"I Ain't Never"

“Paris is always a good idea.”

Sabrina

(from the movie by the same name. which, by the way, I ain’t never seen.)

You know what they say here in the Appalachian Mountains: “I ain’t never.” Now, try as I might to convince folks that a double negative actually means a positive, I have at last given up and joined in. (If you can’t beat ’em, join ’em.)

So, my own personal “I ain’t never” is this: “I ain’t never went nowhere.” Oh, I should mention the verb issue here too. People say “I seen” instead of “I saw.” “You was” instead of “you were.” I understand that this way of speaking is a hold-over from the Irish and British settlers here.

In any event, back to my world travelling. Why it ain’t?

Je ne sais pas. (I don’t know.)

Too busy, I guess. Not a priority, I imagine. Too cheap, probably.

Well, it’s time for a cool change.

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  1. Wendy Cesil Curling says:

    Love this post, Love you , have a wonderful, beautiful, joyous, safe and lovely time! Can wait to hear all about it ’cause I ain’t never done did nuthin like that, well almost.

  2. Carol Denton says:

    I hope you’re having a ball! My sister, Laine, is in London right now and will be in Paris in a few days. Actually, they may already be there. Maybe you’ll unknowingly cross paths! Just listen for another southern accent, ha. Their trip was not without a bit of trepidation from the rest of us, but her attitude is about the same as yours concerning unrest. It’s everywhere. Have fun!

  3. Krista says:

    I hope you are having an amazing time and you are experiencing many adventures. I am super excited to see all your new pictures and hear about your time in Paris. Oh how I wish I was going. We are currently planning our trip to England and I will be excited to say that I have traveled too! When I was in high school I took French. I loved the class. Still to this day I can say some words and phrases and read French, but I can’t write it. It’s almost like my mind goes blank when I attempt to write it.
    Thank you for the recipe. It looks delicious. I will have to try it sometime.

  4. Carol says:

    Have fun on your trip and what a great place to travel too!

  5. Rebecca M. says:

    Bon Voyage! Your trip sounds like so much fun. Don’t let the new reports stop you from enjoying it. But you have that covered already. I’ve never traveled either, but plan to change that in October with a trip to Spain, Ireland and a few other places that we haven’t quite decided yet. I love the passport covers and your luggage. Have fun, enjoy and make lots of new memories.

  6. Denise Ross says:

    Paris, how exciting! I ain’t never travelled to Paris, but I want to. Can’t wait to see all your pics and post on your trip …. So special too that you’re going with your daughter. I’m hoping to visit my son in London in February 2019, timing is better to go then. He moved there in March to work as a paramedic. Loves what he’s doing, but they’ve had 4 terror incidents there in that time and it does make me worry, but we ain’t giving in to fear either, so he stays and works and checks in with us regularly he’s safe. When these things happen, I pray a lot and we still make plans to do what we want to do. All going to plan, it’ll be a trip to celebrate our 25th wedding anniversary, my daughters 21st, catch up and spend time with my son and have a fabulous holiday to boot!
    I’m hoping to add in a trip to the Netherlands to visit family and see where my parents grew up, and to visit France too. My mothers side lived there somewhere, back in the 1600s, and I’d love to find out where so I can visit there too. I’ll be a praying for you both and hope you both have the best time there.
    Sa la vie…? Au revoir

  7. Ramona Puckett says:

    You two will have so much fun and make so many memories! Love it!

  8. deAnn Geery says:

    I hope you enjoy your trip to France. Be safe, and absorb all there is to experience. Aaand…..when you get back, y’all must watch ‘Sabrina’!!!!! Both versions, the classic with Audrey Hepburn and Humphrey Bogart and the more modern one with Harrison Ford! They are my favorite movies of all time, even my husband, (of 41 years), watches with me. We always laugh so much when we do, they never fail to entertain no matter how many times we have seen them!!!!
    Take care and enjoy your trip!

  9. Joan says:

    I am so very happy for you both!! I was blessed with much traveling when I was in my 30’s – 50’s. (I’m 72 now), so it has been many years but the memories are wonderful to have. I pray you are enjoying to the fullest and can hardly wait to hear and see all about it. God bless

  10. Laura says:

    Love this post!! Hope your trip is amazing!!

    Where did you get the cup and towels…”Home is where your cat is”? so perfect!

  11. Diane Van Horn says:

    I am looking forward to the photos of your adventure! Have a great time with your daughter. I will be keeping you both in my prayers for a safe and memorable holiday.

  12. Sandi King says:

    Ahhh Paree! I hope you have a great time there. In all of France actually. And safe too. I have never traveled overseas……. just throughout the USA. Been to and through a lot of states, lived in Arizona, California, Indiana, New York, Kentucky, Oregon, in all my 72 years – my parents traveled back and forth from east to west and back again while I was growing up, with a side trip to Oregon for a year; Indiana and Kentucky after I married. So enjoy yourselves and return safely to us. Lots of pictures and dialog next time too. My DNA report says I am 100% European, go figure! with 59% Great Britain. HAH!

  13. Robin in New Jersey says:

    How exciting! Have a wonderful time! I was in Paris in 2000. Go see Mona Lisa! You won’t regret it. Looking forward to hearing all about your trip when you return.

  14. Marilyn says:

    Have a safe and happy trip. Enjoy your stay in France. VIVA LA FRANCE!
    Marilyn

  15. Stephanie Cook says:

    Another lovely post! Thank you for the intro to Breakfast in Paris tea – I wonder if it’s been available where I live all along and I just never noticed it? In any case, I just ordered some from the Stash website (comes with a sweet Paris-themed mug and dessert wafers), along with a few other goodies. Can’t wait to try all of it.
    Have a safe and fab trip. Hope you’ll write lots about what you and your daughter discover there.
    P.S. Where did you find the luggage stickers? Very cute.

  16. Brenda Towsley says:

    Not sure how I missed this! I hope you and your daughter had a fantastic time. Looking forward to your report back to us how it all went. Love your luggage. I do not know how to pack light either. Went to Hawaii, my only flight I have ever taken more than an hour or two long, and my bag was filled to the gill. Paris, how wonderful!

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Lessons and Tales: First Camping Trip of the Year

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Now that I’ve camped a few times, I thought I had figured it all out–that I was an expert. HAHAHAHAHA. Not so. My first trip of 2017 taught me many things.

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  1. Mary Rauch says:

    I felt as though I was right there with you guys. I am NOT a camping fan. I grew up back in West Virginia with “4 rooms and a path”, if you get my drift. I figure that after living a partial lifetime with NO COMFORTS, why on earth would I continue that lifestyle and call it “vacation and pleasure”?

    • Rebecca M. says:

      Loved this post….I felt like I was there. I think I’ve experienced all the mis-steps of this camping trip, except the car trouble….hope I never have that one. My husband and I still camp with a tent. We bought a new, bigger and improved one to use on our last camping trip. Lesson 1: Always set it up at home first. We didn’t, so when we tried at the campground we noticed out neighbor campers watching us from their 30 foot home on wheels. They finally took pity on us and offered to help. Good thing, because we probably would have ended up sleeping in the truck. Lesson 2: Keep fire starters, kindling and some firewood in heavy duty totes from Home Depot. And we always find a campsite with electricity. Even with a tent, you still need coffee.

  2. Denise Ross says:

    Gosh want a camping adventure! Definitely one for the camping tales campfire times.
    Phew. Well done to you for your persistence and stoic ness, dint know if that’s a proper word, but works for me here.
    I had been wondering how’d you go this time with the weather forecast you’d posted. Your camper and truck are really cool. Love your camp setup, with your pretty lights and rugs and things. Third time lucky?
    All in all its a definitely a memory making trip and I’m so sure your hubby would’ve even more glad he’d not gone with you.
    Love reading your adventures, always interesting and fun.
    Keep smiling, life’s always better, oh and a smile only uses 18 facial muscles and makes us look younger too
    These are the days

  3. Brenda Towsley says:

    Oh I loved this read. Brought back memories of camping with my 3 daughters. Almost always rained but there was always enough fun in between the rain to make it worth the trip. Always packed a small Rubbermaid tub with Uno, Yahtzee, and cards for playing war. Those kind of games that take a long time to play but do not drive you nuts. Word find books were usually the puzzle books we took and yes an umbrella and flashlights are always needed. Ditto on the power, coffee without waiting for water to heat over campfire sure starts the morning out easier! Good for you not giving up!

  4. Deborah McClure says:

    I grew up camping a lot. We went to the Chimney Tops in the Smokies. No words for all the memories. You will get it all together now after your first fun trip. And make remember when that will last a life time! Sounded so fun just reading this, love it❤️❤️❤️

  5. Krista says:

    Love your post! I can totally relate to your situation since it has happened to me a couple of times. With our worst camping rainstorm the whole family was in tents. Many of those tents flooded. Luckily our flooding was very minimal. But there is nothing better to put you to sleep then hearing some rain. One of my favorite parts about camping is waking up to the cool fresh air in the morning. I’m glad you decided to stick it out and not give up. This trip will be one of those trips you remember for years to come!

  6. Carol Cunningham says:

    Love this!!! And so glad you journeyed anyway!! For the best fire starters, use a cardboard dozen egg carton, fill each egg slot with non-chemical hamster bedding (real shavings and has no epoxy) and pour melted wax in each. This travels well and you will need only two “eggs” for each fire. Great for both charcoal and wood fires!

  7. Deborah says:

    Your writing is eloquent and engrossing–thank you for sharing this story. I long for such trips w my granddaughter!

  8. Sylvia Jacobus says:

    I realized this year, we’ve never cooked anything on an open fire since we started camping with the grandkids. I do live in the Northwest. We do camp on the coast–rain, wind, hail, did I say wind! We had a fire last long enough that we did a round of smores. That’s it. We’re heading inland this year, wish us luck. I am dying to use my cast iron stuff on an open fire.
    I truly felt your pain…..

  9. Judy from Maine says:

    Camping memories is what it is all about. I could share so many “rainy camp stories”…they’d include worms in our shoes and make do garbage bag porta potties! Oh for a map to the outhouses that night…as to fire starters, an old Girl Scout trick works every time, just cut old taper candles into one inch chunks and wrap them taffy style in wax paper. Light the wax paper ( a cinch even in the rain) and you’ll have a nice warm fire going in no time. The upside, no residue is left from the starter and you are “recycling” your worn out tapers.
    Thanks for sharing your adventure, it got me remembering all my “good” times camping.

  10. Ruth says:

    Love the story and absolutely LOVE camping! You have got to read “A Fine and Pleasant Misery” by Patrick McManus. We read it on just such a trip (trying to find campground in a deep fog on a winding, one-lane mountain road, dog vomited in the car, heavy rains), and nearly split our guts laughing. While we were camping in our back yard, which is where we ended up.

  11. Rene Marie Foust says:

    I love your stick to itness and your strength and will!!! Sounds to me like you made wonderful memories with your daughter, ones she will never forget. Im so happy that the sun did shine at times.

  12. My hat is off to you! I never would have made it through that trip without a major meltdown. My idea of camping these days is renting a cabin!

  13. Joan says:

    Love the story! and that is why my idea of camping is a nice cabin or a nice motel, ok I know I will miss out on somethings but glad you get to CAMP and share your experience with us. God bless

  14. Lorrie MacKenzie says:

    Your story made me want to go camping again. I haven’t gone in a long time but you reminded me of all the good times I had. I laughed out loud several times reading your post. You and your daughter are an awesome pair of adventurers and so smart to spend the time together. And you’re right, crossword puzzles make people (me) feel stupid. 🙂

  15. Vivian Monroe says:

    Been there, lived through it, the only advice is we learn as we go. My sweetie and I have been camping now for almost 30 yrs together and we started out the same way. ughhh. But now we only have 3 states left to camp in of the inter cont, US. We love camping and I am so glad yall didnt give in to the frustration. Although I am sure it didnt seem like it while it was all happening, you learned alot to be prepared for future trips. KEEP CAMPING.

  16. Linda says:

    Rejoice! It’ll be all the things that went wrong that you and especially your daughter will always remember…fondly. Like the bear outside your tent as a child!

  17. Marlene Capelle says:

    What a perfect camping trip. Rain on a tin roof is one of the best sounds ever.

  18. Will Elliott says:

    Beka, Glad we were unaware of all this.

    Alias,

    (Will Elliott)

  19. Rowena Philbeck says:

    Awesome story but sounds like you did have a wonderful memorable camping trip. I have never been on one that was perfect but they are the most fun I have had..trouble and all. Love your lights too. Very cool. Thanks for the tips about the food too. Have to check in to those.

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Time for YOU! (A Challenge)

“Of all the paths you take in life, make sure a few of them are dirt.”

John Muir

“Of all the paths you take in life, make sure some of them are just for YOU.”

Me

It’s almost time to get your MAY BLISS on!

In a few short days, on May 1st, the 4th Annual YOU Challenge will begin! And for 31 days, you’re going to do something just for YOU, YOURSELF, AND YOU!

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  1. Rosemary says:

    Dear Rebekah,
    This is so wonderful! Thank you! As I finished reading this, I realize, quite honestly, that I never really put myself first. I am burned out right now and I need some refueling. Being a mama to eight and tryout to manage a very full household, the empty tank is real. Thank you always for your wonderfully crafted words that touch so many :))

  2. Bonnie McKee says:

    I’m in! Let’s do this! ❤

  3. Sharon Elaine says:

    We’ve been watching our 4 & 5 yr old granddaughters 50 hrs a week for the last 8 months, with 4 weeks to go. We know this is where we’re supposed to be but me time is just a memory. At 72, I prayed for purpose – God has a sense of humor for sure. I will appreciate that me time more than ever – probably in June. Mornings are my favorite.

  4. Deborah McClure says:

    This was such a great read!!! Wow, let’s do this!!!!!!

  5. Krista says:

    I remember this from last year. Unfortunately, I never followed through. But this year I will make an effort to do so. Now that I’m busier with life this year it’s all the more reason to do something for me! I already have a few ideas growing that I would love to do for ME! I’m glad this came around again. I will be participating this year for sure! Thanks for keeping this going and reminding us all of our worth!

