February is a strange month, isn’t it? The holidays are past (there’s Valentine’s Day, of course, but it isn’t really a “holiday”), and there’s the latter part of winter to get through. We New Englanders are usually a little bit more “locked down” in February when winter gets its harshest, but with a pandemic still in effect, it makes the shortest month of the year truly feel like we are living in the movie “Groundhog Day”. Still, since my last blog, there has been much going on in the Connecticut suburbs…
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Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things that you didn’t do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover.
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~ Mark TwainDebbie Bosworth
is a certified farmgirl at heart. She’s happily married to her beach bum Yankee husband of 20 years. She went from career gal to being a creative homeschooling mom for two of her biggest blessings and hasn’t looked back since. Debbie left her lifelong home in the high desert of Northern Nevada 10 years ago and washed up on the shore of America’s hometown, Plymouth, MA, where she and her family are now firmly planted. They spend part of each summer in a tiny, off–grid beach cottage named “The Sea Horse.”
“I found a piece of my farmgirl heart when I discovered MaryJanesFarm. Suddenly, everything I loved just made more sense! I enjoy unwinding at the beach, writing, gardening, and turning yard-sale furniture into ‘Painted Ladies’ I’m passionate about living a creative life and encouraging others to ‘make each day their masterpiece.’”
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Being a farmgirl is not
about where you live,
but how you live.Rebekah Teal
is a “MaryJane Farmgirl” who lives in a large metropolitan area. She is a lawyer who has worked in both criminal defense and prosecution. She has been a judge, a business woman and a stay-at-home mom. In addition to her law degree, she has a Masters of Theological Studies.
“Mustering up the courage to do the things you dream about,” she says, “is the essence of being a MaryJane Farmgirl.” Learning to live more organically and closer to nature is Rebekah’s current pursuit. She finds strength and encouragement through MaryJane’s writings, life, and products. And MaryJane’s Farmgirl Connection provides her a wealth of knowledge from true-blue farmgirls.
Column contents © Rebekah Teal. All rights reserved.
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Keep close to Nature’s heart … and break clear away once in awhile to climb a mountain or spend a week in the woods, to wash your spirit clean.
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~ John MuirCathi Belcher
an old-fashioned farmgirl with a pioneer spirit, lives in the White Mountains of New Hampshire. As a “lifelong learner” in the “Live-Free-or-Die” state, she fiercely values self-reliance, independence, freedom, and fresh mountain air. Married to her childhood sweetheart of 40+ years (a few of them “uphill climbs”), she’s had plenty of time to reinvent herself. From museum curator, restaurant owner, homeschool mom/conference speaker, to post-and-beam house builder and entrepreneur, she’s also a multi-media artist, with an obsession for off-grid living and alternative housing. Cathi owns and operates a 32-room mountain lodge. Her specialty has evolved to include “hermit hospitality” at her rustic cabin in the mountains, where she offers weekend workshops of special interest to women.
“Mountains speak to my soul, and farming is an important part of my heritage. I want to pass on my love of these things to others through my writing. Living in the mountains has its own particular challenges, but I delight in turning them into opportunities from which we can all learn and grow.”
Column contents © Cathi Belcher. All rights reserved.
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Wherever you go, no matter the weather, always bring your own sunshine.
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~ Anthony J. D’AngeloDori Troutman
Dori Troutman is the daughter of second generation cattle ranchers in New Mexico. She grew up working and playing on the ranch that her grandparents homesteaded in 1928. That ranch, with the old adobe home, is still in the family today. Dori and her husband always yearned for a ranch of their own. That dream came true when they retired to the beautiful green rolling hills of Tennessee. Truly a cattleman’s paradise!
Dori loves all things farmgirl and actually has known no other life but that. She loves to cook, craft, garden, and help with any and all things on their cattle farm.
Column contents © Dori Troutman. All rights reserved.
Shery Jespersen
Previous Ranch Farmgirl,
Oct 2009 – Nov 2013Wyoming cattle rancher and outpost writer (rider), shares the “view from her saddle.” Shery is a leather and lace cowgirl-farmgirl who’s been horse-crazy all of her life. Her other interests include “junktiques,” arts and crafts, glamping, collecting antique china, and cultivating mirth.
