Dear Sisters,
Where did nine years go? Have we really been meeting here ” on the shorelines” for that long? Honestly, it seems like just yesterday I was crafting my introductory blog post as the MJF Beach Farmgirl Blogger. A title that has etched its way into my farmgirl heart and brought me so much joy! Continue reading
My repurposed TV armoire ( now pantry) is stocked and ready!
Dear Sisters,
I hope you and your families are well and are weathering these times with some tried and true farmgirl grit. If you’re a ” front-lines ” farmgirl our hats are off to you! If you’ve been ill and have recovered, my prayers were answered. And if you lost someone dear to you from Covid19 please accept my deepest sympathies. I’m still grappling with the current state of affairs we find ourselves in and some days it’s just too overwhelming to try and make sense of. So I cook and cook AND cook to relax and keep my handsome Yankee, mom and daughter well fed. I DO enjoy cooking and the #stayhome mandate has allowed me the extra time to try a bunch of new recipes ( some good, some not so good). Continue reading
Cheryl says: My husband just finished building two storage buildings in our back yard and storing all his tools and hobby items in them! Which means a lot of things are leaving one of our guest bedrooms and closets! So that gave me some place to store everything that was in my sewing closet that did not belong into the cleaned out closet ! So now I have my sewing closet all organized just with my ‘toys’ ! I even had room to put up a table in the closet to work on! It is like my little office!
We are doing good! Enjoying not having a schedule!!
Your floral building is really cute!!
Hope you stay healthy!!
I hope the above makes sense! Ha
Deb Bosworth says: Hi Cheryl! How nice you have your own creative space now. Just imagine what you’ll create. Even daydreaming will be more fun! Glad you are safe and healthy! Continued blessings to you and your family.
Deb
So enjoyed this post. I cook three meals a day everyday, before quarantine , so I guess the rest of the world may finally be joining me. LOL!
Deb Bosworth says: My hat’s off to you, Carol! Three meals a day! LOL! Stay safe and healthy! Deb
Elaine hemann-Felton says: Love you blogs. Photos, ideas. Helps getting through this stay at home time frame. It helps to know your not alone. BLESSINGS TO ALL OF YOU.
Deb Bosworth says: Thank you Elaine! Glad you enjoyed today’s post. Stay safe and healthy!
Deb
Teri Stevens says: Hey Cuz!
It’s so great to read about what you are up to and I’m so glad you are all safe and sound in your cozy home. 🙂
We are doing “distance learning” from home with the three tweenagers. Lots of walks, masked visits to the farmer’s market and weekly, early trips to the grocery store. Lots of movie nights for the kids, but I’m beat so I go to bed early and read. Zooming with friends and trying to get the kids to ride their bikes more, who would think it’s a challenge to get them to go outside!
Can’t wait to see your cottage when it arrives! I know you will do wonderful, creative things in it! Hugs to you all from Napa! We are blessed to live in this beautiful part of the country. Much love, Teri
Deb Bosworth says: Hi Cuz! So great to hear from you here, today! You’ve got your hands full for sure! We’ve been Zooming here as well. Always lifts the spirits to see familiar faces! You hang in there!
Much love to you all!
Deb
Karen says: You made my day reading this post. I am blessed to have a job and be able to work from home during these times. Your menu rant sounds EXACTLY like the food we’ve been eating at our house too. I have school-age children at home and all I am going to say is GOD BLESS teachers, school staff and lunch-room staff. Thank you for keeping us farm-girls grounded to doing what we do best. Praying for the world. Blessings to you, your readers and your family.
Deb Bosworth says: Thank you, Karen! I wish you luck with the distance learning. I understand it’s been very challenging for parents and children! But, you are right… the teachers, staff and schools have their hands full with rolling out that program so quickly. Glad to hear you’re getting in some comfort cooking in your neck of the woods as well. Stay safe and healthy! Deb
Donna P says: Great suggestions for things to do during the quarantine! Dancing in the kitchen sounds like fun, since I’m spending a lot more time in the kitchen than I have in years. I am working on a flower garden and just planted milkweed and carpet flowers. I’m trying to plant things native to the east coast of Florida. Fortunately I’m still working part time in a doctors’ office, and am happy about that. . Our beaches are closed but we still have hiking trails available here in Vero Beach. My husband is finishing up a making a knife (his new hobby) and it looks quite good. I’m working on two Hawaiian baby quilts. We have two daughters and they are both expecting their third baby in September. I got a copy of Wild Bread and I’m starting my sourdough starter. Hopefully I won’t kill it like I do many of the plants I put in my yard!!
So being quarantined is OK for us! I’m using up hurricane supplies that will expire before the new hurricane season starts on June 1st, and I have TP!
Sending my thoughts and prayers to everyone who reads this blog. Praying for safety and good health for all of you. To those of you in cold places – I wish I could figure out how to post pictures of the orchids in my mango tree. They’re gorgeous!
Deb Bosworth says: Thank you for reading, Donna! Stay safe and healthy! Deb
Marilyn says: Thank You for this post. We also do not go to the stores. We order everything online. It is not easy to get a delivery but eventually we can schedule one. Stay safe and well.
Marilyn
Deb Bosworth says: Hi Marilyn!
Great to hear from you… Indeed the grocery delivery is challenging. I never thought I’d say it, but I’m looking forward to when I can pick out my own food again! lol
Stay safe!
Deb
Joan Brown says: Although a little stressful, this has been a great time to get the kitchen painted, all the trim painted, lots of power washing done, a new stone paver sidewalk put in by my husband, and lots of grass cutting and tree trimming. Never bored, even in a quarantine. Hope you’re having productive and healthy days also.
Junebug says: I’ve never been more thankful being raise by a Mom from the depression era. She always keep a well stocked pantry. Friends say they will come shop my pantry and it’s just the dog and I. As for entertainment so blessed with great spring weather so been busy in the yard and garden. Just need you to send that gorgeous right over! Stay safe!
My dog had bladder stones recently and had to have surgery. It was awful! I’m glad your little guy is ok.
Janice says: Wow, what a difference in the weather – There and in SE Texas! I already have a big garden planted and growing: tomatoes, cucumbers, 3 kinds of squash, potatoes, 2 kinds of peppers, green beans, lettuce, Swiss chard, and sweet peas. I have green onions that grow all year! Yes, I’ve been staying busy to stave off the boredom.
Pamela Frey says: Enjoyed reading your uplifting post. I make a much simpler version of Shepherd’s Pie but it is such a great comfort food. Yours looked yummy. Got into making bread every week and really enjoy Irish Soda Bread after making it for St. Patrick’s Day. I live on the original farmstead in a small rural Kansas town. Definitely grateful these days for the isolation. It does get lonely since I have to be super cautious with asthma/bronchial problems. My small town does curbside and loads the cargo end of my SUV – very much appreciated. Free range eggs are picked up in the mailbox of my neighbor. Daily communication is kept up with a ZOOM Science lesson (one grandchild Mon-Thursday). First week of NO SCHOOL sent them National Geographic and Smithsonian age appro-
priate kits, and we work on a different theme every week. Think I am having more fun
than the kids!! Stay safe everyone. Sending love and virtual hugs from Kansas.
