Gradually, I started feeling very “off”. Symptoms multiplied as weeks wore on. I’d have the will to be active, but physically couldn’t keep up. We were worried. Would I ever feel like myself? Was there something doctors hadn’t found?
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Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things that you didn’t do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover.
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~ Mark TwainDebbie Bosworth
is a certified farmgirl at heart. She’s happily married to her beach bum Yankee husband of 20 years. She went from career gal to being a creative homeschooling mom for two of her biggest blessings and hasn’t looked back since. Debbie left her lifelong home in the high desert of Northern Nevada 10 years ago and washed up on the shore of America’s hometown, Plymouth, MA, where she and her family are now firmly planted. They spend part of each summer in a tiny, off–grid beach cottage named “The Sea Horse.”
“I found a piece of my farmgirl heart when I discovered MaryJanesFarm. Suddenly, everything I loved just made more sense! I enjoy unwinding at the beach, writing, gardening, and turning yard-sale furniture into ‘Painted Ladies’ I’m passionate about living a creative life and encouraging others to ‘make each day their masterpiece.’”
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Being a farmgirl is not
about where you live,
but how you live.Rebekah Teal
is a “MaryJane Farmgirl” who lives in a large metropolitan area. She is a lawyer who has worked in both criminal defense and prosecution. She has been a judge, a business woman and a stay-at-home mom. In addition to her law degree, she has a Masters of Theological Studies.
“Mustering up the courage to do the things you dream about,” she says, “is the essence of being a MaryJane Farmgirl.” Learning to live more organically and closer to nature is Rebekah’s current pursuit. She finds strength and encouragement through MaryJane’s writings, life, and products. And MaryJane’s Farmgirl Connection provides her a wealth of knowledge from true-blue farmgirls.
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Keep close to Nature’s heart … and break clear away once in awhile to climb a mountain or spend a week in the woods, to wash your spirit clean.
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~ John MuirCathi Belcher
an old-fashioned farmgirl with a pioneer spirit, lives in the White Mountains of New Hampshire. As a “lifelong learner” in the “Live-Free-or-Die” state, she fiercely values self-reliance, independence, freedom, and fresh mountain air. Married to her childhood sweetheart of 40+ years (a few of them “uphill climbs”), she’s had plenty of time to reinvent herself. From museum curator, restaurant owner, homeschool mom/conference speaker, to post-and-beam house builder and entrepreneur, she’s also a multi-media artist, with an obsession for off-grid living and alternative housing. Cathi owns and operates a 32-room mountain lodge. Her specialty has evolved to include “hermit hospitality” at her rustic cabin in the mountains, where she offers weekend workshops of special interest to women.
“Mountains speak to my soul, and farming is an important part of my heritage. I want to pass on my love of these things to others through my writing. Living in the mountains has its own particular challenges, but I delight in turning them into opportunities from which we can all learn and grow.”
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Wherever you go, no matter the weather, always bring your own sunshine.
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~ Anthony J. D’AngeloDori Troutman
Dori Troutman is the daughter of second generation cattle ranchers in New Mexico. She grew up working and playing on the ranch that her grandparents homesteaded in 1928. That ranch, with the old adobe home, is still in the family today. Dori and her husband always yearned for a ranch of their own. That dream came true when they retired to the beautiful green rolling hills of Tennessee. Truly a cattleman’s paradise!
Dori loves all things farmgirl and actually has known no other life but that. She loves to cook, craft, garden, and help with any and all things on their cattle farm.
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Shery Jespersen
Previous Ranch Farmgirl,
Oct 2009 – Nov 2013Wyoming cattle rancher and outpost writer (rider), shares the “view from her saddle.” Shery is a leather and lace cowgirl-farmgirl who’s been horse-crazy all of her life. Her other interests include “junktiques,” arts and crafts, glamping, collecting antique china, and cultivating mirth.
Mary Murray
describes herself as a goat charmer, chicken whisperer, bee maven, and farmers’ market baker renovating an 1864 farmhouse on an Ohio farm. With a degree in Design, Mary says small-town auctions and country road barn sales "always make my heart skip a beat thinking about what I could create or design out of what I’ve seen.”
Rooted in the countryside, she likes simple things and old ways … gardening, preserving the harvest, cooking, baking, and all things home. While you might find her selling baked goods from the farm’s milkhouse, teaching herself to play the fiddle, or sprucing up a vintage camper named Maizy, you will always find her in an apron!
Mary says, “I’m happiest with the simple country pleasures … an old farmhouse, too many animals, a crackling fire, books to read, and the sound of laughter … these make life just perfect.”
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Farmgirl
is a condition
of the heart.Alexandra Wilson
is a budding rural farmgirl living in Palmer, the agricultural seat of Alaska. Alex is a graduate student at Alaska Pacific University pursuing an M.S. in Outdoor and Environmental Education. She lives and works on the university’s 700 acre environmental education center, Spring Creek Farm. When Alex has time outside of school, she loves to rock climb, repurpose found objects, cross-country ski on the hay fields, travel, practice yoga, and cook with new-fangled ingredients.
Alex grew up near the Twin Cities and went to college in Madison, Wisconsin—both places where perfectly painted barns and rolling green farmland are just a short drive away. After college, she taught at a rural middle school in South Korea where she biked past verdant rice paddies and old women selling home-grown produce from sidewalk stoops. She was introduced to MaryJanesFarm after returning, and found in it what she’d been searching for—a group of incredible women living their lives in ways that benefit their families, their communities, and the greater environment. What an amazing group of farmgirls to be a part of!
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Libbie Zenger
Previous Rural Farmgirl,
June 2010 – Jan 2012Libbie’s a small town farmgirl who lives in the high-desert Sevier Valley of Central Utah on a 140-year-old farm with her husband and two darling little farmboys—as well as 30 ewes; 60 new little lambs; a handful of rams; a lovely milk cow, Evelynn; an old horse, Doc; two dogs; a bunch o’ chickens; and two kitties.
René Groom
Previous Rural Farmgirl,
April 2009 – May 2010René lives in Washington state’s wine country. She grew up in the dry-land wheat fields of E. Washington, where learning to drive the family truck and tractors, and “snipe hunting,” were rites of passage. She has dirt under her nails and in her veins. In true farmgirl fashion, there is no place on Earth she would rather be than on the farm.
Farmgirl spirit can take root anywhere—dirt or no dirt.
Nicole Christensen
Suburban Farmgirl Nicole Christensen calls herself a “vintage enthusiast”. Born and raised in Texas, she has lived most of her life in the picturesque New England suburbs of Connecticut, just a stone’s throw from New York State. An Advanced Master Gardener, she has gardened since childhood, in several states and across numerous planting zones. In addition, she teaches knitting classes, loves to preserve, and raises backyard chickens.
Married over thirty years to her Danish-born sweetheart, Nicole has worked in various fields, been a world-traveler, an entrepreneur and a homemaker, but considers being mom to her now-adult daughter her greatest accomplishment. Loving all things creative, Nicole considers her life’s motto to be “Bloom where you are planted”.
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Paula Spencer
Previous Suburban Farmgirl,
October 2009 – October 2010Paula is a mom of four and a journalist who’s partial to writing about common sense and women’s interests. She’s lived in five great farm states (Michigan, Iowa, New York, Tennessee, and now North Carolina), though never on a farm. She’s nevertheless inordinately fond of heirloom tomatoes, fine stitching, early mornings, and making pies. And sock monkeys.
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Nicole,
WOW!!! Living in “tick country” myself, I’m really glad for this blog post as a reminder to be very aware. My husband and I do a little “tick check” on each other every couple days during these months when we are working outside continually. It is hard to see those little things yourself sometimes.
I’m so thankful you kept at it and didn’t just lay down and give up. I’ve found that we are our very best advocate and if we don’t take responsibility for our own health, very few will. (I also have a husband like yours that is there in the background pushing for answers.) I’m so happy you got answers, got help, and got your life back.
And the weight you think you need to lose? Keep it. You look fantastic! 🙂
Thanks for this post. I’ve been trying to patiently wait for Part Two! Glad for the happy ending! Big hugs,
– Dori –
Hi Dori! Thank you, thank you…you are so sweet!
One more word on ticks…the worst ones are the ones we don’t always see! The little deer ticks are soooooo tiny! Keep vigilant in doing tick checks. It’s so important.
Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
Yay for healing. I’m glad you are mended!
Thank you, Susabelle! Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
Congratulations! You have a disease and you know how to handle it. I am so happy for you. Now you have a new normal to deal with but you’re much more energetic and can carry on. I’m rooting for you.
Hi Adrienne, Thank you. I still read as much as I can on Lyme, ticks, and thyroid issues. Right now, thirteen months after going off the medication, my thyroid at my last two blood tests was in normal range. I just KNEW something else was going on. I also should add that I never, ever remember getting any ‘bull’s eye rashes’, even though I know I had ticks on me. I am just so thankful I found someone who would listen. Thanks for reading…Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
Such an inspiring story with the best ending.
So glad you stood up for yourself and kept searching for the right answers
and diagnosis and you won!!
Ive been praying for you from Noel, Mo…..Sending hugs from the Ozarks, Diana
Hi Diana! You are so sweet. Thank you for your prayers. I have many blessings to be thankful for, that is for sure. Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
Huraaaaaah Nicole! Finally! Thanks be to God! I had been misdiagnosed for over three years by 7doctors for a b12. Deficiency It’s called pernicious anemia! It is an auto ammunition also! I have to take injections of b2 ! My body will not absorb it! I was having ALL kinds of issues! By the time a neurologist found it! It was a simple b12 blood teats! It left me with permanent nerve damage! I still have tremors and severe neuropathy in my feet and legs! Left untreated ,I would have had permanent brain damage soon! Thank God! I was treated by an internist in the Bay Area! She knew exactly what it was! So many doctors missed it! If you are interested you can look up! I had every classic symptom! So hard to understand all of these doctors missing it! Well! You are on the mend! Congrats and God bless to you! YES ! You need to be your own advocate! I fully agree! Take care,Cindy
Hi Cindy, Oh your poor dear! I am sorry to hear you went through that. I am so glad that you were diagnosed correctly after being misdiagnosed. I think that doctors nowadays have so much on their plates with insurance, etc. and not enough time sometimes. It also seems like there are more issues we humans have than generations before. Blessings to you and your continued health! Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
Not b-2 sorry misspelled! B- 12 ! It runs our entire nervous system !
Got it, Cindy! Thanks! Big hugs!
I have heard so many stories like yours, and it amazes me that the doctors are so slow to figure this out. Glad you are better and thankful you put it out there for others to read!
Hi Janice, I agree. I have been amazed at the number of people who sound just. like. me. I hope writing this blog may help someone else like me. Thanks for commenting! Farmgirl hugs, Nicole
So happy to hear of your ‘return’!! God bless and I hope the ridding of the pesky plant helps.
Hi Joan! Thank you, sweetie! It grows everywhere in my area, but it is a start! Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
That’s great. I’ve had a lot of health issues and the worst part is not knowing what is wrong and IF it will ever get better or worse, not knowing what’s around the corner. So I’m glad to hear you found an answer and a solution! If you don’t already have any, you might want to consider getting chickens (or guinea hens). They are great at getting rid of ticks in your yard. My dog got Lyme disease twice before we got chickens, and never again since then. Just a thought. And it sure doesn’t look like you need to loose any weight, you look great!
Hi Elisa, OH! Thank you! I am short, so even a little weight makes a BIG difference. The extra weight (about twenty pounds) went on fast and is coming off s-l-o-w-e-r, but I feel great and energetic. I do have chickens, which you are right…they are great at eating ticks! I got them about a year and a half ago, and I love them. They also are great at eating grubs and beetles, on a side note.
I am sorry to hear that you’ve had a lot of issues with your help. Not knowing and also worrying makes a person not feeling well feel even worse. I hope this finds you better or on the right road! Great big farmgirl hugs to you! ~Nicole
Also fighting Lyme and doing better. Glad you found a Lyme literate doctor!
Hi Pamela, A great book from a great doctor (my doctor recommended it) is ‘Why Can’t I Get Better, Solving the Mystery of Lyme and Chronic Disease’, by Richard I. Horowitz, MD. It was helpful. I hope you feel better soon. You are not alone! Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
So glad to read, you’re well again. 🙂
Thank you Denise! Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
Nicole, I am so thrilled you are better and that you found a doctor who took his time with diagnosing the problem. May the Lord continue to bless you with great health. Neta
Hi Neta! Oh thank you! It was a year ago this month that I am back to “normal”. I will never, ever take health and being able to be active for granted, that is for sure. I also am thankful for all the wonderful farmgirls who kept me in their prayers. A few farmsisters and close friends figured out I was not myself, and they kept my spirits high. 🙂 Farmgirl hugs, Nicole
So happy that you finally found your answer! My DD has Chronic Lyme Disease. She was misdiagnosed and treated for a different illness for over 3 years. It lies dormant and rears it’s ugly head in the most peculiar ways. A few years ago she was again very ill with a mysterious ailment. I fought and searched and helped her get her insurance company to let her see a Lyme Specialist. Her Lyme Antibodies were off the charts! They put her on an IV drip of antibiotics for 28 days. She was again back to her normal self. The medical community has started to wake up to this epidemic of Lyme Disease. Back when she was misdiagnosed, if the test was negative then you didn’t have it. Problem is the test back then was not very accurate. Testing today is much better. I am glad you are feeling better and I hope your story will help others become their own advocates and get the help they need. There is an older blog post on MJF which tells my DD story in detail. http://maryjanesfarm.org/snitz/topic.asp?TOPIC_ID=46176
Hi Diane, I am so sorry to hear that your family has been touched by an awful tick illness, too. I knew a lady over twenty years ago that was misdiagnosed for the longest time. Her illnesses went so far that she ended up having a stroke…I think she was around thirty at the time. Later on, they found out it was Lyme all along. That was before anyone really ever heard of Lyme. The scary thing about these tick-borne illnesses is how it affects not just one area of the body, and how it can so easily mimic other diseases, including in my case an autoimmune disorder. I am doing great, but I do know from my doctor that I have to watch myself very carefully. I am so much more vigilant with tick protection. (I still use organic, natural oils for tick repellent, and they work very well). I don’t know if you’ve heard of the new tick borne illness that is popping up in the news, but it is a cause for alarm, too. Still, I love the outdoors, and love being outside, I just know that we must be more careful. My best to your sweet DD. She’s not alone! Farmgirl hugs, Nicole
Hey Nicole, thanks for your good thoughts sent to my DD. I just ran across this and thought you would be interested. I hope you have a great tick free summer!http://www.thyroidpharmacist.com/blog/lyme-disease-is-a-hidden-trigger-for-hashimotos
Thanks, Diane. Interesting article, and mentions Dr. Horowitz, the author of the book my doctor referred to. Farmgirl hugs, Nicole
Wow, Nicole! You finally got your answers! I also believe that it is important to be your own advocate. So happy that your health is continuing to improve….
Hi Jan! Thank you. It truly was a long road, and when we went to the last doctor, I had disagreed with my husband at first. I thought he wasn’t the “right” kind of doctor. I am so blessed that my husband was persistent! Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
As my dad used to say “If you don’t have your (good) health, you don’t have anything!” I’m so glad you were persistent in finally finding out what was wrong! It’s a lesson that will stick with me for a long time to come. And please keep us updated. Your story was truly interesting (and concerning for anyone in tick territory!!)
Hi there, Your dad’s saying is so true, so wise. Thank you so much! Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
Hi Nicole,
I am so relieved to hear you got to the bottom of why you weren’t feeling yourself! Lyme disease is nothing to fool around with and can often be hard to diagnose as you have learned. Wishing you many happy, healthy days ahead with your beautiful family!
Hugs,
Deb, Beach Farmgirl
Hi Deb! Thank you, farmsis! Lyme disease and other tick-borne illnesses can really make life difficult, that’s for sure. There was such a relief when I FINALLY knew what was going on!
Have a great summer at your beautiful beach!
Farmgirl Hugs,
Nicole
Ditto to what Dori said. You ( and your daughter ) look beautiful! Radiant even. 🙂 What ever you’re doing, it’s working!
Oh gosh, Deb, thank you! You girls, too…it’s the organic food and farmgirl happiness! Hope we can all meet up in person one day soon. 😉 ~Nicole
I know exactly how you feel.. better to learn to listen to your body. Many times its just the aging process. Sometimes sickness or tiredness. The pituitary gland affects everything. If you get a little bump to to forehead it can create all kinds of things including a stroke. My husband just slightly bumped his head and had a stroke two weeks later. Died three months later. Unreal..one day he seemed like he was fine. The next night he was gone. May he rest In the arms of Jesus! He died June 8,2015. Hope you take care of your self.
Susana, Oh my goodness! I am so sorry to hear of your loss! Bless your heart. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Big farmgirl hugs, Nicole
Hi Nicole,
I’ve been thinking about you with all of this and I am sure glad you found the right doctor! I have had three major tick born illnesses and know of the dangers thereof! This is a real scourge that needs much more attention from the medical community! You are such a vivacious individual with “Moxie” and the world needs you at your best!!
I hope you, Audrey, and your husband have the best summer yet!!
Hi Mr. Ramsey! Thank you! Wow! THREE tick borne illnesses…I hope you are well now and continue doing all the amazing, great things that you do. Thanks for being the best teacher ever! Audrey is looking forward to being in your class in eighth grade as well. Have a wonderful summer! ~Nicole
Oh Nicole, I am so relieved you are ok! I have a horse who had had Lyme twice and his symptoms mimicked yours! What a horrible time for you. Blessings to you and your family with your returned good health❤️ Love from Virginia from your transplanted Ridgefield Ct. farmgirl friend!
Hi Meredith! Oh thanks so much! I didn’t realize even horses get Lyme! I hope he recovers fully…keep us posted! Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
Nicole. I am so happy for you to find the source of your problem. It took me a long time to find out I had fibromyalgia because I also have arthritis and I felt lousy for a long time. But thanks to the right doctor I feel better again. The picture of you and your daughter is so lovely. Take care.
Thanks so much, Bonnie. I have many friends with your same condition, too. I hope that you have lots and lots of “good”, pain free days. Big hugs to you, my farmsister! ~Nicole