Mary Murray
describes herself as a goat charmer, chicken whisperer, bee maven, and farmers’ market baker renovating an 1864 farmhouse on an Ohio farm. With a degree in Design, Mary says small-town auctions and country road barn sales "always make my heart skip a beat thinking about what I could create or design out of what I’ve seen.”
Rooted in the countryside, she likes simple things and old ways … gardening, preserving the harvest, cooking, baking, and all things home. While you might find her selling baked goods from the farm’s milkhouse, teaching herself to play the fiddle, or sprucing up a vintage camper named Maizy, you will always find her in an apron!
Mary says, “I’m happiest with the simple country pleasures … an old farmhouse, too many animals, a crackling fire, books to read, and the sound of laughter … these make life just perfect.”
Column contents © Mary Murray. All rights reserved.
Farmgirl
is a condition
of the heart.Alexandra Wilson
is a budding rural farmgirl living in Palmer, the agricultural seat of Alaska. Alex is a graduate student at Alaska Pacific University pursuing an M.S. in Outdoor and Environmental Education. She lives and works on the university’s 700 acre environmental education center, Spring Creek Farm. When Alex has time outside of school, she loves to rock climb, repurpose found objects, cross-country ski on the hay fields, travel, practice yoga, and cook with new-fangled ingredients.
Alex grew up near the Twin Cities and went to college in Madison, Wisconsin—both places where perfectly painted barns and rolling green farmland are just a short drive away. After college, she taught at a rural middle school in South Korea where she biked past verdant rice paddies and old women selling home-grown produce from sidewalk stoops. She was introduced to MaryJanesFarm after returning, and found in it what she’d been searching for—a group of incredible women living their lives in ways that benefit their families, their communities, and the greater environment. What an amazing group of farmgirls to be a part of!
Column contents © Alexandra Wilson. All rights reserved.
Libbie Zenger
Previous Rural Farmgirl,
June 2010 – Jan 2012Libbie’s a small town farmgirl who lives in the high-desert Sevier Valley of Central Utah on a 140-year-old farm with her husband and two darling little farmboys—as well as 30 ewes; 60 new little lambs; a handful of rams; a lovely milk cow, Evelynn; an old horse, Doc; two dogs; a bunch o’ chickens; and two kitties.
René Groom
Previous Rural Farmgirl,
April 2009 – May 2010René lives in Washington state’s wine country. She grew up in the dry-land wheat fields of E. Washington, where learning to drive the family truck and tractors, and “snipe hunting,” were rites of passage. She has dirt under her nails and in her veins. In true farmgirl fashion, there is no place on Earth she would rather be than on the farm.
Farmgirl spirit can take root anywhere—dirt or no dirt.
Nicole Christensen
Suburban Farmgirl Nicole Christensen calls herself a “vintage enthusiast”. Born and raised in Texas, she has lived most of her life in the picturesque New England suburbs of Connecticut, just a stone’s throw from New York State. An Advanced Master Gardener, she has gardened since childhood, in several states and across numerous planting zones. In addition, she teaches knitting classes, loves to preserve, and raises backyard chickens.
Married over thirty years to her Danish-born sweetheart, Nicole has worked in various fields, been a world-traveler, an entrepreneur and a homemaker, but considers being mom to her now-adult daughter her greatest accomplishment. Loving all things creative, Nicole considers her life’s motto to be “Bloom where you are planted”.
Column contents © Nicole Christensen. All rights reserved.
Paula Spencer
Previous Suburban Farmgirl,
October 2009 – October 2010Paula is a mom of four and a journalist who’s partial to writing about common sense and women’s interests. She’s lived in five great farm states (Michigan, Iowa, New York, Tennessee, and now North Carolina), though never on a farm. She’s nevertheless inordinately fond of heirloom tomatoes, fine stitching, early mornings, and making pies. And sock monkeys.
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Having lived in the White mountains of New Hampshire, I know snow! One winter the snow was even with the window sills of the second story! We tunneled through it to get out the back door.
I love oppossums !