Pamela
Brenda Towsley says: We have been talking about building a garden shed this year and moving my potting bench out of the corner of the garage. I am hoping it works out. Our Ladybug is 12 this year and although she has slowed down a lot every once and a while she takes off like her young self. I was trying to think of something to make with ground beef the other day and now I know. Have not made a Shepherds pie in year. Thanks for the idea, I pinned the recipe! Stay well!
LOVE YOUR BLOG!
But I had to say that usually pressure treated wood is made with ARSENIC, please check with the place you purchased it from to be safe.
Deb Bosworth says: Thank you for reading, Lisa! Yes, we are aware that pressure treated wood is not recommended for structures where food is being grown. We are only growing flowers in our raised beds, but thanks for the alert!
Happy New Year, sisters!
Can you believe we are on the heels of a brand new decade? I swear the older I get the faster the years go. I actually had a dream that I was 70 years old last night. ( I am 58 years young). Some of you are already there, ( thank goodness) and many of you are creeping up to it. Some souls never make it, and others live well beyond. What’s my point here? I think as we get older we become more mindful of how we spend our precious time ( and who we spend it with) because we truly appreciate what a blessing ” our ” time on this earth truly is. I always say, it’s never too late to begin a long-held dream or take a risk on a new one that you didn’t see coming! Let’s walk into the new year together with a keen eye and open hearts. Where will your footsteps take you? Or better yet, where will YOU take your footsteps? Continue reading
SUZANNE says: Hi Deb,
I have to make this comment is response to your blog post re decades.
Thirty one years ago, at the age of 50, I enrolled in nursing school. Of course, I had a few re-requisites to do before I actually started my nursing. I had started college many many years before when my children (3) were still quite young and underfoot. But, I never finished, it seems like “life always gets in the way” of something or other.
I started working when I was 8 years old in my parents small grocery and meat market. Had to stand on a stool to reach the counter top and cash register. I worked at one thing or another throughout my adult life. Including baker, designer, truck driver (18 wheeler), secretary, adm. assistant. etc. At the age of 48 we moved from Oregon to Texas so that I could help take care of both a niece and brother who were dying. AFter life settled down again, I realized that working at what I had been doing was not what I wanted to continue doing. Funny, that at the age of nearly 50, I didn’t even consider that more than half my life had been lived; so I went to college with young people that were my children’s ages. I was actually older that a couple of the nursing school teachers.
When I graduated from nursing school, I had four job offers. I took one of those and kept moving on to bigger and better things. By this time, I was missing my children and grandchildren so much that we moved back to Oregon. Then my husband decided that he wanted to move to Florida to retire. Guess what, less than 2 years later we moved back to Oregon. From there,sixteen years ago at the age of 65, I started my own Telephone Nurse Triage Business and am still working at this. I can’t begine to tell you the great satisfaction and hope that I have experienced since I decided that I wasn’t too old to make a change. There is nothing more wonderful than being able to give help and care to others. Especially young mothers who don’t know what in the world to do when their baby has his first fever.
So, all you young chicks out there, don’t be afraid to dream big! Don’t be afraid to push forward with all of your hopes for something bigger and different.
One of the things I have dreamed of doing since I was a young girl is writing a book. Guess what, I have my first chapter written and that was done just this last year.
So keep on dreaming and keep on doing!
I pray that each and every one of you have a healthy, prosperous and wonderful NEW YEAR!
Suzanne
Deb Bosworth says: Hi Suzanne,
Thank you so much for this comment. What an interesting life you’ve had and continue to have! We’re never to old to Dream Big and try something new!
You are an inspiration!
Happy New Year to you!
Deb
Kiki Mayer says: Thank you for this post! I am a nurse, as well and am contemplating some big professional changes. I truly appreciate your inspiring post!
Deb Bosworth says: You’re welcome Kiki! Wishing you peace and excitement all at once with your new professional changes! Hugs,Deb
I love the all red shed and I would like to have one in my yard. I may buy one after I get my car paid off. I am hoping that I can do that soon. I have done a vision board before, but I won’t be doing one this year.
Deb Bosworth says: Happy New Year, Carol!
Pat Gudowski says: I love the Amish one but hopefully you have a half loft on each end that makes for great storaga areas. I have a ‘Quilt Studio’ shed a few feet from my house fully equiped with electricity. Love your story & Happy New Year!
Deb Bosworth says: You are one lucky farmgirl!
Mary Henderson says: I am just now finding you! Go with the red and black Amish barn. Go bigger or go home! It gives you the best of both & matches everything, tying it all together!
Great to meet you! (via electronics!)
Great ideas! Going to get a Vision board going!
Mary
Deb Bosworth says: Hi Mary and welcome! I love the red and black as well! Have fun with your vision board!
Thanks for reading,
Deb
Tanya Jaatteenmaki says: It would be all black for me.
Marilyn says: What an inspiring post. I hope do some of the things I want . I want to learn to sew,exercise a little,get back to my dancing instruction tapes. I am teaching my self Latin and sign language. Wishing you and yours a blessed,happy and healthy 2020.
Marilyn
Deb Bosworth says: Sounds as if you 2020 is off to a roaring good start! I love keeping busy with different things, too. And I also LOVE resting and enjoying the quiet of winter…
Thanks for reading, Marilyn! Happy New Year! Deb
Kimberley Cook says: I love the combination of the black and red. It’s quite striking.
Deb Bosworth says: Me too, Kimberly! I think she’s the one! Thanks for reading! Deb
Enjoyed reading this and as for the shed I like the first one but the red and black would be a great first choice because it just looks like you. You are doing amazing things and it’s been fun to watch this journey unfold. I’m ready to make a change in what I’m doing but very unsettled as to what that should be. I will tell you thiis much we’ve decided to buy a winter place on the coast down here and can hardly wait for that. Best wishes in 2020 and I’ll catch you on Instagram friend. Hugs, Carole
Deb Bosworth says: Hi Carole!
How fun of you to stop by here! I’m ” feelin'” the black and red shed as well! I so enjoy watching your progress on your land as well. You are amazing with everything you CAN do. I can see why it’s difficult for you to choose. Nothing like some down time on the beach to help you unravel the cobwebs my friend. Congratulations on your winter place. Sounds like a dream! Best wishes to you as well and I’ll be watching you on the ” gram ” too!
Hugs!
Deb
Thank you so much for the inspiring post, it was perfect timing for me! (I quoted you in my latest post and linked back here so others could read…we’re never too old to dream!) I’m liking the red shed best…but oh, I’m drawn to the vintage car. That’s definitely a dream of mine!
Deb Bosworth says: Hi Mary! I just discovered your comment and popped over to read your blog. Such a comforting place you’ve created there for your readers. Gosh, I miss reading blogs. Why did I ever stop? I guess that’s life. It just keeps flowing!
Thank you for your kind words. I hope you find yourself sitting in that vintage care one day!
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Dear Sisters,
Happy Thanksgiving!