  6. Joan says:

    I’m in,already lining up some ME time. Enjoy y’all. God bless

  7. Donna Kozak says:

    Well, I’m in ! I have tulips on my table; I’m reading a few books by a wonderful Canadian mystery writer, Louise Penny, and I walk around my neighbour’s field (which he very conveniently keeps a clipped path all around the perimeter) every day; my black & white cat called Puddy keeps me company when I work in my garden and after a busy day planting and pulling weeds and having meaningful conversations with Puddy I have a lovely lavender-scented bubble bath. May Bliss starts in April !

  8. Sondra Lozier says:

    Was just checking my emails this evening, or I should say morning, and was reading this post and it hit home for I have so many friends that are always telling me I need to put my self first. Well, May is the month to do just that and I am excepting the YOU Challenge! This will be hard to do, but who knows, maybe it won’t just be for the month of May… I’ll look forward to your post during the month to help keep me on track. Thanks and have a wonderful new day,

  9. Pamela o sheidy says:

    Always wanted to do this , Thanks for the incentive

  10. Sandi King says:

    I’m ready! I’m more than ready! I’m getting excited just thinking about it. My legs need it. My brain needs it. I do a lot of sitting in front of a computer – family research, genealogy, crafts research, and many other things and it takes a toll on the body when you’re my age (72 on the half way mark toward 73) so yes I am more than ready. I was walking up to a couple of months ago when something detoured me away from the walk and back to the chair – finding ideas for our remodel of our home; that has been exciting and frustrating as well (some of the ideas were for bigger homes than we have) but I am still working on that too. That and the weather kept me inside a lot. But it seems like Spring went by so fast and summer is fast approaching. My flowers beckon me outdoors – daffodils have come and gone, lillies are beginning to bloom, peonies are budding and the lilacs came and went already. I still drink the lemon water every day. It has kept me healthy throughout the winter – no colds this year at all where previously I would get sick between Thanksgiving and Valentines Day. It has been, along with my Lord, a blessing to me. Just as MaryJane’s Farm magazine and the blogs online have also been. Because of them I keep chickens. Because of them I will do more crafts this year – have many ideas I want to try. Because of them I feel connected to so many people and I am ready for so many things this summer. Come on Let’s Walk, Stroll, Meander, Kick up our Heels?, uhh, maybe not but let’s get moving. Time to let the chickens out. Y’all have a great day.

  11. Rebecca M. says:

    I love this post and am really looking forward this this month of walking just for me. And I had to laugh at your cat’s CADD…I understand. My husband tells me that walking with me is like walking with an untrained puppy, but instead of stopping to sniff things, I’m stopping to snap a picture of a weed, a flower, a cloud or some seemingly ordinary something. I can’t help it, but walking and SEEING go hand in hand for me. I was able to discover so many amazing places on my walks last year. I plant to discover more this year.

  12. Denise Ross says:

    I’m so excited to do this again for myself. My family are always telling me to slow down when I walk, I naturally walk at a reasonable pace, my strolling pace, their too fast pace. I’m really looking forward to walking by myself, for myself. My family supports me and remember how much I enjoyed last years may walks. I just have get some lemons today so I can begin to have my lemon water every morning again. I’d forgotten too, just how calming and healing it is to be outside until having a conversation about it with a patient yesterday, reminded me how good going camping is for me, not just my family, but me. And I thought, wow! Your so right. So I came home yesterday and grabbed a spot of sunlight to have my afternoon cup of tea, and saw the most glorious rainbow, so bright it was incredible and called my family out to see it. On the opposite side of the sky the sun was so very bright behind some clouds, it framed them in brilliant heavenly light. I just love it. After doing dinner and today’s lunches, I and my kids sat down and watched a couple of episodes of “little house on the prairie’. I love that show.
    Aahh, me time is so soul restoring. The other me time I do is sketching and drawing out of my head. It brings me joy too. Stopping not just to smell the roses, but also to look in the beauty of them and savor it, these are all places that bring me joy.
    Thanks again for this Rebekah. I love this time of year, autumn for me, and the support we have together in this group. I’m in with bells on.
    The down under girl

  13. JoEllen K says:

    I always think that if I don’t start on the day everyone else does, its too late! So not true – the goal is for 31 days and I certainly plan on fulfilling that — but if I miss a day its OK because tomorrow will be here soon enough to begin again. Thank you for your encouragement to keep going — we all need that! I am a full time caregiver to my almost 100 year old mother so free time is not readily available. But I have decided to walk around the school yard across the street from our house while she is eating breakfast and looking at the morning paper. That way I can keep an eye on the house — where there is a will, there IS a way! After 5 years of the loss of freedom as I once knew it and almost 70 years old next year, I have decided I DO need to put myself 1st for my health and so that I can be a nicer person to be around! Thank you Rebekah for telling us about this challenge again! (why is it so hard to put ourselves first? Do we think we are being selfish?)

  14. Teri Schneider says:

    Definitely in! Put it on my calendar to get outside every single morning for a walk 🙂

  15. I love it…yes, count me in, the Manager of this little part of the Universe is ready for some TLC! Thanks for the motivation and inspiration!

  16. Deb Bosworth says:

    I’m in! So inspiring and much needed….If the sun doesn’t come out in New England soon I may just go back into hibernation! LOL!

  17. Wonderful! I just found this post, and your lovely blog, today. I’m starting the challenge a little late, but better late than never, right? Outside is where I love to be!

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The 5 Secrets of Long Life

You just don’t know when big things are going to come from seemingly inconsequential things. There I was shopping at “The Great Wall” when I learned the 5 Secrets of Long Life. Who would have thought?!

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  1. Misty Everett says:

    Love!!

  2. Sherri hamilton says:

    1. Garden. Digging in any kind of dirt even in pots will relax your mind from worry.
    2. Pray. Talk to the one who created you. Great peace is found there, and you can talk to Him about anything.
    3. Get a pet. Dog cat chicken….Doesn’t matter. I’m convinced they will extend your life
    4. Love people…Even the unloveable…Find something good in everyone you meet. Even if it’s small.
    5. Laugh out loud and be silly sometimes. Laughter will definitely lengthen your life

    • Deanne says:

      Love these!

    • Judy from Maine says:

      Those all sound great to me…especially get a dog. Aren’t they the best?

    • Sandi King says:

      Sheri, I agree. I put #2 in #1 spot. #5 in #2 spot and then #4, #3, #1. Pray, Laugh, Love, Pets, Garden. I have all three, dogs, cats, and chickens, Love them all. I laugh a lot; my son is a joker, can come up with sayings to make you laugh out loud and long. I pray daily. I garden but it doesn’t always look like it or that I do a good job; love people. I am an Introvert by nature but I do love people and have friends but even strangers are good to talk to. My son doesn’t and has never known a stranger from the time he was little. So I get to meet many, even if I am not inclined to. I think I would add #6 helping as many as you can, which I try to do. #7 be kind to yourself, you are unique and you are worthy because God created you for a purpose.

  3. Jan Sturgill says:

    Discover the ‘why’ in your life. Discovering your true purpose (or purposes) in life is so important. It creates harmony in your soul and being…It my constant quest!

  4. Sharon Elaine says:

    Live a simple, uncomplicated, authentic life. Love God. Love people. Forgive. Be thankful. Be busy doing what you love but also have quiet time to make lists like this. Thank you for reminding us to reflect on what a happy life looks like and how we’re doing.

  5. Loreta says:

    That was a wonderful blog, although , I had never heard of Walmart as the great Wall but sounds pretty accurate cause that’s where we shop the most. Thank you

  6. Rebecca M. says:

    What a great post. Around here, Wal-Mart is Wally-World. And Kroger is Krogers. I’ve met some interesting people at both places when I’ve taken the time to slow down and pay attention. My secrets for a long, happy life: 1. Trust God. 2. Love completely. 3. Don’t be afraid to try new things. 4. Enjoy the moment you’re in. 5. Never hold a grudge.

  7. Deb Mucklow says:

    Amen!

  8. Brenda Towsley says:

    Hello Rebekah, requirements for long life: have a lot of grand children and enjoy then, raise chickens and eat the eggs they lay, walk as often as possible especially with the on line spring walking group, go to church and join a study group and participate in the outings they have, have a best friend for 37 years, have a lot of hobbies and enjoy every moment you have with your spouse, love a cuter than cute Scottie dog. Oh I think my list is longer than you asked for. I heard the frogs in our pond last night and our mallard couple showed up on the pond this past weekend. Spring has sprung! Enjoyed you post as always.

  9. Mary Jo Baird says:

    Love your blog post!! My thing that keeps me going every day is that I set aside one hour every day to do something I LOVE! That may be working in my flowers, sewing or quilting, playing with my Yorkies, but I spend an hour EVERY day doing something I LOVE! I am a 911 Dispatcher and that job can be very stressful at times! When I get off work I turn on my music (classic rock) and crank it up for the drive home! The day melts behind me so when I get home I am the Farm Girl. We live on a farm in East Tennessee and have cows, chickens, sheep, goats, donkeys, dogs and cats! They keep me going, too! I guess I have six secrets to a long life:

    1. Have a purpose in life and contribute to society every day
    2. Do something YOU love every single day
    3. Listen to music! It’s good for the soul
    4. Don’t sweat the small stuff
    5. A day spent doing something you enjoy wasn’t wasted
    6. Do unto others as you would have them do unto you

    Great blog question!! Made me think!!

  10. Lisa Whitfield says:

    Love your blog! Keeping a positive attitude is my #1 rule for happiness. It helps to have positive people around and sometimes that’s hard. Meditation has been a new influence for me.

  11. Diane Van Horn says:

    My top five steps to a long and fulfilling life:
    1. Slow down-we seem to be rushing to get nowhere fast.
    2. Eat Food with one ingredient. Grow and raise it if you can.
    3. Be outdoors as much as possible. Unplug from the electronic world.
    4. Live with less stuff. Only keep things that are useful or beautiful.
    5. Be fearless. Try new things and don’t be afraid of failure.

    If I could add one more, it would be: Get a dog, or twenty! (I am allergic to cats)

  12. Wendy Curling says:

    Love, Love, Love ❤️ this post!

    I’ll share my five,
    To stay happy
    And alive!
    From: The Poetic Farmgirl

    1- Meditate and Pray at the start of each day
    2- Love ’till all hate has faded away
    3- Nuture all things assigned to your care
    4- Take only what’s needed, be sure to share
    5- Always follow your heart, be creative and bold! And you will find that age need’nt start with old!

  13. Arlene Hiatt says:

    Great food for thought. I, too, do not talk on my cellphone in the store or when I drive. I drive a stick shift, so not enough hands to drive, shift, and hold my phone.

    My list of 5 . . .
    1. Start my day with my Heavenly Father
    2. Extend grace, forgive freely
    3. Talk less, love more (a directive from above)
    4. I started watercolor classes 3+ years ago
    5. Do dirty therapy daily (gardening)

    Ok . . . my list of 6
    6. I would love to learn to do pottery

  14. Deborah McClure says:

    What a great artical!!! I have a special place for older people. They have wisdom we all should hear. Their slower pace in life! My list of five:
    1. Choose to be kind. Many need kindness.
    2. Play every day!! In the dirt if you can.
    3. Surround yourself with what makes you happy!!! My farm and my animals, and my garden!
    4. Always , always thank the Lord for all you have!
    5. Never , never take a day for granted. Deb

  15. Alice says:

    I love this, Rebekah! What a wonderful encounter. Both of your lists are excellent; I would add The time to be happy is now. I have a saying posted on my board at work – it’s a quote from Buddha: “The trouble is, you think you have time.”

  16. Peggy says:

    I love this story!!!

  17. Luanne Taylor says:

    Know contentment.
    Rescue animals, all sorts! They will keep you moving, make your heart smile and your soul fed.

  18. I am so okay with your list of 5, especially the first one (I only have 2 cats at present but I recently moved into a smaller apartment). I would add reminding yourself every day that “I am enough,” whether you’re a CEO, a Mom, an artist, or just someone who loves their family, loves to garden, and has learned to make the best vegan food ever! Just be you. Just be. Peace and blessings, you youngster you (said the 67 year old grandma)!

  19. Dolly says:

    This post was very interesting! I like it! I never knew of the Great Wall and I am in SC…I can relate to all of the other…Once I took 1 cat home ended up with 28 loved cats over time..My secret to long life: Love that is the secret. Love everyone and everything that is good. I’ve been told many many times that I am so naive and live in a make believe world. Actually I don’t I’m a realist and do know things but I choose to live life as if everyone is at heart good and enjoy the most simple of things God has given us to enjoy.
    A walk, a sunrise, a sunset, nature all around us, a smile, a good deed, helping others. As for ones self I have a motto:
    Be who you were meant to be no other. Don’t worry about the things you can not change. Be the same always so people will know who you are. Make the world a better place where you stand. It will make a difference!

  20. Raynita says:

    I never like going to Wally World/Wal-Mart Fall Apart/Wal-Marts…but the produce department now that they have more organic items to choose from is my highlight of the store also.
    5 things, I’ve got to think on this. I know one of them is watch chickens scratch and do their thing as often as possible. It soothes the soul. Great read as always, Rebekah. One can never listen to too much JT either….

  21. Jo Gill says:

    I have never been asked this question before.
    I would say praying, and having faith in God would be the Foundation to build your life on.
    For me, being Outside is important. Gardening, bonfires, stargazing, pets, and playing.
    Learning and trying new things is important to me.
    Food! Growing, preserving, sharing, and eating that healthy homegrown fare.
    Kindness and sharing of your time and talent.
    Having that special someone to share it with, is priceless for me.

  22. Jane Gurley says:

    1) Find reasons to be thankful…for family, for bright blue skies, tufts of new grass, an unexpected note from a friend.
    2) Music: listen to it, play it, sing it, share it..it has healing properties
    3)Love long and deeply…your spouse, family, friends, and your unconditionally loving pets
    4) Play: explore something new…keep exploring
    5) Find places and times of peace and quiet

  23. Mary Rauch says:

    I don’t believe in downgrading myself in front of other people.
    I try to do my best in the first place, and I figure there are plenty of people in the world who might say something about me that is not 4-star. So be it.
    I’m going out to spread some smiles and cheer. See ya’ later.

    • Mary Rauch says:

      I wrote this answer in the first place. Now that I re-read it, it does not make ANY sense to me??? Must have had jungle fever in my brain that day???…sorry about that.

  24. Debbie shue says:

    Love your 5.

