. Thanks for talking about making almond milk n flour – might try it for fun. God Bless

  2. Rowena says:

    Wow, that’s a tough one. You have my deepest sympathy. I believe in exclusively breastfeeding babies & would never, under any circumstances, stop breastfeeding early or use formula. But dairy & chocolate are my favourite foods – especially together! I don’t believe I could make that sacrifice, even temporarily. But a mother’s love inspires incredible things.

    • Alexandra Wilson says:

      I know! Dairy and chocolate make up a large percentage of my diet..or at least they did. I am sticking with bf’ing for at least a year!

  3. Cheryl Damberger says:

    My daughter use to and still does use Raw milk? Would that be better? Maybe the processing is what is upsetting to her? Maybe cheeses that have been more aged? or less would be different. The chocolate maybe if you used dark…or a touch of the dark with the almond milk may not be enough to upset her but help your taste buds. I never did like the taste of carob. Now that you have been off these other items you could test these.

    • Alexandra Wilson says:

      Raw milk is the way to go! I’m going to continue to stay off of all dairy for the next couple of weeks to make sure it is totally out of my system. Then I will attempt to reintroduce things slowly, to see if she has a reaction. Unfortunately, it’s any chocolate…Yesterday she was even a bit touchy after I had a teeny bit of dark chocolate! It’s terrible! I remember carob being unappetizing, too; however, when I tried it this time I didn’t go into it thinking it would taste like chocolate–it was way better!

  4. Cheryl Damberger says:

    ps…So glad to hear you are nursing …keep It up as long as possible. So good for you and your baby.

  5. Trishia Herbst says:

    Keep your eyes open for dairy-free chocolate chips! Maybe they will satisfy your sweet tooth 🙂 There are several brands…Equal Exchange, Enjoy Life, and Kirkland are all dairy free! Equal Exchange doesn’t have soy lecithin either. 🙂 We’re dairy free so we keep these around!

  6. Dena says:

    Alex, our family has dealt with special diets for 15 years! Our boys have had to avoid dairy, yeast, gluten, eggs, red meat, and tomato sauce just to name a few. I agree that dairy is the hardest for me personally to do without – it makes soooo many dishes that much better! Thankfully, we live near many large health food stores, which has made it much easier (easier on our tummies, not so easy on our budget!). I figure its just what we’ve been called to do and have tried to give it the ol’ farmgirl spirit! It’s given me the opportunity to learn many new skills and get creative with our meals, something I really enjoy. We never know what journey we will embark on when we have children! Much love to you and your new family!

  7. Jenna says:

    Alex, how cool! I might have to try this and come back for your step by step instructions!!

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Milkin’ It or…Mylkin’ It?

My partner and I have a few silly arguments that we visit now and again–perhaps when we’re out to eat and the conversation is dry.  One is over the meaning of the word “milk.” He grew up on a dairy farm and insists that milk must come from a female mammal.  Any “milk” that is not animal based is not milk, it should be called juice…or something.  Soy juice?  Rice juice? No thanks….Coconut juice?  Sure! But I would expect something different from what I’d get.  My argument is that juicing something is also different than the processes used to make dairy free alternative milks.  We generally come to an impasse and move on.  Recently, he said that he would accept an alternative spelling–M-Y-L-K for the alternatives.  It works for me.

Home Made Almond Mylk: Easy and Delicious!

Home Made Almond Mylk: Easy and Delicious!

However, I digress…

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  1. Joan says:

    I don’t have a story, no need to make big changes here. But now if I had that beautiful Ava that needed changes – well I applaud you. Thanks for talking about making almond milk n flour – might try it for fun. God Bless

  2. Rowena says:

    Wow, that’s a tough one. You have my deepest sympathy. I believe in exclusively breastfeeding babies & would never, under any circumstances, stop breastfeeding early or use formula. But dairy & chocolate are my favourite foods – especially together! I don’t believe I could make that sacrifice, even temporarily. But a mother’s love inspires incredible things.