Oh how I love this time of year! The crispness in the air, the crunching of leaves underfoot and cozy nights in, under fuzzy blankets. It’s time to dust off your favorite Fall recipes and gather with friends and family and celebrate all you have to be thankful and grateful for. Come on in for a little Thanksgiving Wish from our house to yours! Continue reading
I love your blogs. My grandson goes to the University of Idaho and we love Moscow, Idaho!
Happy Holidays
Marlene Capelle says: Happy and healthy holidays to you and your family. Stay warm and safe.
Sharon says: I loved this poem, thank you for sharing. Living each day in thankfulness to God.
Candy Conrad says: Thank you Deb, that was lovely! Happy Thanksgiving to you and yours. ❤
Rebecca says: Love the poem and I agree with you on seeing life that way! How special that she gave you that prayer and you remember her for it and shared it with all us farmgirls!
Marilyn says: I am thankful for your blog. Wishing you and yours a Blessed and happy Thanksgiving.
Marilyn
gretchen goodwin says: Thank you and Happy Thanksgiving day to you and our family.
Christine Mance says: Good Morning Debbie, I just read an article about you in the “the cottage journal” I was so taken by your story. I just wanted to get up and go put on my gardening clothes . I live in Penn Valley, Calif. It’s raining here. Tis the season. We just moved into a small cottage house that sits on one acre . Gardening is my passion . I got so excited about this yard. I always wanted to do raised beds to grow flowers. Prayers have been answered. I now have the room to do so Your picks of flowers are my favorites. I’ll be checking in with you to see whats going on . Can’t wait to get my hands dirty. Merry Christmas.Christine
Debra Gilbert says: Happy New Year! Your Thanksgiving table setting has natural beauty. I love it especially the table burlap with fabric edge. Thank you for sharing this
Mary ” Kim” Bosworth
Dear Sisters,
We celebrated the amazing life of my 97 years young at heart mother in love this week. What a treasure she was to all who knew her. Let me introduce you!
Binky Thorsson says: Thank you for sharing the life of your wonderful MIL. I totally understand why you wanted to do this. Very special Lady for sure. She was a blessing, and she is watching over you all now.
Sending you and yours warm hugs~
Cheryl says: What a wonderful story and a beautiful mother-in – law!! She always looks so happy in every pic. I see why your hubby is a handsome great guy!!
Glad you had these blessings!
Cheryl
Mary Rauch says: What a sweet person you are to share this wonderful story with us. This old world needs lots more just like her. I’m glad for you that you were able to share time with her and make these wonderful memories to pass on.
Nicole Christensen says: So sorry, Deb, to hear of your loss. Great tribute with wonderful pictures of an interesting lady. Alzheimers is tough. May you all find peace in the memories of a life well-lived with lots of love. Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole
Charlene Gravely says: Beautiful tribute ❤️
Victoria Hall says: Ok, Deb…..just had a teary moment. I lost my Dad last year at 90 and Mom this year at 88. It was the hardest thing in the world to see those two vibrant people deteriorate like they did as the years passed. So hard to look at those photos when they were young. So healthy and strong. I miss them terribly and have no siblings to share memories with. The gravity of life and death have come home to roost.
Joann Jaworski says: Thank you for sharing the sunshine of her life. A blessing and a legacy of love.
Mary Jane Gearhart says: This is truly a lovely tribute to your lovely mother in law. She definitely was a woman who lived her life with joy, curiosity and love. Precious memories. Thank you for sharing her with us. May you find much comfort in the live you both shared.❤
Gail Larson says: It”s wondergul you shared this blessing in your life with others…it insppires me to work daily to count my blessing and love life with family and friends. thank you.
Sandi from the Cape says: Blessings to you and your family. What a lovely memorial to you Mum in Love! (Love that) I also really enjoyed the pictures. What a treasure to have. Best to you and your family, Sandi
CJ says: Beautiful story and tribute!
Marilyn says: Sorry for your loss. What a beautiful tribute to your mother-in-law. She was a lovely woman. May you and yours take comfort in your memories. Rest in peace Mary “Kim’ Bosworth. Please accept my deepest sympathy.
Marilyn
Jean says: Please accept my sincere sympathy.I reallyenjoyed the write up and the pictures.
Darlene says: Sorry for your loss. You are so lucky to have had her for your MIL.
What a beautiful tribute and memories.
Gayle Brown Cah says: Peace be with you and yours! I enjoyed reading your celebration of life this morning and hope you have comfort knowing that your MIL was introduced to many and will be remembered.
Laura R. says: A beautiful story of life and love. Thank you for sharing!!
Deb Bosworth says: Thank you all for your sweet comments and condolences. My MIL was a dear lady and we all miss her so. Your kind words meant a lot.
Farmgirl hugs,
Deb
Vivian Monroe says: So sorry for your loss but what great memories and pics of a beautiful. woman.
Me in my kitchen floral studio on design day for a wedding.
Dear Sisters,
I’ve been thinking a lot about what it means to be a work’n farmgirl over 50 lately. Probably because I’m closing in on 60 in a few short years and I’m finding it hard to believe. Some of our peers have already retired or, are about to. But lately, I have met so many women 50 and over who are launching new businesses, building new dreams and growing in new ways and I just find that so inspiring and interesting. Let’s discuss shall we? Continue reading
Teresa Gattis says: I am over 50,still working in surgery.I am looking forward to retiring and having time for my interests.
Nan says: You always have and still do inspire me. Thank you for reminding me to “share the gifts we’ve been given”
Always, Nan
Wendy Curling says: Ok farmgirl friend! That one hit home!! I am 57 and looking to start an event venue on our farm because over the years of trying to find my niche I have taught myself calligraphy, cake decorating, photography and have started growing flowers! It’s taken quite a few years but looking back I now see why. Retirement is not a word in my vocabulary and if I’m very blessed I’ll keep moving until I die! Thank you for a great post! And your work is beautiful by the way!!
Cheryl says: I am 73 and still going strong! I hiked about 12 miles in the mountains with a friend about a month ago! Yes, I was very tired and sore but felt good. Next went with two friend to Santa Fe and on North to Georgia O’Keffee’s Ghost Ranch and museum.
I live in the cool mountains of NM and quilt ,read, walk my friends here!!
I love been retired and never feel bored!!
I don’t enjoy cooking as it gets in the way of what I want to be doing!! Ha, but with a husband around, there is cooking to be done.!!!
I am planning on being around for many more years!!
Karen says: I love your article!! I am 51 and feel like the possibilities are endless! I’m trying new things and dreaming new dreams. Love it!!
Sharon says: Actually ended a career as Certified Group Fitness Instructor & Health Coach at close of 2017 (age 67). Just heard that “still small voice” that kept whispering it is time to be done, even though health/ability to do still very much there. Had/have a long DIY list that includes LOTS of gardening. Spent 2018 caring for an elderly pet (named Pilates, one of 2 doggies) & prepping our in-town home for sale. Sadly Pilates did pass away in October-Happily house sold this last February & now my husband & I are nearly done building a new farm home on the 10 acres we purchased 3 years ago. The veggie garden is plotted out so ready to begin in 2020 & “visions of flowers dance in my head”! A small fruit orchard also. Most of our friends are retiring-we are reFIRING !!! Your post is an inspiration-we need to encourage each other to keep doing & going: the best is yet to come . . ..