Two facts that people dont know: They can’t carry rabies, their blood is too cold. Also they are worth their weight in gold just for the amount to disease carrying ticks they eat! I live in PA now and the ticks are a real menace.
Enjoy your ” snow days” and drink lots of cocoa and remember them on some hot August day when snow seems so wonderful
Oh Lisa! I can’t imagine THAT much snow – I hope it never gets that way here! I have seen it where it makes the roads all seem like a luge track, lol! New Hampshire is beautiful – so is Pennsylvania, where we used to live long ago and I saw my first-ever snowfall.
Aren’t opossums the best? I love seeing them, and Radio has become a cherished visitor. He was back last night, and while yesterday was warmer and sunny, we are expecting another 8 inches and very cold weather again. I hope he will continue to visit; we’ve seen him for over a year now. Stay warm, and thanks for reading and commenting! Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
So much to do during snowy February! On a side note, I love Pip’s coat!
Hi Heidi, Thank you! As for the weather, the bright side, it is really good knitting-with-a-side-of coffee weather! 😉 Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
Some great pictures and fun captions. I am in PA and this has been an interesting winter. We are expecting another 5-8 inches tomorrow. The last two storms fizzled into nothing. Not that I am complaining but I remember growing up in the late 70’s where the weathermen seemed to nail the winter forecasts – not so much these days.
Sounds like your animals are warm and cozy and enjoying this winter season.
Sending positive thoughts that Spring is on the way!
Hi Jacqueline, thank you! I am so glad you enjoyed the post. I think your snow storm is heading our way, too. We are supposed to also get around eight inches. I am going to sew a bit and bake some more bread. I know spring will be here eventually- the days are already getting lighter longer, so that is good. I just can’t wait to get back into Gidget the Glamper! Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
Big congrats to your daughter for her Gold Award! My son completed his Eagle last fall and we know how much work goes into the project. It’s a wonderful accomplishment for her! The same things are happening here in Ohio…sourdough bread baking (with MaryJane’s book, of course), a steaming up of herbal tea on this -12 morning, and hunkering down in the cold and snow. How wonderful for you to meet Christopher Plummer – I have to agree, The Sound of Music is a favorite here as well. Stay warm…always enjoy your posts. 10 years, here does the time go?!
Hi Mary, Congratulations to your Eagle Scout! That is wonderful! I am so impressed by these kids who do these projects! Hard to believe, but Audrey was seven when I wrote my first blog – and now she is 18! I feel like you all have watched her grow up with me! Stay warm! Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
Nicole, I am enduring the Connecticut weather along with you. More snow forecast for tomorrow, ugh! I agree, it is beautiful to look at and it is protecting the soil in my garden. It is best to just hunker down and enjoy things like baking. I love you beautifully decorated focassia! I am keeping busy attacking my fabric stash and sewing patchwork quilts, watching the birds at my feeders and dreaming of what I will plant in the spring when the ground warms up. Congratulations to your daughter! What a wonderful accomplishment !
Hi Nancy, Thank you! And on the weather, I hear ya! After yesterday’s sunny and a bit warmer weather, I am NOT looking forward to more snow – and so far they are saying eight more inches! I am planning on some sewing myself this weekend; it’s been awhile since I sat at the machine, and sewing makes the hours fly by. Thanks for reading and commenting! Stay warm! Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
Thank you for your blog. We moved from Connecticut to the Midwest in 2010 for work and miss New England dearly. I, too, have a husband whose native language (Hungarian) is difficult. We are using Mango which is used by some universities—it’s free through some public libraries but also available for about $10 a month—and have found it to be far superior to DuoLingo (at least for Hungarian). All best wishes and thank you! Kiki Mayer
Hi Kiki, I have always wanted to visit the Midwest; I am sure your area there is beautiful, too, but I can see where one would always miss Connecticut. Thank you so much for the info – I will check out Mango. I have not heard of it before but sounds good! Thanks for commenting! Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
I live in Connecticut too. Our possums killed most of our chickens.