  25. Karen Lineberger says:

    Friends, laughter & wine. Lots of wine.

  26. Nan Roberts says:

    I love that bracelet. How nice to see Mr. Mustache. Last I heard, he had made actual friends with you, and wasn’t so scaredy cat. I’d love to see pics of him now. I’ll use your secrets of a long, happy life, and that of the smiling man.

    Re buttermilk, I used to drink something called lassi. It’s buttermilk mixed with a juice, say orange juice. It’s quite nice, and you don’t get that, um, buttermilkness in your mouth.

  27. Krista says:

    I love chatting with older individuals about how life should be lived! They always get my mind thinking. Both his and your list are a wonderful way to love a long happy life. Except I would change mine to dogs instead of cats! I would add to the list…
    1. Live life like a toddler ( explore everything and at a slow enjoyable pace)
    2. Always forgive
    3. Be kind and share
    4. Never give up
    5. Always strive to be your best

  28. Carol Denton says:

    Great list, except substitute dog for cat on #1, ha. Love my Newfies! Here’s my addition to this running list and my and my husband’s number one marriage rule:

    #1 Never go for the jugular. It’s ok to disagree, even argue, but NEVER go for the jugular. Stop yourself before you say something that can’t be retracted, that thing you know will really hurt. It’s worked for us for 33 years!

  29. Denise Ross says:

    Brilliant post, Rebekah. Loved your five.
    Mine are
    1) begin my day with God, value time with family and do things on my bucket list, being content with life where I am now
    2) respond in love and do kindness to others in every opportunity
    3) listen more, talk less and pray for others, be adaptable
    4)exercise a few times a week, have time outside, doing something, or doing nothing, lay on ground and look at the clouds, just like we all did as kids
    5)notice the beauty around me – it’s everywhere in the shape of a petal, a rain droplet on a blade of grass, the early morning birdsong, a smile, a sunrise and sunset, the shape of the clouds – always changing
    It’s funny how our notions about things change as time goes by isn’t it.

  30. Linda says:

    Gratitude- count your blessings.
    Grace-give as much as you get.
    Be a good steward of all you’re given- your home, the earth, your body, your gifts/talents, time.
    Be still & know.
    Trust God & your instincts.

  31. Meredith Williams says:

    Love God
    Love your family
    Love your animals
    Love your friends
    Love your life.

  32. Always pray.
    Surround yourself with everything that you love.
    Adopt/rescue a pet.
    Be alone at least one hour a day.
    Be outside as much as possible.

    And all of our Wal Mart’s here in the Ozarks have groceries!!

  33. Alexandra Wilson says:

    Oh My goodness, I love that toad photo!

  34. Nicole says:

    Rebeka- thanks so much. I love your blog posts. I too chat with strangers. It’s such a great way to learn something new, help one’s mind be open, and it love others.

  35. Vivian Monroe says:

    1.Love the Lord and start your day in His word.
    2.Love others as yourself
    3.Declutter your surroundings
    4.Spend long periods outside, (my 97 yr old aunt who doesnt take any type meds says never sit down)
    5.Grow as much of what you eat as you can

  36. Rebekah, this is my favorite of all your writings. I have added your 5 Secrets to my little notebook of inspirational things that I collect from anywhere and everywhere. I especially love No. 3 – open your mind, your brains won’t fall out. That’s lovely.
    Politically, we probably disagree on many things (i.e., I call Walmart the Evil Empire and won’t shop there) but I wouldn’t let that obscure the beauty of your heart, which comes through in every blog post.

  37. Arlene Glavas says:

    5 Secrets to a Happy Life
    1. Keep balance in how you spend your time.
    2. Be responsible for your own happiness
    3. Enjoy what you have
    4. Accept who and what others are able to give, everyone has limitations.
    5. Find joy in simple things

  38. Cindy says:

    1-Get some sunshine
    2-Eat your berries
    3-Keep moving
    4-keep your mind active
    5-Grow something!

  39. Meesha Mckie says:

    Abiding… in joy, in beauty, in kindness , graciousness and simplicity.

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What’s NOT to love about a Feed and Seed Store?

It’s Monday morning and I will spend the day at my computer. I have work of every variety to take care of today: blog, legal, business, school, farm. I’m feeling a little drained right now, having a hard time getting started. Do I even have anything to write about today that any one would want to read??? My creativity has been on the low side lately. But I’ve got a cup of coffee, a bowl of yogurt and granola, and a cat in my lap, so I guess I’m ready to roll.

Here’s the cat that’s visiting my lap at the moment, Jude. Funny cat likes to stretch out his front legs. I’m always finding him in this odd position. I’ve never had a cat that likes to stretch out like that.

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My husband walks by and says, “What in the world are you putting on there?”

“What? What do you mean? It’s a photo of Jude.”

He puts on his glasses, looks again, and starts laughing. “It looked like someone’s legs in white shoes and white underwear.” He’s still laughing. I’m like, what are you talking about?

And then he shows me.

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Ha Ha Ha! It does, doesn’t it!

Anyway, I think since I recovered from not being able to get out and about, all I want to do is get out. My mind is not focused on writing or this computer. At the moment, I’m not only thinking about how my cat’s markings look like tidy-white-y’s and white socks, but now I’m thinking about going to see the horses in the barn, plowing the garden, building a pavilion, taking a hike by the mountain stream, visiting with neighbors, feeding the chickens…Oh, the chickens!

I was supposed to run to the local feed and seed store this morning after I dropped my daughter off at school to pick up some chicken feed! I forgot! I love to go to that farm store when I’m not in a hurry. And. Just. Visit. Um. Hmmm. You want to go now? Okay!

What high fashion should I rock today? Yeah, sure, I think you’re right. My warm flannel-lined camouflage work pants and pink plaid flannel shirt. And my barn work shoes. Perfect!

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Stylin’!

My feed and seed store is jam-packed with everything you could possibly need or want for farm living. It is situated way out in the country, with a yard full of pipes and drains and metal storage buildings full of water heaters and wood stove inserts and everything else.

We’ve arrived!

Here’s one of the metal storage buildings I mentioned. Look at all those wooden barrels!

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This is outside where you park, before you walk in. Do you need a lime green manure rake? Or an orange one? I sure do!

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Here we are right inside the front door.

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Snow sleds and shovels! We haven’t had much need of these this winter.

There are probably five aisles with this type of stuff, hardware, plumbing, electric, whatever else.

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And what about these awesome metal funnels? This is a store where everything’s not made of plastic. I love that!

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Ah….Be still my heart, the garden section!

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Overalls, pots, rubber boots!

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And this! When’s the last time you saw a mess kit for sale? I love this store!

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And check out these bottles and pottery.

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Yee! They’ve gotten in some seeds already!

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I don’t know…what do you think? Should I???? Grow Snake Gourds?

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My favorite chicken water-er ever is there on the left. I have two. Got them from here!

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Check out this shelf. It has it all. I direct your attention to the right upper shelf, a certain popcorn popper. That will be relevant shortly.

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And I always see stuff like this that I have no idea what it is.

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The people here are unbelievable. Friendly, helpful, knowledgeable, nice. There’s always a crowd and lots of chit-chat. This morning, folks are talking about one of their favorite subjects, the weather. This winter has been incredibly mild. We had a couple of snows, but none were deep. And the temperature always warmed back up the next day and melted the snow. I still have a barn full of hay because the pastures have stayed green. That is very unusual for this area. Usually, by now, we’re all asking around to see who has extra hay left in case we run out.

The consensus here is that winter is still coming. “We’ve had our biggest snows in March,” an older gentleman says. “Remember ’93?” And they talk about a big snow they had in late March that year. It sounds like a doozy; one I’d love to experience myself! I tell them about the year we had “Snow Jam” in Atlanta when we all got stuck in our cars and what ensued was a big party. Big. Party. Big, gigantic party. I think it was ’82?

Another conversation started up when a man I don’t know walked in and started talking about hunting on Sunday. This is a big deal to the hunters. Local officials were considering banning Sunday hunting. When I grew up in the South, you couldn’t do anything on Sunday. Well, except go to church. Most of those laws have been changed. But recently, the issue of a ban on hunting on Sunday arose in our community. It was not well received. There is a great deal of hunting around here. During deer season, we hear gun shots frequently. Being an animal lover, it used to bother me. Not so much anymore. I’ve come to understand that people enjoy deer meat, that deer meat is incredibly natural and organic, not filled with steroids and antibiotics of farmed meat. And, the animals live a wild, wonderful life until the end, unlike our farmed animals who spend time in feedlots and are stressed before they die. Hunters around here also hunt for hungry people, sharing their meat. I have also come to understand that our lands would be overrun with deer if it were not for hunters; there would be more car accidents involving them. So, four years when we moved here I might have said, “Oh, poor precious beautiful deer. I hate to hear the shots: constant reminders that another lovely animal has been killed. Yes, ban hunting on Sunday.” Now, I just smile and listen.

One man talks about a huge deer he shot and processed. He found an old bullet in him—it wasn’t his bullet, it was someone else’s. He pulled the old bullet out of his pocket and showed us. (The story sounded familiar, I think I’ve heard it somewhere before.) Anyway, it’s a big discussion, about how this deer was shot at some point and lived with a bullet inside him. There was a lot of talk about this bullet and this deer. Hypotheses galore made for pure entertainment.

No one is in a hurry here.

I mention my problems with mice in my chicken house. The woman who owns the store shows me just what I need. A mouse poison holder that the chickens can’t get inside. Yes, that is just what I need. I hate the idea of poisoning mice, but I have become overrun. And I don’t think it is healthy for my chickens. I buy the poison I need and the poison holder.

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And then she had another idea, “Put some water in a 5 gallon bucket and put it in there at night. You’ll have a bucket full of drowned mice in the morning.” Really? Okay, I’m trying that!

What about the snakes living in the walls? A man offered, “Get rid of the mice and you’ll get rid of the snakes.”

I’m down for that. I can’t even imagine a chicken house without mice and snakes. The stuff that dreams are made of!

Speaking of chickens.

In sad news, one of my chickens has died. Polly, the Polish. She had so many feathers on her head that she couldn’t see. She’ll fly down from her roost right into me. It’s never easy. My husband was out of town when I found her. She died during the night. I located a pretty pink shoe box and wrapped her up in a kitchen towel that had Pooh Bear on it. I dug the hole as deep as I could and provided her with a private burial ceremony. It was just me and her. Her friends were close-by though. My chicken cemetery is under the old apple tree beside the chicken run. So the rooster and other hens saw and heard the whole thing.

And now, my lullaby song changed. I don’t count to 14 anymore when I put up the chickens, just 13. We came in late from a concert Saturday night and I went in to sing to them. I had forgotten. I looked all over for number 14 until I remembered. I’ll have to get used to the new number.

RIP

Polly the Polish Hen

April 2013 – February 2017

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Now I’ll share my drive back home with you. I drive by some fantastic old buildings. I am told this one was a cheese factory.

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And this one was built during the Civil War era.

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The road I drive down has several areas that you just feel like you are driving through a junk yard.

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I like old, junky cars as much as the next guy, but I don’t like them right on the side of the road. These folks keep theirs on both sides of the road, not sure why.

Here’s a nice old barn and old building. One reason I like this drive is because it takes you back in time.

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A sweet, simple, clapboard church.

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I see how long this post is and laugh. I sure had a lot to say for someone who had nothing to say at the beginning!

Do you have a favorite local feed and seed, country, or farm store? Tell us about it!

Until next time, Friends, savor the flavor of life!

Lots of love, The City Farmgirl in the Country, Rebekah

PS I should show you where I decided to write once I got home from the farm store. My word for 2017 is “outside.” I didn’t pick it; it picked me. Sooooooo. I popped some popcorn—(remember that box I pointed out to you on the shelf? That popper is terrific. I used to eat those little bags of microwave popcorn, but they have a lot of gunk in the ingredients. This pops kernels pure and plain. My favorite snack these days.)—, put on the kettle for tea, and built a campfire in the yard.

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My senses are alive out here. I hear birdsong in the black walnut trees, I hear frogs chirping like ducks in the pond, I hear crows cawing and yapping close-by,

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I hear the mournful wail of a cow, a mother or a baby? I hear a woodpecker in the distance, and the gentle roar of a tractor somewhere in this farming valley. I also hear the heater running on this side of my old farmhouse.

I smell the aroma of wood smoke and I do indeed smell the bite of cold winter air in the breeze. (yay! fingers crossed.)

I see beauty all around me. I see my old wash house that I turned into my office.

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I see the green shoots of day lilies just emerging from the earth.

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I see the steeple of the local church. It’s Monday morning and their parking lot has plenty of cars. I wonder why there are gathering this morning? I see black cows on a green hilly pasture in the distance.

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I see Christmas trees to be harvested in future years and Christmas tree stumps from this past Christmas.

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He is SO not a feral cat any more!

I’m trying to recall all five of my senses, hear, see, smell. Oh, taste! How could I foget taste??? I taste the citrusy flavor of my cup of Matcha green tea and the earthy flavor of plain, air-popped popcorn. I hope to taste a piece of my Valentine’s Day chocolate in a little while. 🙂

And feel. Yes, feel. Touch. I’m not wearing gloves, so I can type on the computer, so my fingers feel very cold and so does my face, especially my nose. I hold my hands up to the campfire and feel the warmth. I guess I need to go inside and get a hat and maybe some gloves since I’m at the end of this blog post…

  1. Barbara says:

    What a wonderful ride in the country. Thank so much. Enjoy another great day. Hugs, Barbara.

  2. Cindy says:

    Hi Rebekah!

    First of all, I was thinking about you the other day when someone posted on Facebook about organic foods made in China. I remembered when you posted something like that on your blog several years ago! And you are 100% correct about deer hunting! And most hunters are very humane. My husband dear hunts, but we did not get any this year because he refuses to kill a doe(s) with her fawn. And that’s all he saw this year. (Oh, and we call “deer meat” venison. Teehee). We have had a fairly mild winter too, and already experiencing above average temperatures. Of course, you know it doesn’t bother me. And so far so good for my bees! I would love to have a farm and feed store like that one! Oh my gosh, those sleds. I remember hitting a tree with one of those!
    I need to get going now…Happy Fat Tuesday!!!