Marilyn says: Thank You for this inspiring post. I am teaching myself Latin and sign language. I also want to learn to sew.
Marilyn
C A Duffy-Lehrer says: After taking care of my Dad and then being diagnosed with Breast Cancer. I did a 360 and left office work and computers behind and now work at a nursing home in the dementia and Alzheimer’s unit. I luv connecting to the residents. It’s not always easy but it’s very special. Each day is unique and when someone smiles or has fun with the actives I provide I feel like I have done a good job. Farm girls are all about connection whether in the workplace or socially- it’s just our nature to nurture one another.
Pamela deMarrais says: Great advice, Deb! We have to keep looking forward and focusing on doing what we love.
Have a great rest of the summer!
Linda says: Thank you for your inspirational comments. I am 67 and a newly retired nurse. My husband was diagnosed with Parkinson’s disease 17 years ago. I am no longer able to care for him at home and he was admitted into a nursing home this past June. This is a very difficult time for me and my family, however what you wrote has inspired me to value the special times that we have experienced and to create a new life for myself through my interest in sewing. I have signed up for 3 sewing classes at Sew Green work shop. We will see where that takes me. I have also started lifting weights, walk and this has helped aleviate the stress. Thank you again for your inspirational comments. ENJOY! Life to the fullest, as Cher once said. Life is not a dress rehersal! So not to waste our precious time and to contribute in a positive way. To value ourselves and all of the special people in our lives and who we encounter along the way. Sincerely, Linda
Sandy Henson says: So enjoyed reading your post and the comments. I am 74+, work 2 days/week but spend the rest of my time on my 80 acre “retreat” with many vegetable, fruit, herb, and medicinal gardens – am a certified way station for butterflies. Love working with the plants and providing our beneficial insects with food and shelter. And love sharing this retreat with family and friends. We never stop learning and should never stop living life to the fullest. Be grateful for every minute of every day and the beauty and resources our Mother Earth provides us.
Laura R. says: I am enjoying being 59 immensely (year I was born), but have to say the big 6-0 feels a bit daunting, but like you, I am looking forward to new beginnings and following my creativity to where it leads me. Retirement isn’t always an option for those without a real pension, so I look forward to making my own way, balancing work and play, and being sort of a vagabond, living seasonally in different locations. And not ‘retiring’ from my life! Thank you for your inspiration !!
Gail Larson says: Loved your bog…hurray for you!
Im 72 (almost 73), still working in my Industry of 30 years, gardening, creating, being a
mom and and grandma. Life is good. Being 72 has it’s challenges, but it’s all good.
Appreciate the inspiration from sharing our experiences!
Me in my kitchen floral studio on design day for a wedding.
Dear Sisters,
I’ve been thinking a lot about what it means to be a work’n farmgirl over 50 lately. Probably because I’m closing in on 60 in a few short years and I’m finding it hard to believe. Some of our peers have already retired or, are about to. But lately, I have met so many women 50 and over who are launching new businesses, building new dreams and growing in new ways and I just find that so inspiring and interesting. Let’s discuss shall we? Continue reading
Teresa Gattis says: I am over 50,still working in surgery.I am looking forward to retiring and having time for my interests.
Nan says: You always have and still do inspire me. Thank you for reminding me to “share the gifts we’ve been given”
Always, Nan
Wendy Curling says: Ok farmgirl friend! That one hit home!! I am 57 and looking to start an event venue on our farm because over the years of trying to find my niche I have taught myself calligraphy, cake decorating, photography and have started growing flowers! It’s taken quite a few years but looking back I now see why. Retirement is not a word in my vocabulary and if I’m very blessed I’ll keep moving until I die! Thank you for a great post! And your work is beautiful by the way!!
Cheryl says: I am 73 and still going strong! I hiked about 12 miles in the mountains with a friend about a month ago! Yes, I was very tired and sore but felt good. Next went with two friend to Santa Fe and on North to Georgia O’Keffee’s Ghost Ranch and museum.
I live in the cool mountains of NM and quilt ,read, walk my friends here!!
I love been retired and never feel bored!!
I don’t enjoy cooking as it gets in the way of what I want to be doing!! Ha, but with a husband around, there is cooking to be done.!!!
I am planning on being around for many more years!!
Karen says: I love your article!! I am 51 and feel like the possibilities are endless! I’m trying new things and dreaming new dreams. Love it!!
Sharon says: Actually ended a career as Certified Group Fitness Instructor & Health Coach at close of 2017 (age 67). Just heard that “still small voice” that kept whispering it is time to be done, even though health/ability to do still very much there. Had/have a long DIY list that includes LOTS of gardening. Spent 2018 caring for an elderly pet (named Pilates, one of 2 doggies) & prepping our in-town home for sale. Sadly Pilates did pass away in October-Happily house sold this last February & now my husband & I are nearly done building a new farm home on the 10 acres we purchased 3 years ago. The veggie garden is plotted out so ready to begin in 2020 & “visions of flowers dance in my head”! A small fruit orchard also. Most of our friends are retiring-we are reFIRING !!! Your post is an inspiration-we need to encourage each other to keep doing & going: the best is yet to come . . ..
Marilyn says: Thank You for this inspiring post. I am teaching myself Latin and sign language. I also want to learn to sew.
Marilyn
C A Duffy-Lehrer says: After taking care of my Dad and then being diagnosed with Breast Cancer. I did a 360 and left office work and computers behind and now work at a nursing home in the dementia and Alzheimer’s unit. I luv connecting to the residents. It’s not always easy but it’s very special. Each day is unique and when someone smiles or has fun with the actives I provide I feel like I have done a good job. Farm girls are all about connection whether in the workplace or socially- it’s just our nature to nurture one another.
Pamela deMarrais says: Great advice, Deb! We have to keep looking forward and focusing on doing what we love.
Have a great rest of the summer!
Linda says: Thank you for your inspirational comments. I am 67 and a newly retired nurse. My husband was diagnosed with Parkinson’s disease 17 years ago. I am no longer able to care for him at home and he was admitted into a nursing home this past June. This is a very difficult time for me and my family, however what you wrote has inspired me to value the special times that we have experienced and to create a new life for myself through my interest in sewing. I have signed up for 3 sewing classes at Sew Green work shop. We will see where that takes me. I have also started lifting weights, walk and this has helped aleviate the stress. Thank you again for your inspirational comments. ENJOY! Life to the fullest, as Cher once said. Life is not a dress rehersal! So not to waste our precious time and to contribute in a positive way. To value ourselves and all of the special people in our lives and who we encounter along the way. Sincerely, Linda
Sandy Henson says: So enjoyed reading your post and the comments. I am 74+, work 2 days/week but spend the rest of my time on my 80 acre “retreat” with many vegetable, fruit, herb, and medicinal gardens – am a certified way station for butterflies. Love working with the plants and providing our beneficial insects with food and shelter. And love sharing this retreat with family and friends. We never stop learning and should never stop living life to the fullest. Be grateful for every minute of every day and the beauty and resources our Mother Earth provides us.