Hi Karen, I am so sorry to hear that. Radio leaves ours alone, and sometimes he has had a friend with him. The one time he tried to sneak into the coop, the rooster and Mama Hen chased him out and I saw him run for dear life. Opossums don’t generally attack chickens unless they are super hungry. They are opportunistic and will go for fallen fruit or leftover feed before killing prey – but will go after a chicken if hungry enough. They are good little creatures to have around as they are the only natural defense we have against ticks. I am so sorry about your chickens, though. Here in Connecticut, we have so many predators working against our flock – raccoons, fisher cats, bobcats, bears, coyotes, owls, and hawks! Red tailed hawks got a few of mine over the years. It is always upsetting to lose a chicken! Stay warm – I hear more snow is on it’s way to us. After yesterday’s beautiful, warmer weather, today’s frigid weather with snow on the way makes me think that Mother Nature is mean! Thanks for dropping by! Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
Hi, there – from a fellow Texans! We have been getting some of your cold weather here with people losing power and water for days. Plus they are doing rolling blackouts across the state. Brrr!
Enjoyed reading your blog and learning more about your Farm Girl life! 😀
Hi Denise, Hello and welcome to the blog! I am so glad you’ve “dropped by”! I hope you are staying warm there! I know that when it is cold there, it is bone-chilling because of the humidity and the fact that the state and structures there are not set up for our kind of winters. My relatives currently have no power or water. I hope you all get warmer weather soon, and your power on. I know too well how awfully hard it is when the power goes out. Thanks again for reading and commenting! Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
my daughter earned her Gold AWard as well (son was able to earn Eagle Scout). WAY TO GO THAT IS a HUGE accomplishment. They often really dont have a clue how amazing it is until later into their midtwenties- and it often takes alot of support and encouragement from the parents- good for you!!!
Hi Cheri, and CONGRATULATIONS to you, your daughter, and son! WOW! That is wonderful they both got their awards! It felt like a lot of blood, sweat, and tears to get there, but oh how proud I am of her! Thanks so much for reading and commenting. Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
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I grew up in Ridgefield from 1961-2007 when mom sold the house on Silver Spring Road. Your photos were beautiful and congratulations to your daughter for her persistence and love for animals! I see where that came from!
Hi Kathy, thank you so very much! I am very proud of my daughter’s accomplishment. I never thought we would go that far when I took over the troop as a leader in fifth grade, let alone that she would go for the Gold Award!
I wonder if our paths ever unknowingly crossed in Ridgefield when you lived there? Such a beautiful town. Thanks so much for reading and commenting! Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
This blog was so enjoyable. Thank you so much. Stay safe.
Hi Barb, thank you so much! I am so glad you enjoyed the post. Stay warm! Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
Always love your blogs…
You have made a “rough” month seem
happier. Love seeing your “sweet chickens” Radio your opossum…
Thrilled your daughter Audrey won her well deserved award…
I’ve been sewing, but you’ve made me want to bake some bread…
Thank you for your “great pictures”
It makes me think Spring is “just around the corner”
Hi Julie, thank you…life is a gift so we have to make the best of it, and realize we can only control what we can. I think attitude is a lot. It warmed up yesterday to a steamy 50 degrees (today it was back to subzero), so yesterday I cleaned out the coop. It was nasty as everything was frozen. I had to hand carry (no wheel barrow or tractor due to snow) seven, big, heavy buckets across the yard in knee deep snow to the compost…not fun, but I thought, “what a thigh buster work out, and I am outside in the sun”. I can whine, though, don’t get me wrong, but I try to keep a positive perspective, and choose to be happy. I can just see you sewing away, too! By the way, Radio was just here, peeking out at me! Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
Congratulations to Audrey! And, I’m so glad that you’re OK after that chicken coop adventure! Being on the shorter side of things does have its advantages….
Here in the NW, we’re just coming back to power (so thankful for heat and electricity!) and all things internet, cable, cellular. Four days of that can really widen one’s perspective! I know that weather we had is heading across the country — so do stay safe and warm. It’s nearly 50 here today (crazy winter!) so hopefully we’ll be sending that along to you soon as well!
Hi Beth, we are good here, just tired of the cold and ice. We are equipped for it, though, and it comes with living here. However, in Texas, my friends and relatives are currently really suffering. I hope they get electric, water, and their usual warm weather soon! Enjoy your fifty degrees! Hang in there! Thanks for reading and commenting! Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
Glad you were not hurt any worse. The snow storms seem to never end. Here in new York we received 16-18 inches of snow and 3 more another day. Tonight we are expecting 5-8 inches tomorrow into Friday. Congratulations to your daughter.