    Cindy

  3. Diane Van Horn says:

    Love this! I can get lost in the seed and feed store too. Just love the down to earth items and conversations. I just adore your blog posts and the snippets of your farmgirl life that you share. Still laughing at the tighty whities and socks image! Thanks for sharing.

  4. Kimberly Diener says:

    Wicks or TSC is the place we go to around here to buy chicks ducklings and everything in between. Wicks been around longer, I can remember going there as a kid and have loved the store ever since. I love sitting outside and doing a few bird calls and hearing back.

  5. Rene Marie Foust says:

    I am so happy to hear that you are up and about now! Such a wonderful place to call home.

  6. I loved this post! I felt as if I were along with you on your travels. I could see, hear, smell and feel everything … and now I’m hungry for popcorn. This is what real life is all about, and that is the perfect topic to write about. Bravo!

  7. Krista says:

    I can’t help but laugh at your cats legs! That is just too funny! Your cats have some marvelous markings! I have enjoyed seeing all your pictures and taking a tour with you. That snake gourd is just creepy. It looks so real. Not sure if I would be able to grow those. It would freak me out every time I seen them. Sorry to hear about Polly the Polish. She will be missed. Losing animals is not easy. Hopefully getting outside will help you with your creative juices. I know I need that more than I want to admit!

  8. Deborah McClure says:

    Always love your articles, this way of life is rare and such a gift. Being on my little Hobby Farm is a blessing as well. I will take this life any day over the city!!! So happy your cat is loving now, smart guy! Cannot wait to read your next post! ❤

  9. Marilyn says:

    Hope you are feeling better. Sorry about your chicken.
    Marilyn

  10. Meredith says:

    LOL! Those must be brand NEW barn shoes! They are so CLEAN!! ( From the feed store? That’s where ours come from!)❤

  11. Irene says:

    Beautiful country! My dream is to live in the country one day. My cat would love it also. Thanks for a great post.

  12. Bobbie Calgaro says:

    I so enjoyed that. Old neighborhood farm stores and hardware stores are so much fun to go to. My favorite farm country store is Mast General. Every time I’m in the mountains I go there. But if you ever get a chance, travel down to Lexington NC to Lanier hardware. There is no place like it. It’s huge and has everything! My hometown in PA has Sarasniks. If you can’t find it in the big box stores, they probably have it there. It’s the best.
    Oh I think we’re going to still get winter in March. I remember those snows even here in Clemmons that those guys were talking about. But I worry about the apple farmers cause everything has budded and bloomed too soon. I don’t know whether to hope for one last gasp of winter or think it should not come at all for the sake of the farmers.

  13. Elaine C says:

    What a great post. I love going to feed and seed stores. Even though I live in the metro area, I’m a country girl at heart. Those stores have everything and anything. Sorry to hear of the loss of Polly. And yes, Snowjam was in 82….I remember it oh too well (10 hrs to get home 10 miles away). Thanks for your wonderful posts.

  14. Donna Kozak says:

    Love all your posts and look forward to them. Our local Co-Op Store looks identical to the one you were in…same articles for sale, mostly for the farming community. I love shopping there because of all the friendly people and I don’t have to worry about my wardrobe !! My husband and I are also city people moved to a small acreage with a large garden and 13 chickens (which includes 3 Buff-laced Polish which we love!). We have had far too much snow up here in British Columbia and are anxiously waiting for some warm spring weather. Enjoy your time outdoors.

  15. Linda says:

    Rather go to a feed store than shopping center any time! Sunday hunting…if you ride your horse it’s nice to have a “safe” day to ride in the winter. Once heard bullets whistle by our heads while riding and that’s scary! Try using coconut oil (that tastes like it) for your popcorn. Yummy!

  16. Brenda Towsley says:

    Oh this was just a wonderful read! We have a local hardware that carries a lot of household stuff that you can pick up in a pinch. The closest farm store is about 40 minutes away and it is one of the big box chain ones. I do wish we had a local feed store like the one you just shared. It is snowing here today, I am waiting for spring. Not a lot of snow this winter but it was very cold at times. Warmed up two weekends ago and we let the chickens out to run like crazy around the yard while we cleaned out the hen house. I pop popcorn in a brown paper lunch bag in the microwave. You just throw in some popcorn and fold down the top. Sometimes I add a little coconut oil so I can get a little salt to stick. We have not had a cat in a couple of years. Every time I see someones sweet cat in Blogland I yearn for one. The wood worker is not ready for another one yet….

  17. Sandi King says:

    Oh Rebekah, I loved the cat picture and yes it does look like what your husband said. LOL. We have another fat cat who loves to lay on his back with his big belly showing and his back legs sprawled flat and when you walk by him he grabs at your legs with his front claws and hangs on to be pulled along the floor. So funny and so cute. I love the tour you took us on. I too love the old timey country seed and feed stores or even the older country stores where everything was available to be bought from soup to hay, butter to wagon parts – just every thing a person could be in the market for. I remember a couple stores from the 1960’s rural Indiana area that I used to visit with my mother-in-law and I was amazed at the variety of supplies they had. I was from out west where we didn’t have the one store that carried everything a person needed. I am so glad you are back to blogging. Keep well and God Bless.

  18. Cindy says:

    Love your journey to the feed store! Many years ago I was blessed to live the country life and we had a feed store so similar… my heart skipped a beat just remembering. Thank you❤

  19. Cyndi Neumann says:

    That feed store is awesome! Love those crock pots and more! In Western North Carolina I love driving the country roads here also, I pass about the same old run down barns like you do and take photos all the time of them.

    So sorry about your chicken, May she rest in peace! Sounds like a beautiful ceremony you had for her.
    Thanks for sharing all of your adventure!
    Smiles, Cyndi

  20. Denise Ross says:

    Loved your post today, as always. So fun to have a look at your feed store and I can imagine the stories and conversation that would abound in there.
    I also love old cars, most old things really, but I don’t like the whole junkyard thing so close to the road either.
    Loved the old buildings and I love the old simple churches. I imagine the services and the people attending down over the years and where they might be now.
    I screen shot your camp fire area, it’s so rustically cosy, and that seat is now on my want list. I’m so sorry about Polly. It must’ve been a sad day for you.
    Your photos of your cat are so cute, and did make me laugh too with your husbands comment.
    Thank you for a peek into your everyday life.
    I’m hoping to head outside some more, now that’s Autumn is here and hopefully some cooler temps are on their way. My poor plants have really struggled this summer, but the rain and or storms usually came in the nick of time and they’re hanging in there for the time being.
    Have a glorious day

  21. Beth says:

    Thank you from the bottom of my heart! You just made a crappy, sick day GREAT again. Today’s blog was a trip back to my childhood. I love your feed and seed store. I’d sure be thinking about the electric ice cream freezer that was across from the popcorn popper. But, I think I’d have to pass on the snake gourds.

  22. Marlene Capelle says:

    This is one of your best postings and your sense of fashion is spot on.

  23. Vicki says:

    I can so relate to this post.. I currently feel like I have nothing to share and my creativity is so low…
    But I LOVE going off to Fleet Farm!! Our farm store where I get my chicken feed, cleaners, seeds, you name it! Its not as cute as your local farm store, more like a wal mart sadly. But it is where I can get almost everything I need!
    Then, I loved your pictures of what you can see around you… GORGEOUS!! I would totally build myself a campfire and sit outside next to it to write!!
    Blessings

  24. Marilyn says:

    Great and interesting post.
    Marilyn

  25. JJ says:

    What an inspiring post!
    Please write more.
    Loved it!!!

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What's NOT to love about a Feed and Seed Store?

It’s Monday morning and I will spend the day at my computer. I have work of every variety to take care of today: blog, legal, business, school, farm. I’m feeling a little drained right now, having a hard time getting started. Do I even have anything to write about today that any one would want to read??? My creativity has been on the low side lately. But I’ve got a cup of coffee, a bowl of yogurt and granola, and a cat in my lap, so I guess I’m ready to roll.

Here’s the cat that’s visiting my lap at the moment, Jude. Funny cat likes to stretch out his front legs. I’m always finding him in this odd position. I’ve never had a cat that likes to stretch out like that.

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My husband walks by and says, “What in the world are you putting on there?”

“What? What do you mean? It’s a photo of Jude.”

He puts on his glasses, looks again, and starts laughing. “It looked like someone’s legs in white shoes and white underwear.” He’s still laughing. I’m like, what are you talking about?

And then he shows me.

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Ha Ha Ha! It does, doesn’t it!

Anyway, I think since I recovered from not being able to get out and about, all I want to do is get out. My mind is not focused on writing or this computer. At the moment, I’m not only thinking about how my cat’s markings look like tidy-white-y’s and white socks, but now I’m thinking about going to see the horses in the barn, plowing the garden, building a pavilion, taking a hike by the mountain stream, visiting with neighbors, feeding the chickens…Oh, the chickens!

I was supposed to run to the local feed and seed store this morning after I dropped my daughter off at school to pick up some chicken feed! I forgot! I love to go to that farm store when I’m not in a hurry. And. Just. Visit. Um. Hmmm. You want to go now? Okay!

What high fashion should I rock today? Yeah, sure, I think you’re right. My warm flannel-lined camouflage work pants and pink plaid flannel shirt. And my barn work shoes. Perfect!

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Stylin’!

My feed and seed store is jam-packed with everything you could possibly need or want for farm living. It is situated way out in the country, with a yard full of pipes and drains and metal storage buildings full of water heaters and wood stove inserts and everything else.

We’ve arrived!

Here’s one of the metal storage buildings I mentioned. Look at all those wooden barrels!

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This is outside where you park, before you walk in. Do you need a lime green manure rake? Or an orange one? I sure do!

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Here we are right inside the front door.

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Snow sleds and shovels! We haven’t had much need of these this winter.

There are probably five aisles with this type of stuff, hardware, plumbing, electric, whatever else.

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And what about these awesome metal funnels? This is a store where everything’s not made of plastic. I love that!

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Ah….Be still my heart, the garden section!

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Overalls, pots, rubber boots!

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And this! When’s the last time you saw a mess kit for sale? I love this store!

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And check out these bottles and pottery.

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Yee! They’ve gotten in some seeds already!

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I don’t know…what do you think? Should I???? Grow Snake Gourds?

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My favorite chicken water-er ever is there on the left. I have two. Got them from here!

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Check out this shelf. It has it all. I direct your attention to the right upper shelf, a certain popcorn popper. That will be relevant shortly.

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And I always see stuff like this that I have no idea what it is.

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The people here are unbelievable. Friendly, helpful, knowledgeable, nice. There’s always a crowd and lots of chit-chat. This morning, folks are talking about one of their favorite subjects, the weather. This winter has been incredibly mild. We had a couple of snows, but none were deep. And the temperature always warmed back up the next day and melted the snow. I still have a barn full of hay because the pastures have stayed green. That is very unusual for this area. Usually, by now, we’re all asking around to see who has extra hay left in case we run out.

The consensus here is that winter is still coming. “We’ve had our biggest snows in March,” an older gentleman says. “Remember ’93?” And they talk about a big snow they had in late March that year. It sounds like a doozy; one I’d love to experience myself! I tell them about the year we had “Snow Jam” in Atlanta when we all got stuck in our cars and what ensued was a big party. Big. Party. Big, gigantic party. I think it was ’82?

Another conversation started up when a man I don’t know walked in and started talking about hunting on Sunday. This is a big deal to the hunters. Local officials were considering banning Sunday hunting. When I grew up in the South, you couldn’t do anything on Sunday. Well, except go to church. Most of those laws have been changed. But recently, the issue of a ban on hunting on Sunday arose in our community. It was not well received. There is a great deal of hunting around here. During deer season, we hear gun shots frequently. Being an animal lover, it used to bother me. Not so much anymore. I’ve come to understand that people enjoy deer meat, that deer meat is incredibly natural and organic, not filled with steroids and antibiotics of farmed meat. And, the animals live a wild, wonderful life until the end, unlike our farmed animals who spend time in feedlots and are stressed before they die. Hunters around here also hunt for hungry people, sharing their meat. I have also come to understand that our lands would be overrun with deer if it were not for hunters; there would be more car accidents involving them. So, four years when we moved here I might have said, “Oh, poor precious beautiful deer. I hate to hear the shots: constant reminders that another lovely animal has been killed. Yes, ban hunting on Sunday.” Now, I just smile and listen.

One man talks about a huge deer he shot and processed. He found an old bullet in him—it wasn’t his bullet, it was someone else’s. He pulled the old bullet out of his pocket and showed us. (The story sounded familiar, I think I’ve heard it somewhere before.) Anyway, it’s a big discussion, about how this deer was shot at some point and lived with a bullet inside him. There was a lot of talk about this bullet and this deer. Hypotheses galore made for pure entertainment.

No one is in a hurry here.

I mention my problems with mice in my chicken house. The woman who owns the store shows me just what I need. A mouse poison holder that the chickens can’t get inside. Yes, that is just what I need. I hate the idea of poisoning mice, but I have become overrun. And I don’t think it is healthy for my chickens. I buy the poison I need and the poison holder.

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And then she had another idea, “Put some water in a 5 gallon bucket and put it in there at night. You’ll have a bucket full of drowned mice in the morning.” Really? Okay, I’m trying that!

What about the snakes living in the walls? A man offered, “Get rid of the mice and you’ll get rid of the snakes.”

I’m down for that. I can’t even imagine a chicken house without mice and snakes. The stuff that dreams are made of!

Speaking of chickens.

In sad news, one of my chickens has died. Polly, the Polish. She had so many feathers on her head that she couldn’t see. She’ll fly down from her roost right into me. It’s never easy. My husband was out of town when I found her. She died during the night. I located a pretty pink shoe box and wrapped her up in a kitchen towel that had Pooh Bear on it. I dug the hole as deep as I could and provided her with a private burial ceremony. It was just me and her. Her friends were close-by though. My chicken cemetery is under the old apple tree beside the chicken run. So the rooster and other hens saw and heard the whole thing.

And now, my lullaby song changed. I don’t count to 14 anymore when I put up the chickens, just 13. We came in late from a concert Saturday night and I went in to sing to them. I had forgotten. I looked all over for number 14 until I remembered. I’ll have to get used to the new number.

RIP

Polly the Polish Hen

April 2013 – February 2017

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Now I’ll share my drive back home with you. I drive by some fantastic old buildings. I am told this one was a cheese factory.

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And this one was built during the Civil War era.

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The road I drive down has several areas that you just feel like you are driving through a junk yard.

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I like old, junky cars as much as the next guy, but I don’t like them right on the side of the road. These folks keep theirs on both sides of the road, not sure why.

Here’s a nice old barn and old building. One reason I like this drive is because it takes you back in time.

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A sweet, simple, clapboard church.

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I see how long this post is and laugh. I sure had a lot to say for someone who had nothing to say at the beginning!

Do you have a favorite local feed and seed, country, or farm store? Tell us about it!

Until next time, Friends, savor the flavor of life!

Lots of love, The City Farmgirl in the Country, Rebekah

PS I should show you where I decided to write once I got home from the farm store. My word for 2017 is “outside.” I didn’t pick it; it picked me. Sooooooo. I popped some popcorn—(remember that box I pointed out to you on the shelf? That popper is terrific. I used to eat those little bags of microwave popcorn, but they have a lot of gunk in the ingredients. This pops kernels pure and plain. My favorite snack these days.)—, put on the kettle for tea, and built a campfire in the yard.

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My senses are alive out here. I hear birdsong in the black walnut trees, I hear frogs chirping like ducks in the pond, I hear crows cawing and yapping close-by,

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I hear the mournful wail of a cow, a mother or a baby? I hear a woodpecker in the distance, and the gentle roar of a tractor somewhere in this farming valley. I also hear the heater running on this side of my old farmhouse.

I smell the aroma of wood smoke and I do indeed smell the bite of cold winter air in the breeze. (yay! fingers crossed.)

I see beauty all around me. I see my old wash house that I turned into my office.

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I see the green shoots of day lilies just emerging from the earth.

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I see the steeple of the local church. It’s Monday morning and their parking lot has plenty of cars. I wonder why there are gathering this morning? I see black cows on a green hilly pasture in the distance.

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I see Christmas trees to be harvested in future years and Christmas tree stumps from this past Christmas.

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He is SO not a feral cat any more!

I’m trying to recall all five of my senses, hear, see, smell. Oh, taste! How could I foget taste??? I taste the citrusy flavor of my cup of Matcha green tea and the earthy flavor of plain, air-popped popcorn. I hope to taste a piece of my Valentine’s Day chocolate in a little while. 🙂

And feel. Yes, feel. Touch. I’m not wearing gloves, so I can type on the computer, so my fingers feel very cold and so does my face, especially my nose. I hold my hands up to the campfire and feel the warmth. I guess I need to go inside and get a hat and maybe some gloves since I’m at the end of this blog post…

  1. Barbara says:

    What a wonderful ride in the country. Thank so much. Enjoy another great day. Hugs, Barbara.

  2. Cindy says:

    Hi Rebekah!

    First of all, I was thinking about you the other day when someone posted on Facebook about organic foods made in China. I remembered when you posted something like that on your blog several years ago! And you are 100% correct about deer hunting! And most hunters are very humane. My husband dear hunts, but we did not get any this year because he refuses to kill a doe(s) with her fawn. And that’s all he saw this year. (Oh, and we call “deer meat” venison. Teehee). We have had a fairly mild winter too, and already experiencing above average temperatures. Of course, you know it doesn’t bother me. And so far so good for my bees! I would love to have a farm and feed store like that one! Oh my gosh, those sleds. I remember hitting a tree with one of those!
    I need to get going now…Happy Fat Tuesday!!!

    Cindy

  3. Diane Van Horn says:

    Love this! I can get lost in the seed and feed store too. Just love the down to earth items and conversations. I just adore your blog posts and the snippets of your farmgirl life that you share. Still laughing at the tighty whities and socks image! Thanks for sharing.

  4. Kimberly Diener says:

    Wicks or TSC is the place we go to around here to buy chicks ducklings and everything in between. Wicks been around longer, I can remember going there as a kid and have loved the store ever since. I love sitting outside and doing a few bird calls and hearing back.

  5. Rene Marie Foust says:

    I am so happy to hear that you are up and about now! Such a wonderful place to call home.

  6. I loved this post! I felt as if I were along with you on your travels. I could see, hear, smell and feel everything … and now I’m hungry for popcorn. This is what real life is all about, and that is the perfect topic to write about. Bravo!

  7. Krista says:

    I can’t help but laugh at your cats legs! That is just too funny! Your cats have some marvelous markings! I have enjoyed seeing all your pictures and taking a tour with you. That snake gourd is just creepy. It looks so real. Not sure if I would be able to grow those. It would freak me out every time I seen them. Sorry to hear about Polly the Polish. She will be missed. Losing animals is not easy. Hopefully getting outside will help you with your creative juices. I know I need that more than I want to admit!

  8. Deborah McClure says:

    Always love your articles, this way of life is rare and such a gift. Being on my little Hobby Farm is a blessing as well. I will take this life any day over the city!!! So happy your cat is loving now, smart guy! Cannot wait to read your next post! ❤

  9. Marilyn says:

    Hope you are feeling better. Sorry about your chicken.
    Marilyn

  10. Meredith says:

    LOL! Those must be brand NEW barn shoes! They are so CLEAN!! ( From the feed store? That’s where ours come from!)❤

  11. Irene says:

    Beautiful country! My dream is to live in the country one day. My cat would love it also. Thanks for a great post.

  12. Bobbie Calgaro says:

    I so enjoyed that. Old neighborhood farm stores and hardware stores are so much fun to go to. My favorite farm country store is Mast General. Every time I’m in the mountains I go there. But if you ever get a chance, travel down to Lexington NC to Lanier hardware. There is no place like it. It’s huge and has everything! My hometown in PA has Sarasniks. If you can’t find it in the big box stores, they probably have it there. It’s the best.
    Oh I think we’re going to still get winter in March. I remember those snows even here in Clemmons that those guys were talking about. But I worry about the apple farmers cause everything has budded and bloomed too soon. I don’t know whether to hope for one last gasp of winter or think it should not come at all for the sake of the farmers.

  13. Elaine C says:

    What a great post. I love going to feed and seed stores. Even though I live in the metro area, I’m a country girl at heart. Those stores have everything and anything. Sorry to hear of the loss of Polly. And yes, Snowjam was in 82….I remember it oh too well (10 hrs to get home 10 miles away). Thanks for your wonderful posts.

  14. Donna Kozak says:

    Love all your posts and look forward to them. Our local Co-Op Store looks identical to the one you were in…same articles for sale, mostly for the farming community. I love shopping there because of all the friendly people and I don’t have to worry about my wardrobe !! My husband and I are also city people moved to a small acreage with a large garden and 13 chickens (which includes 3 Buff-laced Polish which we love!). We have had far too much snow up here in British Columbia and are anxiously waiting for some warm spring weather. Enjoy your time outdoors.

  15. Linda says:

    Rather go to a feed store than shopping center any time! Sunday hunting…if you ride your horse it’s nice to have a “safe” day to ride in the winter. Once heard bullets whistle by our heads while riding and that’s scary! Try using coconut oil (that tastes like it) for your popcorn. Yummy!

  16. Brenda Towsley says:

    Oh this was just a wonderful read! We have a local hardware that carries a lot of household stuff that you can pick up in a pinch. The closest farm store is about 40 minutes away and it is one of the big box chain ones. I do wish we had a local feed store like the one you just shared. It is snowing here today, I am waiting for spring. Not a lot of snow this winter but it was very cold at times. Warmed up two weekends ago and we let the chickens out to run like crazy around the yard while we cleaned out the hen house. I pop popcorn in a brown paper lunch bag in the microwave. You just throw in some popcorn and fold down the top. Sometimes I add a little coconut oil so I can get a little salt to stick. We have not had a cat in a couple of years. Every time I see someones sweet cat in Blogland I yearn for one. The wood worker is not ready for another one yet….

  17. Sandi King says:

    Oh Rebekah, I loved the cat picture and yes it does look like what your husband said. LOL. We have another fat cat who loves to lay on his back with his big belly showing and his back legs sprawled flat and when you walk by him he grabs at your legs with his front claws and hangs on to be pulled along the floor. So funny and so cute. I love the tour you took us on. I too love the old timey country seed and feed stores or even the older country stores where everything was available to be bought from soup to hay, butter to wagon parts – just every thing a person could be in the market for. I remember a couple stores from the 1960’s rural Indiana area that I used to visit with my mother-in-law and I was amazed at the variety of supplies they had. I was from out west where we didn’t have the one store that carried everything a person needed. I am so glad you are back to blogging. Keep well and God Bless.

  18. Cindy says:

    Love your journey to the feed store! Many years ago I was blessed to live the country life and we had a feed store so similar… my heart skipped a beat just remembering. Thank you❤

  19. Cyndi Neumann says:

    That feed store is awesome! Love those crock pots and more! In Western North Carolina I love driving the country roads here also, I pass about the same old run down barns like you do and take photos all the time of them.

    So sorry about your chicken, May she rest in peace! Sounds like a beautiful ceremony you had for her.
    Thanks for sharing all of your adventure!
    Smiles, Cyndi

  20. Denise Ross says:

    Loved your post today, as always. So fun to have a look at your feed store and I can imagine the stories and conversation that would abound in there.
    I also love old cars, most old things really, but I don’t like the whole junkyard thing so close to the road either.
    Loved the old buildings and I love the old simple churches. I imagine the services and the people attending down over the years and where they might be now.
    I screen shot your camp fire area, it’s so rustically cosy, and that seat is now on my want list. I’m so sorry about Polly. It must’ve been a sad day for you.
    Your photos of your cat are so cute, and did make me laugh too with your husbands comment.
    Thank you for a peek into your everyday life.
    I’m hoping to head outside some more, now that’s Autumn is here and hopefully some cooler temps are on their way. My poor plants have really struggled this summer, but the rain and or storms usually came in the nick of time and they’re hanging in there for the time being.
    Have a glorious day

  21. Beth says:

    Thank you from the bottom of my heart! You just made a crappy, sick day GREAT again. Today’s blog was a trip back to my childhood. I love your feed and seed store. I’d sure be thinking about the electric ice cream freezer that was across from the popcorn popper. But, I think I’d have to pass on the snake gourds.

  22. Marlene Capelle says:

    This is one of your best postings and your sense of fashion is spot on.

  23. Vicki says:

    I can so relate to this post.. I currently feel like I have nothing to share and my creativity is so low…
    But I LOVE going off to Fleet Farm!! Our farm store where I get my chicken feed, cleaners, seeds, you name it! Its not as cute as your local farm store, more like a wal mart sadly. But it is where I can get almost everything I need!
    Then, I loved your pictures of what you can see around you… GORGEOUS!! I would totally build myself a campfire and sit outside next to it to write!!
    Blessings

  24. Marilyn says:

    Great and interesting post.
    Marilyn

  25. JJ says:

    What an inspiring post!
    Please write more.
    Loved it!!!

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The Winter That Wasn't

“Nope, we’re not going to have a winter this year,” the young guy said as he loaded bags of sand into the back of my car. The sand is for my chicken run. I’m sure the guy was just making conversation and had no idea I’d take his comment so personally.

“What?!” I replied, “Winter is soooo coming! It’s only January! Just you wait.”

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  1. Carol Denton says:

    Oh my Rebekah, I had no idea you were having such a hard time of it. Six months is an eternity for us outdoorsy people! I’m so glad you are finally up and about! I know I’m six months late for this but here are a couple of blog sites I love that you can glean from in your down time.

    permies.com There are some great forums here.

    granny-miller.com She is a wealth of knowledge and just recently overhauled her webpage after many months of being MIA. She’s quite frank and to the point. And even though her name is Granny, she’s about the same age as PawPaw, lol.

  2. I’m sitting here watching the remnants of what was supposed to be a horrific storm only to turn out to be a minor inconvenience like all of the rest. If we had gotten snow instead of all the solid days in a row of rain that we had last week, there would be 3 feet of snow out there! I’m old enough now that I just take it as it comes and am grateful for another day regardless of what the weather is! Love your post, as usual!

  3. Denise Ross says:

    Lovely to see you’re up and abut again, Rebekah. Six months! Goodness that would’ve been hard to take fo sure.
    I can understand your craving for winter, the winter you’re supposed to have. After a time of having things hiccup and having to adjust to change, the craving for the way things are supposed to be is even stronger. It makes me feel secure when things are the way they’re supposed to be and sometimes a bit jittery when things don’t go the way they’re supposed to go. Winter, a snowy cold winter would be glorious, though I haven’t had too much experience with your kind. Mine are usually cooler temps, but very mild, no snow, and well who knows whether it will rain here or just Passover out to the ocean or not. I can never figure it out and I’ve been living here 12 years now.
    Fun how the heart longs for things that are comfort and cosy even if it’s easier not to have these things.
    Love your song for your chickens, and your Merlin story and your fridge is gorgeous.
    Loved your post, as always p, really resonated with me.
    Hope you get your snow, even if only a little to warm the cockles of your heart.
    Cheers from down under

    • Rebekah Teal says:

      we’ll get out cyber walking again before you know it. I enjoyed your photos of your life there! until I moved here, I never experienced “real” snow either. it’s been awesome the last few winters, but this one is mild mild mild mild and warm warm warm warm.

  4. Nicole says:

    Sending snow wishes your way. Out west here, in Utah, we have snow. More than normal, so I’m told, I’ve only been here for a few winters. I’m loving it. I’ll take an extra moment and enjoy the wintery white stuff for you. Hugs!

    • Rebekah Teal says:

      thank you, Nicole! I do hear it is a crazy winter. heavy snow out west. no snow out east. but do, make a snow angel for me.

  5. Pam deMarrais says:

    Hey Rebekah! Wow! I didn’t realize that you were in the surgery and healing process for six months! That’s a very long time….which I’m sure you came to realize. Glad that you are back on your feet (literally).
    It’s been eerily mild here in NE Tennessee too. I would gladly trade some of this rain for a little white stuff. I used to live in the snow belt in New Hampshire. The last winter I was there we had 32 snowstorms. Isn’t that crazy? Back then I was praying for warmer temperatures and shorter winters, so here I am. Truth is, though, that you can’t take New England out of the Yankee.
    I will be doing the snow dance soon if this rain keeps up! If you do get snow, please send some my way!

    • Rebekah Teal says:

      yep, tough road. I can ride horses again in April or May, so I’m looking forward to that! 32 snowstorms—dreamy! Dance for snow, My Friend!

  6. marge hofknecht says:

    I love this post. I wasn’t aware that you were under the weather for so long. Yes, winter is a strange one this year. Here in Tennessee we, too, have had lots of rain that would have been an enormous load of snow if the temperature had been lower. January is nearly over and February is just a week away. What will the amethyst month bring us? I enjoy the changing of the seasons and how each one brings forth its expected characteristics as each day passes by. And when the season doesn’t “follow the script”, so to speak, it does make for a little uneasiness but it’s exciting to wait for and then to see what will come next. I’m glad that you are able to be with your little ones again. I’m sure they’re just as happy to see you again in your usual ways. Please don’t forget those cookies for Merlin! I’d love to see him munching down on them.

    • Rebekah Teal says:

      yes, it was brutal to be down for so long. but no more! I enjoyed your comment so much. yes, what WILL the amethyst month bring us?? and Merlin’s cookies are on my to do list.

  7. Krista says:

    I will be sending you many winter snow vibes! We have had so much snow already and it’s still continuing to snow. In past years I feel the same as you, always wanting some beautiful snow. So I’m happy it finally turned around. It has been way fun taking my son outside to experience snow for the first time. He really enjoys it and hates to come in! We also love indulging in nice hot chocolate once we do finally come in. I’m happy to hear your up and moving and finally enjoying some time in the barn and with the chickens. Good luck with the weather and may snow be in your future!

  8. Donna Kozak says:

    Glad to hear you’re up and about again…and I laughed when you said you sang your chickens to sleep at night – I have the morning ritual, letting them out of the coop, and my husband does the evening thing…and he’s always sung “Goodnight, Ladies” to them while he did a head-count !! It just seems the natural thing to do. Love your decorated refrigerator. I love the snow, too, but here in the Pacific Northwest we’ve had it around for much too long and we are not used to it. It’s gone now and snow drops are all around the yard so spring is on the way – yippee !

  9. Diane Van Horn says:

    I think Merlin was really saying “I missed you!” So glad to see you are up and about! In Wisconsin we had plenty of the white stuff but then it turned into rain and ice. Hard to hike in that mess. Today it is snowing and it is beautiful! Sending snowy thoughts your way!

  10. Rene Marie Foust says:

    I am so happy that you are back i action, I have been so worried about you. Im with you I sure would like to have at least one snowfall this year. Say hi to your chickens and your horse the magician. Yay! you are back!

    • Rebekah Teal says:

      Rene, It’s great to be back in action for sure! I hear rumors of snow flurries here this weekend…I’ll take it!

  11. Vivian Monroe says:

    Aww, I love merlin’s faces. Ha. I like to talk to my chickens each morning and evening as well. Father Abraham my rooster though is getting a bit pushy, trying to charge at me for some reason, so gonna have to straighten that out.hmmm. Love the ice box idea. Well, I am in NC too, not as far north as you, but I am hoping the snow is behind us, and maybe we will have an early spring. I want to get out there and clean up my garden spots. We too have had so much rain everything is just mush. So do you put the sand in the chicken run? Is it for them to have a place to take baths? Im afraid mine would turn to mush because when it rains, my run gets so muddy. I put alot of pine straw out in there a couple weeks ago because I was going to be out of town and someone was coming to check on them and feed and water and get eggs, but they have to stay penned up and confined to the house and run when I am gone. So I didnt want them in a muddy mess. I also put out a flock block to keep them busy so they dont get too bored while I am gone, but they sure were glad when I got home and opened that gate. “FREE AT LAST”. 🙂 Thanks for sharing your pics of your farm. Be Blessed. Neta.

    • Rebekah Teal says:

      Neta, my run is the same way. mud. I haven’t found a way to deal with it. the location is at the bottom of a hill and it is somewhat shaded, so doesn’t dry out fast. The sand is for a corner where they take their dust baths. I’ve thought about trying to sand the whole run. If you come up with a way to handle your mud better, let me know! I’m eyeing the garden spots too…

  12. Debbie says:

    Howdy sister!
    I so enjoyed my visit here today. It’s been a little on the warmish side here in New England this winter too. Only one snow storm to speak of and the snow from that is all but gone after the warm rains we’ve had. The 10 day forecast looks pretty uneventful as well. After 16 years here we finally invested in a snowblower. It’s supposed to arrive in a couple of days. Wouldn’t that be a hoot if we never even got a chance to break it in this year? At least we’ll have it on hand just in case. My husband’s “old” by the young man you spoke of in this post. He turns 60 this summer. Time my handsome Yankee had himself a snowblower! Glad to hear you’re up and feeling better and communing with the horses in the barn again. I’d trade that for falling snow, any old day! Keep counting those blessings…They have a way of multiplying when you do! 😉
    Hugs,
    Deb ( Beach Farmgirl)

  13. Marilyn says:

    That horse is gorgeous.
    Marilyn

  14. Joan says:

    I get it totally, we have had snow but not the feets of it as normal. We have had COLD but when I peruse the outside from inside, it looks like I should be out there readying for the grow season, then I notice whites in the air, we now have several inches of snow — the report was for — maybe “flakes”, not complaining though, we need it. Love the pictures of your ‘farm friends’. Do take care. God bless.

  15. Laura says:

    Hi Rebekah!

    Glad to hear you are up and about again! Love your posts and pics!

    I am now recovering from ankle surgery 3 weeks ago. I look at my chickens out the window as others in my family care for them… but the family doesn’t sing or talk to “the girls” like I do. Here in Southern California we have had LOTS of rain and cold (for us)…makes it a little easier to be housebound. I also have a 5 month old Siamese kitten named Koko, who keeps me company and makes me laugh… great for the recovery too!

    • Rebekah Teal says:

      Oh gosh! I feel your pain in every way, Sister! It’s not easy, but you’ll be up and at ’em soon! I’m wishing you a speedy recovery and know you’ll be taking care of those chickens before you know it. No one takes care of our animals the way we do. Koko sounds like great entertainment. I had a Siamese as a child. His name was Jeff. LOVED that cat!
      Thinking of you! Let us know how your recovery goes!

  16. Sandi King says:

    Oh Rebekah, I too miss having the snow. We had one snowfall so far here in my part of northern KY and it lasted a couple of days and was gone. Rain, wind, rain. Much rather have snow deep enough to keep the mud at bay. My chickens like the the colder weather too – and I get to open them up in the mornings, clean the area, collect the eggs etc. My son will lock them up sometimes when I am too busy to get out there. I love my chickens. I don’t have a rooster though but the girls follow me everywhere I go in their fenced in area. I like winter to be winter, spring to be spring, and fall to be fall and summer to be in the 80’s. I am a cool weather person. I loved your blog today and missed you and so glad to have you back. Glad to see Mustache Cat too. It is colder today and windy but our temperatures are supposed to be in the 30’s now instead of the 50′ and 60’s it has been. I hope February will bring us the snow we are hoping for. We need a blast of cold and snowy winter before spring. Take care.

    • Rebekah Teal says:

      Yes, Sandi, all that! We are supposed to get cooler weather here too this weekend. And the old timers are saying SNOW, so we’ll see. I’m like you, I enjoy each season, but prefer seasonal weather. Winter became my favorite when we moved here.
      How many chickens do you have?

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The Winter That Wasn’t

“Nope, we’re not going to have a winter this year,” the young guy said as he loaded bags of sand into the back of my car. The sand is for my chicken run. I’m sure the guy was just making conversation and had no idea I’d take his comment so personally.

“What?!” I replied, “Winter is soooo coming! It’s only January! Just you wait.”

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  1. Carol Denton says:

    Oh my Rebekah, I had no idea you were having such a hard time of it. Six months is an eternity for us outdoorsy people! I’m so glad you are finally up and about! I know I’m six months late for this but here are a couple of blog sites I love that you can glean from in your down time.

    permies.com There are some great forums here.

    granny-miller.com She is a wealth of knowledge and just recently overhauled her webpage after many months of being MIA. She’s quite frank and to the point. And even though her name is Granny, she’s about the same age as PawPaw, lol.

  2. I’m sitting here watching the remnants of what was supposed to be a horrific storm only to turn out to be a minor inconvenience like all of the rest. If we had gotten snow instead of all the solid days in a row of rain that we had last week, there would be 3 feet of snow out there! I’m old enough now that I just take it as it comes and am grateful for another day regardless of what the weather is! Love your post, as usual!

  3. Denise Ross says:

    Lovely to see you’re up and abut again, Rebekah. Six months! Goodness that would’ve been hard to take fo sure.
    I can understand your craving for winter, the winter you’re supposed to have. After a time of having things hiccup and having to adjust to change, the craving for the way things are supposed to be is even stronger. It makes me feel secure when things are the way they’re supposed to be and sometimes a bit jittery when things don’t go the way they’re supposed to go. Winter, a snowy cold winter would be glorious, though I haven’t had too much experience with your kind. Mine are usually cooler temps, but very mild, no snow, and well who knows whether it will rain here or just Passover out to the ocean or not. I can never figure it out and I’ve been living here 12 years now.
    Fun how the heart longs for things that are comfort and cosy even if it’s easier not to have these things.
    Love your song for your chickens, and your Merlin story and your fridge is gorgeous.
    Loved your post, as always p, really resonated with me.
    Hope you get your snow, even if only a little to warm the cockles of your heart.
    Cheers from down under

    • Rebekah Teal says:

      we’ll get out cyber walking again before you know it. I enjoyed your photos of your life there! until I moved here, I never experienced “real” snow either. it’s been awesome the last few winters, but this one is mild mild mild mild and warm warm warm warm.

  4. Nicole says:

    Sending snow wishes your way. Out west here, in Utah, we have snow. More than normal, so I’m told, I’ve only been here for a few winters. I’m loving it. I’ll take an extra moment and enjoy the wintery white stuff for you. Hugs!

    • Rebekah Teal says:

      thank you, Nicole! I do hear it is a crazy winter. heavy snow out west. no snow out east. but do, make a snow angel for me.

  5. Pam deMarrais says:

    Hey Rebekah! Wow! I didn’t realize that you were in the surgery and healing process for six months! That’s a very long time….which I’m sure you came to realize. Glad that you are back on your feet (literally).
    It’s been eerily mild here in NE Tennessee too. I would gladly trade some of this rain for a little white stuff. I used to live in the snow belt in New Hampshire. The last winter I was there we had 32 snowstorms. Isn’t that crazy? Back then I was praying for warmer temperatures and shorter winters, so here I am. Truth is, though, that you can’t take New England out of the Yankee.
    I will be doing the snow dance soon if this rain keeps up! If you do get snow, please send some my way!

    • Rebekah Teal says:

      yep, tough road. I can ride horses again in April or May, so I’m looking forward to that! 32 snowstorms—dreamy! Dance for snow, My Friend!

  6. marge hofknecht says:

    I love this post. I wasn’t aware that you were under the weather for so long. Yes, winter is a strange one this year. Here in Tennessee we, too, have had lots of rain that would have been an enormous load of snow if the temperature had been lower. January is nearly over and February is just a week away. What will the amethyst month bring us? I enjoy the changing of the seasons and how each one brings forth its expected characteristics as each day passes by. And when the season doesn’t “follow the script”, so to speak, it does make for a little uneasiness but it’s exciting to wait for and then to see what will come next. I’m glad that you are able to be with your little ones again. I’m sure they’re just as happy to see you again in your usual ways. Please don’t forget those cookies for Merlin! I’d love to see him munching down on them.

    • Rebekah Teal says:

      yes, it was brutal to be down for so long. but no more! I enjoyed your comment so much. yes, what WILL the amethyst month bring us?? and Merlin’s cookies are on my to do list.

  7. Krista says:

    I will be sending you many winter snow vibes! We have had so much snow already and it’s still continuing to snow. In past years I feel the same as you, always wanting some beautiful snow. So I’m happy it finally turned around. It has been way fun taking my son outside to experience snow for the first time. He really enjoys it and hates to come in! We also love indulging in nice hot chocolate once we do finally come in. I’m happy to hear your up and moving and finally enjoying some time in the barn and with the chickens. Good luck with the weather and may snow be in your future!

  8. Donna Kozak says:

    Glad to hear you’re up and about again…and I laughed when you said you sang your chickens to sleep at night – I have the morning ritual, letting them out of the coop, and my husband does the evening thing…and he’s always sung “Goodnight, Ladies” to them while he did a head-count !! It just seems the natural thing to do. Love your decorated refrigerator. I love the snow, too, but here in the Pacific Northwest we’ve had it around for much too long and we are not used to it. It’s gone now and snow drops are all around the yard so spring is on the way – yippee !

  9. Diane Van Horn says:

    I think Merlin was really saying “I missed you!” So glad to see you are up and about! In Wisconsin we had plenty of the white stuff but then it turned into rain and ice. Hard to hike in that mess. Today it is snowing and it is beautiful! Sending snowy thoughts your way!

  10. Rene Marie Foust says:

    I am so happy that you are back i action, I have been so worried about you. Im with you I sure would like to have at least one snowfall this year. Say hi to your chickens and your horse the magician. Yay! you are back!

    • Rebekah Teal says:

      Rene, It’s great to be back in action for sure! I hear rumors of snow flurries here this weekend…I’ll take it!

  11. Vivian Monroe says:

    Aww, I love merlin’s faces. Ha. I like to talk to my chickens each morning and evening as well. Father Abraham my rooster though is getting a bit pushy, trying to charge at me for some reason, so gonna have to straighten that out.hmmm. Love the ice box idea. Well, I am in NC too, not as far north as you, but I am hoping the snow is behind us, and maybe we will have an early spring. I want to get out there and clean up my garden spots. We too have had so much rain everything is just mush. So do you put the sand in the chicken run? Is it for them to have a place to take baths? Im afraid mine would turn to mush because when it rains, my run gets so muddy. I put alot of pine straw out in there a couple weeks ago because I was going to be out of town and someone was coming to check on them and feed and water and get eggs, but they have to stay penned up and confined to the house and run when I am gone. So I didnt want them in a muddy mess. I also put out a flock block to keep them busy so they dont get too bored while I am gone, but they sure were glad when I got home and opened that gate. “FREE AT LAST”. 🙂 Thanks for sharing your pics of your farm. Be Blessed. Neta.

    • Rebekah Teal says:

      Neta, my run is the same way. mud. I haven’t found a way to deal with it. the location is at the bottom of a hill and it is somewhat shaded, so doesn’t dry out fast. The sand is for a corner where they take their dust baths. I’ve thought about trying to sand the whole run. If you come up with a way to handle your mud better, let me know! I’m eyeing the garden spots too…

  12. Debbie says:

    Howdy sister!
    I so enjoyed my visit here today. It’s been a little on the warmish side here in New England this winter too. Only one snow storm to speak of and the snow from that is all but gone after the warm rains we’ve had. The 10 day forecast looks pretty uneventful as well. After 16 years here we finally invested in a snowblower. It’s supposed to arrive in a couple of days. Wouldn’t that be a hoot if we never even got a chance to break it in this year? At least we’ll have it on hand just in case. My husband’s “old” by the young man you spoke of in this post. He turns 60 this summer. Time my handsome Yankee had himself a snowblower! Glad to hear you’re up and feeling better and communing with the horses in the barn again. I’d trade that for falling snow, any old day! Keep counting those blessings…They have a way of multiplying when you do! 😉
    Hugs,
    Deb ( Beach Farmgirl)

  13. Marilyn says:

    That horse is gorgeous.
    Marilyn

  14. Joan says:

    I get it totally, we have had snow but not the feets of it as normal. We have had COLD but when I peruse the outside from inside, it looks like I should be out there readying for the grow season, then I notice whites in the air, we now have several inches of snow — the report was for — maybe “flakes”, not complaining though, we need it. Love the pictures of your ‘farm friends’. Do take care. God bless.

  15. Laura says:

    Hi Rebekah!

    Glad to hear you are up and about again! Love your posts and pics!

    I am now recovering from ankle surgery 3 weeks ago. I look at my chickens out the window as others in my family care for them… but the family doesn’t sing or talk to “the girls” like I do. Here in Southern California we have had LOTS of rain and cold (for us)…makes it a little easier to be housebound. I also have a 5 month old Siamese kitten named Koko, who keeps me company and makes me laugh… great for the recovery too!

    • Rebekah Teal says:

      Oh gosh! I feel your pain in every way, Sister! It’s not easy, but you’ll be up and at ’em soon! I’m wishing you a speedy recovery and know you’ll be taking care of those chickens before you know it. No one takes care of our animals the way we do. Koko sounds like great entertainment. I had a Siamese as a child. His name was Jeff. LOVED that cat!
      Thinking of you! Let us know how your recovery goes!

  16. Sandi King says:

    Oh Rebekah, I too miss having the snow. We had one snowfall so far here in my part of northern KY and it lasted a couple of days and was gone. Rain, wind, rain. Much rather have snow deep enough to keep the mud at bay. My chickens like the the colder weather too – and I get to open them up in the mornings, clean the area, collect the eggs etc. My son will lock them up sometimes when I am too busy to get out there. I love my chickens. I don’t have a rooster though but the girls follow me everywhere I go in their fenced in area. I like winter to be winter, spring to be spring, and fall to be fall and summer to be in the 80’s. I am a cool weather person. I loved your blog today and missed you and so glad to have you back. Glad to see Mustache Cat too. It is colder today and windy but our temperatures are supposed to be in the 30’s now instead of the 50′ and 60’s it has been. I hope February will bring us the snow we are hoping for. We need a blast of cold and snowy winter before spring. Take care.

    • Rebekah Teal says:

      Yes, Sandi, all that! We are supposed to get cooler weather here too this weekend. And the old timers are saying SNOW, so we’ll see. I’m like you, I enjoy each season, but prefer seasonal weather. Winter became my favorite when we moved here.
      How many chickens do you have?

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Just. Stop.

News flash!

Christmas is not a competition…

Of how decorated your house is.

Of how perfectly perfect your gifts are.

Of how busy your days and nights are.

Of how much baking you do.

Of how many homemade gifts you can crank out.

Of how beautiful your family is (or appears to be).

Let’s all. Just. Stop.

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  1. Cindy says:

    Love your post ! We need to remember what’s important in this short time on earth! I TOO CHERISH our farm ! I love my horses! Goats !dogs!chickens! And a VERY spoiled farm cat named Gypsy! GOD forbid any of our animals should get cold! Ha! They ALL have shelter and plenty of spoiling! ILOVE to bake and entertain in my country,farmhouse kitchen ! We have great friends on neighboring farms and are VERY blessed! I DO LOVE to decorate ! I do for all seasons but NOT to impress anyone! I could CARE LESS to keep up with anyone else! Who cares! Love your family and life! I am very grateful for my husband of many years and family and friends! God bless ! Merry Christmas,Cindy

  2. Mary Rauch says:

    Rebekah, I think I love your soul. Merry Christmas from someone who has not decorated for 3 years because I wanted more time to do and be with people and things that meant more than tinsel.

  3. Cindy says:

    A couple of months ago, At the top of my December calendar I wrote in BIG letters…MAKE MEMORIES! Making memories takes time but I’m doing it. I had two of my nieces Thanksgiving weekend. They are 13 now and I didn’t think they’d want to come over. We made Christmas bunting, a scene in a jar, Christmas cookies with Mom (grandma), went to the annual holiday light display, then a parade. Very full weekend. And it’s not December yet. I’ve been collecting gifts for my sister and cousin for months. Nothing expensive. Some handmade or on clearance from summer. Just fun stuff. I’m giving them a Christmas countdown bag of presents to open every day the month of December. Our family is going to see Scrooge at the Indiana Repertory Theatre. I’m loving it all. Spending time with family and friends is my favorite thing. I’ll rest in January!
    And the house….tree is up, not decorated…gifts on surface spaces need wrapped and I’m in my pj’s drinking coffee. It’ll get done. I’m breathing!
    Happy Snowy Merry Christmas Rebekah

    Ps.praying for Gatlinburg and Pigeon Forge residents.

  4. Barbara says:

    I’m definitely in the “old lady” category and will soon add another birthday to the list. I have had really scant Christmases (no tree, no gifts and mac and cheese for dinner) and I been fortunate enough to have more elaborate holidays serving big dinners, lots of people and way too many non-necessary gifts under the tree. As my life has progressed I like to think that a real appreciation of the holidays has too. This year Christmas will be a small affair. I’ve decorated with memory ticklers and silly stuff that gives me a smile. I will drive thru town and ooooh and aaaah at the lights. I have a tote of handmade soft and warm items to offer to our church closet and I will bake a few items to share with friends and neighbors. And, the most meaningful thing I will do will be to hug my hubby and tell him he is still the best gift I ever received.

    Wishing everyone a peace and love filled holiday.
    Barbara

  5. Diane Van Horn says:

    I was just talking to my Hubby the other day about this exact topic! I remember when I was a child, getting just one special toy and of course an orange and a popcorn ball in my stocking. We didn’t decorate until the week before Christmas. I think this made it even more special. I also remember watching all the magical Christmas movies. My Mom and I would make all sorts of candies, breads and cookies to distribute to all the neighbors, friends and relatives. With six siblings the house was always “lived in” but the kitchen, although messy, smelled delicious with all that holiday baking! Far from the Pinterest perfect Christmas but somehow always the best memories.

    This year I have a Charlie Brown Christmas tree and that is all. I have always relished decorating every room in my house but now that I live in a basically one room cabin, I don’t have the space or the inclination to decorate. I may go out to the woods behind my tiny house and cut some greenery for around my front door. Mostly because I love the smell. I sometimes feel a little guilty for not doing the whole house Christmas show but with my children all grown, married and living a good distance away, it just wouldn’t be the same. Christmas will come and go without all the dazzle and maybe just maybe, I will enjoy the real reason for the season in my tiny little house in the woods with the Charlie Brown tree.

  6. Rebecca says:

    I love this post because it’s exactly what I’m trying to do this year. Slow down and ENJOY the moment as it’s happening. When I was a child, we never got big lavish gifts; we got gloves, an orange, a little candy and sometimes a new box of crayons or small toy. And it was wonderful! A good fire has always been one of my favorite things….I have too many favorites to list. When I saw the truckload of firewood, I though of a saying that my dad used to use. Firewood warms you 3 times, once when you cut it, again when you chop it and finally when you burn it.

  7. My favorite things are going to the village holiday parade, eggnog, making gifts with the grandkids, watching The Polar Express on Christmas Eve and offering a toast in memory of my Dad at midnight on Christmas Eve as he was born at 12:03A.M. Christmas morning.

  8. Deb Bosworth says:

    Merry Christmas, Rebekah! This post is just what I needed this morning. My mind has been racing with all I ” think” I need to be doing to get ready for the holidays. I’ve been working towards slow holidays for a few years now and your words today just gave me permission to finally just give into it with OUT the guilt…! You’re so right about social media, pinterest etc…Maybe we should all start taking photos of our imperfect homes and share them… That would be inspiring and freeing to many I bet! As a daily practitioner of gratitude here are a few of my favorite things…The twinkle in my hubby’s eyes when I’ve made him laugh, holding hands on the couch when we binge watch Sherlock together, hearing my mom say she loves me, ( she lives with us now, so I get to hear it often) a hug from my daughter, hearing my sons footsteps on the stairs just as I start dinner, mamma time with our corgi, Max. I love the sights and sounds of my family stirring about the house. To me these are the best gifts anyone could ask for. I wish you the same soul-satisfying holiday season on the farm! I know you’ll make it happen!
    Much love from Deb, the Beach Farmgirl xoxo

    • Denise Ross says:

      I was thinking the same thing actually Deb, that we should take pictures of our lived in homes and share them. I think we would all relax more and take the pressure for perfection off of ourselves.
      Have a holy and merry Christmas
      From Australia
      Denise

  9. Beth says:

    I couldn’t agree with you more, Rebekah. Life is not to be lived in a rush. Savor the time with your friends and family, we lose them all too soon. Memories maybe the best gift any of us can give or receive. Relax, seek peace and rejoice in the season. Merry Christmas to all!

  10. bonnie ellis says:

    I love your post. The older I get, the more I savor the moments. I will make out my list of favorite things which includes, faith, family, farmgirls and fun! Have a blessed holiday season. Oh, did I forget to mention slow food…time to make and savor.

  11. linda says:

    Thank you for your inspirational holiday thoughts. I am wondering how you are coping with the holiday demands and your recent ankle surgeries? It appears I may need knee surgery in these upcoming weeks and do far looking at a bare house and grandkids traveling here from afar. I so appreciate your insights. I too am a city girl raised in San Francisco and now on an acre of redwoods in northern California. Blessings

    • Rebekah Teal says:

      Linda, preparation was the key for me. Do what you can before the surgery. And let the rest go. Healing, following doc’s orders, and taking care of yourself will be the most important part of recovery…don’t push it. Hey, Grandkids can decorate when they get there! My other piece of advice is to let people help you. I have a friend, over 70, who had her knee replaced last year. She was up and about in no time at all. You will be SO HAPPY to have this behind you. Keep us posted so we can send healing thoughts and prayers your way! oxo

  12. ann says:

    Just reading your post has calmed my spirit. Thank you.
    I’m trying to breathe squarely while laughing at that load of wood! 🙂

    xo at Christmas time to Everyone reading this!

  13. Brenda Powers says:

    ❤️

  14. Marilyn says:

    Thanks for these tips. Christmas should be and was meant to be a time of joy,love and happiness. Now it has become a mad rush!
    MERRY CHRISTMAS
    P.S. My family are adults and we still fill stockings.
    Marilyn

  15. Nanette Boots says:

    Well written. And…thank you for writing to remind us what this season should be about. Have a very Merry Christmas.

  16. These are a few of my favorite things: my Bible, my record player, albums and 70’s
    45’s, Hank the Cowdog, my five hens, three horses, my guitar, our fertile almost 40 acres in the mountains of Northwest Wyoming, my pottery wheel, my journal, and my paints and canvases!! Not to mention my oven and bakeware that creates a variety of yumminess!!

  17. Brenda Towsley says:

    Love all your thoughts you have shared. This is what I have been trying to do the last couple of years. Slow down and enjoy the season. This also is really almost the only time I change things up around my house during the year. Yes I paint and redecorate rooms as needed but I don’t really change things up much for any other season. I do love the lights and shiny stuff added to each room though at Christmas, so I would add that as one of my favorite things. Of course there are my many grandchildren, which there has been another added this last month. Enjoy seeing their delight when I can find that one thing they were hoping for, since both families have been struggling for 3 or 4 years. I am praying there will be a change with that soon. My hubs is back in the wood shop for the winter I love seeing him enjoy it so much. And the Bug she does love the snow I hope she has some soon to play in, me not so much. So my favorite things are my family around me and seeing them happy all the rest I could live without if I needed to.

  18. Irene says:

    I agree with what you are saying Rebekah. I am not a part of Facebook. Last christmas was not the best I promised myself and my husband that this christmas would be different. I worried so much last christmas about presents for everyone and making sure one gift was not more than the other since Facebook lets everyone know. When it was time to take our tree down I realized I didn’t allow myself or my husband to appreciate the true meaning and beauty of the holiday. Our porch will have cuttings in a watering can and a tiny tree. Nothing fancy inside or out. Its not for me. There will be presents but no worrying.

  19. Sharon Elaine says:

    Little by little over the years how did this beautiful, blessed Christmas season become a burden? Bombarded with commercialism, the pressure to perform and compete has eliminated the joy and peace Christ provided at His birth. Thank you for reminding us we can bring change and the true meaning into our own hearts and homes by simplifying, giving and loving.

  20. Diane Loehr says:

    I loved your post. My daughter and I will get through these holidays but with some difficulty as my husband passed away in July of this year. We decorated the house already and put up some of his favorite ornaments. We think of him a lot during this time since he was a “Grinch”, but I think he may now feel that what we did during the holidays wasn’t so bad after all. I do agree that slowing down and enjoying the holiday is something that we all need to do. But it is hard – at least for me. We have been lighting our Christmas Trees and our decorated window every night so far. We just love that and I also like to put on a Christmas Tree scented candle and crochet. I would like to wish you and all your reader a wonderful Christmas! But I am praying for a non-white Christmas – sorry! 🙂 Merry Christmas Everyone – Diane

  21. Vivian Monroe says:

    Great post, great advice, I actually learned this years ago and have never gone back to all that hurry and scurry business, I just sit back and chill. Most of all I love the pic of Merlin at the end. I zoomed in and cropped and made me a picture of him. Hope you dont mind. the scenery was so pretty, I think I might frame and include in my CHristmas decor next year or this year if I get around to it. 🙂 Be Blessed and praying for a White Christmas for all of us here in NC. Neta.