Laura R. says: I am enjoying being 59 immensely (year I was born), but have to say the big 6-0 feels a bit daunting, but like you, I am looking forward to new beginnings and following my creativity to where it leads me. Retirement isn’t always an option for those without a real pension, so I look forward to making my own way, balancing work and play, and being sort of a vagabond, living seasonally in different locations. And not ‘retiring’ from my life! Thank you for your inspiration !!
Gail Larson says: Loved your bog…hurray for you!
Im 72 (almost 73), still working in my Industry of 30 years, gardening, creating, being a
mom and and grandma. Life is good. Being 72 has it’s challenges, but it’s all good.
Appreciate the inspiration from sharing our experiences!
Dear sisters,
Happy Summer! Me oh my, isn’t it great to feel the warmth of the sun on your face again? You know what else summer is great for? Besides family time, beach days, cookouts, gardening, baseball, traveling, camping and glamping? Weddings! I’m so excited to share a very special styled photo shoot that my daughter and I ( along with a few of my talented wedding vendor peers) conjured up last September to showcase the seasonality of local flowers for weddings and events. If you were a beach bride you’ll love this windswept beach bride editorial, and if you or someone you know is dream’n of saying I do on the beach, sit back and enjoy the ocean breeze while I tell you all about how this amazing day came together. Continue reading
Melva Vick says: Your bride pictures are absolutely beautiful. I love them all. THANKS so much for sharing. I love Victorian style…!!
Deb Bosworth says: Hi Melva!
Thank you so much. I love Victorian style too!
Cheryl says: Wow! What a beautiful job and daughter!!It looks like a lot of work and planning. I see why the pic were in a magazine!! You are doing a top-notch job.
I am over 50 and still love sewing and have started making clothes again just the fun of it. I not really liking the the things I make ‘on me’, but I am older and body not as shapely as years pass. But not going into business for sure! Enjoying retirement too well!!
Good luck on your adventure!!
Cheryl
Deb Bosworth says: Howdy Cheryl,
I don’t blame you for not diving into a new business while enjoying retirement. I’ll get there one day. I’ll be all used up, but I’ll get there! lol!
Marlene Capelle says: That adventure made me want to get married all over again, but only if I had the wedding exactly like the pictures. I am over 50 and making fabric art, that is table runners, mug rugs, wall hangings, etc. that tell a story. I’ve just started making hobo mats. These tell the story of the hobo’s symbols they used to leave messages for other hobos as they traveled from place to place looking for work. I really want to keep their story going. I take my “wares” to craft shows to sell, but more just to people watch.
Deb Bosworth says: Hi Marlene,
What an interesting subject for creating art. I had no idea hobo’s used symbols to communicate with other hobo’s. What resources are you using for research. I’d be interested to read about it. Happy creating! Deb
Donna Kozak says: Your flower arrangements are spectacular and so is your daughter !
Deb Bosworth says: Thank you, Donna!
Carol says: I’m crying tears of joy for you and all you’ve become. Congratulations on this amazing dream come true. Genius idea for the photo shoot. Your daughter is the perfect model. Everything is beautiful. Your closing words added tears for me and my quest for my creative life to come to fruition. I’m 68 and not stopping. Just have to work on balance since I have some life responsibilities that are unpredictable from day to day. Keep sharing and loving!
Nicki says: I agree, Carol!
Deb Bosworth says: ( smile )
Cathryn says: The most breathtaking Beach Bridal photographs I have ever seen and the potential Bride was perfection!
With those photographs, If your daughter doesn’t find a groom
soon, I may want to introduce her to one of my
Eligible sons!
Thank you for sharing your wonderful talents
With all of us farm girls!
Deb Bosworth says: Cathryn,
Ha! I’ll be sure to let Nicolette know you’re looking out for her in the husband department! Deb
Teri Stevens says: Just WOW! So amazing to see your vision come to life! You are an inspiration. So wonderful that you’ve found your tribe of like minded women! Congrats to you cuz! Much love, Teri
Sandy beggs says: Beautiful wedding
Enjoy
Love and hugs…farm girl❣️❣️
Nicki says: Oh, Deb! How I admire you! There is so much beauty in this post: your gorgeous flowers, your lovely daughter, and most of all, seeing you follow your dreams! I’m 58, and am coming into a season where I actually have time to pursue and discover new passions. It sure does feel GOOD! (Psst: if you wrote a book, I’d be first in line to read it!)
Deb Bosworth says: Hi Nicki!
You are kind! Thank you!
Give me some prompts for that book you want me to write! I know there’s at least one in there somewhere but I feel like I’m being prepared for it right now! Deb
Laura R. says: Your vision is gorgeous, and your daughter too! Doing what you love has energized you, very inspiring! I turned 59 in 2018 and know my happiness and energy lies in creativity. When doing things creative, it just feels good and right. My interests are varied, but plants are a primary passion. I have ideas for making decorative plant pots to sell. Could be my next career? Thanks for inspiring all of us farmgirls :)))))
Deb Bosworth says: Howdy Laura!
Great to hear from you! Ooh playing with plants is always a wonderful way to create! Love it! Go get em! Deb
Jan Lewellen says: I will turn 59 in January and plan to begin flower farming next year. We’re never to old for a career change, right?
Deb Bosworth says: I have quite a few flower farming friends in that same age range and older. Some of them retired teachers started in their early 60’s. Their passion shows through in the beautiful flowers they grow and sell.
Laura R. says: Hi Jan,
No never too old! And following work that you love will keep you young and full of energy and Spirit ! :)))
Jan Lewellen says: Thank you! I needed to hear that!
Jan Lewellen says: This could not have come at a better time! The photo shoot is lovely and the flowers to die for.
I am planning to start a flower farm at my home on Vashon Island, but have been worried that maybe I’m a little too old to begin such a venture? I’m 58 1/2! I feel so excited about it, though, so follow my passion, I will!
Thank you, thank you, thank you!
Deb Bosworth says: Howdy, Jan! Never too old to begin anew! There is so much fun ( and heartache) in learning the ropes of growing cut flowers for production, but it’s an amazing adventure too! If you’re starting small in your backyard like I did, I share quiet a lot about my growing experiences here on the Beach Farmgirl blog and on my ( now very dusty blog ) http://www.deborahjeansdandelionhouse.blogspot.com
I wish you all the very best with your new venture! 59 is the new 39!;) Just add Aleeve into the mix and you’ll be fine! We can dream, right?
Jan Lewellen says: I’ve worked for a commercial landscape company in Seattle for almost 20 years, and am currently a designer. I have 2 1/2 acres on Vashon – can probably plant 1 of them. I will continue planning and stock up on Aleve!
I will check out your blog! Thank you!
Nanette says: Debbie, I love your blog because you post about the beach and ocean, and the ocean is my favorite thing in the world. The photo shoot was so fun to see and your daughter was stunning. I especially love the pic with the old fashioned pleats. Congrats on making it into the magazine. That’s definitely telling of your many talents. Kudos on finding your favorite job. Then it isn’t a job at all.