    • Alexandra Wilson says:

      I know! Dairy and chocolate make up a large percentage of my diet..or at least they did. I am sticking with bf’ing for at least a year!

  3. Cheryl Damberger says:

    My daughter use to and still does use Raw milk? Would that be better? Maybe the processing is what is upsetting to her? Maybe cheeses that have been more aged? or less would be different. The chocolate maybe if you used dark…or a touch of the dark with the almond milk may not be enough to upset her but help your taste buds. I never did like the taste of carob. Now that you have been off these other items you could test these.

    • Alexandra Wilson says:

      Raw milk is the way to go! I’m going to continue to stay off of all dairy for the next couple of weeks to make sure it is totally out of my system. Then I will attempt to reintroduce things slowly, to see if she has a reaction. Unfortunately, it’s any chocolate…Yesterday she was even a bit touchy after I had a teeny bit of dark chocolate! It’s terrible! I remember carob being unappetizing, too; however, when I tried it this time I didn’t go into it thinking it would taste like chocolate–it was way better!

  4. Cheryl Damberger says:

    ps…So glad to hear you are nursing …keep It up as long as possible. So good for you and your baby.

  5. Trishia Herbst says:

    Keep your eyes open for dairy-free chocolate chips! Maybe they will satisfy your sweet tooth 🙂 There are several brands…Equal Exchange, Enjoy Life, and Kirkland are all dairy free! Equal Exchange doesn’t have soy lecithin either. 🙂 We’re dairy free so we keep these around!

  6. Dena says:

    Alex, our family has dealt with special diets for 15 years! Our boys have had to avoid dairy, yeast, gluten, eggs, red meat, and tomato sauce just to name a few. I agree that dairy is the hardest for me personally to do without – it makes soooo many dishes that much better! Thankfully, we live near many large health food stores, which has made it much easier (easier on our tummies, not so easy on our budget!). I figure its just what we’ve been called to do and have tried to give it the ol’ farmgirl spirit! It’s given me the opportunity to learn many new skills and get creative with our meals, something I really enjoy. We never know what journey we will embark on when we have children! Much love to you and your new family!

  7. Jenna says:

    Alex, how cool! I might have to try this and come back for your step by step instructions!!

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Here's to the Generous

“Generosity is giving more than you can, and pride is taking less than you need. ” ~Khalil Gibran

Some recent news out of Minnesota shocked me–no, it wasn’t the consistently terrible below zero weather or disastrous snowfalls (I’m actually very jealous of the snow!).  It was the news that school districts had been throwing out low income students’ hot lunches if they couldn’t pay the 40 cent reduced price lunch.  If the lunches were replaced, it was with a cheese sandwich (I’m sure the “cheese” was a far cry from the real thing), and a carton of milk.  I guess something is better than nothing…but students need much more nutrition than a highly processed sandwich and ultra pasteurized milk.  These are probably the same students who come to school without good breakfasts.  How are they expected to perform well in school if they don’t have proper nutrition?  How could this happen in my home state?

But there was other news that piggy backed with this that made me SO thankful for genuine generosity.  A tutor in Texas figured that his students were probably experiencing this same thing, and he took the solution into his own hands.  He donated about $500 to cover the outstanding balances on 60 students’ lunch accounts so they could once again receive hot lunches in their school.

So…Here’s to the Generous!

Baby Ava proclaims: "Here's to the Generous!"

Baby Ava proclaims: “Here’s to the Generous!”

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  1. Donna Bailey says:

    What a beautiful baby girl you have. Just wanted to let you know that I think that’s a beautiful story too. Who would have thought so many people would be there for you. But…..that’s what friends do. Have a really out standing year……….daylilli

  2. Rowena says:

    “So, who says that we don’t know how to take care of growing families in this country? I don’t know, but I disagree with them.”
    Lots of people say it because it is true. You are lucky you had the help of generous friends & family. What people mean when they talk about the country as a whole not helping growing families is that we are the only civilized country in the world that does not have paid family leave. We are the only one without universal health care. We are one of the few w/o any sort of visiting nurse system for new moms or breastfeeding support. The story you cited at the beginning of your post about school lunches being taken away is a perfect example.

    • Alexandra Wilson says:

      Yes, I know these things and recognize that there are many shortfalls in the way our government and social welfare systems treat families in the United States. And yes, we have experienced these shortfalls firshand–as seen in our problems with my partner getting leave from his job to be home with us. I should have worded that phrase differently; but I think it is also important to recognize the importance that individuals play in our lives instead of consistently complaining about the system. I get on my high horse about these topics outside of my blog on MJF. However I do, full heartedly, agree with you that the country as a whole has failed and continues to fail supporting mothers, fathers, new babies and many others in the healthcare system.

  3. Patty says:

    When we finally bought some land, we started as soon as possible building raised beds, an outhouse, a canning kitchen and a storage shed with a loft for overnights. The first season we had all our neighbors come over and offer everything from large machinery (a backhoe to dig out an ancient burn pile with God-know-what in it) to goat poop for our garden beds (which the cabbages loved). I’ve moved many times and never have I had such an outpouring of generosity as in our new little hamlet.

  4. Marion says:

    I love your blog and now with beautiful baby Ava, it can only get better. As individuals I think we need to speak out on behalf of those who need help in whatever form they may need it. There is so much that needs to be done,but I also believe we need to be positve and step in and help where we can.

  5. Gaill Pederson says:

    Hi Alex and Family. What a nice post. I came home from Alaska telling Grandpa Dennis of the wonderful friends and support you have there.

    Below is a link to what Governor Dayton said about school lunches in MN.
    http://www.startribune.com/politics/statelocal/244935561.html

    Many hugs and kisses from way too far away. Grandma Gail

    • Alexandra Wilson says:

      Thanks Grandma Gail! Sorry for the slow reply, I hadn’t checked these replies in a bit. We are so grateful for YOU! Love you, a

  6. Debbie says:

    Dear Alex and family,
    Reading your blog and ” new mom” experiences really took me back to when our ( now 18 and 16 ) kids were born and the generosity we felt from family far and wide. WE didn’t live in the boonies, we lived in suburbia but it was much appreciated and welcomed to two elated, yet tired parents. I agree with you. Us gals in the US… could sure learn a thing or two about how to treat ourselves better from other cultures. We rush through everything we do when we are young, only to realize with age and wisdom that we need slow down and enjoy the moment…Giving birth and easing into motherhood is a blessed time. One to cherish and soak in right along with those dirty diapers and spit up cloths! I think our oldest was two when I finally stopped using the term” NEW MOM” . I loved my new title and so enjoyed saying it with a big smile on my face… I know you will too! Many blessings to all of you… Enjoy your precious Ava. She is beautiful and a very lucky little girl.
    Love, from the Beach Farmgirl, Deb

    • Alexandra Wilson says:

      Thanks Deb! Being a mom is GREAT! While I was pregnant I still had some nagging feelings of regret and grief about leaving my “old” life behind. However, I’ve found that being Ava’s mom is so much better than any adventures I might have to pass on in the coming years. Thank you for all of your heartfelt and welcoming comments, we really appreciate them!

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Here’s to the Generous

“Generosity is giving more than you can, and pride is taking less than you need. ” ~Khalil Gibran

Some recent news out of Minnesota shocked me–no, it wasn’t the consistently terrible below zero weather or disastrous snowfalls (I’m actually very jealous of the snow!).  It was the news that school districts had been throwing out low income students’ hot lunches if they couldn’t pay the 40 cent reduced price lunch.  If the lunches were replaced, it was with a cheese sandwich (I’m sure the “cheese” was a far cry from the real thing), and a carton of milk.  I guess something is better than nothing…but students need much more nutrition than a highly processed sandwich and ultra pasteurized milk.  These are probably the same students who come to school without good breakfasts.  How are they expected to perform well in school if they don’t have proper nutrition?  How could this happen in my home state?

But there was other news that piggy backed with this that made me SO thankful for genuine generosity.  A tutor in Texas figured that his students were probably experiencing this same thing, and he took the solution into his own hands.  He donated about $500 to cover the outstanding balances on 60 students’ lunch accounts so they could once again receive hot lunches in their school.

So…Here’s to the Generous!

Baby Ava proclaims: "Here's to the Generous!"

Baby Ava proclaims: “Here’s to the Generous!”

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  1. Donna Bailey says:

    What a beautiful baby girl you have. Just wanted to let you know that I think that’s a beautiful story too. Who would have thought so many people would be there for you. But…..that’s what friends do. Have a really out standing year……….daylilli

  2. Rowena says:

    “So, who says that we don’t know how to take care of growing families in this country? I don’t know, but I disagree with them.”
    Lots of people say it because it is true. You are lucky you had the help of generous friends & family. What people mean when they talk about the country as a whole not helping growing families is that we are the only civilized country in the world that does not have paid family leave. We are the only one without universal health care. We are one of the few w/o any sort of visiting nurse system for new moms or breastfeeding support. The story you cited at the beginning of your post about school lunches being taken away is a perfect example.

    • Alexandra Wilson says:

      Yes, I know these things and recognize that there are many shortfalls in the way our government and social welfare systems treat families in the United States. And yes, we have experienced these shortfalls firshand–as seen in our problems with my partner getting leave from his job to be home with us. I should have worded that phrase differently; but I think it is also important to recognize the importance that individuals play in our lives instead of consistently complaining about the system. I get on my high horse about these topics outside of my blog on MJF. However I do, full heartedly, agree with you that the country as a whole has failed and continues to fail supporting mothers, fathers, new babies and many others in the healthcare system.

  3. Patty says:

    When we finally bought some land, we started as soon as possible building raised beds, an outhouse, a canning kitchen and a storage shed with a loft for overnights. The first season we had all our neighbors come over and offer everything from large machinery (a backhoe to dig out an ancient burn pile with God-know-what in it) to goat poop for our garden beds (which the cabbages loved). I’ve moved many times and never have I had such an outpouring of generosity as in our new little hamlet.

  4. Marion says:

    I love your blog and now with beautiful baby Ava, it can only get better. As individuals I think we need to speak out on behalf of those who need help in whatever form they may need it. There is so much that needs to be done,but I also believe we need to be positve and step in and help where we can.

  5. Gaill Pederson says:

    Hi Alex and Family. What a nice post. I came home from Alaska telling Grandpa Dennis of the wonderful friends and support you have there.

    Below is a link to what Governor Dayton said about school lunches in MN.
    http://www.startribune.com/politics/statelocal/244935561.html

    Many hugs and kisses from way too far away. Grandma Gail

    • Alexandra Wilson says:

      Thanks Grandma Gail! Sorry for the slow reply, I hadn’t checked these replies in a bit. We are so grateful for YOU! Love you, a

  6. Debbie says:

    Dear Alex and family,
    Reading your blog and ” new mom” experiences really took me back to when our ( now 18 and 16 ) kids were born and the generosity we felt from family far and wide. WE didn’t live in the boonies, we lived in suburbia but it was much appreciated and welcomed to two elated, yet tired parents. I agree with you. Us gals in the US… could sure learn a thing or two about how to treat ourselves better from other cultures. We rush through everything we do when we are young, only to realize with age and wisdom that we need slow down and enjoy the moment…Giving birth and easing into motherhood is a blessed time. One to cherish and soak in right along with those dirty diapers and spit up cloths! I think our oldest was two when I finally stopped using the term” NEW MOM” . I loved my new title and so enjoyed saying it with a big smile on my face… I know you will too! Many blessings to all of you… Enjoy your precious Ava. She is beautiful and a very lucky little girl.
    Love, from the Beach Farmgirl, Deb

    • Alexandra Wilson says:

      Thanks Deb! Being a mom is GREAT! While I was pregnant I still had some nagging feelings of regret and grief about leaving my “old” life behind. However, I’ve found that being Ava’s mom is so much better than any adventures I might have to pass on in the coming years. Thank you for all of your heartfelt and welcoming comments, we really appreciate them!

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The Newest Farmgirl in Town

Hello Farmgirls near and far!  Sorry I missed you for my previous post, but I was busy meeting the newest love of my life: Ava Maureen Wilder.  She is the best thing!  She was born eleven days past her due date on January 28 at 1:03 p.m. weighing 8 pounds 2 ounces and measuring a whopping 19 inches long.  We are pretty sure she’s a genius already, scoring 9 out of 10 on her Apgar right out of the womb.  Labor was long and laborious, but one of the first thoughts that came to my mind when it was over that I could do it 5 or 6 more times (that thought has since calmed down a bit)! The little munchkin is happily cooing and staring at her Grandma Gail right now, so come and meet her while I have a chance to write before getting drawn into staring at her beautiful babiness!

ava and mama eyes

Proud mama cuddle time.

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  1. Margo;) Jakoubek says:

    You are completely correct Proud Momma! She is absolutely adorably ‘GAWD-gous”…as on of my grandgems said when she about 5 years old. CONGRATULATIONS…Nothing as remarkable as parenthood. When they hand you that child…life changes. Now your education begins! Enjoy!
    Margo;)
    Mother of a “merger” of 15
    Grandmother of 29

  2. maureen says:

    Congratulations to you both. What a beautiful edition to your life. Enjoy the journey, it’s so worth it. Awesome name, but I’m a little biased! Blessings!

  3. Was anxious to hear a throughout report. I endured a similar journey with my first birth. But like you said, it’s the end result that matters. Lovely photos. Thanks to Evan for all his hard work and support. Great big love and hugs to ALL!!!! (Don’t you LOVE the way Ava smells? Intoxicating to say the least.) Another farmgirl to the rescue!!!

  4. Laura R. says:

    Many warm and loving wishes to the new expanded family ! What a great journey for all of us readers to follow. I can relate to your ‘disappointments’ as I also had to use pitocin for my first born, however my 2nd boy popped right out with time only to get on a gown, break my water, and bam! So, every birth is different, and there is only the best memories ever of bringing our beloved children into the world ! Many farmgirl blessings to you all ! Great pix ! xo

  5. Janice K. says:

    I am thrilled by your little bundle of health! She truly is the most beautiful and perfect baby…You are blessed beyond words!

  6. CJ Armstrong says:

    Congratulations to you and your family! What a beauty!!!!
    Thanks for sharing your story! (makes me want to go take a nap!)
    CJ

  7. Adrienne says:

    Congratulations to you both for creating a beautiful baby girl. Now continue to live a long and happy life together.

  8. Diana Henretty says:

    YAY!!! From the Ozarks!!
    She is gorgeous, a little piece of heaven on earth!!
    Your pictures tell the beautiful story, welcome, she is like looking at a tiny rose bud,
    ready to bloom in my winter!
    With love and prayers for your new little family, Diana, Noel, Missouri

  9. Joan says:

    Congratulations to you and Evan!! she is absolutely – absolutely beautiful and looks to be well loved and the love is what counts. Sorry the labor was a bit much and I pray all is getting back to normal with your body. Oh the stages of having a baby, being a Mother & grandmother – the sweetness of life. God Bless.

  10. Debby Carrico says:

    Wow, you definitely a strong woman and Mother for demanding the care you wanted for yourself and your daughter. Congratulations! May you commitment be part of your daughter’s character. Many blessings and peace~Debby

  11. katherine says:

    Lovely…thanks for the heart felt post. Blessings for a wonderful motherhood adventure.

  12. Carmen says:

    Welcome to the world Ava!! Blessings to all of you.

  13. Nancy says:

    I have enjoyed your blog so much as I have always wanted to live in Alaska. I was so glad to see your blog pop up on my e-mail and to know that you and your precious daughter are doing so well. She is so beautiful and I know that you and Evan are loving every minute of being with her. Enjoy all the new experiences and joy that you will have with her. Many blessing to the three of you.

  14. Judy says:

    Congratulations! Your little one is beautiful!

  15. Deedee McDonald says:

    Congratulations!! I’ve given birth 6 times and it’s is the most beautiful thing ever!! I’m so happy for you!! You think you know what love is….. Then you have your children. There is nothing like it.❤️

  16. Pam deMarrais says:

    What can I say? She is perfect! I am so delighted for you and your little family. I remember that welling up of emotions when I had my children. There is nothing like it. She is blessed to have such wonderful parents. I know that you will enjoy every moment with her….even when she is awake in the wee hours of the morning. BTW, first babies can be a lot of work…they don’t call it labor for nothing! Your next may come so quickly you can be caught off guard [mine did].

  17. Kim Reeves says:

    Such a bundle of joy! Your family is beautiful. Blessings to you all!

  18. Debbie says:

    Congratulations on the arrival of the newest little farmgirl in town! She is precious! Nothing in life will ever compare to all the feelings new parents experience. It’s pure joy ( even with the midnight feedings and diaper changes) 🙂 You handled the birth beautifully Alex. Don’t let it get to you too much that things didn’t go according to planned…That’s lesson 1 in parenthood. It won’t be the first time that happens and it’s not always something you can control…Parenting is all about finding that sweet spot between letting go and hanging on all at the same time. You and Evan are in for the ride of a lifetime! Many blessings from your Beach Sister on the shorelines! Deb

  19. Cindy says:

    Congratulations – motherhood is the absolute – the proudest moment of my life, certainly……your daughter is beautiful and your family photos are ones of true happiness and joy…..thank you for this heart warming post…..brought back memories of the happiest days of my life…..wishing you many days of this continued joy….blessings to you all….

  20. Rowena says:

    Congratulations! Remember: It is the journey that matters as much as the end result. Your body did NOT fail you. The state of Alaska failed you. Your body was doing fine. I would have refused the transfer to a hospital & the Pitocin. That was the medical establishment trying to put your body on their schedule for reasons that have NOTHING – zip, nada, nothing at all – to do with your health & welfare or that of your baby.

    • Alexandra Wilson says:

      Thanks for your input. Just as you would have chosen to do differently than I did, the steps I took and decisions were made by my partner and myself. I was not forced into anything. I understand that many women feel that natural out of hospital birth is the only way to go, but I believe well-informed women can make any birth decisions they want. If you want an epidural and know what the ramifications are, go for it. If you want an elective C-section to save your lady bits, then go ahead. I do not feel like I was a pawn, I had done my research before hand and was having enough anxiety of my own to go ahead with a more invasive birth process. I feel great about the whole thing, in hindsight (outside of some of the hospital’s ineptness)

      • Rowena says:

        I am glad you feel better. I was responding to what you said about feeling like your body failed you & I wanted to emphasize that just because one’s body does not follow the timetable set by the medical establishment, it does not mean that it has failed. That timetable is not linked to any meaningful measurements of what your body “should” be doing during labour so you shouldn’t judge your body’s performance against it. Sounds like you are not doing that anymore. Congratulations again.

  21. Mary Fenske says:

    Dear Alex, Evan and Ava,
    Thank you for sharing the pictures and words. Little Ava is beautiful and I wish you nothing but joy and peace as you start this journey.

  22. Denise Ross says:

    Congratulations :). How exciting! Best wishes on your new adventure as a family. I love being a mum and the time flies. Enjoy

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