  22. Leigh Ann Craddock says:

    Beautiful.

  23. Shelley Wilson says:

    Uncommon common sense and a heartwarming sense of humour. This post is a practical and inspiring gift in itself. Many thanks!

  24. Joan says:

    I can imagine a dolly, orange and nuts for Christmas, there were times that we shared the orange and nuts and didn’t get the dolly BUT it was still a wonderful Christmas. I am a Christian that has believed in less is more for many years and now that I am ‘way a senior’ it is easier to not HAVE to do it all. Being a decorator by choice this is hard for me but your wonderful words and pictures says it ALL!!! Bloom where you are planted and Dance with the Joy! God bless.

  25. Mary Murray says:

    There’s nothing new I can add to what’s already been said, just sending my “thank you” for sharing with us what we all need to hear. It’s so easy to get pulled into the “competition” … baking, decorating, gifts…who has the best/biggest/prettiest. I’m heading outside now to put some simple old-fashioned greenery around our old farmhouse and let that be that! (and if Gladys Kravitz down the road and Polly Perfect across town aren’t impressed, that’s okay!) Thanks for sharing your thoughts…it’s a post I’ll definitely read over and over.

  26. Denise Ross says:

    Hi Rebekah,
    My Christmas this year is more centered on time together as my oldest son is leaving for London in March next year to work as a paramedic and this is last year to have Christmas together with us as a family for the next Few years. He’s 21, moving out of home now for the first time and when he does return, if he chooses to, life will be different for us all.
    We are having all of my husbands family stay with us and celebrate Christmas together. It’s going to be crazy wild, but I’m hoping for some wonderful memories to be made for us all. I’ve decorated very simply inside my home with some pretty white twinkling lights and some ivy and holly tinsel and lots of lovely candles. All things I love and I’ve managed to grab cheaply thanks to discount stores and thrift shops. My basket of pine cones I grabbed off the side of the road I run on. I’m focusing on the reason for the season, keeping it simple and full of grace, kindness and love, imperfectly perfect through my mixed bag of emotions. Thank you for the stop and savor post. It’s what I’ve been thinking on and trying to implement in my daily life too. My favorite things are Christmas Eve church, late night chats p, watching the carols on Christmas Eve on tv and spending time together, cooking together and doing the advent bible study, savoring this time and what it means to me. Enjoying the beach in the middle of summer here with family and slowing down in the hot days here in Australia.
    Have a wonderful joyous Christmas Rebekah

  27. Meredith Williams says:

    Our Christmas tree has been up since Dec. 4. It has pretty lights on it but no ornaments. The box of collected ornaments from the last 30 years is sitting on the floor nearby. It is now Dec. 21. I’m thinking the tree will wear her lights and be beautiful just like that. Not that I don’t have time, but I would rather spend it doing something else. This year I think that’s the way it’s going to be.

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Ch-Ch-Ch-Ch-Changes

(Until this very moment, I had no idea that it was David Bowie who sang that Ch-Ch-Ch-Ch-Changes song. Until I ‘youtubed’ it. It was 1971. I can’t believe it. I’m shook. So very shook.)

We’ve talked about it many times over the years that we’ve been together, you and I.

Change.

             Transition.

This was the view out of my den window a few years back. Snow in autumn. An example of someone NOT following the rules of transition.Optimized-P1080776

Which, of course, happens in our lives. Change before we’re ready. Change without warning.

Snow when we’re still wearing our autumn leaves.

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  1. Kimberly Diener says:

    Last time I jumped in without looking I ended up in California for a month and that was where I was suppose to be so I than went to Utah and lived there for 3 years. Than my dad got sick and I moved back to Michigan. That was 16 years ago.

  2. I’ve missed you, and your words of wisdom! I hope you heal perfectly and are soon “jumping in” as much as you want.

  3. I just loved this post! Sorry to hear about having to go through another surgery but I am one who knows first hand that sometimes these changes are what bring about new opportunities for growth. A fall I took two years ago that resulted in a fractured hip and three pins to hold it together also resulted in two years of healing from the inside out and a period of positive growth that amazes even me. I love your list, especially allowing yourself a designated time to rant and rave! Having been raised Italian, I can certainly relate to that! Hope your recovery is speedy and your foot issues a thing of the past. Blessings!

  4. Carol says:

    Good advice and I find that I am less willing to just jump in these days as well.

  5. Ruth Merritt says:

    Dear ART – Your blog was beautiful. I’m sorry to hear that you had to go through another surgery but it sounds like you’ve got a good attitude about it. Even though it didn’t go as smoothly as we would have liked….the outcome will be worth it. Hang in there my friend. Take care of yourself and your sweet family. I’ll be thinking about you.

    Ruthie

  6. Krista says:

    Your blog definitely gives me something to think about. I have never been a fan of change, wether big or small. In fact I hate change! For example, my husband recently put his truck up for sale and I don’t like it. He has had the truck our whole marriage, so apparently I feel an attachment to it. Even though I know we need a new one because we need a second row of seats for the kids and something newer with less chance of breaking down. Seeing that the reasons for selling are beneficial to us, it still breaks my heart to sell it and see it go. I even hated when we changed cell phone providers. Another dumb thing to stress over but I do! So hopefully your steps can help me handle change a little better, both big and small. I need to see that change can be good rather than scary. I’ll work on not being a chicken!!

  7. Denise Ross says:

    Love this- so inspiring and true. Great ideas and there’s al Syd good thi God that come from change uninvited or invited. Live to hear about yours when you’re ready. Take care and big hugs from Australia xo

  8. Brenda Towsley says:

    Such good advise you have given all of us to think on. Hope you heal quickly and enjoy the what is left of the fall season. And you are right the older we get the more change we have to accept.

  9. Joan says:

    So inspiring!!! yes the changes they do happen, planned or not, so thanks for the great ideas. Hope you are doing much better. Our Fall is one of the prettiest we’ve had in many a year, nothing like the colors y’all have but still God has given us a beauty. Take care, till next time from the plains of Colorado — God bless.

  10. Cynthia says:

    I sure needed your mentoring this morning! Thank you!!!!
    I too hesitate now befor plunging head first..and I have to admit I don’t like that change. We may have more time at this point in our life BUT I miss that unbridled freedom to just let go. Cautious cautious , Yuck. I fight it …fight…fight…fight. Maybe that’s why we tend to dwell more on things..are demands have changed.
    My dear mother-in-law always said ” This too shall pass” and I seem to be quoting it to myself a little more frequently. It’s very reassuring to know we really are not alone, we are all connected in this realm. Thanks for connecting , enjoy your day…

  11. Great advice! I going through some changes, some I brought about, others that sort of ‘hit me in the face .’ Trying to ‘breathe ‘ and not feel so ‘broken,’
    Today is a new day! Thanks !!

  12. Irene says:

    So inspiring. It was very hard for us when we realized we had to stay in our apartment another year. Got over it and realized we were lucky to have a place to live and to make the best of it. God knows what is best for us now. Have a speedy recovery. I look forward to your posts. Take care.

  13. denise says:

    enjoyed reading your post.
    thank you!

  14. Amy P says:

    Than you for this. It is exactly what u need as I sit watching my healthy 6yo son get diagnosed with a heart defect. I don’t know what the future holds but your words are exactly what I needed to hear right now.

    • Rebekah Teal says:

      Dearest Amy, Light and Love and Prayers and Thoughts and Blessings headed your way….for you and your precious child. Lighting a candle now as I lift you both up. Please keep us posted. OXO

  15. Therese says:

    This post hit me between the eyes!
    I knew and predicted every word of it, nothing new! But I needed someone else to tell me to not be afraid! And more importantly that of which I did NOT anticipate, to EXPECT it because it WILL come. And you have to be ready and think how you will deal with it!
    As always, I love your posts!

    Thank you!

  16. Marilyn says:

    What beautiful photos. Thanks for sharing. Enjoy the Autumn season.
    Marilyn

  17. Mary Rauch says:

    I came here today to beg you for an update on your healing and see that there was another surgery! I hope you can feel all of us pulling for you and wishing you well! Maybe THIS post is the best one you ever wrote (for me, that is). Thanks again for your beautiful photographs and this inspirational post.

  18. Jamie Moeckly says:

    Just what I needed today! Thanks!

  19. Irene says:

    I don’t know Amy P but after reading her comment I went back and read mine. I feel ashamed about being mad last month because we couldn’t move. Very selfish. Blessings to you and your son Amy.

    • Rebekah Teal says:

      Dearest Irene, I know what you mean. BUT. We’re all on a different journey. It’s okay to be mad about disappointments and challenges in our lives, even if others have greater or different ones. Don’t you think? I do. Sure, we don’t have to look far to find someone with “harder” challenges, but that doesn’t make ours less pertinent or painful. That’s my take on it anyway. Be as kind to yourself as you are to others. Blessings to you, My Friend. OXO

    • Amy P says:

      Thanks Irene! We are doing good. This is a case of a blessing in disguise. We found out about a congenital heart defect that he has. But the defect won’t become an issue until he is a middle aged man. Also, the defect is a genetic one that will prompt the rest of our family to get tested as well. Now I need to sit down and think about how this diagnosis needs to change our family. Thank you for all your thoughts.

  20. Vivian Monroe says:

    Great advice. Love it. Especially the 30 minutes of reflection, and then the time of doing something that brings you joy. Mindless joy without having to overthink but Joy no less. Thanks for sharing, and I pray you heal quickly and get out there and hug Merlin. 🙂 Be Blessed. Neta.

  21. Sandi King says:

    Rebekah, the pictures are beautiful and the colors are gorgeous and bold. Your advice is worthy! I think this must be the time of the year that something always happens to upset the cart and cause stress when you don’t need it. (Does anyone ever need it?) Anyway, I had a bad day yesterday and I prayed about it last night. I asked for that peace for the soul and my brain that Jesus delivers and I felt a bit better. This morning when I checked on the situation I felt I was being let down and prayed again and asked forgiveness for my ranting the day before. I didn’t mention that I ranted, did I? Well, I did. My son calls it “drama”, and so it is. So I had to go and try to fix my situation and it didn’t turn out like I wanted so I went back home, disappointed. I had left my cell phone at home and I had a message on it from the person I had talked to, to call her back. So I did. God works in mysterious ways. I received an apology and acknowledgement that I was right and she was wrong and everything was put back as it should be. Prayers and repentance definitely works. I have that peace now and I also apologized for my actions and thanked her for calling me. I hope you get better soon and keep up with the jumping in, but do so slowly now. God bless.

  22. Irene says:

    Thanks Rebekah.

  23. JoEllen says:

    Rebekah — I love reading your blog — have been since the very first one but haven’t sent too many comments in. But this one is especially good to contemplate and then take action. My elderly mother, she will be 99 in November, moved in with my husband and I four years ago. Talk about a life change! She is pretty healthy, but wheelchair bound and so we’re not able to get out too much anymore and our relationship has gone through an upheaval for several years and now is better because I have made that choice to take time out, think about something or nothing, and let my body relax. It has helped — not so much our situation, but me. When your parent has become more like your child there are a lot of changes to think about and accept. I love reading everyone’s comments too — they’re all different, but we as women are a strong lot and we understand each other so well and that is such an encouragement.

    • Rebekah Teal says:

      Dearest JoEllen, your words! These words…”It has helped – not so much our situation, but me.” Hit me straight in the heart. Yep, that’s the key, isn’t it. You’re right, we’re all different with different challenges, but as long as we love and encourage each other, well, that’s what matters. Especially in hard times. There’s a Maya Angelo quote about being someone else’s rainbow, their blessing. That’s what each and every one of you are to me. My rainbow. Thinking of you, JoEllen, as you continue to care for those you love. Take special care of yourself as well. oxo

  24. Tonya Crofts says:

    Thank you for your insightful letter on change. As I look out my window at the autumn leaves that are fast falling from the trees i realize that even more changes are coming soon. The once green and lush healthy foliage aged beautifully with the rich yellow, orange and red hues, undoubtedly their ‘goldenyears’!! But soon those leaves will Be gone, leaving behind a skeleton of once was!! I look in the Mirror at my almost 70 year old silver locks that was once rich golden and brown hues and realize winter is fast approaching! Change is not only all around us, but within our very souls and bodies as well . I want to embrace these changes in myself as much as I welcome the first green buds on the trees in spring. So first thing tomorrow morning I’m going to get that box of golden hair color out if my cabinet and extend the autumn season! Jump on my elliptical and take up the leaves! I’ll cover my garden with them to help it grow rich vegetables in the summer to nourish this skeleton of mine! I’ve got more seasons to enjoy!! I’m much to young to be this old!!!

    • Rebekah Teal says:

      Beautiful. So much to love about your words, Tonya. But “I’m much too young to be this old!!!” Well, that’s my fav. Ain’t that the truth! Me too. 🙂

  25. Lynette says:

    Thank you so much for you words & steps of wisdom! It couldn’t have been at a better time as my Mom & me were taking a trip from Minnesota to New Mexico last Friday when the events of the day changed. The last time mom was on a plane was in the 70’s, so the was an exciting trip for the both of us. God does work in mysterious ways and we don’t always understand them. But three minutes into the airport my mom fell and the end result was a broken hip – yep surgery. All we can say at least we were disappointed, but we were also at home with family. It gave me time to reflect and my mom & I will be using your Grandmas saying Good/bad luck. Wish you many blessing and a happy recovery too!

  26. Rebecca says:

    Your pictures are incredible! I love your view. Your words today hit the mark in a lot of ways and I think your Grandma’s quote will stick with me for a long time. It sort of goes along with the “Be careful what you ask for, you just might get it” train of thought. One thing is certain, though, God knows our needs even when we don’t have the strength to voice them.

  27. Dena says:

    Rebekah, I am big maker of lists for ‘what to do when so and so happens’. However, I have never seen such good advice for dealing with change. Thank you so much for sharing these tools; perhaps your time of quiet has partly been so you can bless others with wisdom for their own times of change. I pray that you will continue to blossom during this time of change, quiet, and personal reflection. Blessings to you and your family, Dena

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