This is me (me!), the other day, out in frigid temperatures, riding Andre.
If you could zoom in on my face, you would see two things: Continue reading
This is me (me!), the other day, out in frigid temperatures, riding Andre.
If you could zoom in on my face, you would see two things: Continue reading
I realized it when I said it.
A friend called because it was snowing. She said that whenever it snows now, she thinks of me because I love the snow so much. And I said, “I was just outside walking in the snow. It felt like I was in church.”
I was carried away to another place and time as I read your piece here about your “church” experience. All those years ago when I was 20, and lived in a small house on the side of a hill in West Virginia, I remember there were stone outcroppings farther up the hill. They would be warmed by the summer’s daylight rays. At night, in the complete dark, I’d climb up there and sit on the edge of one of those large, warm rocks and look out over the city lights and the river below with its lighted bridge that joined our city with the next. Complete quiet; complete peace (for a short while). Ahhhh, thanks for the memory jolt!
So glad you found your special place. I know mine is in the country too. Definitely not in the winter though. I get painfully cold. Mine is most likely on a cool fall day walking down a long and windy gravel road as the sky turns as orange as the leaves. That takes my breath away. Log homes and barnyards are an added bonus.
Hi Rebekah,
Snow makes things quiet. You are able to feel the presents of the holy. You can feel, and see all that is.
I have not been to a “church” for quit a while. I have been to God’s church which is all the out doors. The stars, moon, trees, snow or not, the quiet, the clean smell, and the presents of the Lord.
Sing it is a beautiful sound to our Lord. He does not judge on what our voices sound like, instead he rejoices in the sound of a pure heart singing praises. If any one judges your singing tell them that the most important one hears only beauty and rejoices.
I am so happy we have met. I really feel a soul mate in you even though you are young and I am getting old. I do not believe the soul ages, just our out side and the way we look at things.
I do appreciate your writing. I read a lot and your writings are like a wonderful short story that I look forward to. Keep it going I do not believe I am the only one who feels this way.
Until our paths cross again.
God be with you and yours this wonderful time of the year when we celebrate Christ’s Mass.
Farmgirl/Ranchgirl Hugs,
Kay (My friends call me Kay)
I to love the snow, Some of my friends think I’m crazy. I love the piece it gives and I love the wonder of it all. Your letter inspired me to find my place in the snow, so to speak. I love the country and I love to walk in the snow. I always have, when I was a young girl, I’d take off walking and walk for along time. There is just something so grand and peaceful, makes you feel closer to God. Thank for the memories. Merry Christmas and I hope you and yours are well. Keep enjoying the snow. Farm Girl #1020 Juanita
Wonderful! I believe that it is natural to appreciate any portion of God’s creations…I would have been out there trudging through the snow with you!
For Thanksgiving, my husband and I trekked over to the small town of Hot Springs, MT. As we were driving along, I noticed MULTIPLE rainbows surrounding us. I joked that the end of the rainbow must have be near our destination, the Symes Hotel, built in the 30’s. It is rough around the edges and folks are welcome to bring their dogs, kids, or whatever with them! Soaking in the hot spring water, viewing the vast sky and mountains is HEAVENLY… They have music on the weekends and adults and children get up and dance with abandon. The lovely woman singing got all of us smiling and moving, as two other ladies in the lobby played native American drums. We later witnessed a young man hula hooping on main street, shirtless! We giggled some more! What a great holiday and reason for enjoying life…
Awwww! I loved your “church”!! awesome. Any time we can meditate and worship our Creator and his Creation, especially as you did, is a wonderful, soul lifting kind of thing. I love living in the country and seeing the multitude of stars at night, when I can. Love the quietness of a snowy day too or should I say night? love it
Now you have experienced the calling of God! He coaxed you out of your safe place (where we all like to be comfortable) and brought you to Him.To be silent , in silence,surrounded by nature so your heart could be open and hear His still soft voice!
And He gave you serenity, peacefullness to your heart. To know he is really present always, but sometimes we need the chaos to stop – to listen- thru the stillness, thru a whisper of wind- thru a smile on a face. God is good!
Thank you for sharing your experience, I was right there with you- it was amazing.
Thank you for taking the time to connect with us city girls who long to be beside you!!
Blessings be upon you and your family . Merry Christmas…Cynthia
I like this.
Rebekah, I have never lived where there is a lot of snow, but growing up in New Mexico we had more than they have now. My mother ALWAYS made it a celebration. She built a fire, cooked a pot of stew in the dutch oven in the hot coals, had hot chocolate and we would sled all day long! I’ve always felt that if I’m going to be freezing cold, please let there be snow! 🙂
I also loved thinking of snow as church. And it is absolutely no surprise to me, because after all it is a definite gift from God. It’s how I feel about my garden.
Happy Winter!!! 🙂 Dori – the Ranch Farmgirl –
Thank you so much for sharing your version of church. I also love being in the snow at night, however, it doesn’t snow here that much (Maryland). Being in nature, the quiet of the wilderness on a mountain top in Colorado, the beautiful sunset of Siesta Key, FL, anywhere in nature with all that God has provided is a wonderful experience.
I so enjoy your blog and feel I am living a dream through you and your family. I would so like to live in the country again (grew up on a farm, maaaaannnny years ago) it gives you so much freedom and a chance to really connect to life in a way so many are unaware of. Have always wanted to vacation in New England in the winter. I did live in Colorado for several years and loved it!!!! Rocky Mountain Park was my playground!! Aging parents brought me back to Maryland, but through your blog I can visit a snowy paradise.
Hope you and your family have a very Merry Christmas!!!!
Fluffy white snow is magical. Your beautiful description is well said. Minnesota has winters that provide those experiences sometimes daily. I don’t live on a tree farm but we are kindred spirits in the snow.
I too was swept away by your words to the quiet stillness of walking in through the falling snow. When I was a girl we had a woods behind our house with a wide path that was called “the wagon trail”. I loved walking along that trail when snow was drifting so silently down through the loblolly pines. Sometimes I would end up in a place that I called “church”. It was a circle of trees that allowed sun beams or snow flakes in. It felt safe, and holy.
Beautiful. This makes my little pagan heart glow in agreement. My special places tend to be in forests. Snow is gorgeous, but I’d probably cry if I had to be out in it. My husband says I wouldn’t mind it if I had the right kind of clothes. Could be.
love!!!! God bless.
beautiful. i totally agree.
I hear your joyous words and know only too well how you feel. I live in the wilderness of Alaska. We measure our neighbors by the miles between us. We have lots of snowy days. One day, years ago now, I needed the sky cathedral for some well needed solace. I took a lawn chair from the garage and a big warm blanket to cover it as -20 was a little to cold to lie on the ground. As I sat in the chair with fresh snow making the trees and landscape twinkle. The sky was clear and deep blue. With shortened days in the winter here, the sun was low on the horizon. The chickadees were feeding ravenously in anticipation of another long cold night. As I sat still, two of those precious angels landed on my shoulders. They spoke to me in the most beautiful language. They tugged on my scarf and hair. I was mesmerized and humbled. I dared not breathe. When they finally left to finish their filling up, I thanked the creator for giving me a glimpse of heaven. Thank you for sharing such a personal experience. I love hearing about your adventures of country life. Happy Holidays!