Our daughter chose a destination wedding in Belize. Her flowers were stunning as was the very short wedding. Their wedding photos were featured in a travel magazine for destination weddings. It was fun and I highly recommend it!
Vivian Monroe says: WOW, just beautiful…Everything was AMAZING…and I LOVED that dress and that bouquet…
What a truly beautiful and amazing job!
I just am so glad I opened this e-mail and link! God bless you all!
Susie Heller says: Beautiful photos your daughter is gorgeous. I would like be a beautiful wedding like that. I’m 71. Susie Heller
PeggyAnn Smith/LadyInRed says: I Loved seeing these Beautiful Pictures of Your Bride Shoot!
Nothing Better than a Wedding at The Beach!!!
I Loved the Bridal Bouquet YOU Created! The Most Stunning Bouquet EVER!!!
And Congrats on being part of the Journals Wedding Features.
I could get married all over again…just in-visioning myself in your Photo Shoot! LOL
Stunning Work Ladies!!!
PeggyAnn Smith
Love You to The Beach and Back!
Dear Sisters,
Happy Spring! I hope you’re feeling the awakening, too! Spring bulbs are popping up here ( the ones the squirrels didn’t get, anyway) and a new growing season is on the horizon. Speaking of growing, the month of March marks my 8th year writing to you from the shorelines! I thought it would be fun to reach back into the archives and re-share some oldies but goldie’s posts with you. Grab your favorite comfy spot, pour yourself something delicious and enjoy some golden nuggets from the Beach Farmgirl. Continue reading
Cheryl says: Hello Deb! Yes, Spring is showing it self here in Oklahoma! But it is making me long for our mountain cabin home. Will be heading that way in May. My sewing room is there with machine and fabric waiting with the Mountain View of pines and aspen trees in the cool breeze!! My first introduction to Farmgirl was a friend here who shares my birthday and ironically we are having our once a year lunch this coming Wednesday. Our little cabin is small but cozy and I love its simple comfort!!
Keep writing!! (And I will keep reading down here in the Southwest)!!
Cheryl
Marilyn says: Spring has sprung here in Mew York. Our Crocus are out and it is only a matter of time when the Daffodils show their pretty flowers.
HAPPY SPRING
Marilyn
Joann says: The golden nuggets were as timely today as before. Thanks for bringing hope to this chaotic world
Laura R. says: Congrats, Deb, on your anniversary ! It has been fun and inspiring to tune into your blog over these years. Thanks for your effort and motivational energy, and for sharing your beachside and New England homes with us!
Collette Matero says: Thank you for sharing, I also enjoyed your posts. Would like to become a farmgirl some how. When I was a young person, I lived on a farm in Canada, yes I am Canadian, although I live in the states. Love my husband, love people, love life, love our cottage, and home. Peace out, and just breathe, and know that God loves you all.
Anna Creef says: Hello! I m writing from the outer banks of nc.I was so excited to see an east coast beach farm girl! I ve been following Mary Jane for 20 years.I grew up here and our life is sand, marsh , and water. Our gardens are pots and raised beds.Pots so we can move em from wind and raised beds ,so when tides coming in we dont have to worry about em. Ive always envied the midwest girls and the lush grasses!But! Like i said we ve learned to roll with what we ve got! Please keep me up on what you re doing!I ve just come back from down on beach this morning. I m a treasure collector! shells , beachglass, lightening strike ect.! Thanks for blogging! Anna
Dear sisters,
Let me just start with saying that January and February have been quite momentous around here! Our oldest flew the nest for sunnier shorelines on the West coast at the end of January and our youngest just celebrated her 21st birthday. This momma is feeling so many emotions I might as well be riding a roller coaster at Disneyland! I know some of my sisters can relate. How did you cope when your chick’s flew the coop? Continue reading
Denise Banks says: Sitting here crying reading this!!! So happy we got to be a part of the great adventure!!! When I left home, I was 19, married and headed to Germany for 2 years!!! My brothers cried and for the first time I realized that we really loved each other!! My Dad crises for 3 days in a hotel room in San Francisco – they had driven me there to catch my plane!! Mom said she had to threaten to call an ambulance if he didn’t get up!!! No cell phones/face time back then and most people couldn’t even afford a land lime over there!! But that wouldn’t do for Pappy…..he paid $500 installation and $500 a month to have a phone in our apartment…..and that’s not counting his monthly bills just for the calls!!!
When my oldest moved out at 18, I thought I was going to die. I would go sit where his bed used to be and cry every day…….he moved 3 blocks away!!! My youngest was home with me until he was 26! We were buddies and country danced 4 nights a week together. His first venture out was to share an apartment with his brother who was going through a divorce. They were supposed to move out on the weekend but did it on Friday before I got home from work because they couldn’t bear the inevitable waterworks……and oh did they come!!!
So, I guess it doesn’t matter how old kids are or how far they go…..it’s a rite of passage we must all go through!!!!
Deb Bosworth says: Waterworks indeed, cuz. You’re right. Kids leaving home is a rite of passage we must all go through. We will survive! xoxo Can’t wait to see ya’ll in May!
Sandi from the Cape says: Dear Deb,
You’re at that crosspoint. I’ts good to see your babies WANT to go off into the world but that means letting go for us! It is never easy, but my experience is they do come back in a different way…..by phoning, texting and face timing! Love the world now! Hubby and I adjusted in complete togetherness while we were being weened away from the kids. Now we’ve just settled in to total togetherness and seeing the kids when we can. It all works out! Just make sure your favorite holidays are together. Blessings to you!
Deb Bosworth says: Hi Sandi! It’s all good! Weird, but good! I love that you and your hubby have grown closer in your children’s absence. That’s what I dream of, too. We’re pretty close already so I look forward to that chapter as well. One more to go! 😉
Blessings to you! Deb
Boy is this post on target…my oldest is a high school senior, and I just don’t know what I’ll do when she’s away at college. Where does the time go? What will I do when I don’t hear her laughing with her brother…they’re so close, what will he do? I’m trying to keep a smile on…everyone should have the chance to chase their dreams. I just know I won’t make it without a lot of tears.
Deb Bosworth says: Hi Mary,
Tears are just fine. Don’t hold them in or you’ll just make yourself more miserable! 😉 I find I still get weepy off and on and I never know when it’s going to hit. One thing that’s kind of neat to look forward to is the extra time you’ll have with your son while he’s still at home. Something about having one out of the nest makes you hyper-aware of the time you have left with the younger ones. Blessings and keep that Kleenex handy!
Nanette says: Oh Deb, I can relate. My oldest semi-professional student moved to Maui 3 weeks ago. On one hand I’m very proud of him for doing what he wants, but it sure does tug on the old heart strings. The hardest part for me is not knowing when I will see him again. My parting words were – “until you have children of your own you will never understand how much I love you.” One good thing was we had a whole year to get used to the idea. It is good to know that we raised an independent child. Wishing you peace of mind, hours of Face Time, and airline tickets West in the not too distant future.
Deb Bosworth says: Hi Nanette, I think I would have had to tuck myself into your sons luggage. Maui! Woot! Good for him. It is a mixed bag of emotions when they leave, isn’t it? Sounds like you need some airline tickets, too! Wishing you peace as well. Your work is done! xo Deb
Nancy says: When my last child moved out I cried for 6 months. She was a hour away and her 2 older brothers were about the same distance in different directions. Now my youngest son is on the California coast, (I’m in northern Nv) but I talk to him the most. They all have busy lives, which I try to respect. I have a small ranch with plenty of animals and land to keep me busy. We all try to get together as much as possible. However I still and always will miss them all terribly.
Deb Bosworth says: Hi Nancy,
That will be me, when our daughter goes. It’s difficult not being in on the day to day stuff…I miss that a lot. I try to think about how busy I was in my early twenties so that I don’t ” bug ” him too much. lol! I want to be respectful of his time because now he’s doing it all for himself and that will make a person very busy! Here’s a hug!
Donna says: Just finished the book THE ART OF ARRANGING FLOWERS, a novel by Lynne Branard..It is all about flowers and love and life..Flowers are so healing! The best gift is that our kids can “fly”
Deb Bosworth says: Hi Donna,
I love that book! And you’re so right. It’s like we know they can fly because we taught them too, but watching it happen is still so awe inspiring.
xo Deb
Jodie says: Oh my! My baby is only 6 and I’m tearing up reading this. I hear ya, mama! Send out those words of wisdom as you find them! I’ll need them someday! Well done on raising a sufficient, joyful young man! Best to you!
Deb Bosworth says: Thanks, Jodie!
I guess in many ways we start letting go a little bit along the way. Enjoy these years ahead. You’ve got so much to look forward to before you have to go through this phase! xo Deb
Vanessa Ferrell says: I always thought of them as chicks flying the nest. When we lived in Florida among family my youngest and oldest lived with my mother-in-law at separate times. My youngest is now in Japan in the AF. Our older children lived at home until they were ready to be on their own, and they still have family as a safety net, which comforts me when I can’t be there for them.
Marcie says: I think the hardest part of motherhood is when the kids grow up and you have to let them fly away on their own – how did my mother do it four times and me only once? We all have to find the strength to let it happen and the support for them to see it through. That’s called a mother’s love.
Melva Vick says: Enjoyed reading your story. Now I know how my Mother felt when I left home at 18 years old. So very touching….
Oh, my goodness…. I just sat here and bawled all over again. All four of mine have flown far away, and are productive citizens in the world. I’m a grandma 5 times over! When my youngest left over five years ago, it was really REALLY hard at first. I ended up starting a homestead & self-reliance blog a few years later to create another, different kind of “baby.” LOL Thank you for sharing this wonderful story. Heidi
Catherine Livingston says: Such sweet sentiments! Thank you for sharing. Before we even had children, we prayed that we could find a big piece of land that we could all live on together. Praying faithfully for many years, we finally found paradise right here in the middle of Kansas. 100 acres of woods, creek, bluffs and amazing wildlife. One family has built a yurt and has lived in it for many years. The other three families are planning on building out here as well and have picked out their future dwelling places. We are pretty excited, as we can all share in gardening, and a myriad of other projects over the years. All our children are married and we have 21 grandchildren! Hang in there! They all just might migrate back to their beginnings someday, even if it takes a lifetime. The enjoyment is visiting them and them visiting us quite regular. Hopefully, someday we will all be united on this 100 acre wood!
is a certified farmgirl at heart. She’s happily married to her beach bum Yankee husband of 20 years. She went from career gal to being a creative homeschooling mom for two of her biggest blessings and hasn’t looked back since. Debbie left her lifelong home in the high desert of Northern Nevada 10 years ago and washed up on the shore of America’s hometown, Plymouth, MA, where she and her family are now firmly planted. They spend part of each summer in a tiny, off–grid beach cottage named “The Sea Horse.”
“I found a piece of my farmgirl heart when I discovered MaryJanesFarm. Suddenly, everything I loved just made more sense! I enjoy unwinding at the beach, writing, gardening, and turning yard-sale furniture into ‘Painted Ladies’ I’m passionate about living a creative life and encouraging others to ‘make each day their masterpiece.’”
is a “MaryJane Farmgirl” who lives in a large metropolitan area. She is a lawyer who has worked in both criminal defense and prosecution. She has been a judge, a business woman and a stay-at-home mom. In addition to her law degree, she has a Masters of Theological Studies.
“Mustering up the courage to do the things you dream about,” she says, “is the essence of being a MaryJane Farmgirl.” Learning to live more organically and closer to nature is Rebekah’s current pursuit. She finds strength and encouragement through MaryJane’s writings, life, and products. And MaryJane’s Farmgirl Connection provides her a wealth of knowledge from true-blue farmgirls.
an old-fashioned farmgirl with a pioneer spirit, lives in the White Mountains of New Hampshire. As a “lifelong learner” in the “Live-Free-or-Die” state, she fiercely values self-reliance, independence, freedom, and fresh mountain air. Married to her childhood sweetheart of 40+ years (a few of them “uphill climbs”), she’s had plenty of time to reinvent herself. From museum curator, restaurant owner, homeschool mom/conference speaker, to post-and-beam house builder and entrepreneur, she’s also a multi-media artist, with an obsession for off-grid living and alternative housing. Cathi owns and operates a 32-room mountain lodge. Her specialty has evolved to include “hermit hospitality” at her rustic cabin in the mountains, where she offers weekend workshops of special interest to women.
“Mountains speak to my soul, and farming is an important part of my heritage. I want to pass on my love of these things to others through my writing. Living in the mountains has its own particular challenges, but I delight in turning them into opportunities from which we can all learn and grow.”
Dori Troutman is the daughter of second generation cattle ranchers in New Mexico. She grew up working and playing on the ranch that her grandparents homesteaded in 1928. That ranch, with the old adobe home, is still in the family today. Dori and her husband always yearned for a ranch of their own. That dream came true when they retired to the beautiful green rolling hills of Tennessee. Truly a cattleman’s paradise!
Dori loves all things farmgirl and actually has known no other life but that. She loves to cook, craft, garden, and help with any and all things on their cattle farm.
describes herself as a goat charmer, chicken whisperer, bee maven, and farmers’ market baker renovating an 1864 farmhouse on an Ohio farm. With a degree in Design, Mary says small-town auctions and country road barn sales "always make my heart skip a beat thinking about what I could create or design out of what I’ve seen.”
Rooted in the countryside, she likes simple things and old ways … gardening, preserving the harvest, cooking, baking, and all things home. While you might find her selling baked goods from the farm’s milkhouse, teaching herself to play the fiddle, or sprucing up a vintage camper named Maizy, you will always find her in an apron!
Mary says, “I’m happiest with the simple country pleasures … an old farmhouse, too many animals, a crackling fire, books to read, and the sound of laughter … these make life just perfect.”
is a budding rural farmgirl living in Palmer, the agricultural seat of Alaska. Alex is a graduate student at Alaska Pacific University pursuing an M.S. in Outdoor and Environmental Education. She lives and works on the university’s 700 acre environmental education center, Spring Creek Farm. When Alex has time outside of school, she loves to rock climb, repurpose found objects, cross-country ski on the hay fields, travel, practice yoga, and cook with new-fangled ingredients.
Alex grew up near the Twin Cities and went to college in Madison, Wisconsin—both places where perfectly painted barns and rolling green farmland are just a short drive away. After college, she taught at a rural middle school in South Korea where she biked past verdant rice paddies and old women selling home-grown produce from sidewalk stoops. She was introduced to MaryJanesFarm after returning, and found in it what she’d been searching for—a group of incredible women living their lives in ways that benefit their families, their communities, and the greater environment. What an amazing group of farmgirls to be a part of!
Suburban Farmgirl Nicole Christensen calls herself a “vintage enthusiast”. Born and raised in Texas, she has lived most of her life in the picturesque New England suburbs of Connecticut, just a stone’s throw from New York State. An Advanced Master Gardener, she has gardened since childhood, in several states and across numerous planting zones. In addition, she teaches knitting classes, loves to preserve, and raises backyard chickens.
Married over thirty years to her Danish-born sweetheart, Nicole has worked in various fields, been a world-traveler, an entrepreneur and a homemaker, but considers being mom to her now-adult daughter her greatest accomplishment. Loving all things creative, Nicole considers her life’s motto to be “Bloom where you are planted”.
live long and prosper.
Thank you, Marlene! I’m doing my best!
Thank you for sharing so much of your life these last nine years. I can certainly feel your heartbeat in this blog more than ever. It has been a wonderful trip and I feel as if I’m saying good bye to a good friend. I’m so happy you have your own get away cottage and can relax and restore. I’m not on any social media so this is a farewell and fond memories for the future of your family!
Deb,
Thank you for all you have shared with us over the years! I always loved your inspirational posts
Blessings to you, and yours, as you begin your next adventure!
Bonnie, in Oregon
Sad to see you go, but wish you the very best in your future efforts. Thank you for all you have done and I have truly enjoyed reading your blogs. God bless.
Now I am mad at myself for not directly writing to you more. I just sat here and loved your articles from afar and never told you how terrific you are. (And your Dahlias are to die for.) You seem complicated in a way because there is always a “new side” of you popping out and then when you explain about a new project or venture I can tell that it has been within you for a long time just itching to jump out and fly! Thanks for all the time and effort to produce these articles for us to share a slice of your life.
I was 81 the other day and have been following you from the day you showed up. Your sweet personality seems to speak to all age groups.
What would Deb do? That is certainly the truth through the years, as you are truly an inspiration. I will miss your stories and ideas and new adventures in creativity. I certainly understand the desire to lighten the load, and wish you happiness as you move forward !
Thank you for all the years of sharing your life. It’s a good thing! :))))
xo Laura
I’ll still see you on the Facebook! ❤
I’ll miss the blogs that pop up in my email! I do understand about taking another direction though and hope your flower business is blooming so that you felt you needed more time for it. Someday I’ll get up to Plymouth and hopefully will see you with your flowers! Best of everything Deb and here’s to a quiet summer at your beach cottage!
Live and enjoy the new adventures that await you!!!
Dear Deb, I’ve been a “silent” reader for years! Will miss you. Wishing you all the very best always!
Alice Farmgirl #12
The journey of your adventures shared where beautiful ,heart warming ,amazing and fun !
Thank You ! God Bless
I’m so sorry you’ll leave us, but wish you the best on your new adventures.
Loved reading your blog. God bless your present and your future.
Oh, when I read the blog title my heart sank…but I understand. As the saying goes, enjoy the season you are in, and sometimes that means making changes. It’s been a joy to read all of your adventures and the encouragement you’ve given us. The cottage will be a lovely place to relax, unwind, and settle in.
Before I know it my teenagers will move on to chase their own dreams, it makes me think of what I will do to fill the time…while I write about our little farm in the Midwest, I think I’d like to do more of that, maybe open a farm market, write a cookbook, who knows. What I feel certain of is we can never stop making wishes…follow your dreams and enjoy ever minute!
I remember years ago that you asked if you could use my garden sink picture in one of your blogs. I was tickled, and so was my husband! I’ll still be watching you while you approach your new creative adventures!
Thank you for sharing your beautiful pictures, what a cute little cottage beach home…enjoy..
I have looked for to your Beach posts because the Beach is one of my goe-to places as well and when I can’t physically be there, I can
‘be’ there with you. Safe journey and great life to you!
As a fellow farmgirl who is also making a huge change in my life, (closing down my own seed business of 20+ years at the end of this month ) , I wish you well and safe sailing indeed!
Please Remember all the good times and humor over these past 9 years and don’t dwell on the bad.
it is time of huge change for us all and we all know what we wish for , so you are doing just that.
Good luck !!!
BE HERE NOW
BE SAFE
BE WELL
So sorry to see you leave. I have so enjoyed your blog. Best wishes.
Have so enjoyed all of your posts over the years. Best of luck in new endeavors.
Deb
I have enjoyed your blog so much, and you gave me inspiration with your beautiful flower gardens!!
I started a bed of zinnias, and have added more!
Blessings to you!
Joy , Love, and Peace!
Susan
Oh I will miss this but will still connect by other means. I love my memories from my birthday celebration at your cottage. A very sweet place with very sweet memories for me. Hugs!
Sorry to see you go Deb, but I do understand. So much, SO VERY MUCH, has changed for me in the past 3-4 years, mainly due to dealing with significant health issues. It’s been very difficult to let go of so many things that I enjoyed but I’m trying to do it gracefully, with patience and dignity. I wish you well in your future endeavors. I have certainly enjoyed your posts, your flowers and tales of the beach. Take care of you and have fun out there!
HUGS. . . from a farmgirl in southwest Colorado
CJ
Best wishes Deb in your future plans. We don’t know each other but I feel like I know you. You have touched my life and I am grateful for having read your wonderful blog. I’ll think of you when the dahlias I finally had the courage to plant begin to bloom. I planted them because it was on my vision board which I never dreamed I’d create, but you came to mind at a time when I needed inspiration. Thank you my dear, all the best to you!
peace and hugs
Sorry to see you go. You will be missed.Wishing you success in your new endeavors. God Bless.
Marilyn
Thank you for being in my life. It’s been a pleasure listening to you.
I wish you the best of everything in your new adventure
Take care and be safe.
Thank you so much for the many years of encouragement and beauty you shared. You have been both and inspiration and source of hope. Thank you for sharing the photos of your lovely beach cottage.
May God bless your future endeavors, strengthen and protect you.
Oh my, Deb! It has been such a long time, my fellow New England blog sister! Much love and luck your way in all you do! Love the pics of the beach and your adorable cottage…enjoy this summer; I think we are in for a pretty one. Maybe our paths will cross in person one day.
Take care, and be well! BIG Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole (Suburban Farmgirl)
Life marches on..will miss you. Happy Trails..
Thank you all for your kind words! I’m more than grateful for each and every one of you!
You’ve been a part of my journey and will always be in my heart. Such fond memories as these never fade but grow brighter with time. I wish you the very best in ALL things.
xoxo Deb