Marilyn
Hi Marilyn, thank you! It definitely could have been worse, that gate is steel! Thanks for the congratulations, and keep warm! Mother Nature has been mean, that is for sure! Just think spring! Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
I wish we had more snow! Maybe I should be more careful what I wish for We are at the tail end of a terrible cold snap in central Wisconsin with highs -0 for many days. In the meantime I’m loving my Mary Jane’s calendar-it’s beautiful! And I’m organizing my seeds getting excited about the gardens and flower beds
Hi Marge, I am so happy you are enjoying your calendar! Right now, we are getting some snow again. I will be starting my indoor seeds soon. It is hard to believe that soon I will be thinking of getting outside. A few more months and a good thaw, and spring will be here. In the meantime, stay warm! Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
Hi Nicole! As a lifetime GS, please send my congratulations to your daughter! That’s a BIG woohoo!!!
Hi Carol, Thank you ever so much! Yes, we are so very proud of her! I can’t get over all the hurdles she had thrown her way with it, but she did it! And our local paper did a write up on her award, with her photo. So exciting! Thanks again! Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
Wonderful plot. I really enjoyed all of it. I may try baking bread. It has been ages, you have me inspiration. Thank you. Linda
Hi Linda, thank you so much! Everytime I bake the bread, it gets easier and easier, like I have it down pat now. It is just so delicious, and the way the house smells when it is baking…nothing more comforting or cozy! And guess what – I now tried making crackers from the sourdough discard! They are delicous and easy to do! Let me know how your bread goes! Thanks for reading and commenting! Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
I enjoyed you blog. Yes, south Texas is cold this year.
Hi Carol, Thanks so much! My heart has been down in Texas. It has been so sad to see all that Texas has gone through this winter. Glad your winter weather has thawed out and warmed up some. Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
Hi Nicole,
As always, I enjoy your blog and look forward to reading about Your Connecticut. I live in Kentucky and we finally had what I consider a good winter as our previous past winters have been a bit lacking in the white stuff, here today, gone tomorrow like. At least this winter the snow came a lot and stayed around for awhile which I appreciate. I like all 4 seasons to be separate seasons and each to have a good amount of time to be around and enjoyed for whatever beauty they give us. I think Fall is my favorite time. I know some states got hit with unexpected bad weather and I feel for the people who are not used to it and have suffered so much. This whole last year has been an unexpected troubling time for all, and I look forward to spring and better days as we all must do. Keep blogging for all us who receive your column love to know what is happening in your neck of the woods.
Hi Sandi, I am so glad you have had a good winter. Ours has just been so long. I agree with you – I love four seasons and Fall is especially nice. Thank you so much for such a nice comment; it means a lot to me. Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
Nicole, What a great way to end February reading your blog; great pictures, wonderful animals, evoking warm feelings with bread making and sewing topped with your daughter’s perseverance in achieving her gold award. Gets you ready to welcome Spring!
In rural Central Kansas, we just got through a frigid 10 day spell but kept warm in my old farmhouse and no freezing pipes! I enjoyed making Mary Jane’s apple/walnut and pecan/carrot/raisin cast iron skillet no rise breads–delicious, but will try your sourdough. Recently found the tick info on possums so they are allowed here. Sadly, coyotes wiped out most of my free-range chickens in daylight!! Last summer, though, we were entertained by an armadillo. They eat grubs. Dug up some, but not bad and then some predator got it. They are moving north. CONGRATULATIONS to Audrey!!! As Mom of an Eagle Scout, I know the effort it takes from both the child and Family to get that award. It is an honor and tribute to all of you. Thanks for your posts. Pamela
Hi Pamela, thank you! My little friend, Radio, has been coming almost every night now. We miss him when we don’t see him. I miss the armadillos I would see growing up in Texas. At the ranch, we had them all over and I just loved to see them. We have a bad coyote problem here, too. I am so sorry about your chickens. Congratulations on having an Eagle Scout! Thanks again for your nice comment. Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole