Slipping into winter has been gradual…there have been days teasing Spring with temperatures nearly 60° F, only to wake up and find mornings of 7° F with a wind that was breathtakingly cold.
Today I’m greeted by a wisp of chilly wind and an icy cold rain, as well as the sound of chain saws in the distance. A few nights ago I heard that unmistakable sound…have you ever heard it? The deep, echoing, “crack” that a limb makes as it breaks free from a tree. The wind gusts were strong enough to send a cascade of limbs to the ground from an old maple tree, reminding me that it’s January, and snow and ice storms will be coming my way.
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Beautifully written, and excellent advice. Thank you. My goal simply is to have each year be better in some way than the one before – in spite of my advancing age!
Thank you Dan – what a great idea that each year should simply be better than the one before! And with “advancing age” certainly comes wisdom…your short & to the point goal is one we can all learn from, thanks for sharing!
New Year’s
Be kind!
Hi Kay…I love it! Simply being nice, kind, thoughtful…what a wonderful outlook on life and way to live. So glad you shared your idea!
Last year I made a PACT with myself, hoping to meet each of four goals each day. The four bullet points are easily a part of everyday life, but I found that I was missing important and fulfilling pieces of my life if I did not mindfully hit each point. When I could mark a letter on my calendar (or in a journal) for each bullet point, the day was a success, regardless of any chaos or physical setbacks. I didn’t hit all four each day, but after a year of focusing on the PACT points, I got much better at it. I think 2025 will have 365 days of success! My PACT goals:
P – Productive (could be anything…cleaning, gardening, bill paying, caregiving)
A – Active (could be walking, stretching my achy 70-yr-old body, even vacuuming)
C – Creative (needlework, crafts, repurposing old stuff, creatively organizing something)
T – Touch (touch base…call/write/meet up with friends, family, community groups)
Lori, this is a terrific plan for the new year and I think something we all can do! Thank you so much for jotting it all down for us…and putting a mark on the calendar or in a journal really does help. I’m a list-maker/calendar marker and your idea is one that’s just perfect for me…it let’s me see my progress (or lack of so I can pick up the pace before the day is over!) And I really appreciate that each letter can be “anything” that fits…that’s such a good idea, than’s for inspiring us to make a PACT!
Such a well written post and amazing advice. I will certainly be doing part of your pact goals as well. I need to be more productive, and I need to be more active. I want to finish some scrapbooks, and I want to clean some more of my craft supplies up. Keeping in touch with friends has always been a part of my plans for the new year.
Good morning Carol, thanks for stopping by…it sounds like you’re ready to jump in! I agree with so many of your plans…scrapbooks are falling behind here and keeping up with friends needs to happen more. Thanks for the gentle reminder – it keeps me on the right track!
Mary! I love all your tips and advice! I love to make lists… I’m one of those people that write things down to check them off! HaHa! So I love the thought of breaking things down to manageable (and more boxes to check on my list! ha ha!). AND I love your photos!
Hi Dori – oh yes, list-making can be addictive for me, it absolutely have to do it to keep myself on track! And you’re so right, checking things off makes me smile…but I’m also guilty of moving thing to the next day! Glad you like the photos…it’s a very frosty day here today -1, brrr! Keep warm and take care, Mary
Another lovely post, Mary. Although I don’t often make resolutions, I like the idea of intentions. And I especially like the thought of chasing my dreams. Xx
Awww, thanks Jules, so glad you think so. What a wonderful way of thinking of the new year…Intentions. That’s a great plan and it feels like less pressure and added stress. You’re right on track…and inspiring me, you are the one I was writing about when I said I needed to get out and explore more…thank you!
I have never been one to make new year resolutions but I do like your perspectives – especially the one about giving ourselves grace. Sometimes I feel as though I am in the never-never land of either not giving myself enough grace and giving myself too much grace, if that makes sense. Living by oneself lifts the yolk of expectation and that can be a slippery slope. I love that you plan on learning to spin and play the violin. I took violin lessons for a brief time as a child. It is still something I wish I could have stuck with and I often wonder what happened with my grandfather’s old fiddle that I used. ~Robin~
Hi Robin, hope all is warm & cozy in Nod! And yes, giving ourselves Grace can be difficult, at least for me. I have that endless list in front of me, and you know what, I do move somethings to tomorrow’s list…who needs all that stress? I don’t think you can give yourself too much Grace…you know YOU best…what works for you, how you’re feeling a particular day, what is happening around you. Oh violin lessons…yay, another kindred spirit (so jealous, this learning at an “older” age is not easy.) Maybe you can connect with family and find that old fiddle…wouldn’t that be amazing?! Keep me posted, and keep warm!