This is a beautiful piece. Thank you for putting your thoughts in a blog that enables your readers to have a share in this snowy peacefulness. My heart jumps at the sight of a lovely sunrise (I’m at work by 6:30am) or at the magnificent colours of the day’s sunset (I’ve 18 miles to home in the evening). So much in nature shows forth the creative touch of the Eternal Artist, God my heavenly Father. Experiencing the changing seasons, noting daily the little changes that slowly brings spring into summer into autumn into winter and on and on again…… I feel that same sense of holy that you described in your piece. I can’t look at the natural world in any other way other than seeing it as the work of my loving heavenly Father Who has given me the ability to enjoy His handiwork. Blessings of the season upon you and your family.
Really enjoyed reading your words and was transported to doing what you did, saw, felt and heard, including the deep quiet and the horse’s nickerings. Thank you .
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LoveHugs / PrayersAlways , donna FL
Lovely photos. A winter Christmas must be so lovely. Gorgeous writing.
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That was simply beautiful Rebekah…thank you for that!
Oh my gosh, now I really want it to snow! Thank you for whisking me into another world. I have some rocks and 27 acres of woods and will be building my own fire pit. Thank you for always being so inspiring in a simple, UNmaterialistic way! Have a wonderful December.
I really like the first picture. Beautiful!
Love to be out in the woods….its always an experience of feeling G*ds presence. I guess its why I love pine-fir trees….it make me feel there’s something more than myself…..when I’m out under the huge trees….perhaps its a lesson…..like G*d is bigger than trees?….its that awesome when your in the woods and you get that sense that your not really alone when your alone.
Lovely.
What Kay said about singing anyway — remember about “make a joyful noise unto the Lord”? So just sing anyway when you feel like it.
I grew up in the redwoods of the northern California coast. There was one patch in town that I would step just inside the edge of it. (The edge was the top of the big gully it was in). And it was suddenly quiet and, well, awesome. The towering redwoods as cathedral is rather a cliche, but in this patch, it really was churchlike. Didn’t want to sing, though.
It rarely snows here on the Central Oregon Coast, same as where I grew up, so it never occurs to me to go out in it much.
Amen sista!
i always look forward to your postings. i absolutely love the way you express yourself. your pictures are always beautiful. i have loved horses my whole life. you are my favorite farm girl!
i live in texas now but i grew up in pennsylvania. i remember the wonderful snowfalls and now miss them. snow truly does hush the earth.
thanks so very much for sharing your world with me!
I get it, Rebekah. This was just beautiful. <3
Lovely post, Rebekah.
It would feel very divine, very connecting. For me being outside connects me to God and painting does it for me too. I’m glad you do feel that way. It’s beautiful .
Bless you Rebekah for sharing your spiritual journey. I find my mind and heart at peace when I’m out in God’s beautiful and awesome creation. I can see Him everywhere…in the sky, trees, flowers and animals that I encounter in my travels. I am humbled by His creation. While I admit I’m not much of a winter person(sorry) I am in awe of it all!! May you and your family(both two and fout-footed) have a happy, healthy and blessed 2015
Beverly! So true!God is everywhere! Just love this website blog I just discovered! She is a very talented writer and photographer I might add! Oh love the country life so much! God is great! Amen!
Such beautiful photos, a cowgirls dream. Two things captured in these pictures that I love most, country setting and snow!
I get so many inquiries about our Christmas Tree farm, I decided to do a post on it.
Seeing as how, you know, ’tis almost the season. But first, in other news:
Rebekah, can I just say that I really love your blog posts? 🙂 And snakes? I just can’t figure out WHY we have to have them in our world. It just doesn’t seem right does it? Sending warm farmgirl hugs your way to protect you from those evil creatures! – Dori, the Ranch Farmgirl –
As long as your snakes aren’t poisonous, I’m all for sending you strong encouragement to co-exist with them. They can be helpful around your farm, eating mice, gophers, and things like that. Quite useful. But you don’t want the poisonous ones in your house!
oh my! I’m at a loss for what to do with your ornaments in the attic? strong plastic boxes with tight fitting lids for next year but for this year, wow! I liked Nan’s prayer for you and I hope it can continue to help you but I think you need to hire some men who aren’t afraid of snakes to take your boxes out of the attic and open them up OUTSIDE for you AND get all of your ornaments out of the boxes!! Good luck! p.s. I’m scared to death of snakes so I really do wish you the best of luck. 🙂
Praying for you Rebekah…If I lived closer, I would come up and drag your stuff down for ya. Seriously…just remember that they are as afraid of you as you are of them…Just make a LOT of noise and they will go away from you. I actually don’t mind snakes…non poisonous ones that is…but I wouldn’t want them in my house. No one wants to be surprised by one. I actually released a young black snake from a sticky trap last summer….now THAT was exciting..
Well Ho Ho Ho! This post made me smile from head to toe! Thank you for sharing your lovely Christmas tree farm. The cold temperatures you may keep to yourself as well as the snakes. I’ve done a lot of snake dances of my own, I try, I really try to be patient and peaceful with all creatures but alas I fail on occasion. For whatever good it does I’ll send positive intentions your way and hopefully the ornaments will make their way down to safe ground. Best, Kim
I’m with you! I found a small rattle in my Mexico house and I have a big phobia not only to snakes but my fears also with scorpions, oh i found one or two. I have a good eye it seems I scan the floors when I’m there, so I understand how you feel. Don’t worry too much God has a plan for all of us and he will keep you and your family safe. He is a generous and jelous with his creations.
Hello there! Wow!!! Loved reading your post. It’s my first of yours, and it was purely refreshing! Someone posted the link to it on my fan group page, and I did the right thing and clicked the link. So glad I did.
We LOVE Frasier Firs. It is THE only tree for us. We’ve been buying them from the same little local produce/garden market for many, many years. The owner orders his trees from somewhere out east, but not sure from whom. They are always fresh and lovely and rarely shed needles. He always buys Frasiers. Is there any other kind?
Your horse is beautiful, um GORGEOUS, actually. I would probably mostly be content to just spend time staring at him and petting his lovely velvet nose.
Now, the snake phobia. Ugh. I do understand phobias – to a tee. However, mine is/was to mice. I felt like you. Somehow I need to learn to co-exist with them because let’s face it, they do show up at times although always uninvited. I never leave food on the counter, live clean and tidy, and don’t do anything to encourage their entrance – except for live in Michigan, where in the fall it starts getting cold and these stupid little animals for some reason, feel entitled to find a warm hideout. Far be it from me to figure out why they choose to wriggle their way through some unsuspecting crack – somewhere – in our house and make themselves at home. Fortunately, this does not happen every year, but every few. And just recently, in fact. My hubby set traps up between the basement ceiling and the main level floor, and we caught three. That seems to be the end of them. I know – to you, a farm girl, it must seem UNHEARD OF that we wouldn’t have trapped them humanely then let them free outside. BUT…then they would have come back in!
I must tell you that I did undergo a sort of therapy session for my phobia when I watched a TV show about phobias, and I forced myself to watch this girl who had a rat/mouse phobia endure several sessions to overcome it. After watching that show, I would say I am 60% cured. I was able to reason with myself, go back to where the phobia began, and deal with it on a level I’d never wanted to confront before. It truly helped. But also…I prayed about it, and asked the Lord to help me. Truly, my phobia was pretty debilitating – to the point that if I saw even a photograph of one, it would put me in panic mode.
I believe God can help you with your snake phobia.
That said, the guys in your life HAVE to bring down the boxes of ornaments, carry them outside and open them, and go through ALL the ornaments before you so much as even think about decorating your tree. I mean, you didn’t watch the TV show with me, so you’re not 60% cured yet.
Sorry for the “book”, but I write them for a living, and, sadly, I can’t say anything in 20 words or less. Ha!
Have a blessed, joyous day, you sweet farm girl.
Oh My Goodness!!! I will say many prayers for your peace of mind. Snakes in my attic would surely cause me distress so I can only imagine how you are feeling. I will pray that they find a new place to live far far away from you and that your Christmas decorations are perfectly ready for you to decorate your beautiful home.
I am also scared silly of snakes!!!!! I had a neighbor that had a big black snake hanging around and she bought a snake repellent to scatter around her house. Actually in smelling it, it was nothing more than moth balls. Now I don’t know how that would work in your attic during the summer, might get too smelly, but for now, I would be throwing it like crazy up there. I agree with the other post to put your decorations in plastic sealed containers. At least if you can deter them from co-existing In your home, maybe they will move to the barns or sheds or somewhere else, like maybe a neighbor down the road. I know they have a purpose, but not in my world. Good luck, prayers coming your way!!!! Love your posts!!!!!
I feel for you about the snakes. We have them once in awhile in our house too in the basement and lower levels. My husband has tried to use “GreatStuff” but hasn’t found all the places yet as we have had another just last month.
I will however be careful when I open my Christmas boxes this year as they are stored in the basement up high but that might be where the snakes come in at then drop to the floor.
I pray for protection also as they will not harm us if we do not harm them. And as long as the copperheads and rattlers stay outside here in Kansas I can handle it somehow.
Perhaps you should try harness and buggy with your loving horse then you won’t have the fear of being tossed off.
Merry Christmas
Now this really is a little bit discouraging, isn’t it? As it was mentioned previously, let someone else do the unpacking this year and I surely hope that they just find a skin that is shed and not the live ones. Does it get cold enought down there for them to hibernate in the winter? That would give you a little time to relax! 🙂 Moving on, I heard a tip from a friend and as I don’t have snake problems can’t give it a thumbs up but it might be worth a try. She said to spray around your foundations with clorox bleach and that should deter the little critters. I don’t know how often often you need to repeat the process but that might depend on rain washing it away. It might be worth a try. Positive thinking and prayer helped me overcome my fear of mice. Still don’t like them but am not terrified of them anymore. Freedom of worry is empowering! Bless you and Happy Thanksgiving.
I was raised around rattlesnakes. We had a healthy respect for them. I rode horses where I know some of them were. Now you know why cowboys and cowgirls rode with either a hand gun or rifle by their side.
I would deffinantly heed Denise’s advice. Get someone to open the box’s out side or you could get all new ornaments and after Christmas put them in the plastic box’s.
I do not like snakes either but where I live now there is no poisonous snakes but they still make me jump too. I talk to them and ask them to leave the area that they are in and I go else where until they are gone. I know the good Lord is watching over me as just a short time later they are gone from there. So, yes, I will say a prayer that he moves them for you out of your house and keeps them out side.
Hugs and Happy Thanksgiving.
Kay
Do you ever get any requests for non trimmed trees?
I’m saying a prayer for you……I use plastic totes with snap lids for everything…Take Care….HAPPY THANKSGIVING TO ALL OF YOU
Beautiful blog. Each time we read your work, we laugh and cry together. The ability to stir emotions is a gift and you use yours with grace. The answer on how to live peacefully among the snakes is the same mixed bag of emotions, both simple and difficult. They are there to stay,as are you, so why not tackle this as you do everything else in your new farm life? Learn everything you can about snakes. Go to your library and read everything you can about your local breeds. Take a class at the community college. Volunteer at the reptile house at your zoo. Learn everything you can about snakes! Watch them hatch, touch them, feed them, nurture them. It will not be easy, the best things in life are hard fought!
Phobias are awful things – I have a few myself do I know whetr you’re at with your snake one. I will definitely pray for freedom from this phobia. God bless you and keep smiling. Love your posts
Denise
Australia
I live in Arizona and my decorations are stored in sheds in plastic containers and sealed cardboard boxes. All must be opened before bringing anything into the house. I wear thick work gloves and have to shake every item to check for scorpions. We spray continuously but there is always one or two that come crawling out as I get into them. I keep my stomper handy to smash them before they can get away. I think I would take a snake over them any day, except we have rattlesnakes, and surely do not want to surprise one of them. Be brave and wear gloves! On a good note, you should not find any mice in the attic if you have a snake or two!
Too fun! Enjoyed the post and comments tremendously. Prayer-done. My snake story: My 13 year old has been asking for a snake for a pet for YEARS. I continually say no because many years ago the boys caught a black snake and kept it over night OUTSIDE in a covered 10 gallon tank. In the morning IT WAS GONE!!! I have NEVER forgotten that. Those things can get out of anything! So I continue to say no because I don’t want to wake up next to a snake! Can you imagin??? (sorry if this is really freaking anyone out…). Anyway, my son has settled for a menagerie of small lizards and I think they are adorable (in their cages).
Enjoy the season and good luck with those ornaments!
Rebekah I feel your pain and I think about you almost daily and pray that you have overcome your snake phobia and I am ashamed to say that it may be for selfish reasons; because I too have that same snake phobia. If you can do it then maybe I can too. I pray that you are able to overcome your fear but more importantly I pray that the snakes don’t enter your attic anymore.
Rene,
You have been so kind as to pray for Rebekah and the snakes. What you need to do for yourself is to look at snakes as helpers. Most eat the rats, mice, lizards, gophers, and any other small thing that ruins the lawn and enters our houses. Yes, I have a healthy phobia against them but with Gods help I just move to any other area to let them do what ever they are doing and leave them alone. Yes, I do a little dance and a little scream comes out of my mouth but I talk to it and let it know it will not be harmed by me and again I move on. For Rebekah I suggested she have a man bring her box’s out side and have them open them. I said that because most men do not have our fear. I will pray for you that you can look at a snake not for what it might do to you but what it can do for you.
May this Holy season bring you peace and love.
A friend
Kay (Karen)
Rebekah – You may know Hank & Frannie Meshorer. He sent your blog to me thinking perhaps we may be neighbors. We have a Christmas tree farm in Ashe County, NC. We do wholesale & retail. I live in Raleigh, NC, but spend a great deal of time at the plantation tending the trees. Our farm is known as Big Meadow Mountain at the Peak. Between my son & ourselves we operate 4 retail lots in Raleigh, NC. Hope to connect with you soon.
I went outside this morning, after all the snow we got this weekend and took care of the chickens. Woo. Sure was cold. All of their water containers froze during the night, even the one in their house. Guess it got below freezing again last night. Sunny and beautiful and cold this morning! I love it, I love it, I love it.
THE VIEW OUTSIDE MY WINDOW SUNDAY MORNING
Great blog. I surely enjoyed the pictures and your midnight run…lol.
take care and stay warm,
Becky aka Rebecca. (great name!)
This made me laugh – it is always in the dark, cold, snow that we have to find our farm animals! 🙂 Never fails! Your farm in the snow is gorgeous. I’m super excited to see if the foggy mornings in August equal the snow events! I’m glad that isn’t the myth here in middle Tennessee as I think we had foggy mornings every day in August! – Dori, Ranch Farmgirl –
Such beauty!!! I can’t wait to take he first bean out of my jar; after reading your post about the beans and August fog I have 18 beans waiting to be removed. I love living vicariously through your farm stories and anxiously await for the next one.
Beautiful pics. The first one looks like a painting. I have an additional item you might want to put on your snow shelf – a favorite bottle of wine! Love your blog. N
Wish I could hang every one of your pictures on my wall!
Fall is hanging around here in the Ozarks, with beautiful trees in full colors.
Since we get ice storms that snow us in, we have learned to prepare for winter all year long.
Every time I buy groceries, I buy several things to stick in our “ice storm cupboard” for emergencies. Even cans of soups, cans of chicken, extra coffee and teas, are a huge blessing when you are very busy keeping in the warmth and keeping out the cold building fires and staying warm and cannot run to town to the store.
Go thru every room of your house and make a list in the fall and start buying.
You will be so surprised and thankful that you put away for a rainy, snow, icy day!!
Hugs from Noel, Mo, diana
Looks like you’re off to an adventurous start to winter with at least 14 more adventures to go if the beans are right. I’ve loved fall this year. All the colors and snow too!
Everyone of your snow pictures were worthy of being framed and hung. Some of the pictures actually looked like paintings. Truly amazing! Isn’t God good!
Rebekah I bought last year a heated waterer for my chickens from tractorsupply $50. It has an automatic turn on when the temp get 32 or below. Water never froze one time last year so my girls always had fresh water which is very important. I placed mine on top of a cinder block so it was not on the shavings as it does get hot. And also so the girls wouldn’t just kick the shavings all in their water. Hope this helps with your frozen water problem. As always the pics are beautiful and love your posts. Neta
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Lovely reading about your snow day. Thank you for sharing pictures and thoughts. As a city girl, you gave me a beautiful insight to a different lifestyle. Good old USA, something for everyone!
I have never witnessed anything like it before.
The molting of my chickens.
But now that I’ve seen it, I think we should all molt. What a wonderful thing a yearly MOLT is. Drop our “old” ideas, prejudices, hurt feelings, grudges, chips on our shoulders, negative emotions. Molting is a painful, stressful process, sure. And yes, we must take extra special care of ourselves during it. But when we come out on the other side? Woo! Growth. Freshness. Power. Newness.
MOLTING is good. I would love to and am working on it.
Hugs and happy molting.
Kay
Thanks for this information, and all the nice pictures. Some of my chickens are starting to molt also. I knew what it was when I saw it, but I didn’t know that it was stressful for them. I’m new to all this also. My husband grew up with lots of farm animals, but I grew up a “city girl” in California, so this is all new to me. I feel like we are in a Green Acres scene most of the time! But I love it!
Those are some healthy-looking chickadees. Congrats on being such a great chicken mom. And the MASH house? Hilarious. Snakes shed their skins also. Or do you avoid any knowledge about snakes:) I’m sure if I molted, I’d hide under plywood, too. BTW, hubby says he religiously reads and enjoys your blog posts. You have a guy fan out here in Idaho. Gives us something to talk about over morning coffee.
Rebekah, I always feel so sorry for hens when they are molting… I used to think they “hid out” in the hen house because they felt so vulnerable without their feathers. I agree with you – I think we should all molt. I’ve never thought of it the way you wrote it though and I loved it. I do try to shed some of those things that tend to burden me down… and when I’m in the process I usually hide out in my kitchen. That happy place, you know! 🙂 Thanks again… I loved this post! – Dori, the Ranch Farmgirl –
Molting and Gratitude. Two very good things 🙂
Love to read all the chicken news. Our chickens are molting right now too, with their bare necks they look a lot like turkey vultures. I bought some Nutrena Feather Fix pellets for the chickens the other day. Supposed to have extra protein to help them grow their feathers back and with cold weather on the way, they better hurry.
Yes Rebekah, I like your idea about molting too. Wow, a mental and emotional release of old clutter from within. Thank you for great ideas.
Lovely chickens you have there, they are so lucky you care so much. MOLTING – yes that is what I am going to try to do. Because I have no feathers to release, I am going do a MOLTING journal, what a great idea you had, thanks much. God bless.
I love the idea of molting away all of the negative stuff in our lives. We should make it into a ritual just like the chickens do. Hide out for a few days. Alone with our thoughts and just molt. I’m molting I’m molting! ( say like the wicked witch of the west!)
Cindy Bee
I’ve had so many questions about our New Old Wormy Chestnut Floors. So here goes!
By the way. NO, our kitchen is NOT finished. Didn’t we begin the process like a million years ago?! Here’s a photo that pretty much sums it up….
Rebekah, I think I am absolutely GREEN with envy on those floors. OH. MY. WORD. Honestly, I can’t think of anything more beautiful. And that picture of your amazing old farmhouse is just incredible. I think I’m ready to come visit now! 🙂 – Dori, the Ranch Farmgirl –
I love your old wormy floors! What a neat idea. Your home is coming right along.
The floors are beautiful! I love wormy chestnut as well, and have a handful-made bowl from it. Cooler weather in N GA the past couple of days. A great improvement over the hot weather all summer. Can’t wait to see the completed kitchen!
Fantastic!
X – QUE – SET!!!!! and if it looking greener west of you – that happens to be me!!!
Thanks for sharing.
Rebekah, the floor is gorgeous! (Or like you said.) You will always have a great story to share with folks who come to see your new kitchen! Sounds like we may hear a sequel with your cabinet installation. Hope that it goes smoothly!
As always, I smile and chuckle when I read your post.
Love your floors. I love all the character that comes with old and vintage things, and the stories that go with them. Loved your post :/)
I am extremely jealous. They are beautiful. I am living my small farm dream life through all of you. I am too old and my husband is too “citified” so, you go, girl and I will so enjoy the beauty of your hard work.
BEEOOOTIFUL! Love those floors, and what a way to give life back to that wormy chestnut tree.
Not one to use gushy words, but, OMG! I am sawoooooning over those pics of your new wormy chestnut floors….*sigh*……ENJOY!
The flooring is AWESOME!!!! If I had the resources that you have there, I would have done the exact same thing. I like things that are NOT like everyone elses!
Oh, I am even more ” green ” with envy than Dori! Love the story, the up-cycling and the beauty of your new floors will shine through for years to come as you make new family memories in your old/new farm kitchen! Now, truth be told, I cannot be tooooo envious… We are on the tail end of installing our new bamboo flooring in our modern farmhouse kitchen! I’m loving them too! but oh, yours are sooooooooooo dreamy! Lucky you! Wormy Chestnut …. sigh….
Let’s just say I’m really late catching up on my blog reading. But, the wood is gorgeous! When my parents built a house in the late 70s they used “blue cottonwood” planks from the Mississippi river for paneling in the den and for cabinetry in the kitchen. Huge cottonwood trees would fall into the river and stay submerged for as long as 100 years, eventually floating to the surface, then retrieved to be sawn into lumber. The color wasn’t so much blue, but a warm grey. Well, kind of bluish I guess. I remember the old sawmill man, probably haven’t thought about him since the 70s! I remember him bragging to my dad that he only picked out the best wood from his ‘special, largest, bluest tree’, lol.
Ok, just check to your blog after reading the article in here’s the thing in the magazine. But what you don’t give is the cornbread recipe! Is that available? Thanks, Becka
Hi Rebekah! I’m getting caught up on your blog and I just read this about the floors. I have to tell you we have a woods that is full of ash trees. And those ash trees are being destroyed by the emerald ash borer. I talked to a local lumber company and in the spring we’re going to take those ash trees, cut them down, and take them to this lumber company to be planed for wooden floors for our house!I think it is going to be beautiful!
I love your kitchen floor! And yes I can believe the kitchen isn’t finished yet. I am going on my third winter in one room in the basement. One snow away from going cray-cray!
Cindy Bee
Love wooden floors, but when you live do close water, the dampness kills it. Your all the time changing it because it gets warped and buckles. But I love wood especially pine , walnut and cherry wood..,grateful flooring….never thought wormy word be good for anything except barns. You did a great job!
And so it officially arrived. September 22 at 10:29 pm EST.
It is Autumn. Oh, Autumn, how happy I am to see you again!
To feel your crisp, cool breeze embrace me.
Fall is my favorite time of the year. I also look my best in fall color’s. I really like the way you put all the words together. Poetry is one of my fav’s.
Hugs
Kay
I just love reading the words of your heart! Beautiful rendering of a most welcome arrival.
Rebekah,
If I had to choose one thing that is my favorite about Fall and cooler weather it would be cooking and eating soups! I LOVE soup! As a matter of fact, I still kind of cook soup periodically in the summer but it just doesn’t quite have the same feel to it! 🙂 – Dori, the Ranch Farmgirl –
Yay I love love love Autumn. My favorite time of the year.
Enjoyed your post as I always do! Just the other day I enjoyed a salad with lettuce and cucumber from my own garden! Loved it, some how it tasted better! I have already made the first bean soup of the season, it a Michigan soup that is loved in my area, the farmers grow the northern beans around here, we even have a festival labor day weekend called the Michigan Bean Festival! To me that means fall is here, for the chlidren don’t start school till the day after Labor day. Also seeing the sugar beats trucks hauling the sugar beats,and corn is saved till the last to be harvested there can be light snow in the fields and they will then harvest it.
Also if you see lots of spiders in the house means and thicker webs means a early and cold winter!
Hi Rebekah,
Oh, pure pleasure reading your blog! And you have written it all…all the things that
I have been feeling ever since I awoke this morning and heard the honking of the
Canada geese flying over! I LOVE Autumn, and of course, it’s my favorite time of
the year! I love every single thing you mentioned, and can hardly wait to wear a
sweater! I took up knitting about 4 years ago, and love it and all the fiber animals
that supply my knitting cabinet. I just felt so overflowing with my love of Autumn and
wanted to share it with someone else, and here I read your blog, and find a lovely kindred spirit! Thanks for sharing!
Hugs,
Marilyn
I really like your Fall post. It is my favorite time of year too! Thanks for sharing that with us.
My favorite season! It’s still hot as heck, but I can already feel the difference in the atmosphere. It’s autumn! Yippee!
Love your photos and descriptions of the season. Who doesn’t love fall? I say that as I sneeze, yes, allergies, but I love this time of the year and we finally get to air out the house. My indoor cats are beside themselves, smelling the fresh air as they thunder through the house running from window to window.
I miss the call of the geese flying southward. The Sandhill cranes are my favorite with their beautiful wild trilogy call as they head to their southern winter grounds. Unfortunately we are not on the migrant flyways here in NE Tennessee, as we were back in central Texas so we miss a lot of the winged wildlife during migration.
YAY!!!! that was fun. Oh the black walnuts, so miss them. Thanks for sharing.
God bless.
Thanks for sharing! Yes, they all say that this winter is coming sooner than usual and it will be a tough one. Here in Illinois, typically, the Halloween beetles (ladybugs) come out later in October by the zillions….however….this year they came out at least a month earlier which I have NEVER ever seen before. Do they know…maybe? Enjoy this marvelous weather and season!
I love Autumn too 🙂 such beautiful warm colours and I love the cosy atmosphere of Autumn but I can still go outside and enjoy the warmth of Autumn days with crisp air and cosy up in the early morning and in the evenings and snuggle under the covers at night
My daughter, who is 13, asked me the other day if I missed her being younger. Don’t I miss her being tiny? she asked me. I absolutely don’t. I have enjoyed every single age that she has been and have never looked back. (Of course, she’s a teenager now, so we’ll see how that continues to hold up.)
Guess what? … I look forward to your posts so much they are the first thing I read when I open my emails and see one down in the list of unopened mail. Thanks for all your time and photos.
Yeas all around – pumpkin looks superb, training will be a good thing, silly long haired cowboy (my son is too), ah ‘real’ corn, not much reading done around here either, maybe this winter, we too are getting Fallish already about a month early but the report is that we will be colder n snowier this year than normal, ok, AT oh I hope you get to do it, always wanted to but I will enjoy your experience, Farmer Teal n Lucille look real good together – bet that was fun, super yea for Mustache cat and for y’all to show him such love, now then the most wonderful office/studio HAS to be!!! lots of snake proofing, snake-a-way, very thick new ropes and all the advice of locals, I just know you can make it wonderfuler than it already is. Oh thanks for sharing all your great experiences – and OH GUESS WHAT!!! the teen guessing was a bit scary for me – hope it goes well for you. God bless.
I think if you start to move into the office, the snakes will vacate. They are actually scared of you, if you can believe that. And leave the door open for feral cat and he will probably de-snake the place for you! Love hearing your adventures.
Love your blog
I so look forward to your blogs!! Thank you !!
Go for the wash house/turned studio office….It will be LOVELY. The snakes will leave.
Rebekah – WOW, I can’t believe how awesome your old wash house is and what a great studio/office it will be. I am terribly afraid of snakes so I’d be a bit scared too! 🙂 But I agree with the above comment – when you move in, they will leave! And… Farmer Teal and Lucille? PERFECT!! 🙂 – Dori – (AKA: the new Ranch Farmgirl! Happy to be a part of your farm girl blogging group here on MaryJanesFarm!) 🙂
Absolutely love your wash house, I’m currently in the transition of moving to our 1st home/farm and I’m determined in taking the wash house that is here at my home place which will be sold within the next two years… very emotional yet exciting time. I just love the “old” feel of it and knowing that my grandparents and father hold a part in it’s history and being as they’re gone now it makes it even that much more special to me and gives me that much more determination as to finding a way in having it moved and becoming a part of the new chapter in my new life. So as to your dilemma about your S’s, I say just go for it! As long as you seal up all the cracks and crevices you’ll be fine 🙂
Guess what? If I had that wash house, I’d put a greenhouse on the front of it, and use it for a potting shed. Guess what else…you look like a little kid in the Farmer Teal outfit!!! LOL! Well, you do! Guess what else…I like long hair. Even on guys. But not that long. Dude looks like a lady…baa daaa bommm boommm..Dude looks looks like a lady (I’m singing-I’ll stop) Oh yeah, he looks like a lady from the back. Not the front…although some ladies…nevermind.
Cindy Bee
Rebekah, for some reason everytime I get a notice of your new post, when I go to it, it is the Suburban farm girl instead?? Just thought you might want to know. I actually went to the site and clicked on your logo to bring this up so I could send you a comment, this has happened the last 3 or 4 posts that you have posted.
Did you count foggy mornings in August for 2014? Saw your 2013 post and was just curious.
Thanks!
My husband is a huge gigantic Beatles fan. That’s where the name of the post came from.
Snakes fall out of trees?
Hi Rebekah,
I think first picture of your mystery garden veggies is going to be a pumpkin??? It kind of looks like one before it ripens.
I just LOVE mysteries. Perhaps channeling Sherlock Holmes will help you with your detective work.
Have fun,
Lisa
We have several strays they always
know when to be here when the food
is out. Some cats we had to trap them to spayed them. They are happier after and some have become nicer. But some are still wild. It takes time.
That spikes looking thing is a thistle and they are bad. Any time you see one try to remove it at the ground.
The first item looks like a stoneboat.
Under our oak tree you will be bombed with acorns when the breezes blow swiftly. I don’t think your computer screen will like that!
Enjoyed your post immensely.
I absolutely love your posts! So much fun, and though I have no answers to any of your mysteries, I’m thrilled to “visit” your paradise! Just love your kitties, and how clever of you to name them after the Beatles….for your hubby! I believe it’s working! A lot of people THINK they don’t like kitties, until they have an opportunity to get to know them! Kitties just have a different story to tell than dogs. Thank you!
I’m as mystified as you are about your vegetables, but the spiky plant in an an Angel Trumpet. Big white flower, right? Or in some places they’re called jimson weeds. I like Angel Trumpet better.
I’m seeing a watermelon (long & striped green), a spaghetti squash (yellow-next pic) and maybe a couple of different kinds of pumpkins. The prickly guy looks like a horse chestnut (tree), to me. The pods dry out and pop open to the most beautiful seeds. I’m thinking you have an adult tree in your neighborhood…
So glad to see Mr. Feral wanting to join you!
Fun post! Not being originally from the South and now owning a farm in Tennessee, it seems like we have lot of mysteries too! 🙂 When I plant my garden I make a “map” on paper because I’ve found that even when I put markers in the soil they end up getting taken over by the plant, washed away in the rain, etc! I know the feeling of having veggies that make no sense. As far as when to pick…. I kind of follow the rule of thumb on things like pumpkins and melons… when I pick them up to sort of rotate them a bit and they fall off the vine… they are ripe! (Or when I discover that the ‘coons beat me to them… they are ripe! Ha!) How fun that your barn came with “mysteries” in it. That has got to be the coolest thing ever. – Dori –
the first picture looks like some sort of a grain sifter or grain sorting sifter that would separate seeds from grain. Its hard to tell from the angle of the picture. The first pic of fruit looks like squash, the second looks like watermelon, the third and fourth looks like butternut squash, the fifth one looks like wild wheat or some sort of wild grain. That last one that looks like a sort of prickly fruit is most like milk weed. Monarch butterfly’s love milk weed. So if you have a lot of caterpillars or Monarchs around those- its most likely mild weed. As for the tuxedo kitty who is shy and feral. Its common for kitties to make your farm it’s home- but not make you it’s owner. Keep feeding him and caring for him. he will always love your barn 😉
The first veggie looks like an immature pumpkin. The first yellow ones look like spaghetti squash. They look ready, and they are yummy.
If those flowers are white and appear at night, I believe you have moon flowers. The prickly pods actually are seeds.
First one is a pumpkin, the second is a watermelon and the next ones are squash? I think! I am so happy to see Mr. Mustache hanging around still. Let me guess that you are getting bombarded with acorns. Love your posts…keep them coming.
Looks like you have some squash, watermelon, and if the wood thing has screen, I think it is a sifter for grains; but for the life of me I cannot remember what to call it! Oh, I cannot think why in the world you don’t miss north Georgia! It has been so wonderfully(?) HOT this summer. Please send cool weather and rain to Kennesaw! Love reading your posts. I am a country girl at heart.
i do agree with Tina Hart the most with her answers to your mysteries. My dad had a wooden grain cleaner/sifter with different “trays” like you showed, with different-sized holes for the different grains. Your garden looks wonderful. Please enjoy every piece of produce therein!
Hey City Farm Girl! How are ya? I think the reason you should not lay under a hammock (or is it lye…or lie…I’m awful in the lay/lie area) on a fall, breezy day is because those cute little ‘oaknuts’ will be fallin’ from the sky right onto your cute little pumpkin-head! And that one flower with the prickly little ball is what us Northern folk call Moon flower. The plant has a big white flower that opens up in the evening and it’s beautiful..looks like a trumpet….but guess what. In about a month that ball will turn brown, then split open and spill it’s 1000 little seeds all over the ground. The fall breeze will blow them around and next year, you’ll have about 1000 moon flowers. My advice, neuter! We had a mystery item hanging on our wall on our patio as decoration. It’s still hanging there, but not longer a mystery. It’s what they would put on the truck to load piggies. They would walk on it to get into the truck. Maybe I’ll do a blog post on it someday. And how come you never update your other blog? Gotta go for a walk….in my pj’s because who is gonna see me out here…and see if my baby deer are in the ex-bee yard that we now call the ……what do we call it?…..I forget. It has a pole barn where the bees once were…..starts with an “s”….Oh well…gotta run.
Cindy Bee
PS – BLEH! on the beans….we’ve had NOTHING but FOG!
Hey Rebekah! Your first “garden mystery pic” looks just like the Tatume squash I have in my garden. They are a summer squash similar in taste to zucchini if picked young but can be a winter squash if left to ripen. I keep finding hidden ones that grow to be about the size you have in your picture. (My pumpkins never start out that oblique that’s why I think its a Tatume.) My Tatume squash starts out a lighter green but matures into a darker green with a harder skin. The flesh will be white when young growing to a pale/medium yellow when picked more mature. Otherwise I pick them the size of my hand, slice them up skin and all and fry them in a little butter or grill them with a bit of olive oil and garlic. They are hardy, prolific little buggers and fun to grow!
Great post!!!! I’m pretty sure the item you found is a sifter, usually hung on an A-frame on the center hook, then someone would shovel in whatever was to be sifted, grain, seeds, soil that might have something fun (kids mostly did the soil) and a person would be at the handle end shaking it back n forth. I think your vegies are pretty well covered and Love that Mr. Mustache is warming up and yes I will guess you are getting pelted by acorns but one other problem with laying in the hammock on such a beautiful day – I would be taking a nap and not getting done all that I should. But which ever, thanks again for sharing. God bless.
Fog… fog is low lying clouds you’re standing IN. Low lying clouds are ones that you can see above or even below you if you’re higher up the mountain.
Jimson weed used to be the bane of ranchers in the old west, and still may be today. it was said that it would make the animals more than a little nutty if they ate it. call your county extension office and ask for their thoughts on it before you let it live and procreate on your property.
the white squashes could be spaghetti squash, IF you planted those. LOL Thanks for the blog and photos. Kitty
I feel from the other ladies you have many of your questions answered as to your bountiful garden full of mysteries. The Queens Anne’s Lace flowers are just beautiful, and although I have seen them all my life I have just this summer learned their right name, and just last week I also learned that by tinting the vase water with food coloring of your choice will change their color, just a fun little tip. Love reading your posts, always puts a smile on my face. Also keep watch for your slithering farm animals, they seem to be out most in the early spring and fall I have found and like you I too have a huge phobia of them, and just whenever I have relaxed and let my guard down after having an encounter with one they seem to appear again and then the whole process starts all over! Your not alone when it comes to them and your stories let me know the same 🙂 Enjoy your fall days!
Yep, every farm has to have one.
And my own farm didn’t come with one.
I’ve looked around, to see if I could find one to move to my farm.
But no.
So I finally built one.
I’ve been dying to show it to you.
My husband, who is over 6 foot cleaned our outhouse to make it usable. He assured me all was okay. However, when 5 foot me went in, I could see the large mud dauber nest under the toiler paper roll. YIKES!
I think originally the crescent moon was cut out for ventilation, but I like your window better. A man wouldn’t bother! Very cute, and artistic, and your sewing is fine!! The fabric is perfect with all your lovely colors. p.s. What color did your cabinets end up?
Love it! You need to buy an Old Framers Almanac. They come with a hole punched in them so they can be hung up inside the loo. Really, that’s what the hole is for.
Awesome outhouse.
Love this story. My grandmother had a two holer as we called it. Only one person was allowed at a time. In her days, the outhouse was usually way in the back behind the house. Hollyhocks were planted along a path so the genteel ladies knew where the ‘privy’ was located without asking. Hated the smell of that sulphur.
Rebecca- That is TOTALLY awesome!!! I think that is just the cutest thing ever!!! Outhouses are becoming almost extinct and you have “preserved” or created a thing of the past, how absolutely wonderful!!! You are great!
We have one on our property that my 4 and 6 year old girls have called “the scary potty” forever. Funny part is, they love it!
Oh OH OH – Loo Outhouse!!!!!! what a beauty!!!! Great job woodworking and painting and the window is super – love the curtain. What a great idea to have on such a large property – we had one that we called ‘never fails’ – bet you get why it was called that. About the corn cobs, we had catalogs and cobs, we would rub the pages on the rough cobs to soften the paper, never used the cobs without the paper. And now about the snakes, we always had large, new rope all around inside, up and down and Snake a Way all around the outside – that is a product that is so wonderful, not harmful to animals but the snakes hate the smell. Also we would crush moth balls and lay around out and in – can you tell – ‘it’s me and my phobia’ talking. As I was typing I had to scroll back up just to take another look – another big smile for sure. Thanks for sharing. God bless.
This brought back the memory of our outhouse at our family lake cabin! Mostly mom putting lime down ‘there’ and her scrubbing it out with bleach water. That was the only potty that we had at our cabin in those days. The boards were rough hewn cedar.. I love your window w/curtain and the cheery colors! Now I am going to Google ‘black snake’ so that I can get more terrified by seeing what one actually looks like-
Have to chuckle because those are the colors of my bathroom in the house. Teal and periwinkle. Beautiful combo.
Oh my word. I love this. My farm does not have one… but I think it needs one! It’s really darling! – Dori –
Spot on perfect!!!
Looks fab and cute. Sewing a great 🙂 enjoy
Just love the blog about your Outhuse aka Loo!! The colors and window give it a kick up on the Loo meter too!! Speaking of snakes my husband told me today that our resident snake is still in our backyard and he believes it is about two feet long. Gotta go and check out the snake!!
Wow-it’s fabulous. I have never thought about building an outhouse. You are brilliant.
Love the colors and the curtains. Memories of “Latrine Duty” @ Girl Scouts Camp. Those outhouses weren’t even cute like yours!
Your old friend, Wesley Walraven also built an out house in the rear of his property.
But it has a chandelier, marble floor, heater, I’m not sure if the wifi reaches from the house, but it probable does. Ask him for a picture.
My kids, my husband have had horses for 20+ years. I lived the dream through them. Two years ago, at 63 we bought back my daughters old show horse. She’s a mare and 22-and she can be a hand full. I had my doubts it would work at first, but we have bonded and most days its a good ride. My saying is “put on your big girl panties, you can do this.” We are lucky enough to have a place to ride on our property and have been on some trail rides. I know that feeling being out there, beauty, peaceful and everything good all at once. I have a coffee cup with the same John Wayne saying. Enjoy the ride!!
Thanks for an enjoyable story. So glad you loved the ride!
I enjoyed the ride with you….thru your wonderful words, it brought back the days of my youth when I rode my own horse….felt the wind, the sun and the clip clop of the horses hoofs flipping on the road….just a wonderful day of riding mes you feel alive! And I love North Carolina…. its my favorite state….that and West Virginia and Pennsylvania…all so lovely country side for riding a horse! Thanks for sharing your event at riding….it brought back wonderful memories of my youth….I miss the ride! Yes, grab it while you still camp it, because once your bones get too old and brittle, you dot dare ride a horse. Boy do I miss it…..sometimes when I drive down this one road, that bumpy road almost feels as if I am on a horse again, going up and down with the wave of the road……makes me feel as if I’m on a horse again….its why I drive/down that road when I can….because it gives me that same country road ride feeling as if I’m on a horse again….its one thing you never forget…thanks fir the ride! Its just as lovely to read about it. Boy do I miss my horse!
Hi Rebekah, thanks for this lovely story. I grew up ranching and riding bareback flying like the wind…. until my horse died and my Dad got us a new one. I never bonded, was always afraid of that horse, and basically never really rode again. Fear is such a debilitating emotion. My Dad said to me with great patience as the tears were running down my face: “You are sending every emotion you feel right through your knees to your horse’s heart”. I’m thankful for a husband that lives to ride so he made sure our kids had an amazing instructor and that riding was just second nature to them. I was a very good “horse mom” in the sense that I loved to groom, saddle, load and trailer…. but I stayed off their horses. To this day, I don’t ride. Sad isn’t it? I wish I lived close to you, maybe we could learn together. Thanks again for sharing. (It was so real to me my heart was just racing.) – Dori, the Ranch Farmgirl – P.S. I missed your posts the last month. 🙁
Dearest Rebekah,
I just knew you would be riding one day! I can’t wait to see the pictures when you are on your soul-horse, Merlin. Thank you for your wonderful posts! I enjoy them so much!
Your Farmgirl Friend,
Diane
Great job! You should be so proud of yourself! I love stories of women overcoming fear…
I purchased a trail ride outing for myself when I turned 40 (Yikes, I am now 60..). I ended up on a 40 year old mule named Geronimo. He and I bonded, since we spent all at the ride at the back of the pack. It seems he had spent the previous day at the front, while being ridden by a young boy. The first time in my life that I actually got ‘saddle sore’, since my stirrups on the rental equipment were too long. Ouch…
You’re more than half way there. Fear, smear. BTW, Merlin is drop-dead gorgeous and he really does smile.
Bravo you stayed in the saddle! The more you fet a chance to ride the less you will fear them. I am not afraid of horses, just not very experienced in ridding. I have not gotten to many chances to ride.
While I read your blog today, I held onto every word. As a young girl, I went horseback riding with my grandfather as much as I could and enjoyed every moment of it. Now that I’m in my fifties I would be just like you. I would love to have that opportunity to try but it would be scary. Living on a farm has always been a dream of mine.
What an amazing, beautiful story – it brought tears to my eyes. Awesome for you. Motivational for sure. Congrats, look forward to reading the day you and Merlin ride together. Best, Kim
Ok! Now you know the peace and joy of riding a horse who is well suited to you! This is the way it should ALWAYS feel. Every time. Every ride. Until you are a real bonafide professional trainer. THEN you ride Merlin. You will be happier this way, trust me! I know you love your MM but whoever sold him to you should have known they were doing you a greet disservice. Shame on them. ANDRE is the MAN! (Well, HORSE! ) I am so glad you got to experience horses the way it’s supposed to be!
Oh my !you should have been a writer! You missed your calling! That was soooo enjoyable and hilarious to read! Wow! You lucky girl! Oh what joy horses bring! I too am a farm girl at heart! My husband and Zi built a farmhouse in Boise Idaho last year on our 26 acres! We have the dogs! A cay we named Gypsey who came wondering through our hay field in kitten stage! Three darling Nubian goats named Oliver,Popye and Rueben! All that’s missing is my LIFELONG great of owning a horse! I want the wood barn too! Soon I hope! I rode when I was young and now at 57 I have brains and know I can get hurt! Ha! Scared like you and figured the same as you that if I didn’t ride I would just look at this magnificent creature and pet and feed him or her? Not sure yet! I want a paint! Well ! You have really inspired me to face my fears and go for it! God will help us! Right! Ha! Enjoying the beauty of nature! Animals! Friends family and let’s not fogey great farmyard decorating and food! Ha! Every day matters! Oh the blessings we have! Your new friend,Cindy , my email is papjohngram@yahoo .com ! Write to me if you get a chance! Thanks for the terrific heartfelt story! Loved it!
Oh my !you should have been a writer! You missed your calling! That was soooo enjoyable and hilarious to read! Wow! You lucky girl! Oh what joy horses bring! I too am a farm girl at heart! My husband and Zi built a farmhouse in Boise Idaho last year on our 26 acres! We have the dogs! A cay we named Gypsey who came wondering through our hay field in kitten stage! Three darling Nubian goats named Oliver,Popye and Rueben! All that’s missing is my LIFELONG great of owning a horse! I want the wood barn too! Soon I hope! I rode when I was young and now at 57 I have brains and know I can get hurt! Ha! Scared like you and figured the same as you that if I didn’t ride I would just look at this magnificent creature and pet and feed him or her? Not sure yet! I want a paint! Well ! You have really inspired me to face my fears and go for it! God will help us! Right! Ha! Enjoying the beauty of nature! Animals! Friends family and let’s not fogey great farmyard decorating and food! Ha! Every day matters! Oh the blessings we have! Your new friend,Cindy , Write to me if you get a chance! Thanks for the terrific heartfelt story! Loved it!
Hi again! Guess I should have checked my spelling before I sent this post!
My heart was pounding right along with yours Rebekah. I’m proud of you for taking the chance to ride again. I could feel the fresh cold air on my cheeks and hear the clip-clop along the trail. Your words took me through every horse memory I have right up from when I fell passionately in love with them when I was 9 till this very minute! I never had one of my own as a youngster and I was too busy being a career gal in my 20’s and 30’s to make it happen and doing other fun things instead. But when our daughter turned 10 ( I was 47 then, now 52) she and I signed up for riding lessons together. She was so brave and quite a natural little rider. No fear in that girl. I however was terrified and very fearful but I got on each week and did my best. My instructor was very patient and never pushed me beyond my limits or the horses for that matter. Eventually I over came my fear and began to feel more comfy in the saddle but it took me almost a year to get there! I thought I was close to finally being able to get my first horse back then but finances changed and we stopped lessons. Our daughter never really fell as hard for horses the way I had as a girl, but she has some great memories of her riding ( and a couple of shows she did ) and we will always have our memories of learning together. I love your message in this post. We all have things we are afraid of and it’s best we just get over it and get on with it if we are to have any REAL adventure in life! You go City Farmgirl! You got this! With more help and practice you’ll be on your way. BTW… the horse I eventually felt the most comfortable on was a huge 16 1/2 hands part draft horse and part Hanoverian. He was a bit stubborn and could be a bit skiddish too but over all he was a big love. I was crazy about him! Your Andre made me think of my Bandit! Hugs from the Beach, sister! xo Deb
I loved your story. Wow what an experience, a growing at that. I love the photos. I haven’t been on a horse since I was about 13 or so, but would love to ride again. I’m a suburban girl with a farmgirl heart so a trail ride is something I’m hoping to do within the next year or so. I’m so happy for you that despite your fears you did ride and had a spectacular day out too.
Learning to savour the days of my life
Denise
Australia
Good for you! Fly, Fly, Fly women. You did it and it was so great. You have half the battle over. Do you know how many people can not trailer their horses? Many I can assure you. Some are problems with the horses, some with the person who is trying to trailer them.
I do not know if you noticed but your horse Merlin is very attentive of you. See the ear’s , one is toward you and one toward the camera person. All except the last pic and then one is toward the camera and one toward something going on next or behind the car. You really have nothing to fear unless both ears are pointed back and flat then best to get off quickly. I also noticed that your boots have your heal pointing toward the ground that is good. I am not a fan of the split rains and two hands holding the rains. All the horses I rode and trained went for neck raining very quickly and I felt more secure with one hand on the rains and one free to grab the horn should my horse get testy (spooked or just in a bad mood). I am a 72 year old cowgirl who, when young rode her friends horses, then later got her own. I had great friends that taught me to ride both a western saddle and bareback. Believe me when I say that if you get to a point of riding bareback there is nothing greater than feeling the horse in tune with you and you with him/her. Your horse will always be testy when he goes for periods of time not ridden. Then it is best to put a training lead on him and get him to go around and around until he seems to want to go the other direction. This will take the testyness out of him and he will come to you willingly. That is called Joining. It simply means to be one with you and you are the boss. Ask your trainer about it. It will also give you confidence.
Well, happy trails to you and don’t give up. Remember you are at least half way there and go out with a carrot or apple to Merlin and talk sweetly to him, watch his ears that tells you a lot. Horses just love being talked to that way.
Always a cowgirl now in my heart,
Kay
Oh I so enjoyed your blog. You are a spectacular person I love the things you do.
Yours was the first blog I’ve read and I have to thank you Rebekah. Pure enjoyment!
Your story brought back memories of when I was a young teenager and I had a girlfriend who lived in the country with 2 horses. Many many weekends we would get up in the early morning and go for a ride through the countryside. Those were the best times of my life…great memories. Thank you for sharing your story.
My husband and I trained horses and trail rode for many years. We would go camping with our horses for the most wonderful vacations. The key to enjoying your horse or horses is…..to keep on ridin’. Enjoy.